SmellingAnus:
He is tired of nude video call... He wants someone he can see and fvck

I am just being hilariously real

Imagine , You yourself see ur moniker. Now you'll be saying you cant find a loyal girlfriend after all that you've done. Change ur moniker pls

Make una let this naive girl experience life...when life don teach am better lesson, she go surely wake up. You can only take a camel to the river but can't force it to drink water.

Mosesotu123:
Simple thing.... we will need to do some spiritual cleanse for u to get him back so easily.... it's called BOYS FOLLOW ME. all wat we need is.....
1. 3 blue hen
2. 3 black coconut
3. 10 pieces of yellow, white and red candle
4. Purple hair from a black dog
5. Any of his pictures
6. Red calabash and green palm oil
7. white Elephant.....


get all this and u are good to go and incase u can't get all this stuff, just DM me for the price..... i can get them 4 u at cheap price of 800,000 naira.







thank u

safarigirl:



Stop wasting your time.

I was ghosted by a Nairalander some months back. He equally seized communication after he had been talking to me for a period of time. Dude was cool as well, and I thought we were going somewhere .

I don't know what you thought you had, but you don't have a guy. Collect your L and move on, anybody that is too busy for you, is tired of you.

Anyway, his own might be different. No need to lump all NL guys together

I'm guilty of this act, very very guilty of it

Happy Birthday

Diamond23:
Abeg I don’t v strength to open a thread nd seek for opinions..... wot eva happens in here ends here! >

You're too kind.......

Sorry to tell you this little sis. This guy has a stable relationship that he doesn't want destroy because of you. Trust me the partner got to know about your online relationship with him which caused a crack in their relationship they've settled it and he guiding against another occurrence move onnnn!!!!!

This while thread made me LOL.
Clearly the OP has not seen my threads on this subject.
Mainly...https://www.nairaland.com/4838308/boyfriend-moves-usa-without-green

That meeting-online-over-long-distance-involving-passport relationship no get sense at all.
Strive for more local connections.

Also, did he promise you anything exclusively? My guess is no.
I'm guessing you guys were just flirting small as play and now the play has finish and he has moved on. Don't take things so serious.

From what you wrote,I perceived the guy is drifting away,I may be wrong,but not far too from the fact.
You were very much in love to the extend of seeing your future together, that portray how very deep you were in love.
Now gradually he starts slowing down the pace of things, messages,calls and other forms of communications, without a single reason, even ignoring your messages and calls sometimes,if he really loves you like he professed he wouldn't do that.
The highest risk a woman can take is giving her heart to an Abroad based guy,she doesn't know his status there,he may be married to a white woman, undocumented, unemployed,or other circumstances we face abroad as immigrants,these circumstances made lot of us inconsistent in behavior.
Please my dear move on with your life.

Since he has not said anything yet, just pray about it.

Adviseasister:
Good evening Nairalanders,

I had to create a new moniker for this, but I believe my guy will know this is for him.

Sometime last year I received a PM from a nlder. After going through his posts, I was pleased and we started talking. One thing led to another and we started a relationship. I must confess he is everything a woman wants in a man, he brought out this part of me I never knew existed and he did it so easily. We started seeing a future, I was happy.

Fast forward to February this year, I noticed a decline in communication. I complained and he blamed it on work. It continued and I had to ask what the problem is, he maintained it was work.

By March, things got worse and I have not been able to concentrate at work. I send him voice-notes and he responds hours later. I send messages and he responds with one word. I must also add he doesn't pick my calls at night anymore, but his NL profile would be seen online, though he won't comment.

I do not know what to do as I can't bring myself to love someone else as I love him. It is a long distance relationship and I do not know what to do. Is it possible he is facing challenges there and doesn't want to share?

Should I wait for him to come around or move on? Has anyone been in this situation before, how did you manage it? I feel so heartbroken.

if u believe dis story u will believe anything. I think a lot of people here cook up stories to trend.just show me one real proof dis story is real.nonsense!

jackals:


Imagine , You yourself see ur moniker. Now you'll be saying you cant find a loyal girlfriend after all that you've done. Change ur moniker pls

Lol... You are probably new to nairaland if not you would have known that I have them surplus

SmellingAnus:
Lol... You are probably new to nairaland if not you would have known that I have them surplus

my guy hapi Sunday

iCauseTrouble:
Oh ye good people of Nairaland..... Should we tell her the truth?

You are really living up to your moniker. U really cause trouble

Adviseasister:
Good evening Nairalanders,

I had to create a new moniker for this, but I believe my guy will know this is for him.

Sometime last year I received a PM from a nlder. After going through his posts, I was pleased and we started talking. One thing led to another and we started a relationship. I must confess he is everything a woman wants in a man, he brought out this part of me I never knew existed and he did it so easily. We started seeing a future, I was happy.

Fast forward to February this year, I noticed a decline in communication. I complained and he blamed it on work. It continued and I had to ask what the problem is, he maintained it was work.

By March, things got worse and I have not been able to concentrate at work. I send him voice-notes and he responds hours later. I send messages and he responds with one word. I must also add he doesn't pick my calls at night anymore, but his NL profile would be seen online, though he won't comment.

I do not know what to do as I can't bring myself to love someone else as I love him. It is a long distance relationship and I do not know what to do. Is it possible he is facing challenges there and doesn't want to share?

Should I wait for him to come around or move on? Has anyone been in this situation before, how did you manage it? I feel so heartbroken.

Distance can be a really difficult thing. Are you sure that you have not done anything that might have make him lose faith in you?

oyi ask google

dollytino4real:
my guy hapi Sunday

Happy Sunday Babe.... How today Service

SmellingAnus:
Lol... You are probably new to nairaland if not you would have known that I have them surplus

I hope ur girlfriend understand this split personality. Between, no serious girl will take u serious if this is ur name in real life

jackals:


I hope ur girlfriend understand this split personality. Between, no serious girl will take u serious if this is ur name in real life

Lol... Focus on the content and not the container.. This is where many girls/ladies miss it...

SmellingAnus:
Lol... Focus on the content and not the container.. This is where many girls/ladies miss it...

Hmmm. That's what they'll always say.

jackals:


Hmmm. That's what they'll always say.

but then I like you for using the word "please" when appealing to me to change my moniker...

GrabHisBalls:
I read some articles of late 'cause I was dealing with same experience. Was told it's very common with younger men 'cause in the long run, they transition. It hurts, but when you love, you see yourself being stucked with that person. You see yourself believing lies you ordinarily wouldn't believe if not in love.

You are right, "love" would make one gullible. The best thing for a lady, if you can. Don't catch feelings, even if you do, don't ever admit it, just act like you don't care. Most men don't take relationships seriously as we women do.

If you notice, as soon as he knows you have caught feelings, he would start acting up and you now be the one doing the chasing because he is already bored and has moved on to another girl. Married women suffer the same fate in marriage where they try to keep their husbands happy and the husband usually seem not to care.

SmellingAnus:
but then I like you for using the word "please" when appealing to me to change my moniker...

Lol � �. Can you really change it?

jackals:


Lol � �. Can you really change it?

would have happily done that if you were my woman and you asked me politely like you did earlier... Infact I would have let you choose my next moniker...

SmellingAnus:
would have happily done that if you were my woman and you asked me politely like you did earlier... Infact I would have let you choose my next moniker...

� �. Bad boy

Adviseasister:


You people should stop this. We are both far away and I haven't given anyone puna. I hope to share that with him, as my husband!

someone once said that to me!! i believed her until i saw female condoms in her purse...

CAPSLOCKED:


I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY YOU PEOPLE ALWAYS SAY THIS.
DO YOU DO THIS BECAUSE YOU BELIEVE IT'LL MAKE THE STORY MORE INTERESTING? OR IS THERE A SPECIAL AWARD PEOPLE RECEIVE WHEN THEY TRY TO STATE THEIR CASE BUT FIRST HAVE TO NOTIFY US THAT "THIS IS A NEW ACCOUNT TO HIDE MY IDENTITY"?



I'VE ALWAYS MAINTAINED THAT NAIRALAND BOASTS OF ABOUT TWO MILLION MEMBERS.

BUT IN THE REAL SENSE, THERE ARE JUST 43 OF US GENUINE MEMBERS. THE REST ARE ALTERNATES AFTER ALTERNATES.




I'M THE PATRON OF FAILED RELATIONSHIPS. ANY ADVICE FROM ME WILL ONLY CAUSE MORE DAMAGES AND LEAD YOU TO FAILURE. I'M SORRY.

Hahaha haha 43 members. You're sick

iCauseTrouble:
Oh ye good people of Nairaland..... Should we tell her the truth?

naah let's leave her

he's a married man

Well since it different country, it totally normal cus my ex did same until we finally brokeup cus d distance was killing d relationship,I advice u to have a conversation with him ask him if he is still interested, don't be emmotional with it if not he will pity u and u will continue with such attitude, if he claims busy he doesn't love u, he just like u dt all so u better ask him and move on with ur life

Adviseasister:
Good evening Nairalanders,

I had to create a new moniker for this, but I believe my guy will know this is for him.

Sometime last year I received a PM from a nlder. After going through his posts, I was pleased and we started talking. One thing led to another and we started a relationship. I must confess he is everything a woman wants in a man, he brought out this part of me I never knew existed and he did it so easily. We started seeing a future, I was happy.

Fast forward to February this year, I noticed a decline in communication. I complained and he blamed it on work. It continued and I had to ask what the problem is, he maintained it was work.

By March, things got worse and I have not been able to concentrate at work. I send him voice-notes and he responds hours later. I send messages and he responds with one word. I must also add he doesn't pick my calls at night anymore, but his NL profile would be seen online, though he won't comment.

I do not know what to do as I can't bring myself to love someone else as I love him. It is a long distance relationship and I do not know what to do. Is it possible he is facing challenges there and doesn't want to share?

Should I wait for him to come around or move on? Has anyone been in this situation before, how did you manage it? I feel so heartbroken.

let me say this plain "DONT WASTE YOUR TIME WITH SOMEONE THAT IS NOT SERIOUS"

Adviseasister:
Good evening Nairalanders,

I had to create a new moniker for this, but I believe my guy will know this is for him.

Sometime last year I received a PM from a nlder. After going through his posts, I was pleased and we started talking. One thing led to another and we started a relationship. I must confess he is everything a woman wants in a man, he brought out this part of me I never knew existed and he did it so easily. We started seeing a future, I was happy.

Fast forward to February this year, I noticed a decline in communication. I complained and he blamed it on work. It continued and I had to ask what the problem is, he maintained it was work.

By March, things got worse and I have not been able to concentrate at work. I send him voice-notes and he responds hours later. I send messages and he responds with one word. I must also add he doesn't pick my calls at night anymore, but his NL profile would be seen online, though he won't comment.

I do not know what to do as I can't bring myself to love someone else as I love him. It is a long distance relationship and I do not know what to do. Is it possible he is facing challenges there and doesn't want to share?

Should I wait for him to come around or move on? Has anyone been in this situation before, how did you manage it? I feel so heartbroken.

Well just give it time.. also please if you can..be a good listener...most of we guys..we admire women who listen.. a man's world is filled with so much worries...worry for his mom..his dad..life in general.. marriage..work.. getting ready to pay for his 250k-300k apartment..worry about you..maybe he'll be able to give you all that you want..so much thoughts..at least.. that's how I see life as a working class young man..so thing is..in all these stress and deep thoughts..we want a woman who truly and dearly understands..it makes it easy for men..but sadly women of that generation are long gone..so give it time and also..let him be weak around..let him bare his heart out.. sometimes we guys aren't so strong.but not having a listening woman makes us coil up and fake the bravado of "being okay" when we are not..Good luck listening to him

Seems the option you have now is to travel to know what is happening to him and you guys talk things over but for now don't conclude anything until you guys talk best wishes