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Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by tydi(m): 12:57am On Jun 09, 2019 |
[s] spongeisback:[/s] Facts! Or forever remain dunce 1 Like |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Amhappy(f): 12:57am On Jun 09, 2019 |
breakerofchains:. The Bible didn't tell women to submit to men but A wife to submit to her husband. A man has no right over you or you over him except after you both have committed yourselves in the sacrament of matrimony. And the same verse of the Bible demand that men should love their wife not women. Evil Men now twist the Bible with lies. But they won't quote thou shalt not commit adultery or your body is the temple of the Holy spirit but they all know the verses about submission. It's bad the Bible is being misquoted. 4 Likes |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by spongeisback: 12:58am On Jun 09, 2019 |
tydi: You want me to go dig up your rants in health section OK am coming. |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by spongeisback: 1:01am On Jun 09, 2019 |
tydi: |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by tydi(m): 1:02am On Jun 09, 2019 |
spongeisback: You need to keep your mentality at check, you're loosing it 1 Like |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by spongeisback: 1:04am On Jun 09, 2019 |
Says this poverty stricken bastard. Holup I want people to know what a useless human being you're. tydi: 1 Like |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by tydi(m): 1:05am On Jun 09, 2019 |
spongeisback: You need to keep your mentality at check, you're loosing it Now its crystal clear this your madness has gone berserk 1 Like |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by frozen70(f): 1:06am On Jun 09, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz: I doff my hat for you You have said it all They see themselves as Lords and those that sees women as their helpers are enjoying their homes. Women be wise, don't allow any man to intimidate you because of your success Success comes from God, If he can't cope let him reverse. 3 Likes |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by spongeisback: 1:06am On Jun 09, 2019 |
This is his wife's comment. Stupid cheap gigolo still eating mama thank you in a dirty public yard. Lol... my dear dont waste your time on someone who depends on women for survival, let him be... My joy is everyone has a past, I was jex too stupid to share my past to someone who lacks sense.. He feels he is doing me, lol he is doing himself... 1 Like |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by tydi(m): 1:08am On Jun 09, 2019 |
spongeisback: Who do you this thing 1 Like
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Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by spongeisback: 1:12am On Jun 09, 2019 |
I made a comment before only POOR boys come online to bash women. This rat couldn't even send his wife to health center to give birth but he's coming online to bash ladies that wouldn't stoop low to his standard. What about your parents? Are they still threatening her with the death of your son if she leaves you? tydi: |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by tydi(m): 1:14am On Jun 09, 2019 |
spongeisback: I don sleep, keep talking to yourself till I wake up tomorrow. Don't go near sniper shaa! 1 Like |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Nobody: 1:36am On Jun 09, 2019 |
Beautiful topic. I will say that women are actually more unsecured than men that's why they allow men to walk over them both at home and office. Girls are constantly told that all their education and beauty ends in the kitchen. Some wives answer their husbands sir. Are they under master and servant relationship? We know what that means during bedmatics if u two agreed to go kinky but to answer your husband sir in this age and time is mind boggling. Also when sharing house works, everybody should do everything. Boys can cook and girls can wash cars. That is how it starts. Ur son can loosen ur braid for you. U are teaching them that there is no gender discrimination in household chore. If ur husband treats u like a queen, ur son is watching. The thing is that Nigerian men hardly show affection to their wives publicly. U can't see them holding their wives hands outside their home when strolling out or giving her a peck in front of the kids. That is how they learn. Do they even kiss their children when they send them off to school? So rigid and emotionless pursuing the so called money thinking that it's what builds a family. We can see that on the daily lives of our politicians, religious leaders and top executives. When they start thinking and acting the right way,believe u me there will be need to change their useless and rigid constitution and corruption will reduce. But as long as we still have this mentality over life, we will continue to suffer the consequences. 1 Like |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by trapQ: 2:45am On Jun 09, 2019 |
Where did that 95% come from? Your asshoole? Blyzz: |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Nobody: 5:54am On Jun 09, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz: Look at your life. U create a post bashing males so u can get in good with the feminists. Now u run calling the people u are attempting to please. U are a traitor, u are not a man. 2 Likes |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by franchasng: 6:16am On Jun 09, 2019 |
partnerbizz4: 1 Like
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Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by AmazonTopaz(f): 6:27am On Jun 09, 2019 |
REAALBETPAWA:I mentioned them and clearly stated others should contribute. My is my opinion and not meant for anybody and by the way I am female. |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by donbachi(m): 6:31am On Jun 09, 2019 |
eyinjuege:have u changed? 1 Like |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by AmazonTopaz(f): 6:31am On Jun 09, 2019 |
frozen70:Thank you. I doff my hat for you too |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by AmazonTopaz(f): 6:35am On Jun 09, 2019 |
praz001:I don't need this. My topic does not relate to this. |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by OlawaleBammie: 6:46am On Jun 09, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz: Toju akata ba le'dowo, shenu adiye lowa tosi?? na ur mama name wey u drag for mud a just pity, everybody naw knows dat its ur mama dat is controlling ur Papa, u dont need to divulge or reveal it all, from wat u slightly/mistakenly said, we can deduce dat ur mama is d husband and ur papa is d sit down der type, position has changed, am sure ur papa wont b able to protest any hill treatment from ur mother, smh. wat a pity!! sorry for d poor man, he's just trying pushing it so dat d marriage wil nt eventually break cus of u children but what has he gotten bak in reward?? he has gotten some unsubmissive children all over the building, ahh ayele, see shut dis nonsense u re sayin up, a no get problem with u, mine is enof. 1 Like |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by AmazonTopaz(f): 6:48am On Jun 09, 2019 |
OlawaleBammie:She is controlling my papa how he take concern you. If na the other way around ypu for dey complain? Double standard lot. Even some of them na their mama dey control their papa so swerve out of my mention. The man nor dey complain. So bye bye. |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by AmazonTopaz(f): 7:03am On Jun 09, 2019 |
sassysure:Hmm very insightful thank you. |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by aytuns(m): 7:13am On Jun 09, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz: Then I guess you are misinform and clueless about even your parents situation... That à man isn't a control freak doesn't mean his wife won't/can't submit to him.. You mum submits to her husband, your dad,else I can guarantee that home won't be peaceful.. So go ask her (I mean your mum) well 1 Like |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by OlawaleBammie: 7:16am On Jun 09, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz: Yeeeeh! his destiny has bn twisted, i said it, see lemme tell u dis, i love it wen my gf (she has nt even becom a wife o) have a say, if i may tell u this, i once tell my gf one day dat "hey woman!! tru out dis week u didn't shout on me or take offence in everything i did, are u telling me all i did was good or u didn't just want to talk, she laughed and said, i should trust her na, that she would hav bashed me had i done wrong dat tels u wat i want, am a say ur own make i say my own, even as am typing i wond dare o mary a lady dat does " yes sir!! yes sir!! yes sir!!" all d tym as if am Lord, noooo shout on me wen am wrong and let me shout at u back wen u re wrong, dat is wat i want, but in all dis tins women need to b submissive to her husband in her dealings, d marriage needs it, God is nt a fool How can u even follow d normal life protocol laid by God wen u dont even regard Him(God)?? See, goan deal with ur life, its urs and no one else owns it But ur papa is an example of a person sleeping on a thorn, ahh, jeesus, d man must hav slacked, am sure he cant hav a say over his children again dat is y dey become dis, decayed..ahhhh God understand sha. 1 Like |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by AmazonTopaz(f): 7:18am On Jun 09, 2019 |
aytuns:The home is very peaceful. My mum is not the submissive type and they are still happy. I know my home better than you do. Only slaves submit not freeborns.my mama is not a slave. |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by OlawaleBammie: 7:24am On Jun 09, 2019 |
aytuns: peaceful ke? goan ask d man, d man has mismarried from tym immemorial, am sure dey warned him but cus of beauty or money he didn't take heed. d man is i. thorn, d woman control all d family including d man, i mean d first born who is calling himself husband. 1 Like |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by aytuns(m): 7:27am On Jun 09, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz: Yeah... I've read your posts... And you've clearly stated that your dad is the submissive one and is clearly being put down by your mum on a constant basis, while your mum is the head.. I'd really like to see how your own marriage will turn out.. That is if at all you do get married.. A submissive WIFE is not a slave. Marriage isn't for everyone nor is it by force.. Just leave us men alone abeg. 1 Like |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by AmazonTopaz(f): 7:34am On Jun 09, 2019 |
aytuns:Their marriage is an egalitarian one. And that is my view. I am respobsible for what I type how you interpret it is your business bye bye. 1 Like |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by AmazonTopaz(f): 7:40am On Jun 09, 2019 |
Olawalebammie is the definition of an idiot personified. A complete dunderhead useless nincompoop. Useless cocoa seller. Now I know the kind of business you do your likes can not even work for me or come in contact with me. Better go and hustle and stop wasting your time trying to get the attention of someone you can never work for or be in her standard. Do not think I would reply another silly mention of yours. You are beneath me. |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by alizma: 7:49am On Jun 09, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz:Leave that for me to worry over 1 Like |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by AmazonTopaz(f): 7:50am On Jun 09, 2019 |
alizma:No I insist let me pay yours. |
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