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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by ImaIma1(f): 10:13pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
exactly


my own is what exactly are they expecting as an answer?


They want her to start listing her skills, reciting her profile and personal objectives.
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by ImaIma1(f): 10:15pm On Sep 11
Tendency86:


Hmmm! My love my love, how could you say that?


But it's true na. The guys that ask...how many girls have they deflowered?
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by LINTUNE(m): 10:18pm On Sep 11
MariaLavina:
Not surprised you didn't know, lol you will never hear them ask this question offline but on Nl? they rant it like hallelujah chorus.Only on Nl do guys want an independent lady. grin
leach spoted.. Change ur mentality.. lipsrsealed

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by y3mi(m): 1:18am On Sep 12
pocohantas:
It means; WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO OFFER?

I have never been asked such in person. I would never ask such in person.

Asking this question implies that you are not seeing the qualities you desire in the other person. So, they would have to "market" themselves. This could portray me as undiscerning or downright condescending.

I believe from asking sensible questions, not the "what are you wearing?" kinda question. You can tell a lot about a person's values- by extension, what they can offer.
What does Pocahontas got to offer me on bed, besides the obvious that got me attracted. Scalping ? Savagery? Reverse-cow ride?
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by perousd: 1:44am On Sep 12
I guess this OPo is just showing how much wisdom she has by asking such � question. Wawu. Your Royal � brain.

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by trilobite: 1:51am On Sep 12
funmisticqueen2:
And you asked a woman what she us bringing, didn't you know what you were looking for?

What were you going to bring to the table?

Most men who ask already know what they're looking for. He asked, and didn't get an answer.

In my case anytime I ask the only answer I get is sex. I will dress sexy for him, he will never get tired etc.
In my case women, I keep meeting women who don't know how look at themselves.

I know my qualities, my faults, my goals and aspirations, what are yours? Sex? Kids? Seriously?!!

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by trilobite: 2:02am On Sep 12
One thing women should know is most men don't ask this question formally, the question usually gets broken down into a series of questions in the course of any friendship or relationship.

It is the reason why a guy who would call, text, take walks with you just stopped all of a sudden (you guys didn't have sex), because he didn't like your answer and has found someone who gave him his expected answer.

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by femi4: 6:26am On Sep 12
funmisticqueen2:
when you ask a woman this question, What are you bringing to the table?, some of you add this 'apart from your kitty'.

what does the question mean?
what table are you talking about?
have you asked a female this question in real life?
If you have, could you please share your answer with us,

Many thanks in anticipation of your responses.

No trolling, no war or the sexes or body/money shaming allowed.

let's go
The table refers to the relationship. Guys want woman to support the relationship financially too.

Men are bringing in emotional, financial and sexual support but most Nigerian girls are only good in contributing sexually to relationship. They should be able to offer more

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by themaestro08: 6:51am On Sep 12
When you mention Jeff bezos ex-wife then I realize where you are heading to. You are silly. Tons of answers and clues giving and you are still showing how clownish you are.

Beside the only way a guy would ask a lady that question is if he is generally unsatisfied and skeptical about the value she is adding to the relationship, especially if she is a leech with a sense of entitlement. And the only thing she offer is her punany.in essence she takes way than she gives.

But to be honest its a condescending question and its better not asked.

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by BabbanBura(m): 7:13am On Sep 12
pocohantas:
It means; WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO OFFER?

I have never been asked such in person. I would never ask such in person.

Asking this question implies that you are not seeing the qualities you desire in the other person. So, they would have to "market" themselves. This could portray me as undiscerning or downright condescending.

I believe from asking sensible questions, not the "what are you wearing?" kinda question. You can tell a lot about a person's values- by extension, what they can offer.

Ya head dey work woo, may be wen u wan use am!

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by Liposure: 7:38am On Sep 12
funmisticqueen2:
when you ask a woman this question, What are you bringing to the table?, some of you add this 'apart from your kitty'.

what does the question mean?
what table are you talking about?
have you asked a female this question in real life?
If you have, could you please share your answer with us,

Many thanks in anticipation of your responses.

No trolling, no war or the sexes or body/money shaming allowed.

let's go
girls are more than just object of mere satisfaction

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 7:50am On Sep 12
femi4:
The table refers to the relationship. Guys want woman to support the relationship financially too.

Men are bringing in emotional, financial and sexual support but most Nigerian girls are only good in contributing sexually to relationship. They should be able to offer more
i think you have both men and women confused. you may be going through a sexual identity crisis.
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 7:51am On Sep 12
trilobite:
One thing women should know is most men don't ask this question formally, the question usually gets broken down into a series of questions in the course of any friendship or relationship.

It is the reason why a guy who would call, text, take walks with you just stopped all of a sudden (you guys didn't have sex), because he didn't like your answer and has found someone who gave him his expected answer.
what answer is he looking for? that is what I have been asking that a lot of guys refuse to answer.
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 7:58am On Sep 12
trilobite:


Most men who ask already know what they're looking for. He asked, and didn't get an answer.

In my case anytime I ask the only answer I get is sex. I will dress sexy for him, he will never get tired etc.
In my case women, I keep meeting women who don't know how look at themselves.

I know my qualities, my faults, my goals and aspirations, what are yours? Sex? Kids? Seriously?!!
i disagree with your first statement, most men don't know the answer they are looking for, cos i have been asking what answers these men have been expecting and they refuse to answer or want to start arguments to me.
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by femi4: 8:05am On Sep 12
funmisticqueen2:
i think you have both men and women confused. you may be going through a sexual identity crisis.
I wrote many things there apart from the sexuality part but you chose to hold on to only that part

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by AntiBrutus: 10:44am On Sep 12
funmisticqueen2:
i disagree with your first statement, most men don't know the answer they are looking for, cos i have been asking what answers these men have been expecting and they refuse to answer or want to start arguments to me.

Yes you are very correct too. Most of the ones who ask that question on Nairaland (at least) are just airheads trying to form coordinated. Every answer you give them, they will still find a way to trash talk it. Ask them what exactly they want on a different day and they will still say the same things a lady said before (that was trash talked).

A man who knows what he wants, knows the kind of place or woman to find it in. He won't go about asking silly questions.
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by durubennie(m): 10:46am On Sep 12
funmisticqueen2:
when you ask a woman this question, What are you bringing to the table?, some of you add this 'apart from your kitty'.

what does the question mean?
what table are you talking about?
have you asked a female this question in real life?
If you have, could you please share your answer with us,

Many thanks in anticipation of your responses.

No trolling, no war or the sexes or body/money shaming allowed.

let's go
A guy on nairaland said Nigerian ladies are dumb.. it might not be a lie after all

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by trilobite: 10:48am On Sep 12
funmisticqueen2:
i disagree with your first statement, most men don't know the answer they are looking for, cos i have been asking what answers these men have been expecting and they refuse to answer or want to start arguments to me.

The problem us you're taking a formal approach to this. It is not an exam or job interview. The answer to this question differs for each man.

While one man may be looking for a woman who offers sound financial management, another may be looking for a woman who offers an ability to care and be a shoulder to lean on etc.

It differs.
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by Xxx123xxx: 2:57pm On Sep 12
Tela101:
Can you guys list the kind of things you want a lady to bring to the table
..the same thing a woman wants like she should have money,be funny and fun to be with yadayada...

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by Nobody: 6:38pm On Sep 12
LINTUNE:
leach spoted.. Change ur mentality.. lipsrsealed
See dimples, cheesy boy, lemme LEECH on that dimples of yours wink
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by LINTUNE(m): 6:55pm On Sep 12
shocked tongue
MariaLavina:
See dimples, cheesy boy, lemme LEECH on that dimples of yours wink
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by Nobody: 6:57pm On Sep 12
LINTUNE:
shocked tongue
See him, grin Dude let me cause this confusion on your dimples grin
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by LINTUNE(m): 7:12pm On Sep 12
MariaLavina:
See him, grin
Dude let me cause this confusion on your dimples grin
cool.. That would be nice.. Are u up to the task wink
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by Nobody: 7:15pm On Sep 12
LINTUNE:
cool.. That would be nice.. Are u up to the task wink
Lol I will get back to you on that grin
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by LINTUNE(m): 7:17pm On Sep 12
grin wink
MariaLavina:
Lol I will get back to you on that grin
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by Tela101: 8:22pm On Sep 12
Xxx123xxx:
..the same thing a woman wants like she should have money,be funny and fun to be with yadayada...

I will have my own money before I even think of being in a relationship in the first place, because I want my man to treat me like an asset not a liability

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 9:08am On Sep 15
y3mi:
What does Pocahontas got to offer me on bed, besides the obvious that got me attracted. Scalping ? Savagery? Reverse-cow ride?
seriously?!
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 9:10am On Sep 15
Tela101:


I will have my own money before I even think of being in a relationship in the first place, because I want my man to treat me like an asset not a liability
while that is good. be weary of men who will use that she has her own money excuse to slack off in their relationship.

Sis, as a woman, you cannot afford to flaunt that independence stuff.

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 9:11am On Sep 15
durubennie:

A guy on nairaland said Nigerian ladies are dumb.. it might not be a lie after all
A woman also said all guys are apes with assholes. if might also not be a lie
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by Modernist: 9:23am On Sep 15
Only ladies who have nothing to offer, see this question as insulting. Always a liability
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by Tela101: 9:28am On Sep 15
funmisticqueen2:
while that is good. be weary of men who will use that she has her own money excuse to slack off in their relationship.

Sis, as a woman, you cannot afford to flaunt that independence stuff.

You are right though, thanks

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by DrHoganObi: 9:33am On Sep 15
Tela101:


I will have my own money before I even think of being in a relationship in the first place, because I want my man to treat me like an asset not a liability

Brilliant.

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