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Re: Family Of Girlfriend To KENPOLY Graduate Who Committed Suicide Speak Out by skukimania(f): 12:38pm On Mar 24
Na the rejoice wey dem die on top im matter be that? shocked
As handsome as Charles was? Hanhan! Na real wa oh!

Well, RIP.
Re: Family Of Girlfriend To KENPOLY Graduate Who Committed Suicide Speak Out by virgintoto(m): 12:38pm On Mar 24
SamuelAnyawu:
So na LT wahala you take maroon ya self embarassed
Common loot o

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Re: Family Of Girlfriend To KENPOLY Graduate Who Committed Suicide Speak Out by Blackfriday: 12:38pm On Mar 24
SamuelAnyawu:
So na LT wahala you take maroon ya self embarassed
hafa u oga, dis is not the place. Use your head
Re: Family Of Girlfriend To KENPOLY Graduate Who Committed Suicide Speak Out by Bridget95(f): 12:40pm On Mar 24
Onijagidijagan:
Some guys mumu die.... Girls that has broken up with me are close 50 and still strong and unheartbroken
tell me why they broke with you are you broke,ugly or wicked?

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Re: Family Of Girlfriend To KENPOLY Graduate Who Committed Suicide Speak Out by crackhouse(m): 12:43pm On Mar 24
CuriousMynd:
See previous thread
https://www.nairaland.com/5093550/graduate-commits-suicide-after-being/3#76902011

The family of Rejoice Nwaku, ex-girlfriend to Charles Paul, the late graduate of Ken Saro Wiwa Polytechnic who reportedly committed suicide, has finally reacted to the incident, Igbere TV can authoritatively report.

Igbere TV had earlier reported that Charles, a graduate of the department of Estate Management, was declared dead after reportedly swallowing substances believed to be ‘snipper’.

He was said to have ended his own life following the heartbreak of breaking up with his girlfriend, Rejoice.

His action has since raised mixed reactions on social media.

His remains has since been buried (same day) due to the strange nature of his death.

The burial was said to have been attended by few of his friends who later took to social media to lay curses on his ex-girlfriend whom they believed contributed to Charles’s sudden death.

Reacting on Saturday night, a member of the girl’s family wrote;

“Charles I’m mad at you for what you’ve done and what you put my sister and our family through, we all loved you for who you were to her and to us. This isn’t the first time you’ve tried to kill yourself for a girl you love, but why make rejoice take the blame for your suicide this time around?

“You weren’t faithful to her but you claimed to love her, you confessed to sleeping with her close friend and even other girls, you weren’t faithful but she forgave you, even though she decided not to put up with your unfaithfulness anymore.

“You made such a rash decision drinking 3 bottles of sniper just because of the text she sent to you, didn’t even wait to talk to her, when you were rushed to the hospital, she had to send 20k to your people for hospital bills, money she doesn’t even have… before you died you told people that she is to be blamed for your death, now on social media people are cussing her out because of you, your family is threatening her, she’s not safe anymore.
charley, you’ve brought her pain, and no one is even giving her a listening ear… you don’t do that to someone you love… I’ve said enough, let me not say anymore.

“Rest In Peace.”

SOURCE: http://igberetvnews.com/598535/family-of-the-girlfriend-to-the-guy-who-drank-poison-after-break-up-finally-speaks-up/
@first bolded. I don't think it's true cos the girl's family portrayed the guy as a player. One thing I know is that a player cannot commit suicide because of a girl. I mean why will a player commit suicide when he know he can always hook up with another girl within minutes or days? So that guy is the type of guy that can't even toast a woman.

@second bolded. From the text message on phone, it's clear that it's the guy that's begging the girl to speak with him and probably the girl refused picking his calls and now that he's dead they are making it look as if the guy didn't care to talk to the girl but just went straight to commit suicide.

However, even though I see the girl as the cause because he was messing with the guy's emotions because she knew the guy loved him I still blame him for commiting suicide because it doesn't worth it.

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Re: Family Of Girlfriend To KENPOLY Graduate Who Committed Suicide Speak Out by mployer(m): 12:43pm On Mar 24
Aurielfinizu:
Hmmm, she even tried sent them 20k in the hospital..
But all I can say is, it's not ordinary.. this has spiritual issues..
I used to love like this then in campus,
If my babe leave me I will not even eat..
And this kind love made me have carry over in school cos I couldn't concentrate..
Thank God I build my relationship with God..

That is the only way now..
When U closer to God, nothing moves you..
If a girl tells you she is not interested again, U will just smile and move one..
I don't know why pple force things this days..
If any serious girl walk out of U..my brother God has seen what will happen to you and her in marriage next 5yrs and cut off now ... But pple will not understand..
When U understand this life and maintain God relationship... Nothing will move or make U drink sniper.. let alone 1, 2 ,3 bottle..
But the guy seemed like a drummer by the � he snapped with...
But he lacked faith shaa..
RIP anyways.. God will judge the rest..

So true bro. A girlfriend left me and got married while we were in third year. Two years after NYSC babe was dead. Left her man a widower with 2 kids. I really thank God we didn't continue.

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Re: Family Of Girlfriend To KENPOLY Graduate Who Committed Suicide Speak Out by DavidEsq(m): 12:43pm On Mar 24
dingbang:
Yeah the family is right, you dont commit suicide and put the blame on someone you claim to love.

Some people sef can love like say dem go die if they stop seeing the other partner, what kind of useless love is that. Thats why I dont like people getting too attached to me before they go and drink sniper ontop my head. When you love someone, you set them free and not put them in bondage with your emotional bulsheet.
grin grin grin
Re: Family Of Girlfriend To KENPOLY Graduate Who Committed Suicide Speak Out by shegra58: 12:45pm On Mar 24
Onijagidijagan:
Some guys mumu die.... Girls that has broken up with me are close 50 and still strong and unheartbroken
I'm used to it One even broke up with me and that same night i carry Olosho do 2sum,Charles I swear you are a disgrace to all manhood embarassed

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Re: Family Of Girlfriend To KENPOLY Graduate Who Committed Suicide Speak Out by confydoedowaye(m): 12:46pm On Mar 24
Dat s y senior poison is better, atukpa for Neva quench
Re: Family Of Girlfriend To KENPOLY Graduate Who Committed Suicide Speak Out by Unik3030: 12:48pm On Mar 24
ImaIma1:
He wanted to die. I don't see how ending a relationship should lead to one's death. Was he the first to be broken up with? He cut his life short just to prove a point.

People should stop blaming the girl. She did nothing out of the ordinary.
but if it were to b d other way round u will start screaming "men are scum" Shebi.
Re: Family Of Girlfriend To KENPOLY Graduate Who Committed Suicide Speak Out by kingthreatz: 12:50pm On Mar 24
Ban sniper. Many suicidal people see it as solution
Re: Family Of Girlfriend To KENPOLY Graduate Who Committed Suicide Speak Out by Dariowiskross(m): 12:51pm On Mar 24
The guy truly bleeped up,he shouldnt have killed himself,but moved on.
Re: Family Of Girlfriend To KENPOLY Graduate Who Committed Suicide Speak Out by grandstar(m): 12:51pm On Mar 24
This is the height of masochism! An act of harm to make yourself feel righteous and the lady to look cruel.

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Re: Family Of Girlfriend To KENPOLY Graduate Who Committed Suicide Speak Out by kiddapunk: 12:52pm On Mar 24
Onijagidijagan:
Some guys mumu die.... Girls that has broken up with me are close to 50 and i'm still strong and unheartbroken
grin
Re: Family Of Girlfriend To KENPOLY Graduate Who Committed Suicide Speak Out by Agugbadin: 12:52pm On Mar 24
This guy is a disgrace to all the Charles in the world most of those whom I know that bears Charles can never die because of a girl, worst more this ugly Bat like looking girl.

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Re: Family Of Girlfriend To KENPOLY Graduate Who Committed Suicide Speak Out by SjMbula(m): 12:54pm On Mar 24
Fine bobo like this took his precious life because of pussy, what will tell ur creator?

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Re: Family Of Girlfriend To KENPOLY Graduate Who Committed Suicide Speak Out by Mishhcre(m): 1:02pm On Mar 24
Onijagidijagan:
Some guys mumu die.... Girls that has broken up with me are close to 50 and i'm still strong and unheartbroken
Upto 50 girls?! Na you b baba for the girls?
Re: Family Of Girlfriend To KENPOLY Graduate Who Committed Suicide Speak Out by lukman885(m): 1:04pm On Mar 24
Ah...nija people dey fall my hand. Una just believe the story straight forward. What if na the girl compose the text? The guy fine gon, she fit fall am cos she no wan loose am. Make una reason the matter well. Idiots
Re: Family Of Girlfriend To KENPOLY Graduate Who Committed Suicide Speak Out by OgaBuhari: 1:07pm On Mar 24
AmadiAba:
Sobs
sobs for wetin? You dey mad?
Re: Family Of Girlfriend To KENPOLY Graduate Who Committed Suicide Speak Out by Originalsly: 1:08pm On Mar 24
TarOrfeek:

Whorish Family doing PR to dispel bad omen around their daughter


The person who wrote this is a bastard.
The person is a criminal mind, and I hope that Paul's spirit descend angrily on the bastard.

But Paul see the baboon you use cast your destiny. The 50 Billion Naira you for make give your Mama done bust.

You fvxk up man.

Three bottles of sniper for you....undiluted.
Re: Family Of Girlfriend To KENPOLY Graduate Who Committed Suicide Speak Out by OgaBuhari: 1:08pm On Mar 24
lukman885:
Ah...nija people dey fall my hand. Una just believe the story straight forward. What if na the girl compose the text? The guy fine gon, she fit fall am cos she no wan loose am. Make una reason the matter well. Idiots
na the girl set up this so called family member.
I understand the drill
Re: Family Of Girlfriend To KENPOLY Graduate Who Committed Suicide Speak Out by Onijagidijagan(m): 1:08pm On Mar 24
Mishhcre:
Upto 50 girls?! Na you b baba for the girls?
You see, you cannot satisfy woman. Their love is mostly conditional unlike mine..when she's fed up in d relationship, I won't even beg you back. Have bn like that since Secondary school.

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Re: Family Of Girlfriend To KENPOLY Graduate Who Committed Suicide Speak Out by Onijagidijagan(m): 1:10pm On Mar 24
SjMbula:
Fine bobo like this took his precious life because of pussy, what will tell ur creator?
Na mumu he be.. Beta pussies full everywhere.
Re: Family Of Girlfriend To KENPOLY Graduate Who Committed Suicide Speak Out by OgaBuhari: 1:10pm On Mar 24
dominique:
Very silly of the family to blame the girl for their son's suicide. Should she have remained in a toxic relationship with an unstable, risk her life and well-being for him not to commit suicide. He attempted suicide once, how did they help him? She's yet to marry him, they're already burdening her with their baggage of a son. This is why I say most families are raising boys to be a woman's problem to solve in future. They should look for other ways to deal with their tragedy and leave the poor girl out of it
senseless comment.
Re: Family Of Girlfriend To KENPOLY Graduate Who Committed Suicide Speak Out by opribo(m): 1:11pm On Mar 24
He is a mad somebody...
Re: Family Of Girlfriend To KENPOLY Graduate Who Committed Suicide Speak Out by LiveByNight: 1:12pm On Mar 24
dominique:
Very silly of the family to blame the girl for their son's suicide. Should she have remained in a toxic relationship with an unstable, risk her life and well-being for him not to commit suicide. He attempted suicide once, how did they help him? She's yet to marry him, they're already burdening her with their baggage of a son. This is why I say most families are raising boys to be a woman's problem to solve in future. They should look for other ways to deal with their tragedy and leave the poor girl out of it


You are right for an elderly single over weight mom I respect your perspective
Re: Family Of Girlfriend To KENPOLY Graduate Who Committed Suicide Speak Out by OgaBuhari: 1:12pm On Mar 24
Komu1048:



Shut your trap ugly bitch, men have being dieing for women since time immemorial. It's not about raising, men seems to be strong but somehow they become weak to the woman they love n that's why a widow can leave for extra 40 years after the lost of their husband but a widower find it difficult to spend extra 4years after losing his wife. RIP boy.
I wanted to quote her and insult her too but realised she's a mod.
Na better lighting go locate am.
Nonsense and naija girls

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Re: Family Of Girlfriend To KENPOLY Graduate Who Committed Suicide Speak Out by hamrof(m): 1:16pm On Mar 24
linearity:


Not true.

Am yet to see where the lady is at fault here.

Either party are free to walk out any relationship at anytime, with or without fault even if they are married. The Bible even permit divorce under certain condition.

Parting ways, is not enough reason for one of the parties to take their life. Anytime that happens, it shows that, the relationship was not founded on love and it’s unstable.

The only time that I can ascribe a partial fault to the lady is, if she actively encourage him to take his life or buy the poison for him or pour it inside his mouth.

That appear not to be the case here, the guy is suicidal and having attempted it before is a baggage to the lady and she made the right decision to dump his azz, that is the only action she is responsible for, which is universally acceptable. Anything the guy did thereafter is on him, and him alone!
Don't get me wrong, I'm not picking faults here only God knows all and besides no one will claim to be guilty
Re: Family Of Girlfriend To KENPOLY Graduate Who Committed Suicide Speak Out by LiveByNight: 1:18pm On Mar 24
Elliot2:
only 50? mcheew,u r still far behind in the breakups chain.. Bia,come take my ex Sandra to make am 51. These subsistence farm tools shouldn't be taken seriously.

Wait o, both of you are still below 100 break ups? cool

You are both learner's .... My first gurl broke up with me when I was 11 years, she was my nanny she was 17

From then on I never looked back cool. 120 break ups and counting cool

These hoes ain't loyal so why bother over one? The guy messed up cause at the end of the day apart from the guys she was cheating on him with , sympathizers will also be banging her now

Weak men everywhere

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Re: Family Of Girlfriend To KENPOLY Graduate Who Committed Suicide Speak Out by Mcy56(f): 1:20pm On Mar 24
mamajj17:
Mental illness nothing more.RIP Paul
Well said! This could only be linked to mental illness.
I used to wonder why someone with mental illness will venture into relationship without being emotionally strong and ready for it in the first place.
Also, some may shy away from telling their partner about it for fear of rejection or jilting, which I think is wrong. If your partner is aware, she will help you to manage it, if at all she accepted you for who you are or, quit if she can't cope before the relationship gets deeper.
Re: Family Of Girlfriend To KENPOLY Graduate Who Committed Suicide Speak Out by romeorailss: 1:20pm On Mar 24
Onijagidijagan:
Some guys mumu die.... Girls that has broken up with me are close to 50 and i'm still strong and unheartbroken

Nitoto shocked onijagidijagan eniyan ni e o shocked

Abi e wa ri bi shocked
Re: Family Of Girlfriend To KENPOLY Graduate Who Committed Suicide Speak Out by LiveByNight: 1:21pm On Mar 24
Cutefergieee:
Aswear I can speak I'll of dis kinda dead jawe... We wey be not too fine boys plus say we be instrumentalist like him dey busy another choir member call because we r poking one at the moment talkless of a fine boy drummer like him... Na cow him be...
Come dey die because of babes wen babes suppose dey run mad because of am... Aswear God do ojoro just dash some people finesse for nothing.. If I fine join wetin dey ground, I for don cause WW3 or battle of Thor....

You sir I salute

A true OG, you might achieve my legendary status one day In infinity hoes

Till now I just discharged one, expecting another before 2pm and will discharge her before 4 as one is coming to spend the night whom I will drop off on my way to work in the morning

cool

#NoMercy

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