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Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by awumen: 6:52am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Pray and fast for 7 days then go back to him and plead with him, if the answer is still NO then go for court wedding in the interim atleast you can start chopping the kpekus to achieve pregnancy while we await his blessing.if you don't act these lady might eventually move ahead with all these delay plus drama |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Nobody: 6:55am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Chukabiz: Best comment so far. |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by tosyne2much(m): 6:58am On Apr 22, 2019 |
ZIMDRILL:This is exactly what I'm saying... I think it's way too early to start planning your own marriage if one's mom actually passed away in February 1 Like |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by kullozone(m): 6:58am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: His father doesn't know best. They should allow him make his choice and not try to rule his life. If he makes a mistake he'll face the consequences |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Nobody: 6:59am On Apr 22, 2019 |
I think I understand where he is coming from If she died truly this year then he is grieving and ideally having a wedding etc comes off as somehow don’t forget that some people actually sacrifice others. The brides family pays so he’s not worried about the expense it’s the timing |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Passionate888: 7:03am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Biglittlelois:Unbeliever! |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Nobody: 7:06am On Apr 22, 2019 |
helpee: Superb. Few human beings on nairaland |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by tosyne2much(m): 7:08am On Apr 22, 2019 |
[quote author=kingBenedict post=77746182]Just calm down for now, if he doesn't wanna see reasons with you, wait, focus on your business for now.... I also understand OP's situation..... him wan knack craze comot from the girl head too cos him talk say him never knack the girl since 2012 (hard to believe)....you never reach 30 self...na fvck dey worry OP jor....[/quote ] Funny stuff |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Olukologia24592(m): 7:14am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Marriage26:Call me 08162583177 |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by cocolacec(m): 7:24am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Marriage26: Op kudos to you for abstaining from premarital sex in a corrupt generation,i will advise you to go ahead with your wedding plans at your own expense. It could be your dad is not financially bouyant to foot the bills.Do not offend God because you want to please man.God’s blessing is the most important. |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by selfemployed(m): 7:29am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Marriage26: A man is someone that can take a position on an issue, and stand by it irrespective of what other people think or do. God is your true father, not your dad. Since you're on God's side, go ahead with the marriage irrespective of your dad. Build a godly home. Later on, your dad will realize himself and come to you to apologize. And besides, you're joining yourself to your wife and need her trust more than your dad's. |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by unimagin: 7:30am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Young man, NEVER YOU CONTINUE YOUR MARRIAGE PLAN WITHOUT YOUR FATHER'S CONSENT. Do everything possible to get your father's consent first. You're desperate to marry for reasons I don't know. My dear, marriage ......hmm never rush into it, it's not a child's play. Like somebody rightly pointed out, till we hear from ur father before he can advise, I believe there must be good reason from your father. |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by obontami: 7:30am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Marriage26:Are you serious? |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by obontami: 7:33am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Your dad is prolly planning to taste that kitty. It's a crazy world we living bruh. |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Semperito31(f): 7:34am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Olu20090:Blatant lie......... This write up is Fallacy |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by aminusodiq(m): 7:36am On Apr 22, 2019 |
im a victim of such circumstances but not wit d mariage issue!!! my advise to u is simple jd straight forward!!!! if ur mom died earlier dis year, its not advisable to marry so soon, at least respect ur mother, u dont need ur dad to tell u dis!!! 2ndly, what an elder can see while sitin, u maynot see it even wen u climb the highest tower!!! listen to him so u wont regret!!! mayb dia is somtin he wants u to discover by getin her pregnant!!!! she might av crosed a pat wit ur dad before... u neva can tel!!! just chilax and listen!!! hes ur dad nd absolutely wil want d best for u!!! listen to him |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Florblu(f): 7:36am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by bixton(m): 7:39am On Apr 22, 2019 |
deltateam: Did I question his source of income? Your childish brain is getting a grip on you that's why you can't grasp the write up. |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by frozen70(f): 7:40am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Marriage26: Take it easy with him and your family He was right to say that you will wait for one year because of the demise of your mum But something is wrong somewhere of which you don't even know that the problem is Involve some respectable people in your family or even the girl's parents to meet him and ask him what the problem really is ❓ As for your wife family, let them know exactly what you are passing through and am glad they are willing to release their daughter to you You can start living with their daughter if you can't wait for your dad to open up what the problem is That means she can still become pregnant while you are living with her and you can start a family even if you guys have not done the marriage rites Be patience with your family because you alone can not make a forest Your marriage rites can be done at anytime when the dust is settled Lastly Go into prayers as that's the inky option left now because your father wants to use his reggae and spoil your blues |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by bukatyne(f): 7:41am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Marriage26: When did your mom die? May her soul rest in peace. |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by deltateam: 7:43am On Apr 22, 2019 |
bixton: You didn't need to. You lacked courage to voice it out. |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by passey: 7:47am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: You are a smart person! 1 Like |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Nobody: 7:49am On Apr 22, 2019 |
You need a thousand 'likes' and 'shares' on social media? Use religion as your story's wallpaper. You want to puncture people's emotions and let the sympathies flow like a river? Wrap your story with religious sentiments. Like somebody rightly said earlier, until we hear from the father's angle, this post remains incomplete and all the advises given are declared void.. |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by RTSC: 7:51am On Apr 22, 2019 |
tosyne2much:Some children no be am at all. The papa is even kind sef. Some fathers would curse him for not paying proper respect. The girl's family does not mind. They want their daughter to get married as soon as possible. The boy wey suppose apply sense with his own father , no get at all. 1 Like |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by passey: 7:51am On Apr 22, 2019 |
MatthAnn: Not realistic |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Nobody: 7:52am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Marriage26: Listen to your father, impregnate the girl!! na woman u carry for head like this?? I pity you |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Nobody: 7:58am On Apr 22, 2019 |
passey:Well I was referring to the complainant and not you. I will take his own opinion on my comment. Thank you |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Viking007(m): 7:59am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Fadedvoices2:Underrated comment. |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by passey: 7:59am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Well some people think marriage is all about the sex... Toto go tire you. You will be able to identify the smell of kpekus sef from afar. Dem go dey take am beg you sef, you go dey run. Learn to glean knowledge from the advice and wisdom of those more experienced and older than yourself especially if they are God fearing. Carry your family along because when the marriage red, you may need their support and guidance. |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Nobody: 8:01am On Apr 22, 2019 |
If your father is that wicked (like you want people to believe) I wonder why you are still alive by now. It still baffles me that even when it is obvious that you have become richer than him, he did nothing to truncate your life in progress. You, like most stubborn children, are too selfish to consider other people's opinion and feelings. I can't Imagine that you abandoned NYSC; a program with just a year life's span. If at all your business is the bases for your action, atleast, you are intelligent, (as you want us to believe) you should have maneuvered your way rather than rubbish the effort and sweat of the people that denied themselves luxury to see you through school. Abegi.. 7 years with a girl, you no phuck, you no demand, the girl no phuck, she no demand. Guy, either you are deceiving yourself or the girl is deceiving you. U no phuck outside, the girl too no phuck outside.. Na wa o 2 Likes |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by ericmor: 8:02am On Apr 22, 2019 |
From all u said n comment u made, to me, u must be an orrogant Christian and again you only looking at your dad’s stubbornness and not his reasons. In this case, someone truly need to hear from your dad to know what’s truly going on bcs something is pushing u. It could be ur girl friend or her family or the money u have and it could even be d sex 1 Like 1 Share |
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