KevinDein:

Not an ounce of sympathy for those simps over there in the US and the west in general. Motherfukkers handed their balls to their women and now even dogs and cats have more rights than them. They should live with it.

AreaFada2:
Once a marriage crashes and the woman has custody of the kids, in over 90% of cases the kids will never have a balanced view of their dad.

If all your kids are girls, very sorry. Most girls will empathize with their mother only. Demonisation of father goes into full swing. Especially if mother says their dad cheated or abused her physically. Mostly if the kids were too young to remember anything from time together. At least more boys will seek to know dad better.

Very useful piece here.

Ishilove:

If you consider ubunja's brand of psychosis 'wisdom', then I pray that God open your eyes to what wisdom truly is

Martinez39:
Keep spreading lies and misrepresentating facts. Those that live in the US know better, I don't have your time. Ever wondered why the MGTOW movement started in western developed countries not Islamic or African countries? What is saving Nigerian men is that 99.99% of our top politicians are men and they are tenaciously holding on to power. Also our police force and judicial system are not too rapid and effective. If not, all the beta boys in Nigeria who are still putting girls on the pedestal will see red.

Martinez39:
Our politicians are patriarchal unlike the beta simps in the US. Trump, the great white hope, is one of the few alphas in the US. Good day.

Martinez39:
Our politicians are patriarchal unlike the beta simps in the US. Trump, the great white hope, is one of the few alphas in the US. Good day.

Martinez39:
Ubunja is a wise man. If you love your son, pray that your son becomes like ubunja.

Martinez39:
Indeed I have no time for her. I won't stoop so low. There is a level below which someone's IQ would fall that I can't be bothered to acknowledge their existence.

#GLYCOLYSISS

Martinez39:
Ubunja is a wise man. If you love your son, pray that your son becomes like ubunja.

Ishilove:

Like I said, let God open your understanding so you can differentiate between the ravings of a psychologically disturbed person and godly wisdom.

Anyway, the followers of Jim Jones thought he was the wisest man on Earth. Why, even Hitler's Mein Kampf was a bestseller in Germany in the 1930s so I am not surprised at your adoration of ubunja's steaming piles of horse shit.

Martinez39:
Followers of Jim Jones were pure !diots. Followers of Hitler were dull sheeples. Don't compare those two men with ubunja. What next? Are you going to compare him with Stalin?

Any smart man that follows ubunja can't miss road. I will be creating more hot topics, please make sure they get to frontpage. You know I have to help many that are asleep.

Fountainofyouth:



Not like you? What an asślicker, ubunja a baby father, still looking for sex from virgins to turn to baby mamas, I do not wish any child his fate.

Ishilove:

That's exactly what a deluded and corrupted follower will say. My leader is better than your leader.

Smh.

Ishilove:

It's quite shocking that people are actually taking the words of a mysoginistic, male chauvinistic ego maniac at face value. It makes me wonder about their relationship with their female relatives.

Do you know the amazing thing, these people aren't married and a large percentage of them don't have children, yet they come online to proudly spew ignorant drivel.

Proclaiming themselves wise, they have fallen into deep folly

Martinez39:
Ubunja is not some cult leader and I am not a cult follower. Ubunja brings facts and when I analyse it, I observe that he is on point. So far, he has been factual and consistent. Any man that follows ubunja cannot miss his way.

Fountainofyouth:


And you know the funny thing, this same Martinez39 proclaimed he would never have sex and get married in his life, so why is he seriously pressed about women generally? It beats me, if you want to live the rest of your life lonely and then die, good for you, why manipulating people to be like you? Later they will say we are the most manipulative, lol, funny thing is the nuisances supporting his chauvinistic ramble, will get married, and still behave like the typical negligent African father, lol.

1Sharon:


Lool..I disagree with this. Its boys that empathise with the mums more, whereas the girls wont succumb the mothers brainwashing.

Its nature. The boys protect the women/mothers and the dads protect the girls.

Some men admit they do prefer female children.

When men are faced with another man that's someone they can fight and antagonize but women are less of a threat

AreaFada2:


My dear, I am talking from what I have seen korokoro many times.

If the man was truly abusive and the kids witnessed it, sure boys might even fight their dad.

But where no kids have any first hand experience of the alleged "evil" of their dad, boys go out more to find their dad later. I stated it in my post. Despite their mother's brainwash. I love it when people get repaid in their own coins.

In any case once the girls marry and follow their men, they hardly care.

I remember one case close to home. A man sent his wife to further her education after they had several kids. It was her dream to finally get the education she missed out on due to poor economic background.

Upon getting her degree she moved out to live with another man. All the daughters went with her. Only the boy refused to follow. Her relatives and in-laws were stunned. She could not explain why she was leaving. They advised her to stay but no way. A few years later the new lover kicked her out. She begged to return to first hubby but no way. All her daughters have failed marriages now too. Only the boy is happily married.

Ishilove:

It's quite shocking that people are actually taking the words of a mysoginistic, male chauvinistic ego maniac at face value. It makes me wonder about their relationship with their female relatives.

Do you know the amazing thing, these people aren't married and a large percentage of them don't have children, yet they come online to proudly spew ignorant drivel.

Proclaiming themselves wise, they have fallen into deep folly (they have become fools). Romans 1 vs 22.

ImaIma1:


What you should know is that these guys are all bark and no bite. All they can do is insult and belittle women behind their devices...that's probably the only thing that makes their existence worthwhile...women that they cannot ordinarily approach in real life. Insulting women here fills the void in them and makes them feel important online.

You'll understand how lame and shallow they are with the way they follow someone blindly without thinking for themselves because it makes them feel like a part of something. They don't actually realize that they are victims of the same brainwashing that they are talking about.

Don't them too seriously. They will get wiser with age.

SweetyMarvel00:
This is very good article that's helpful to the research I am doing abt kids. Please OP permit me.

bukatyne:


Did any of these fathers reach out to the children? If they are divorced, did they fight fir custody?

If no, they are just like financial sperm donors.

I entered Uber a while back and the driver was arguing bitterly with his ex-wife/baby mama.

According to him, he didn't care if she slept with all the men in town however, she must ensure that his son was available to him every Sunday for some hours.

In his words, he wanted to take his out, feel him, make him know that he has a father.

Now, that is a father.

In those weekly visits though not enough, the father & son would bond and no mother would be able to impress otherwise to the son.

If a father understands what it means to be a father, no man would claim his ex/wife turned the children against him.

nams77:

Shows you really don't understand how the minds of children work nor the devilish nature some women. The mind of a child is like a sponge, it soaks up informations, store them and act on them later.

My dear if i say most women are devilish in this regards, i mean it and it is true. Immediately a man brokes up with his woman, that loving, caring husband becomes a devil that has never provided a dime for his family.

I have seen, in close quarter, happen again and again. Like one of the case i mentioned above, the man requested taking the child abroad to better his lot. The lady refused, insisting that thats the only child and can't bear to be apart from him( kinda agree with her a bit at that age, 6). The boy is 14 now and lives with the mother. His school fees is like a clock work that never fails.

I am not saying there are no lousy fathers. There definitely are. But we should take most of these ranting from unhappy single mum with a pinch of salt.

Time will not permit me to give you several examples.

In all these cases, i only know of one bum? who left his wife when she was 8 months pregnant ( lady said so, couldn't verify). Her family wants her to reconcile with the man.
But the woman mouth sha na razor blade o

Martinez39:
Hopefully, many will start to ask questions about their "deadbeat" fathers. Seun and Co are fond of not taking good topics to front-page. The FSM will judge them.

realtalk19:
How about violent men and men who is not responsible for the child's welfare and believes the mother shuld be the one to take up his responsibility while he squanders his money on irrrelivant things.

Will he be bold enough to to admit he wasn't responsible and couldn't take care of them like a father should?

Will he admit he was violent and irresponsible by always beating up the child's mother who eventually had to leave the marriage for the safety of hersslf and child?

izzou:

You talked about women hiding the contacts of their kids from their fathers. How do you observe such without being inside?

You talked about women poisoning the minds of their kids..

You talked...... Let me just stop here. It's possible you've forgotten all what you typed

Have a nice life. This thread would have made sense if it actually happened to you.

But then, your mum is a real woman. Isn't she?

liberalchick:
Well, for your one anecdote, I can raise you five of mine. I also have my own stories of fathers badmouthing their wives in front of their kids. No gender has a corner on parental alienation. The lesson here is adults should keep their drama to themselves and leave the kids out of it.

CeterisXVII:


I no fit laugh again....e don do, abeg!

RIP dad.


Tears once more

Not because he was fully badmouthed but because I didn't see the whole picture soon enough.

5am off to work 11pm back home Mondays to Saturdays. Sleeps off most of Sundays after church to recoup the lost energy from the deadly weekdays.

Died of HBP/Stroke because the man never rested and was less celebrated!

Tears men.

Men should learn how to cry, you will add more life to your life in the process.

And then he blames his mum for it.

I think his mum's offence was that she refused his dad from carrying him to work from 5am to 11pm everyday.

Let me keep enjoying the thread from a distance

Fountainofyouth:



Going by this motion, let's say you're right, what of in this era where everyone, men and women, are allowed to vote, and most men, for example, most northern MEN, are always brainwashed to vote based on free stuffs and more promises cos they are emotional, without using their intellect and logical reasoning,

Martinez39:
Ubunja is a wise man. If you love your son, pray that your son becomes like ubunja & CAPSLOCKED

Martinez39:
Any man in the US that gets married is a fool. Rationality forbids that any soul sympathises with him.

TheEminentLaity:
When are women going to call out mothers that got children off ho-ing. Many mothers have children from fully committed men, whom they were full aware of the man's status before they continued on with their affair. How many women give birth to children because they want to tie a man down? there is even one on the front page. What do you think these 'angelic' women tell their children when the kids ask about their absentee fathers?

that I was a bïtch and I just had to fück him to have you Junior. I thought he would've stayed??

but No. Davido certainly would be a deadbeat to some of his kids, Wizkid too and the rest. Thank God for the internet exposing these lying bïtches everyday.

If your dad is a deadbeat, employ your senses and check very well. You mum might have had you when she was ho-ing Hurts, but c'est la vie. Höes love their children too and also lie to them to look like the 'supermom', 'strongwoman' and all the other superlatives they keep coming up with to their children to make the dad the villian.