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Re: Pastor Discovers His Children Are Not His, After DNA Tests by Jesuswoman1: 7:53am On Apr 21, 2019 |
why didn't you discuss your problem with your wife when you met her and if truly she loves you she will help you to overcome the problem, through prayer or even IVF it just a matter of understanding but you kept it to yourself now see the results Of secret |
Re: Pastor Discovers His Children Are Not His, After DNA Tests by Benreu(m): 7:53am On Apr 21, 2019 |
okpe ooo...while d pastor was busy dishing out annoiting d wife was somewhere recieving special annoiting...fear women...no shame.. |
Re: Pastor Discovers His Children Are Not His, After DNA Tests by stchinedu: 7:56am On Apr 21, 2019 |
Imperare:Evil from who, wife or husband? There was no marriage in the first place because it was built on deception. For goodness sake, the husband knew his condition and concealed it from his wife...that is wicked! His deception opened another door... His wife built on what he started. |
Re: Pastor Discovers His Children Are Not His, After DNA Tests by Nobody: 8:00am On Apr 21, 2019 |
Fake News |
Re: Pastor Discovers His Children Are Not His, After DNA Tests by diehard1: 8:04am On Apr 21, 2019 |
If this happened in Nigeria, I can understand. The pastor is not a good man. He had an accident and he new he wasn't going to have children and he hid it from the wife hoping that he will get healed. The woman had the first child six years into the marriage. I can imagine what pushed her to doing that. In-laws, friends relatives will be saying many things to her and husband will be asked to marry another wife since the wife is not capable of having children. I can imagine the pastor telling the wife, "it is well" when he knows it is not. The wife may have accidentally known that the man cannot give her children and now went outside to keep her marriage. I blame the pastor for everything. |
Re: Pastor Discovers His Children Are Not His, After DNA Tests by Maghan37: 8:19am On Apr 21, 2019 |
Felixalex:2 wrongs do not make a right.D fact that he did not tell her does not give her a right to have children through other men while still married to him. There was a simple right alternative to dis issue |
Re: Pastor Discovers His Children Are Not His, After DNA Tests by expert555: 8:28am On Apr 21, 2019 |
Hector09: What is making her poor!!!!!, she was raped many times abi |
Re: Pastor Discovers His Children Are Not His, After DNA Tests by AngelicBeing: 8:31am On Apr 21, 2019 |
delugajackson:Hahaha |
Re: Pastor Discovers His Children Are Not His, After DNA Tests by deavicky(m): 8:32am On Apr 21, 2019 |
damiloladuke:I'm thinking when such miracle is done the DNA could also be from God. |
Re: Pastor Discovers His Children Are Not His, After DNA Tests by kurfbrown(m): 8:46am On Apr 21, 2019 |
we already know all ur blogging trips..lol |
Re: Pastor Discovers His Children Are Not His, After DNA Tests by Felixalex(m): 8:48am On Apr 21, 2019 |
Maghan37: I never supported the woman, he claims to be a pastor, he should have told her let them have faith together, if she was ok with it fine, if not, she finds herself another man. She probably wanted to be sure if it was she or her husband that had a problem and that lead her to adultery and one way or the other she continued going back for more.. But this story las las git be lie abeg. Happy easter |
Re: Pastor Discovers His Children Are Not His, After DNA Tests by figoperch: 8:49am On Apr 21, 2019 |
Hector09: Don't mind him. 1st, 2nd, 3rd child and he never confronted her. I wonder what he wants the public to do. He is as guilty as she is for knowing she committed adultery under his roof and he continued to allow it. |
Re: Pastor Discovers His Children Are Not His, After DNA Tests by Rollitout: 8:59am On Apr 21, 2019 |
damiloladuke: With this story I just read, I don't think they did the right DNA Test, I think you should go and do the test in another place 2ndly your 1st born should at least resemble you a little if not, then that is were you should have suspected that the child isn't yours. Don't brake the heart of those children, they already no u as their father, I think u should continue to live with it |
Re: Pastor Discovers His Children Are Not His, After DNA Tests by OlufemiMoyo: 8:59am On Apr 21, 2019 |
This is very simple, provided you are a real man of God. You need to carry her along with your plan. Let both of you with the children go for another DNA test so that it'll not be a secret. If what you posted is real then continue to take good care of the children on assumption that you adopted them then forgive and forget ....to enable you enjoy your life. |
Re: Pastor Discovers His Children Are Not His, After DNA Tests by danot1030: 9:03am On Apr 21, 2019 |
People are quick to tag the woman as evil when there's a marital controversy and overlook the wrong of the man because it's men's world. But in my opinion it is not so. Like in this case this pastor is wicked and unfaithful to the woman for hiding his status from the wife and put into the trauma of childlessness for years before she went out to prove her fertility been the pastor's family begin to put the blame of the childlessness in the marriage on her. |
Re: Pastor Discovers His Children Are Not His, After DNA Tests by Livingjahguy: 9:05am On Apr 21, 2019 |
I think you should be thanking the woman for making you a father. |
Re: Pastor Discovers His Children Are Not His, After DNA Tests by Arkmanbuddy(m): 9:12am On Apr 21, 2019 |
PearlStreet: Add Itzpics to the list. That nonsense guy/girl posting useless and pornographic pics everywhere. |
Re: Pastor Discovers His Children Are Not His, After DNA Tests by Wiseandtrue(f): 9:59am On Apr 21, 2019 |
[quote author=Hector09 post=77720185]U knw that u could nt father a child and u went and marry and now u re blaming the poor woman[/quote] He did not even open up to the woman and he wants the woman to open up to him when she goes out to meet other men See hypocrisy It's also possible that the woman knows that he can't father a child He wants to eat his cake and have it |
Re: Pastor Discovers His Children Are Not His, After DNA Tests by Wiseandtrue(f): 10:04am On Apr 21, 2019 |
jashar:So the first, second, third... Was swapped |
Re: Pastor Discovers His Children Are Not His, After DNA Tests by bilulu(m): 10:05am On Apr 21, 2019 |
Hector09:that marriage should be dissolved because it was laid on deceit. how will you marry without telling ur wife ur condition now u re blaming her. how sure re u she's not even aware of ur condition. he's to b blamed n not d woman |
Re: Pastor Discovers His Children Are Not His, After DNA Tests by Greatzeus(m): 10:11am On Apr 21, 2019 |
I believe this story is fake,even though such things happen.. |
Re: Pastor Discovers His Children Are Not His, After DNA Tests by adecz: 10:12am On Apr 21, 2019 |
So, you prefer to remain childless.? What do you really aim to achieve with all this secretive investigations. Better allow sleeping dog lie. |
Re: Pastor Discovers His Children Are Not His, After DNA Tests by mechanics(m): 10:14am On Apr 21, 2019 |
He should seek the advice of his senior pastors and he made a mistake by not telling his wife his health challenge. |
Re: Pastor Discovers His Children Are Not His, After DNA Tests by PeacenLove2: 10:45am On Apr 21, 2019 |
adecz: He should be thanking his wife for making him a father to those children. Saved him adoption process or going to pay good money at a sperm bank. That's what he gets for being a dishonest person hiding behind the cloak. 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Discovers His Children Are Not His, After DNA Tests by obillyj(f): 11:15am On Apr 21, 2019 |
Unfortunately sir, you are reaping what you sowed. In as much as your wife was wrong to have cheated(if she did) you don't have any moral justification to judge her. You built your marriage on the foundation of lies, betrayal n dishonesty. You sowed that seed first. You are d chief cheat. You knew your medical condition but failed to discuss it before marriage Don't you know the trauma women go through if they don't conceive within d first year of marriage? You purposely chose to make her a mockery but being smart she beat u to your own game. Two can play this game as well. I will advice, you sit your wife down, tell her the truth n apologise sincerely to her. Find out who the real father(s) is(are) n decide on what to do. Ask God for His mercy n grace. Secondly, I will suggest you carry out d tests in another hospital to be double sure of your findings. As a pastor, you should have known better. Would u have advised your members to hide such detail of infertility from their spouses? |
Re: Pastor Discovers His Children Are Not His, After DNA Tests by Timoleon(m): 11:26am On Apr 21, 2019 |
PearlStreet:�what of nationalhelm |
Re: Pastor Discovers His Children Are Not His, After DNA Tests by Mpanyi: 11:27am On Apr 21, 2019 |
Pastor you no well. Na you cause am. Why didn*t you tell the woman you are impotent? Also sticking hand in the nyash in the name of DNA test? Now the kids that love you and know to be their papa you want to destroy their precious life, and yours too. |
Re: Pastor Discovers His Children Are Not His, After DNA Tests by Ubdavis(m): 12:07pm On Apr 21, 2019 |
Its a possibility, but u get mind pass winch knowing ur condition and marry without telling ur wife.. Na people like u de speed HIV intentionally |
Re: Pastor Discovers His Children Are Not His, After DNA Tests by Kakamorufu(m): 12:08pm On Apr 21, 2019 |
ahhh. Dodo leleyi ooo |
Re: Pastor Discovers His Children Are Not His, After DNA Tests by Butoneday2(m): 12:27pm On Apr 21, 2019 |
damiloladuke:You are too quiet for my liking honestly. What are you still waiting for. |
Re: Pastor Discovers His Children Are Not His, After DNA Tests by giles14(m): 1:02pm On Apr 21, 2019 |
damiloladuke:idiot so you know you couldn't bear kids but concealed it from your partner. Its God that is punishing so bear your cross. In your next life learn to be truthful and just in your actions |
Re: Pastor Discovers His Children Are Not His, After DNA Tests by amagugm: 1:20pm On Apr 21, 2019 |
l doubt the veracity of this story. lf at all it is real life story, l still do not believe that local, village pastor has the wherewithal to go for DNA tests as he claimed. Also, the man is unfair to the woman. How? He knew he cannot impregnate a woman. Did he tell the woman before or even during the marriage? I sense no, because he claims that the wife doesn't know that he is aware that she cheats on him. Again, does he achieve erections? If no then the wife will know that her husband will detect her cheating. If again he knows that ahe cheats, but was silent after the first and second pregnancies, then he os enjoying her making children for him. Therefore, his complain is not from his heart but just wants to entertain the public. Let him go and sit down and stop disturbing people. Last last sha, l don't believe this story. |
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