agbonkamen:
It's common with Nigerian men jor

Issokay:
So, I saw my husband's (I know his moniker) mobile numbers in a topic under the romance section for people to post their digits where they can be hooked with 'seriously searching ladies' .

I have been wondering why he had to do that. He's quiet kind of, usher in the church, a good father figure etc. Our marriage is 6 years.

I am really confused. Anyways I confronted him and he said he doesn't know how his numbers ended on that topic.

Still confused....time will indeed tell.

linearity:


What were you doing in the romance section?

FYI: he planted the number there in the hope of catching you. Now you have proven him right, that you have an ulterior motive in constantly visiting the romance section.

You better start confessing to him now or....time will indeed tell.

Issokay:


It's not normal. Can it be termed normal if I do this? I will be labeled a prostitute, a bad wife and mother #sad

pharrell8:

Pls not all MEN cheat, u cheat does not mean another will do d same or have a reason to do.

agbonkamen:
well I will advice you to put it in prayer but to Frank with you 99.9% men cheat I don't know why probably because men are polygamous in nature.

Goalnaldo:
you are exactly 4months old in Nairaland today. You are cute though

Hypnotism:
You are free to do whatever pleases you. Do not be bother about what people say, people will always talk, girls doing olosho understand this n that didn’t stop them from doing it. If you chose to join the train it is not a crime under Nigeria law so go ahead n suit yourself.

Your husband may as well know only useless men do what he did, he understand the motive n consequences n still went ahead so you can also go the same route. As for me I am tired of seeing married woman who crave for extramarital affair wail daily on NL, if the craving is strong enough for you, dam the consequences n exploit it.

Any married man or woman should have enough self motivation within his or her self to be virtuous or otherwise, after all there are singles that chose celibate not because of any husband or wife, so if you desire to fucq around you do not necessarily need to have your husband as an alibi. Just dam the consequences n fucq around, your husband might just be doing it, you never know.

LillyVal:
This was the advice given to a close friend of mine by her granny when she came in during the bridal showers, " MEN WILL ALWAYS CHEAT" "KEEP YOUR HOME AT PEACE"

Issokay:
So, I saw my husband's (I know his moniker) mobile numbers in a topic under the romance section for people to post their digits where they can be hooked with 'seriously searching ladies' .

I have been wondering why he had to do that. He's quiet kind of, usher in the church, a good father figure etc. Our marriage is 6 years.

I am really confused. Anyways I confronted him and he said he doesn't know how his numbers ended on that topic.

Still confused....time will indeed tell.

Celestial777:



You don sabi us finish

drealcivilceno:

Baba, talk for yourself there abeg... Plant the right seeds and you will get the right harvest but with women na lie...

LillyVal:

Are you still? She should fucq. God this forum is made of mad men.

Fountainofyouth:
Plenty stupidity on display here, some are justifying cheating by men, nonsense

EmmySparky:
african mentality... Read up on tiger woods and learn... In a sane country that actually got laws bro u would loose almost everything... Find out what happened to eboue... Just to mention a few

LillyVal:

Are you still? She should fucq. God this forum is made of mad men.

EmmySparky:
african mentality... Read up on tiger woods and learn... In a sane country that actually got laws bro u would loose almost everything... Find out what happened to eboue... Just to mention a few

olutunde12:




No man here can tell me doesn't cheat one way or the other.

olutunde12:




No man here can tell me doesn't cheat one way or the other.

Issokay:
So, I saw my husband's (I know his moniker) mobile numbers in a topic under the romance section for people to post their digits where they can be hooked with 'seriously searching ladies' .

I have been wondering why he had to do that. He's quiet kind of, usher in the church, a good father figure etc. Our marriage is 6 years.

I am really confused. Anyways I confronted him and he said he doesn't know how his numbers ended on that topic.

Still confused....time will indeed tell.

olutunde12:



No man here can tell me doesn't cheat one way or the other.

J111333:
Give a man money, you'll see his real character and give woman a position of authority, she'll show her hidden character.
Mr. Man, I can smell your type from the distance. All it takes for you to get a sidechick is a huge wallet and some level of exposure trust me.

culf:



why not have a heart to heart with him to discussion it, it might not be what you're thinking.

pharrell8:

Lols, if dats wat u see ursef as cos I know mysef too well even if I'm too rich I can't still and would NEVER CHEAT..

DrObiHogan:


Before u start asking questions, find out what you're doing wrong first.

cooooooks:
It's not normal but he may never act on these things. It might be a fantasy that he'll never go through with.

Is he satisfied sexually in the marriage? Are YOU satisfied sexually as well?

How did you find out? Were you snooping? Regardless, talk to him about it. Tell him you found this and you're not happy about it. This is an opportunity for you guys to be closer and have less secrets.

Is he also watching porn? Because he might have some fantasies that he believes are "beneath" you but which might continue to cause him to seek elsewhere.

Godsfavour78:
WHAT WAS SHE DOING ON THAT THREAD?

ARE YOU SURE SHE WASN'T LOOKING FOR HOOKUPS LIKE HER HUBBY TOO.

joe4christ:


You just dont get it, do you? I wish u will understand.
There are written and unwritten laws. The Men's code is incripted in our DNA.
A real man cheats, otherwise he's a sissy. It might not settle down well with you, but u just have to accept it that way or u remain single. Men are naturally designed to dominate and lead, while u ladies are designed to be led and submissive to your man. A man can only respect you and your feelings enough not to rub his cheating nature to your face. Thats him being considerate about your feelings.
Your focus should rather be centered on you building a peaceful home where your man can come back to and feel relaxed so another woman doesn't capitalize on and snatch him and his affection off you.
This is why the rate of divorce in this 21st century is so alarming. Cos u ladies wanna form equal right with a man. Well, u can as well remain single for all we care, there's already too many women already single and ready to mingle. Our problem now is choosing who best suits us.

So, deal with it my lady!

Artzdanielsz:
she was there to collect number and saws her husband number.both are cheat