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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:27pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
do you mean this table?

Women acting like they suddenly don't understand English.....

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by niaralandtopuser(m): 7:34pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
i disagree with your statement,do people in relationship share underwear?
Depending on what you mean by underwear. I have date girls who used male boxers.
You should share as much as you can
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 7:41pm On Sep 11
MrBrownJay1:

Women acting like they suddenly don't understand English.....



show us the table you want a lady to bring something to na?
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 7:42pm On Sep 11
niaralandtopuser:

Depending on what you mean by underwear. I have date girls who used male boxers.
You should share as much as you can
any lady shared your boxers before.? since you are meant to share everything in a relationship
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by niaralandtopuser(m): 7:45pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
any lady shared your boxers before.? since you are meant to share everything in a relationship
borrowed them but I don't take them back . I Don't share boxers with anyone
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by Sachidi: 7:47pm On Sep 11
Do not expect anyone to ask you such a question because it's unfriendly. It's a question to ask yourself. Some relationship will die a natural death if the guy stop calling.

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:52pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
show us the table you want a lady to bring something to na?

Let's pretend you were clueless and I had to explain this to you like a 2 yrs old:

The TABLE is the r/ship, and unless you bring something worthy that will BENEFIT this r/ ship, then you are rightfully useless to that said r/ship

Remember, coochie comes a dime a dozen.

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 8:00pm On Sep 11
MrBrownJay1:


Let's pretend you were clueless and I had to explain this to you like a 2 yrs old:

The TABLE is the r/ship, and unless you bring something worthy that will BENEFIT this r/ ship, then you are rightfully useless to that said r/ship

Remember, coochie comes a dime a dozen.
then go to the other dime a dozen coochies. i don't bring myself to crowded tables
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 8:01pm On Sep 11
niaralandtopuser:

borrowed them but I don't take them back . I Don't share boxers with anyone
let me quote you "you are supposed to share everything in a relationship". So have you worn a ladies panties before
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:02pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
then go to the other dime a dozen coochies. i don't bring myself to crowded tables

...and that's what most men do with useless women who bring nothing beneficial to their relationship.

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by niaralandtopuser(m): 8:05pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
let me quote you "you are supposed to share everything in a relationship". So have you worn a ladies panties before
my partner should share with me if I need to use them.
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 8:05pm On Sep 11
MrBrownJay1:


...and that's what most men do with useless women who bring nothing beneficial to their relationship.
if a man keeps meeting useless women with a dime a dozen coochie(since that is all he wants), doesn't it mean he is also useless? after all birds of a feather flock together. what fellowship hath light with darkness?
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by Tela101: 8:06pm On Sep 11
Can you guys list the kind of things you want a lady to bring to the table
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 8:06pm On Sep 11
niaralandtopuser:

my partner should share with me if I need to use them.
so you are lowkey gay. Noted
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 8:08pm On Sep 11
Tela101:
Can you guys list the kind of things you want a lady to bring to the table
That is what i have been asking since that they have all been dodging to answer
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by niaralandtopuser(m): 8:09pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
let me quote you "you are supposed to share everything in a relationship". So have you worn a ladies panties before
whether you boyfriend has a real table or he uses a bucket as table, just bring something to it. a table is a table
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by Tenny05(m): 8:10pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
do you mean this table?
Table na table grin grin
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by niaralandtopuser(m): 8:10pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
so you are lowkey gay. Noted
I can become whatever I want to become

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by Tela101: 8:10pm On Sep 11
niaralandtopuser:

whether you boyfriend has a real table or he uses a bucket as table, just bring something to it. a table is a table

can you give an example of what you will want her to bring
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by niaralandtopuser(m): 8:11pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
That is what i have been asking since that they have all been dodging to answer
you can get him a table to begin with if he is among those with no table
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by mariobalotelli09: 8:12pm On Sep 11
Even though alot of ladies deserve to be asked this question, a smart guy should be able to know the category of lady he is hanging out with by having an intelligent conversation. Guys when you see a pretty lady and ur about falling for her simply ask her this question. What is the role of a lady in a relationship? Whatever answer she gives you is what ur gonna see. If its vague, hmmmmmmm...... If it's prayer and advice tell her ur mama dey pray for u everyday �

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:12pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
if a man keeps meeting useless women, doesn't it mean he is also useless?

ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!!
You can only know what a woman will bring to the table, after dating her for a while (unless you have a crystal ball). A good man will attract ALL women...the good, the bad and the useless ones included, because a good man is what ALL women desire.

After all birds of a feather flock together. what fellowship hath light with darkness?

If that was the case then all good women would find good men and therefore, good men wouldn't end up with useless women with nothing to bring to the table.


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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by niaralandtopuser(m): 8:13pm On Sep 11
Tela101:

can you give an example of what you will want her to bring
I heard some guys don't even own a table so you can start by getting him a table
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 8:13pm On Sep 11
niaralandtopuser:

you can get him a table to begin with if he is among those with no table
why should i get a table for someone who clearly doesn't have one or know what to do with one? i am not his mummy, and i cannot build a bum.
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 8:15pm On Sep 11
Tela101:


can you give an example of what you will want her to bring
a bucket is not a table, floor is not a table, hand to mouth is not a table.
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by DocH: 8:15pm On Sep 11
This question is irrelevant as a matter of fact in dating. It can only make sense when you both are getting married and by then u figure it out and u don't ask. As a young man like me doing two jobs with a blossoming career earning 7 figures in two months my interest in someone I want to marry is where exactly do u see yourself in say a decade to come. Its not how much u earn or what you do. Whatever u have or do when we met is ur own seed for the future just as I have mine. If u have none then we can't play. If I find what you have interesting for instance a career in medicine or nursing I can now come in and say OK here's what I want u to bring into our family as we live as man and wife and together we build on that. I'm not interested in how much u earn when I'm dating u its meaningless all I want is a prospect. A hot prospect.

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by niaralandtopuser(m): 8:15pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
why should i get a table for someone who clearly doesn't have one or know what to do with one? i am not his mummy, and i cannot build a bum.
which table will you then bring whatever you have to offer?
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 8:18pm On Sep 11
mariobalotelli09:
Even though alot of ladies deserve to be asked this question, a smart guy should be able to know the category of lady he is hanging out with by having an intelligent conversation. Guys when you see a pretty lady and ur about falling for her simply ask her this question. What is the role of a lady in a relationship? Whatever answer she gives you is what ur gonna see. If its vague, hmmmmmmm...... If it's prayer and advice tell her ur mama dey pray for u everyday �
ladies do not deserve to be asjed this question. Relationship is not potluck. if you dont know what you are looking for then you've no business in a relationship
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by princeking2(m): 8:20pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
when you ask a woman this question, What are you bringing to the table?, some of you add this 'apart from your kitty'.

what does the question mean?
what table are you talking about?
have you asked a female this question in real life?
If you have, could you please share your answer with us,

Many thanks in anticipation of your responses.

No trolling, no war or the sexes or body/money shaming allowed.

let's go

Let me attempt to answer your question as a guy.
It means, what use is the woman going to be apart from sex. It could be financially, background, career or family.

Most men of the middle class ask such questions. The upper class men rarely do, because they meet ladies at that level. While the low class men don't even ask at all. They can feel intimidated if she's better than them anyways.

On the other hand, a man will ask a lady that question only if he has concluded that the lady is contributing or will contribute NOTHING to his life or the relationship they both share.

When a woman is productive, that question dies permanently.
But if she's a liability, the question will become a chorus of mockery.

In reality, men discuss what the lady will "bring to the table" only with their fellow men.
At this point of discussion, they will x-ray the importance of the girl and pass the verdict.

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 8:20pm On Sep 11
niaralandtopuser:

which table will you then bring whatever you have to offer?
I am not bringing any table, when my father in heaven has already prepared a table for me in the midst of mine enemies, he annionted my head with oil, and my cup runneth over.

Which pakoloko table can you bring that is better than than that one.
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by Tela101: 8:21pm On Sep 11
niaralandtopuser:

I heard some guys don't even own a table so you can start by getting him a table

Okay
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 8:22pm On Sep 11
princeking2:


Let me attempt to answer your question as a guy.
To be honest, a man will ask a lady that question only if he has concluded that the lady is contributing or will contribute NOTHING to his life or the relationship they both share.

When a woman is productive, that question dies permanently.
But if she's a liability, the question will become a chorus of mockery.

In reality, men discuss what the lady will "bring to the table" only with their fellow men.
At this point of discussion, they will x-ray the importance of the girl and pass the verdict.
you just butressed my point that the question when asked to a lady is an insult.

so now, what do men expect ladies to bring to this table except for their coochie of course.

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