BronzeMajik:
most men respect and love stubborn women more.

like d way chirchill loves tonto dike.i concur

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lefulefu:
sure why not.

Thanks.

lefulefu:
e might shock u dat chimamander is d type of lady who might even kneel down anytime she gives food to her hubby.forget all those tinzs she says to d media.she might practice another different thing entirely behind closed doors.

lol she might not

All men aren't the same


Besides her husband isn't a full Nigerian. He is mixed race


The way men abroad treat their wives even when they aren't working is way different from how some Nigerian men treat their wives who are breadwinners.

Only those billionaires treat their side chicks lime shit because they know they are gold diggers

lefulefu:
like d way chirchill loves tonto dike.i concur

no it's different, Tonto is a mad woman, there's a big difference between stubbornness and madness.

BronzeMajik:
most men respect and love stubborn women more.

i don't think any man likes a stubborn woman.

lefulefu:
like d way chirchill loves tonto dike.i concur

dis people don't know the meaning of stubbornness. no man wey dey normal go ever like a stubborn woman

lefulefu:
like d way chirchill loves tonto dike.i concur

Lol Churchill is a narcissist and a player.

He played that woman and made her bitter.


Yes some guys love women who call them out on their shit. Not necessarily commanding.

Two weeks ago one of our tenants was telling my mom how much he is crazy about his girlfriend and would love to wife her. He was like " mama I like am she be my madam o , she dey command me." and my mom laughed.

When the girl is around the guy sometimes takes broom to sweep compound. while she's lounging.

Of course she will know her roles as a soon-to-be -wife but some men don't just like a 100% yes woman.

They want a girl who will bluntly tell them when they've fvcked up without being rude .


I suspect you are like that lefulefu. You are one of the most easy going guys I know on nairaland. You hardly fight anyone.

Seems you will end up with a hot headed babe

DukeofNZ:

i don't think any man likes a stubborn woman.

OK then.

generationz:


lol she might not

All men aren't the same


Besides her husband isn't a full Nigerian. He is mixed race


The way men abroad treat their wives even when they aren't working is way different from how some Nigerian men treat their wives who are breadwinners.

Only those billionaires treat their side chicks lime shit because they know they are gold diggers

lol dont be decieved jor. chimanmander might not be all dat hard assed in her home as she poetrays herself outside. i am not saying her husband might be treating her like poo like d way some narrow minded nigerian men treat their wife but she looks like d type of lady who knows wen to switch on her wifely duties and wen to switch on her hard personea. and as for sidechics collecting poo for their millioniare boyfriends they are being paid to collect dat poo.

generationz:


Lol Churchill is a narcissist and a player.

He played that woman and made her bitter.


Yes some guys love women who call them out on their shit. Not necessarily commanding.

Two weeks ago one of our tenants was telling my mom how much he is crazy about his girlfriend and would love to wife her. He was like " mama I like am she be my madam o , she dey command me." and my mom laughed.

When the girl is around the guy sometimes takes broom to sweep compound. while she's lounging.

Of course she will know her roles as a soon-to-be -wife but some men don't just like a 100% yes woman.

They want a girl who will bluntly tell them when they've fvcked up without being rude .


I suspect you are like that lefulefu. You are one of the most easy going guys I know on nairaland. You hardly fight anyone.

Seems you will end up with a hot headed babe

Lefulefu na chairman for women affairs, both single and married type.

If lefulefu eventually decides to marry , I must and I mean I MUST attend the wedding! Make I see the type he go put for house.



Lefulefu, holla @ your babe!

na, if he loves u, u don't need to do da extra

generationz:


Lol Churchill is a narcissist and a player.

He played that woman and made her bitter.


Yes some guys love women who call them out on their shit. Not necessarily commanding.

Two weeks ago one of our tenants was telling my mom how much he is crazy about his girlfriend and would love to wife her. He was like " mama I like am she be my madam o , she dey command me." and my mom laughed.

When the girl is around the guy sometimes takes broom to sweep compound. while she's lounging.

Of course she will know her roles as a soon-to-be -wife but some men don't just like a 100% yes woman.

They want a girl who will bluntly tell them when they've fvcked up without being rude .


I suspect you are like that lefulefu. You are one of the most easy going guys I know on nairaland. You hardly fight anyone.

Seems you will end up with a hot headed babe

haha if u talking about a lady always trying to advice her guy when he does something wrong then of course a normal guy would desire such a lady.i am actually talking of those ladies that will pick a weapon to attack their boyfriend or husband.any little arguement they will go to the kitchen to pick a knife to threaten the man or some will pick a bottle to break over the man's head.biko who wants such a woman as dat.lol so churchill is now a player? but it was tonto dike dat left him nau and not him living her so how im come play her?

lefulefu:
haha if u talking about a lady always trying to advice her guy when he does something wrong then of course a normal guy would desire such a lady.i am actually talking of those ladies that will pick a weapon to attack their boyfriend or husband.any little arguement they will go to the kitchen to pick a knife to threaten the man or some will pick a bottle to break over the man's head.biko who wants such a woman as dat.lol so churchill is now a player? but it was tonto dike dat left him nau and not him living her so how im come play her?

haha

I reject a violent woman for you o

LordKO:
If you mean submission in its formalness, the one that allows a man to have power over a woman, whether she likes it or not, while outside his presence/giving opportunity she subjugates or drains him, my answer is NO. It can't keep a sane man - but it can keep small-minded men, they love it. Women who give it know that it's a mere mechanism to perfect their manipulation, unfortunately small-minded men - wannabe alpa men (egotistic men with or without money, and narcissistic and egoistic men with money while you're poor) - love it without knowing that they're under manipulation. This kind of submission isn't a sign of virtuousness. If the man stays - a sane man won't even put up with this type of woman in the first place - it won't make him to treat her like a virtuous woman because she doesn't possess aristocratic manners and values. Egoistic, narcissistic and egotistic women can offer this kind of submission in abundance - the second and third latter mentions always take to it if/when they don't have money, to drain/subjugate a man that has money or a man they want in their lives who doesn't know their antics.

Meanwhile, if you are talking about the submission I know - I prefer its euphemism submissiveness - which is a compound word just like the big love (the love that is a variant of goodness), but only differs in nomenclature and application, then my answer is YES. Submissiveness will surely keep a man (especially a sane man), a man that truly needs you, and it'll make him to treat you like a queen/virtuous woman you're. Submissiveness is simply a variant of goodness - altruism and conscientiousness - it isn't a sign of weakness, just like the big love isn't a sign of weakness too.

Well said!

generationz:


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I suspect you are like that lefulefu. You are one of the most easy going guys I know on nairaland. You hardly fight anyone.

Seems you will end up with a hot headed babe

tufia
God forbid
d type of lady i will end up with will be easy again and romantic

victorian:










Lefulefu na chairman for women affairs, both single and married type.

If lefulefu eventually decides to marry , I must and I mean I MUST attend the wedding! Make I see the type he go put for house.



Lefulefu, holla @ your babe!

come to daddy

generationz:


haha

I reject a violent woman for you o

lefulefu:

come to daddy

Hahahahahahahaha

I talk am before!

Sighs

victorian:








Hahahahahahahaha

I talk am before!

Sighs

BronzeMajik:
most men respect and love stubborn women more.

Says who? May be irresponsible men.

lefulefu:
lol dont be decieved jor. chimanmander might not be all dat hard assed in her home as she poetrays herself outside. i am not saying her husband might be treating her like poo like d way some narrow minded nigerian men treat their wife but she looks like d type of lady who knows wen to switch on her wifely duties and wen to switch on her hard personea. and as for sidechics collecting poo for their millioniare boyfriends they are being paid to collect dat poo.

you maybe right about Chimanmander.

anthonyuncle:
na,
if he loves u, u don't need to do da extra

Antibrutus Pocohantas and her husband come to my mind with dis ur statement

victorian:










Lefulefu na chairman for women affairs, both single and married type.

If lefulefu eventually decides to marry , I must and I mean I MUST attend the wedding! Make I see the type he go put for house.



Lefulefu, holla @ your babe!

This Lefulefu will make a good husband for you.

MissRaine69:

Relationships/Marriages are about checks and balances you need to know when to fight, when to placate and when to stroke an ego to avoid tension. Two cockerels
in one yard is a cause of tension is Submission is subjective.
A clever woman knows how to navigate, the turbulent waters that form a man’s ego. Not all men have the fortitude to be with a woman who is ambitious and successful, she is a threat to their manhood. Some men have no issues with that and are very supportive. Some men prefer a woman who bends to their will like reeds in the wind without question that’s their preference.

Some associate submission with weakness of personality, being owned and to the extremists some sort of subjugation.
A man stays because he wants to stay and he has invested emotions and a future in you. He does not stay because you do everything he says.There is a difference.

Are you married? If no, are you ready for marriage?

Submission will keep a man not a boy.

pandv:


This Lefulefu will make a good husband for you.

Hahahahahahahaha


Na so.

victorian:











Hahahahahahahaha


Na so.

I am serious and I will surely attend the wedding .

Theglobalman:


Are you married? If no, are you ready for marriage?

Who is asking and why?

pandv:


I am serious and I will surely attend the wedding .

Lefulefu na babanla ukwu be hin spec, and im not within his range.

My own na moderate one with boob's to die for ( no need asking for a pic )

Lol don't mind me


So it's not about been serious about it. It's about let things happen naturally, that's all


But lefulefu too like woman Biko, I can't compete. Make he stick with him ukwu babes dem. Na those ones sure for am pass.

Learn the kind of person he is first
Yes submission do helps

Nothing can keep a man that doesn't want to stay. If you like kneel down to give him his food, hang your leg on the fan, if he won't stay, he won't.