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Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by Lagbaja01(m): 11:19am On Apr 16, 2019 |
Tell her you are lusting after her |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by sirusX(m): 11:19am On Apr 16, 2019 |
A bold move, but try to separate work from pleasure...and do not cross lines on job responsibilities The only issue about shots like this is when the relationship turns sour...would you be able to handle being in the same workspace with her? PS: be careful with the best friend who's not to happy about everything....maybe she likes you or feels bad you're crushing on someone else 6 Likes |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by makizee(m): 11:20am On Apr 16, 2019 |
Like someone said... Life is too short, do u know how many husbands and wives that met in the work place, let her know abeg, what's the worst that could happen. Life is too short bro. 4 Likes |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by demoBaba: 11:20am On Apr 16, 2019 |
Ralphjoe: Tag him matters like this next time? Broz bekiafu. |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by clems88(m): 11:20am On Apr 16, 2019 |
If you love somebody walk up to am and tell am you am o...It does no crime ...no crime st all o 3 Likes |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by ephraim18(m): 11:21am On Apr 16, 2019 |
all this kids here and there. oga why can't u focused on ur newly find job instead of babbling into this ur so called crush. na lust u dey lust for the babe. take ur time arrange urself work for some months before u can make move. is too early after all the beautiful ones are yet unborn. don't rush thing 2 Likes |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by namiji2598: 11:22am On Apr 16, 2019 |
Ralphjoe:u want a matured advice and response but u should have made ur decision by urself if u ar matured enough na 1 Like |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by woleabayo(f): 11:23am On Apr 16, 2019 |
TO ME I ADVICE YOU LET HER KNOW ..IT HAS ONCE HAPPEN TO ME AND WHENEVER I SAW HER WITH ANOTHER GUYS I FEEL JEALOUS AND BY THE TIME I WILL OPEN UP TO HER IT IS TOO LATE THOUGH WE ARE STILL FRIEND OOOO...EVEN MORE CLOSE THAN BEFORE 1 Like |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by Funmisurge(m): 11:23am On Apr 16, 2019 |
Ralphjoe: Just be bold to express ur feeling. He that ask shall be given.. |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by sinola(m): 11:25am On Apr 16, 2019 |
Olanrefront3355: Bros, you are specialist...you ought to have practised relationship expert as a course |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by Bryan88(m): 11:26am On Apr 16, 2019 |
Jesse25:PROF D PROF... |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by Ezio17: 11:26am On Apr 16, 2019 |
Ralphjoe: Never tell her...make her fall for you first. Read this threads https://www.nairaland.com/charlesnneji1/topics?_e_pi_=7%2CPAGE_ID10%2C9699779912 |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by Edyice: 11:27am On Apr 16, 2019 |
Oga boss in the same company That should be done on code But it all depends on what area she's looking at |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by Deepthoughts: 11:30am On Apr 16, 2019 |
Ralphjoe:Get someone else in your company who is friendly with you n her preferably a male n arrange with him to go n jokingly tease her about suspecting that you may be crushing on her n analyse her reactions,then continue from there,any how it goes you are safe. |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by goodnewscliff(m): 11:31am On Apr 16, 2019 |
Ralphjoe:must u crushhh cant u jst be friends in peace na wa ohhh!!!!! small thing crush... anything crush!!!!!! cant u stay put as friends and crush on someone else!!!!!! we no wan hear say na so e come happen later!!!!! 2 Likes |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by Denikayan: 11:32am On Apr 16, 2019 |
I will advice you use her for money rituals What you love most pays best |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by SyrusdeHansome(m): 11:32am On Apr 16, 2019 |
namiji2598: Why do u think so? |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by Truthbites: 11:34am On Apr 16, 2019 |
Keep it to ur self |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by chibuzorAbia: 11:35am On Apr 16, 2019 |
Ralphjoe: Foolish man! Instead of this foolish young man to think about the strategies and methodologies for improving sales and creating a profile for yourself na woman you dey focus on? Hmmm poverty is smiling at you already. That girl will mumu you and dispossess you of the little salary you are earning. if you were my son I will give you a resounding slap to reset your brain.........oku obo! Your boss should just SACK you immediately. 6 Likes |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by Nobody: 11:35am On Apr 16, 2019 |
Olanrefront3355: ugn awon boss follow this MAN |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by Kayceenaz(m): 11:35am On Apr 16, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1:Bro, I'm curious, WHY? Kindly elaborate. |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by peacettw: 11:36am On Apr 16, 2019 |
That feeling you think you are having is nothing but a release of some chemicals playing havoc on the pleasure centers of your brain. Give it time, it will fade and you can take your life back. 4 Likes |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by Guyman02: 11:36am On Apr 16, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1:Just said what I had in mind too in 2 lines. Kudos Ralphjoe: In addition make sure you have another job ready in case something goes wrong before entering into office relationship or ensure that it is very discreet if you must start one. Secondly, one of you should be ready to quit the job because it is a small business and not a large organization with various units spaced apart as productivity will be impacted and it may not go down well with your private employer. |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by BillgatesMaigad(m): 11:39am On Apr 16, 2019 |
Ralphjoe:Listen this is what you're going to do Follow my advice! Don't tell her you like her just yet.. Just play the good bad guy card on her. Always dress up looking smart and gentle whenever you're going to the office and smell very nice at all time when you're in the office. Always be nice to her at the same time, don't give her the impression that you're crushing on her. Don't forget, For now do not invite her over to your crib. Just Chill first! remember you're a very good bad guy so chill. Now Tell her if she will be free to see a new movie at the cinema this weekend with you, if she likes the idea, boom! One achievement down. Go out and have a great weekend with her and make laugh... Take pictures. It creates memories Again If there is a natural park in your town make sure you take her there for site seeing. Go see some wildlife she would love it. While you're there get some few drinks it ain't that expensive. By now The two of you must have gotten along quite alright. As a sharp guy before you know she don begin dey think of you. Like play like play she don dey miss you sometimes. Boom! You bring out the real man in you... Invite her over to your place to cook for you. So as you chop you kukuma chop from there. At this point You have succeeded in having her without even chasing her. Na she go dey chasing you las las especially if you hit it right cos that thing dey really confuse their upper 5 Likes |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by babyfaceafrica: 11:40am On Apr 16, 2019 |
Kayceenaz:it is simple...if the relationship goes south.. it will definetly affect work (if they are coworkers)..some companies will even sack both of you if they find out and if they are neighbours,the respect will diminish.....it is better to always separate work and relationship and not to date people in your area 1 Like |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by frozen70(f): 11:40am On Apr 16, 2019 |
There is nothing wrong in having a crush on your colleagues, but you have to weigh the effects on you and your place of work What position are you occupying in your place if work, Manageral level or floor member ❓ Is someone else interested in her that is higher than you ❓ How would you be able to cope should incase the love affair excalates Incase it affects her work performance or yours and the fault is traced to you, if you are sacked for that reason, will you be willing to loose your job because you love her or would you continue the affairs even if you were sacked ❓ With all these points I have mentioned Use your tongue and count your teeth 2 Likes |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by Tomide007: 11:41am On Apr 16, 2019 |
Take her out, spoil her a little but don't say a word until you get a green light.... Trust me when I was in school I will pick up girls in my ride, won't collect there number then when we meet again Would take her out, still won't collect her number ,then boom they'll start crushing. Women like been given attention in a way that doesn't depict they are been given attention.... They're complicated.....but don't be a mumu for her. Be sweet to her and also sometimes maintain your ground ....i'm just trying to teach u how to make her trip... ND hope you're also good looking and sociable . 1 Like |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by Parko(m): 11:42am On Apr 16, 2019 |
Olanrefront3355:Professor |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by Xavage7(m): 11:42am On Apr 16, 2019 |
Popmaster2019:I didn't want to comment but this question is wise... Of what use is it keeping it to yourself.... Dying in silence |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by davenaija: 11:43am On Apr 16, 2019 |
Ralphjoe: Do it this way, ask her what if we both develop feelings the way we're being close, I'm scared of our friendship. Don't say anything more after saying this, she will pour her heart out. Come back and testify |
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