Kingosytex:

The more you look, the less you see.

hmm

how you choose to live your life bro, I don't give girls money unless you are my wife neither can I sponsor any girl in any thing .am not ready to die of heart break

RickyE:
I really appreciate your advice but the thing is that you don't get the full picture because I didn't go into details. The school fees was increased when we were already in school. I did not want to go to another school and start from scratch because I really don't believe in school I was begged and persuaded by my family, including her to go to university because my jamb score was insanely high that time. The thing is that all the people who stood by me then and supported me are all completely dependent on me now and I feel I'm too young for that kind of weight so I'm having a serious conflict between my conscience and common sense. I can't leave my family so that's completely out of the question.

school fees increased to 100k?? is it a federal varsity?

SGANIVA:
how you choose to live your life bro, I don't give girls money unless you are my wife neither can I sponsor any girl in any thing .am not ready to die of heart break

die
heartbreak dey kill person?

DateMynd44:
school fees increased to 100k?? is it a federal varsity?

state University

RickyE:
state University

Been there... Hustling fingers
I wouldn't say you should leave her but the truth is within you. If you truly love her, then you should sit her down and discuss bout this.
If she's understanding enough. She's not just gon keep sitting there and depend on you for everything. Bae would get something doing to support herself.
And if deep down. You not really down for her, you wanna explore and all. It's best you cut it off once and for all but on good terms.

BTW my nigga
Now that you cashing out from that
Try to invest no matter how little
Uno say no be everyday be christmas
Mtcn don hard oh

Kingosytex:
Her ex boyfriend was still helping her?


Oh boy! Remember Okafor's Law.


It is a pity!!!! The load you are carrying is really a heavy one.


Yes, you guys love each other but i wouldn't want emotions to drown rational thinking, you are a man on your own. If the load is becoming too heavy that you can't hold it any longer then let go...i don't mean you should dump her, no not at all. She can actually defer why you continue, you are in 400 level and you are almost done. She can defer, when things get better everything will be sorted out.

I keep seeing this Okafors law but don't know what it is, what is it?

ALERT07:


Been there... Hustling fingers
I wouldn't say you should leave her but the truth is within you. If you truly love her, then you should sit her down and discuss bout this.
If she's understanding enough. She's not just gon keep sitting there and depend on you for everything. Bae would get something doing to support herself.
And if deep down. You not really down for her, you wanna explore and all. It's best you cut it off once and for all but on good terms.

BTW my nigga
Now that you cashing out from that
Try to invest no matter how little
Uno say no be everyday be christmas
Mtcn don hard oh

thank you bro I really appreciate

I guess dis school of urs is AAUekpoma?

RickyE:
state University

Sammy555:


I keep seeing this Okafors law but don't know what it is, what is it?

It simply states that once you have had sex with any woman that you can have sex with her over and over again if you wish.

RickyE:
thank you bro I really appreciate

Ywlc

Kingosytex:


It simply states that once you have had sex with any woman that you can have sex with her over and over again if you wish.

Sammy555:


I keep seeing this Okafors law but don't know what it is, what is it?

lol bro it's not like that but I didn’t want to go into too much details.
Look, I am super careful. The Okafor law wasn't what happened there I'm not someone you can deceive easily. Before I allowed her that kind of access into my life I have already scanned her totally.
I bugged her phone right from day one, had access to all her calls, I mean audio files log her WhatsApp in on my phone through WhatsApp Web and she did not know for straight 3years. As in for straight 3 years I knew almost everything about her both the ones I was not told. I knew they were talking but never knew they were ex before the I was talking about. They never talked about seeing because the guy was married they just greet and ask after their respective families and maybe beg him for money. The day she went to see him I knew, that was when she confessed that they were ex.

Cocotrendz:

1000000

That's 7 figures you just quoted. Six figures should be 100,000 above.

OP, no matter how innocent or good she acts or she even think she is, but has a capable and healthy body, and her only source of income for both her self and her mom is through you, SHE IS A LEECH.

She might not actually bear in mind to come and gold dig on you or any thing of that sort. She might even have a genuine unflinching love towards you, but she is still a leech, whether she knows she is or not.

You both are from poor families, you are working your ass off poverty, and she is depending on you through poverty.

See success is not gender based, let her find something doing, atleast to augment your efforts, you can even help her with capital and ideas, if not, kick her the fvck out. She is seriously drilling your pocket.

As the Igbos will say 'Ejiro akpata Etufuo a bu ogaranya'

Translation - You can't become rich when you spend all you earn.

DateMynd44:



I wonder how people reason, he said it himself that he's from a humble background, instead of him to go for a federal university that's affordable and sponsor himself in school, the excesses left from his online business he could save it for future use and then invest in himself by setting up a business that will fetch him income, or rather set up something for his parents but
he's Rather investing in a girl that might ditch him tomorrow.
I don't know the kind of guys we have nowadays despite luvyaself95 truthsbitter and ubunja's efforts to school these guys they're Still getting weak day by day.

Exactly. Federal universities are really trying in terms of school fees. Back then I paid N14500 in one of the federal universities. 1 thousand was later added making it N15400. That's for a whole session o.

4ckz:
OP, no matter how innocent or good she acts or she even think she is, but has a capable and healthy body, and her only source of income for both her self and her mom is through you, SHE IS A LEECH.

She might not actually bear in mind to come and gold dig on you or any thing of that sort. She might even have a genuine unflinching love towards you, but she is still a leech, whether she knows she is or not.

You both are from poor families, you are working your ass off poverty, and she is depending on you through poverty.

See success is not gender based, let her find something doing, atleast to augment your efforts, you can even help her with capital and ideas, if not, kick her the fvck out. She is seriously drilling your pocket.

As the Igbos will say 'Ejiro akpata Etufuo a bu ogaranya'

Translation - You can't become rich when you spend all you earn.

thank you bro I really appreciate
This is clearly what I believe the case is

Kingosytex:


It simply states that once you have had sex with any woman that you can have sex with her over and over again if you wish.

As much as I agree with you it's not always the case, there are girls that have moral standards and self discipline, to top it, they are extremely loyal

iclef

{singing in naira marley's voice}...see me,see OP...Is HE a YAHOO BOY??

ednut1:
A girl friend should not be your priority for now. Life na step by step. The truth about this kind of girls is that they always sleep with men for money to survive. U think the ex was doing it for free Abeg free the girl let her go find a capable guy

nice one bro ,university under graduate don't know untill after graduation, u realized u just foolishly wasted ur resources for another man's wife

Xx

Kingosytex:



Millions...The Op is paying millions as tuition fees for both himself and his gf despite the fact that their families are poor...isn't that a miracle?

6 figure is 100,000 - 999,999

RickyE:
I created this account just for this purpose and I might have to deactivate it and follow this thread with with my main account just for privacy reasons. Thanks for your understanding.

I actually like this girl, we've been together for almost 4 years now, I'm in 400 level currently, I'm from a poor family to be honest and this girl's family is far worse than mine financially. She is in this university too, since she didn't have her own place to stay, we were staying together. Our school fees here is 6 figures, since my family is not good financially, I had to do some online stuffs that bring money so that I can pay my bills and assist my family.

I was completely broke when we met she used to give me little little support financially, if she had until I had my own money. I actually didn't know she didn't have anybody to support her because she lied her uncle was the one supporting her until I found out that it was her ex boyfriend who was helping her. She confessed everything and the situation with her family when I discovered they met (that happened last year) I cancelled everything but later reconsidered after thinking it through.

The major problem is that I'm paying my own fees which is in 6 figures as well as hers ( which is also 6 figures), support my family, any money I give her she sends straight to her mother, sometimes I also have to assist her mother.
I know this is not her fault but I don't think I can move forward like this, taking full care of her, supporting my family, and having to also assist her mother. So I told her to go.
I just don't understand why everybody just has to depend on me I'm not even 25 yet.
Somehow I feel really bad because we together when things started going well small small but most of my guys have really gone far but I just keep moving up and down. It's not that I'm doing badly but I just feel there's too much weight on my head, the worst part of it is that all these people are very good people I just don't know what to do.

I know some people might think I'm one of the mugus out there who sponsor girls with the hope of marrying her or someone who tries to buy a girl but I don't give girls money, I prefer giving it to a guy because I feel guys appreciate and understand better but her case is kind of different mainly because we both somehow struggled together until things got better
I don't know if I should just let her go or accept her like that

I don't know if it's a good idea to put this on front page but I'd like it to be more visible.

If what you do online is not yahoo yahoo, introduce her to it. Stop paying a girls bills it never ends well. Most ladies of nowadays are coded lesbians. Guys get sense and start reasoning well.

ok.

Kukuma tell us how rich you are.... 6 figures, you are not even 25... .Parkwell. .

Kingosytex:



Millions...The Op is paying millions as tuition fees for both himself and his gf despite the fact that their families are poor...isn't that a miracle?

big miracle I tell u

abdulazeez1002:
Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day, teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime.

Teach her your online stuffs

Exactly my thoughts

Let her go else you will suffer of heart attack in the future.
She lied to you that it was her uncle that was supporting her only for you to find out that it was her ex. Mind you, the ex was not just pushing money to her, he was also fvcking her. If she has the mind to lie to you, she would do worse later. Don't be with a woman out of pity, you may regret it later in life.

You don't have to discard her - provided that her presence in your life gives you peace of mind - instead, you need to work smarter than you have done so far. Conscientiousness doesn't invalidate altruism - just as liberty doesn't invalidate conscientiousness. She deserves your faithfulness. You don't gain peace of mind based on what the other party can give you, you gain it because such a party is true to you and to himself/herself.

She has to stop exploiting her ex though.

Ok