Would you date a man or woman that has a disability or life threatening illnesses? This person is your soul mate but they have a life threatening disease or disability and makes you happy, would you still date them?

What disability can you tolerate or won't tolerate?

My friend left her husband when he became physically disabled when he had a bad truck accident. He was paralyzed from the neck on down and she divorced him. Would you divorce your spouse or break up with your mate if they become disabled?

Y not. Provided that the disability is not a burden.

Not sure how I'd react.
I don't think i will just hump and leave someone because they became disable. I also don't think i can stay with a woman whose disability makes it outright impossible for us to make love. It's like a free pass to cheat but why should i leave a lie?

Jaybee!!!

Now, now! You can do other things to supplement the fucccking Jaybee, that an excuse!


As for me, I wouldn't leave my husband because there aren't that many GOOD PEOPLE out there and I married him for BETTER AND FOR WORSE, I may have to pray and ask for patience, BUT I THINK I CAN DEAL WITH WHATEVER COME MY WAY because I told told in the WORD, nothing is put on you that you can't bear,

queeneve:

Jaybee!!!

Now, now! You can do other things to supplement the fucccking Jaybee, that an excuse!

Other things like?
It's not so straight forward for men You want me to buy a doll or something

queeneve:

As for me, I wouldn't leave my husband because there aren't that many GOOD PEOPLE out there and I married him for BETTER AND FOR WORSE, I may have to pray and ask for patience, BUT I THINK I CAN DEAL WITH WHATEVER COME MY WAY because I told told in the WORD, nothing is put on you that you can't bear,

That's what we all say but most act different when such situations arise.

If he is my husband, i would stick with him thru thick and thin, but he shouldn't blame me if i cheat on him~

Jaybee,

Just because a person is disabled doesn't mean they can't do other things, now she may not be able to ride you or gyrate her hips like she used or could, but she can use her hands, toes, feet, mouth, arms, and toys,

No, you do not have to buy a doll but you can use your mate the best of her ability,


I have known men and women who have stayed with their mates through thick and thin even through a disability, IT REALLY EACH INDIVIDUAL character, and morale,

Omolola1:

If he is my husband, i would stick with him thru thick and thin, but he shouldn't blame me if i cheat on him~

Get ready for moi. cos i'm crippled and blind

Awwww!

(whispering to Omoloa, dont marry him!)

@Q
Point I'm trying to make is it depends on the disability and how it affects the other person.
You see, making love is important to me in a relationship so if the person I'm with can't perform because of their disability then I'm gonna look elsewhere and would expect her to do the same if roles were switched.

@Vic, you are crippled and blind? Awww, s.ex is goin 2 be interesting~ *chuckles*

You do know that NOT EVERYBODY IS CLEAN Jaybee, so dipping your sausage elsewhere aint ideal,

But if that WHAT YALL AGREE ON THEN HEY,


I can get the blind part Omoloa, but the cripple, YOU WILL BE DOING ALL THE WORK!

@Queen, Do you actually think i would "do" a disabled person? HELL NO

Don't knock it until you try it sista girl!

Aint that right Vic?

queeneve:

Awwww!  

(whispering to Omoloa, dont marry him!)

She must!!!! infact inshort ***knees down on one knee***  Lola will u marry me?

Be careful Vic, I see FURRY AZZ slithering over here!

queeneve:


Aint that right Vic?

Thats right. i bet she wont turn back when she tastes it

queeneve:

Be careful Vic, I see FURRY AZZ slithering over here!

He can only bark. but can't bite

Oh! *looks at Vic on his athletic knees wiv d diamond ring stretched forward* Erm, sweery, this is not d rite place~

queeneve:

You do know that NOT EVERYBODY IS CLEAN Jaybee, so dipping your sausage elsewhere aint ideal,

But if that WHAT YALL AGREE ON THEN HEY,

That's why we have all sort of test that can be carried out.
Plus i can actually screen my potential dates before doing the do
Don't ask me how
I'm that powerfull

jay bee:

That's why we have all sort of test that can be carried out.
Plus i can actually screen my potential dates before doing the do
Don't ask me how
I'm that powerfull

VOMITS

disable ke? no be me

to me i will stick to her (thats if she's my wife) no matter. but as long as i can still play the game with her

I have a cousin frm my dad's side,very beautiful,intelligent and homely. She has a bad leg,caused by Polio when she was much younger. I only see her during xmas,they live in Maiduguri.
Last xmas,I was with her all thru and it was then I realised that the only disability I cant stand is communication.
I have a very nice disabled male friend who's been close to me since July and there are things I havent told my family that he knows. They might be deficient in one axis but power packed in another.
I'l marry him if i'm not in a serious r'shp.

queeneve:

VOMITS

Just a clue I do analysis on health data

Odunnu:

I have a cousin frm my dad's side,very beautiful,intelligent and homely. She has a bad leg,caused by Polio when she was much younger. I only see her during xmas,they live in Maiduguri.
Last xmas,I was with her all thru and it was then I realised that the only disability I cant stand is communication.
I have a very nice disabled male friend who's been close to me since July and there are things I havent told my family that he knows. They might be deficient in one axis but power packed in another.
I'l marry him if i'm not in a serious r'shp.

i have some pals that are disable too but like u said they (most) are intelligent and brilliant.
hope u no go get probs on marrying him?

Bad attitude is d gr8test disability!!! Ok, let all d physically challenged ''d special chics'' fall out here and watch how pple like us dat never mind will grab dem 4 a date, lol.

This things can happen to any body anytime,the country lacks infrastructure that would have created a decent transportation system ,travelling by road every day is a risk in that part of the world,

A lady with attitude problem is worse than an handicap

Sweets, i swaaaar, its all a joke, we were just acting