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Re: I Have Been A Big Fool, Pls Advise Me Folks by skultrick(m): 7:16pm On Jul 11
And for the op, i think you should thank God you're out of that miserable relationship. Why would you choose to go back to an uneducated woman who left you for someone else and still managed to find her way back in your life.

I guess you lack a will of your own, you should work on that otherwise another tokubo will hook you or who knows, this same woman knowing clearly how weak your guard is will walk back into your life.

How do you even intend to progress in life when you can't leave the past where it should be?

I can't continue wasting important time I don't have, just work on will as a man and stop being a sissy to a low life.

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Re: I Have Been A Big Fool, Pls Advise Me Folks by luvyaself95: 7:28pm On Jul 11
your foolishness is outta of this world it's mumu edition 999 Billion
Re: I Have Been A Big Fool, Pls Advise Me Folks by Safitu(f): 7:32pm On Jul 11
He can only find a young woman if he has the money of ned Nwoko. I’m sorry please stop comparing common people to that man, do you know how much that man is worth? Do you think if he was just average or comfortable he could pull someone like Regina?

How many men can get to that level of wealth? The truth is that, an old man can only find a young woman to marry if he has money. I’m not talking about average money, I’m talking about multiple millions or billions in the bank. Why should a young beautiful woman come and suffer herself with old wrinkled prick if she’s not swimming in money, when they’re many younger and able men floating around? If you are broke and old with no wife, you are as useless as a wretched rat, so please don’t let that man give you hope. You better find someone to marry you at your young and wretched state, because once old age kicks in you’re hopeless.
skultrick:


Why would someone choose tokubo over new chassis.

Not to mention the educational disparity.

Only a sissy is ok with a woman's money.

And as a man he can find a very young woman even at 60, ask Ned Nwoko.
Re: I Have Been A Big Fool, Pls Advise Me Folks by Arsenate(m): 7:45pm On Jul 11
Safitu:
He can only find a young woman if he has the money of ned Nwoko. I’m sorry please stop comparing common people to that man, do you know how much that man is worth? Do you think if he was just average or comfortable he could pull someone like Regina?

How many men can get to that level of wealth? The truth is that, an old man can only find a young woman to marry if he has money. I’m not talking about average money, I’m talking about multiple millions or billions in the bank. Why should a young beautiful woman come and suffer herself with old wrinkled prick if she’s not swimming in money, when they’re many younger and able men floating around? If you are broke and old with no wife, you are as useless as a wretched rat, so please don’t let that man give you hope. You better find someone to marry you at your young and wretched state, because once old age kicks in you’re hopeless.
Bullshhitt
Even a broke guy can do better than a baby mama. Baby mamas have nothing good to offer any man. There is a reason why she's trying to lie her way into ops life. No decent man wants her.

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Re: I Have Been A Big Fool, Pls Advise Me Folks by AwkaetitiBabe(f): 7:46pm On Jul 11
Arsenate:

Bullshhitt
Even a broke guy can do better than a baby mama. Baby mamas have nothing good to offer any man. There is a reason why she's trying to lie her way into ops life. No decent man wants her.
Quite harsh don't you think?

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Re: I Have Been A Big Fool, Pls Advise Me Folks by Arsenate(m): 7:54pm On Jul 11
AwkaetitiBabe:
Quite harsh don't you think?
Well, the lady I quoted was harsh towards broke guys as well and I didn't see you call her out.

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Re: I Have Been A Big Fool, Pls Advise Me Folks by skultrick(m): 7:56pm On Jul 11
Safitu:
He can only find a young woman if he has the money of ned Nwoko. I’m sorry please stop comparing common people to that man, do you know how much that man is worth? Do you think if he was just average or comfortable he could pull someone like Regina?

How many men can get to that level of wealth? The truth is that, an old man can only find a young woman to marry if he has money. I’m not talking about average money, I’m talking about multiple millions or billions in the bank. Why should a young beautiful woman come and suffer herself with old wrinkled prick if she’s not swimming in money, when they’re many younger and able men floating around? If you are broke and old with no wife, you are as useless as a wretched rat, so please don’t let that man give you hope. You better find someone to marry you at your young and wretched state, because once old age kicks in you’re hopeless.

Perhaps you forgot the statement "time happens to us all" I've seen men at 50 marry girls they far younger than while not being all that rich.

You also forget Regina Daniel is a celebrity (yeyebrity). Love isn't all about the money. The money I'd at my early age brought fake ass bitches all around me, and as of then I'd no will of my own. I spent foolishly, thinking I was loved not knowing the little change and small gifts where all they were after.

A woman that can lie about her own child is serious red flag.

Moreover, I prefer mature women Team 30 and above.

Besides, why would a man enter into a relationship when he knows he isn't financially sound to foot the responsibility that comes with that.

I always tell my friends, if she can't manage what you have, leave her.

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Re: I Have Been A Big Fool, Pls Advise Me Folks by Omega30(m): 7:56pm On Jul 11
Safitu:
When most of you shame single mothers, why wouldn’t she lie to you?

If she told you she had two kids would you have thought of marrying her? Go and sit down please. If you think you are going to find someone better, remember that you are still broke at your old age, reality will hit you soon. You think it’s easy to find a good woman in your wretched state? This woman loves you and all you can think about is the additional child that she has. You never jam correct babe, babe that will lie to you about her whoollleee identity, her past generation and generations to come. Shioorrr

Wretched man thinking he can have high standards, I don’t blame you, it’s society that gives you people liver na. But sooner or later, loneliness will humble you.

Better go back to this woman and keep shut.
Safitu, the adviser and who told u she is a good woman. Don't tell u are s single mother too, cos I am eyeing u o
Re: I Have Been A Big Fool, Pls Advise Me Folks by Safitu(f): 7:59pm On Jul 11
A broke man can do better than a woman who has literally helped him and accepted him for who he is? This man is at least 40 or late 30s.

no young beautiful woman Is going to settle with a wretched man that old unless she is desperate. What does this man have to offer? He wants to have high standards for nothing. He and people like you should continue deceiving yourselves. The value of a man lies straight deep into his pocket. If he is broke, it’s only his youthful exuberance that can save him. If you are old and broke you have no hope, and you better settle for someone that will love you for who you are.
Arsenate:

Bullshhitt
Even a broke guy can do better than a baby mama. Baby mamas have nothing good to offer any man. There is a reason why she's trying to lie her way into ops life. No decent man wants her.

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Re: I Have Been A Big Fool, Pls Advise Me Folks by AwkaetitiBabe(f): 8:00pm On Jul 11
Arsenate:

Well, the lady I quoted was harsh towards broke guys as well and I didn't see you call her out.
Fink I skipped the comment. Calm your nerves, nothing is permanent.
Re: I Have Been A Big Fool, Pls Advise Me Folks by Omega30(m): 8:01pm On Jul 11
AwkaetitiBabe:
Honesty is the best policy. Life goes on.


It's definitely not written in your stars to be together.
All girls give similar advice.They always have their backs. And who told u she is supportive selflessly. She did it to get what she wants- marriage. How will u get a broke guy to marry, if not when u appear to be doing better. The only time most naija babes choose to marry a broke guy is when:
*Age is not on their side
* They are baby mamas
Otherwise, they will never offer to be supportive.

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Re: I Have Been A Big Fool, Pls Advise Me Folks by Arsenate(m): 8:02pm On Jul 11
AwkaetitiBabe:
Fink I skipped the comment. Calm your nerves, nothing is permanent.
Being broke isn't permanent but being a baby mama is. I believe we can both agree on that.

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Re: I Have Been A Big Fool, Pls Advise Me Folks by Safitu(f): 8:05pm On Jul 11
No young woman in her 20s is going to marry a 50 year old man if he doesn’t have money. It is rare, so please spare me the bullshit. The sexual market of a man decreases drastically after 39, it’s only money that will save him. Without money, you are as good as nothing. Please name me a broke 40/50 year old man that have beautiful women flocking around him?
skultrick:


Perhaps you forgot the statement " time happens to us all" I've seen men at 50 marry girls they far younger than.

Moreover, I prefer mature women Team 30 and above.

Besides, why would a man enter into a relationship when he knows he isn't financially sound to foot the responsibility that comes with that.

I always tell my friends, if she can't manage what you have, leave her.

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Re: I Have Been A Big Fool, Pls Advise Me Folks by Safitu(f): 8:08pm On Jul 11
A man who is broke at 40 will probably be broke for life. To be honest, most men never reach that stage of financial freedom to pick the girl of their dreams. So let’s face reality. So it’s better that he just stays with a woman that loves him and live a peaceful life.
Arsenate:

Being broke isn't permanent but being a baby mama is. I believe we can both agree on that.

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Re: I Have Been A Big Fool, Pls Advise Me Folks by skultrick(m): 8:12pm On Jul 11
Safitu:
A man who is broke at 40 will probably be broke for life. To be honest, most men never reach that stage of financial freedom to pick the girl of their dreams. So let’s face reality. So it’s better that he just stays with a woman that loves him and live a peaceful life.

I know you're a baby mama or was one, but please be reasonable.

Would you advice your brother to marry this type of woman who lies about her own child?

Or have you forgotten the placs of trust in a relationship?

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Re: I Have Been A Big Fool, Pls Advise Me Folks by J111333(m): 8:16pm On Jul 11
I don't understand, is that the end of the story? What do you want us to do? undecided
Re: I Have Been A Big Fool, Pls Advise Me Folks by Safitu(f): 8:17pm On Jul 11
No I’m not a baby mama, thank you I just have common sense.

If my brother is getting older, he has a woman that loves him, they’ve been together for years, I would advise him to get married to her. Most woman lie, some women lie about far more dangerous things. You men need to face reality, don’t thjnk because you can produce sperm all your life, you can pick and choose any lady like you with ridiculous high standards. By 40 your sexual market decreases drastically if you have no substantial money, which most of you don’t have anyways. You will need to settle with a woman that has some kind of baggage. Reality will kick in for most of you don’t worry.
skultrick:


I know you're a baby mama or was one, but please be reasonable.

Would you advice your brother to marry this type of woman who lies about her own child?

Or have you forgotten the placs of trust in a relationship?

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Re: I Have Been A Big Fool, Pls Advise Me Folks by marriage1: 8:18pm On Jul 11
You took a good decision for allowing your elder sister to know about your relationship with this lady and been your elder, she investigated her for you.
It's obvious that what you narrated here has made so many people to commit suicide simply because they refused to allow their family members know what is going on in their relationship.
So many people committed suicide because of heartbreak encountered in a relationship like this.

Suicide is real, suicide is dangerous than Boko Haram.
Share your challenges with your family, speak out, let those around you know the emotional truama you are facing.
They will save your life, they will show you love and make you smile again.
Check out this shocked
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https://allsinglesandmarried.blogspot.com/2019/07/other-uses-of-snipper-liquid.html?m=1

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Re: I Have Been A Big Fool, Pls Advise Me Folks by AwkaetitiBabe(f): 8:19pm On Jul 11
Arsenate:

Being broke isn't permanent but being a baby mama is. I believe we can both agree on that.
Ya blame the irresponsible men who refused to put a ring on it.

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Re: I Have Been A Big Fool, Pls Advise Me Folks by ThothHermes: 8:20pm On Jul 11
Safitu:
When most of you shame single mothers, why wouldn’t she lie to you?

If she told you she had two kids would you have thought of marrying her? Go and sit down please. If you think you are going to find someone better, remember that you are still broke at your old age, reality will hit you soon. You think it’s easy to find a good woman in your wretched state? This woman loves you and all you can think about is the additional child that she has. You never jam correct babe, babe that will lie to you about her whoollleee identity, her past generation and generations to come. Shioorrr

Wretched man thinking he can have high standards, I don’t blame you, it’s society that gives you people liver na. But sooner or later, loneliness will humble you.

Better go back to this woman and keep shut.
Frustration grin grin grin

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Re: I Have Been A Big Fool, Pls Advise Me Folks by ThothHermes: 8:22pm On Jul 11
skultrick:


Why would someone choose tokubo over new chassis.

Not to mention the educational disparity.

Only a sissy is ok with a woman's money

And as a man he can find a very young woman even at 60, ask Ned Nwoko.
Preach!
Re: I Have Been A Big Fool, Pls Advise Me Folks by AwkaetitiBabe(f): 8:23pm On Jul 11
Omega30:
All girls give similar advice.They always have their backs. And who told u she is supportive selflessly. She did it to get what she wants- marriage. How will u get a broke guy to marry, if not when u appear to be doing better. The only time most naija babes choose to marry a broke guy is when:
*Age is not on their side
* They are baby mamas
Otherwise, they will never offer to be supportive.
I beg to differ. Give broke dudes some credit pls. No situation is permanent
Re: I Have Been A Big Fool, Pls Advise Me Folks by Arsenate(m): 8:24pm On Jul 11
AwkaetitiBabe:
Ya blame the irresponsible men who refused to put a ring on it.
No, I blame the women for their poor choices. Very laughable how women admit they love "bad boys" but the same women cry foul when bad boys fuckkkk their lives up. I mean something is bad, how do you expect a good outcome from it.
Re: I Have Been A Big Fool, Pls Advise Me Folks by skultrick(m): 8:26pm On Jul 11
Safitu:
No I’m not a baby mama, thank you I just have common sense.

If my brother is getting older, he has a woman that loves him, they’ve been together for years, I would advise him to get married to her. Most woman lie, some women lie about far more dangerous things. You men need to face reality, don’t thjnk because you can produce sperm all your life, you can pick and choose any lady like you with ridiculous high standards. By 40 your sexual market decreases drastically if you have no substantial money, which most of you don’t have anyways. You will need to settle with a woman that has some kind of baggage. Reality will kick in for most of you don’t worry.

I leave you with your choice, I've important things to deal with. Thanks anyway for your time.
Re: I Have Been A Big Fool, Pls Advise Me Folks by omega903(m): 8:27pm On Jul 11
shege45:
It seems you have already made ur decision, why then do you need our advice? Maybe u still love her
Exactly, he still has feelings for her definitely

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Re: I Have Been A Big Fool, Pls Advise Me Folks by Eze1984: 8:27pm On Jul 11
Safitu:
When most of you shame single mothers, why wouldn’t she lie to you?

If she told you she had two kids would you have thought of marrying her? Go and sit down please. If you think you are going to find someone better, remember that you are still broke at your old age, reality will hit you soon. You think it’s easy to find a good woman in your wretched state? This woman loves you and all you can think about is the additional child that she has. You never jam correct babe, babe that will lie to you about her whoollleee identity, her past generation and generations to come. Shioorrr

Wretched man thinking he can have high standards, I don’t blame you, it’s society that gives you people liver na. But sooner or later, loneliness will humble you.

Better go back to this woman and keep shut.

Why don't you shut the 4k up and leave this thread. It wasn't created for toxic fellows like you. I told you I was broke which is me being honest with you but do you really think I'm still in that state? I'm quite stable financially at the moment because I threw my certificate aside and faced rea life hustling. I'm not where I hope to be, but believe it or not, I'm on my way there. if you care to read this, just know i'm not ur average unambiguous dude, I'm a well respected fellow right from university days cuz I've always been a leader, right from my department n i was equally elected head of my cds during my services period. Even presently, I'm the treasurer of my tribal association in my community. I've always bn regarded high among people I relate with both men n women cuz all my entire life, I've always been conscious of my conduct n i treat others with respect. So don't think you are talking to a bleeping loser. As for women issue, I might be a bad judge of character, I'm definitely not a loser, I can always have a standard woman that I know I deserve. Good n standard women abound n I'm presently one of the quality men who can have any of them. If the lady in question is that good, why didn't the man she had 2kids for married her? How can somebody who lied about her son love me? I deserve better and I'm with one now but the scar from that toxic relationship is affecting me. Everything is working for my good by God grace.

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Re: I Have Been A Big Fool, Pls Advise Me Folks by AwkaetitiBabe(f): 8:28pm On Jul 11
Arsenate:

No, I blame the women for their poor choices. Very laughable how women admit they love "bad boys" but the same women cry foul when bad boys fuckkkk their lives up. I mean something is bad, how do you expect a good outcome from it.

So all baby daddies are bad boys? Let's not have one lane reasoning here pls

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Re: I Have Been A Big Fool, Pls Advise Me Folks by Eze1984: 8:32pm On Jul 11
omega903:

Exactly, he still has feelings for her definitely

Wallahi, I'm done with her. No any yeye feeling anymore
Re: I Have Been A Big Fool, Pls Advise Me Folks by Eze1984: 8:36pm On Jul 11
marriage1:
You took a good decision for allowing your elder sister to know about your relationship with this lady and been your elder, she investigated her for you.
It's obvious that what you narrated here has made so many people to commit suicide simply because they refused to allow their family members know what is going on in their relationship.
So many people committed suicide because of heartbreak encountered in a relationship like this.

Suicide is real, suicide is dangerous than Boko Haram.
Share your challenges with your family, speak out, let those around you know the emotional truama you are facing.
They will save your life, they will show you love and make you smile again.
Check out this shocked
>>>>>
https://allsinglesandmarried.blogspot.com/2019/07/other-uses-of-snipper-liquid.html?m=1


God bless you jor, my best friend even advised me but I ignored him cuz of pussy. Now I know better.
Re: I Have Been A Big Fool, Pls Advise Me Folks by Safitu(f): 8:42pm On Jul 11
Blah blah blah blah

If you’re such this great amazing guy, Oga why you no marry at your age? Why did you date this single mother for so long and collect her money in the process? All because she has one extra child than you envisioned, you want to end the relationship? Do you think you’re fooling anybody? Like I said, if you go outside at your old age to Try and find somebody better, reality will slap that your silly face. You never jam serious misfortune in your life yet.
Eze1984:


Why don't you shut the 4k up and leave this thread. It wasn't created for toxic fellows like you. I told you I was broke which is me being honest with you but do you really think I'm still in that state? I'm quite stable financially at the moment because I threw my certificate aside and faced rea life hustling. I'm not where I hope to be, but believe it or not, I'm on my way there. if you care to read this, just know i'm not ur average unambiguous dude, I'm a well respected fellow right from university days cuz I've always been a leader, right from my department n i was equally elected head of my cds during my services period. Even presently, I'm the treasurer of my tribal association in my community. I've always bn regarded high among people I relate with both men n women cuz all my entire life, I've always been conscious of my conduct n i treat others with respect. So don't think you are talking to a bleeping loser. As for women issue, I might be a bad judge of character, I'm definitely not a loser, I can always have a standard woman that I know I deserve. Good n standard women abound n I'm presently one of the quality men who can have any of them. If the lady in question is that good, why didn't the man she had 2kids for married her? How can somebody who lied about her son love me? I deserve better and I'm with one now but the scar from that toxic relationship is affecting me. Everything is working for my good by God grace.

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Re: I Have Been A Big Fool, Pls Advise Me Folks by cowardafonja: 8:51pm On Jul 11
Safitu:
When most of you shame single mothers, why wouldn’t she lie to you?

If she told you she had two kids would you have thought of marrying her? Go and sit down please. If you think you are going to find someone better, remember that you are still broke at your old age, reality will hit you soon. You think it’s easy to find a good woman in your wretched state? This woman loves you and all you can think about is the additional child that she has. You never jam correct babe, babe that will lie to you about her whoollleee identity, her past generation and generations to come. Shioorrr

Wretched man thinking he can have high standards, I don’t blame you, it’s society that gives you people liver na. But sooner or later, loneliness will humble you.

Better go back to this woman and keep shut.

Calm down sis. You sound too bitter. It's not lady-like

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Re: I Have Been A Big Fool, Pls Advise Me Folks by franklingud(m): 8:56pm On Jul 11
Desperate times calls for desperate measures.

Guys avoid desperate ladies.

@op congratulations for being free from her but this one you are seeking for advice, are you still in love with her?

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