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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 8:25pm On Sep 11
MrBrownJay1:


ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!!
You can only know what a woman will bring to the table, after dating her for a while (unless you have a crystal ball). A good man will attract ALL women...the good, the bad and the useless ones included, because a good man is what ALL women desire.



If that was the case then all good women would find good men and therefore, good men wouldn't end up with useless women with nothing to bring to the table.


if i tell you i know what a man is bringing to the table in just two dates, would you believe me?
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by Darevofpeace(m): 8:27pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
since you have decided to answer questions with questions, what answers are you expecting from a woman you ask this question? Have you asked lady this question in real life before.
Not for once have I ever asked a lady this question anyways.
As for me,watching you from a far distant in 4D would make me to observe the way you treat the elders,little children and the less privilege.
After a lady had passed these 3stages for at least 6months,I would warm up to her.
Personally,I am goals crazy,I do call up my friends to check out some of there short and long term goal.
If you are not the type of human who is future oriented, I would not be your friend.
Not all guys who asked a Lady this question got sex in mind.
Naija relationship seems overly emphasized, hangouts,talks,chats,sex,cinemas, mini drama,sleep over.
All these would make the partners boring soon.
Maybe,destiny seems calling, a lot of singles are already discovering there true calling and purpose in life,making so many singles.
Check out my article on 'Steps to a fulfilling relationship 'at the romance session today using my username.

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by niaralandtopuser(m): 8:28pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
I am not bringing any table, when my father in heaven has already prepared a table for me in the midst of mine enemies, he annionted my head with oil, and my cup runneth over.

Which pakoloko table can you bring that is better than than that one.
so you want to be table less on Earth because one is being prepared for you in heaven?
The table is not meant for you though. It should be gifted to him if he has no table. First help him acquire a table before thinking about what you will bring to that table. Getting a table is the first step

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 8:28pm On Sep 11
Tenny05:
Table na table grin grin
that table is a health hazard, and can kill somebody, better to stand abeg
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by niaralandtopuser(m): 8:30pm On Sep 11
Tela101:


Okay
I need to know if you are a feminist like me before telling you what you bring to the table you helped bought
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 8:30pm On Sep 11
niaralandtopuser:
so you want to be table less on Earth because one is being prepared for you in heaven?
The table is not meant for you though. It should be gifted to him if he has no table. First help him acquire a table before thinking about what you will bring to that table. Getting a table is the first step
that verse didn't say the table is in heaven, or are my enemies in heaven. that table is right here on earth.

it is not my place to acquire a GROWN ASS MAN, a table, i am neither his mummy nor his sugar mummy
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by princeking2(m): 8:31pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
you just butressed my point that the question when asked to a lady is an insult.

so now, what do men expect ladies to bring to this table except for their coochie of course.

Well, the truth is that serious men won't ask you that question. The question is retheorical. This means, the man will only ask himself that question. And if you have no value to add, he will quietly withdrawal from the relationship.

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by niaralandtopuser(m): 8:33pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
that verse didn't say the table is in heaven, or are my enemies in heaven. that table is right here on earth.

it is not my place to acquire a GROWN ASS MAN, a table, i am neither his mummy nor his sugar mummy
where will you know keep the stuff that you planned on bringing? I thought you asked what you can bring to the table?
or are you planning to share your God given table with him?
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 8:33pm On Sep 11
princeking2:


Well, the truth is that serious men won't ask you that question. The question is retheorical. This means, the man will only ask himself that question. And if you have no value to add, he will quietly withdrawal from the relationship.
Your first statement is all the confirmation i needed.
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:34pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
if i tell you i know what a man is bringing to the table in just two dates, would you believe me?

It does NOT matter to the issue at hand...does it?
The issue IS: a man asking a woman what she is bringing to the table.... obviously because after God knows how many dates, this individual didn't see anything valuable (to the R/ship) that she brought to the table
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by princeking2(m): 8:35pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
Your first statement is all the confirmation i needed.

Make sure you are bringing something to the table oo.
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 8:36pm On Sep 11
niaralandtopuser:

where will you know keep the stuff that you planned on bringing? I thought you asked what you can bring to the table?
i never said i planned on bringing any stuff to any table. i also never asked what i will bring to a table.

i asked men why they ask women what women bring to the table. i also asked them what they expect as an answer to such a question.
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 8:37pm On Sep 11
princeking2:


Make sure you are bringing something to the table oo.
like what? a bottle of wine for the potluck?
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by princeking2(m): 8:39pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
like what? a bottle of vodka for the potluck?

How about a money making idea undecided
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 8:40pm On Sep 11
MrBrownJay1:


It does NOT matter to the issue at hand...does it?
The issue IS: a man asking a woman what she is bringing to the table.... obviously because after God knows how many dates, this individual didn't see anything valuable (to the R/ship) that she brought to the table
so oga, back to my main question, what were you expecting her to bring to the table
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 8:42pm On Sep 11
princeking2:


How about a money making idea undecided
yahoo yahoo and ponzi schemes are money making ideas. besides since relationship is now potluck, what is a man bringing. to this table
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by Korllami007: 8:42pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
i never said i planned on bringing any stuff to any table. i also never asked what i will bring to a table.

i asked men why they ask women what women bring to the table. i also asked them what they expect as an answer to such a question.


Have any of your admirers asked you this question? Because no guy will ask you this question but they will be observing.
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:42pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
so ova, back to my main question, what were you expecting her to bring to the table

Something beneficial to the r/ship....
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by princeking2(m): 8:45pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
yahoo yahoo and ponzi schemes are money making ideas. besides since relationship is now potluck, what is a man bringing. to this table

If I tell you then I'd charge you just $1,000.

Do we have a deal??
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 8:46pm On Sep 11
Korllami007:


Have any of your admirers asked you this question? Because no guy will ask you this question but they will be observing.
One did,a long time ago, but he was an unserious person and was angry because I refused to sleep with him after making attempts. so he asked the question in annoyance and i gave him a dead straight face and told him ’absolutely nothing'

i walked out and have never seen him since.

it is only online that i have seen men ask this question
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 8:47pm On Sep 11
princeking2:

If I tell you then I'd charge you just $1,000.
Do we have a deal??
No deal
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 8:48pm On Sep 11
MrBrownJay1:


Something beneficial to the r/ship....
like what, watermelon? because that is beneficial.
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by princeking2(m): 8:49pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
No deal

It's a pity. Knowledge is costly anyway.

Enjoy yourself.
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 8:50pm On Sep 11
princeking2:


How about a money making idea undecided
wait! like the amazon CEO whose wife gave him the money making idea? we all know how that will end with their divorce. She is about to become a very rich woman.
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:50pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
like what, watermelon? because that is beneficial.

So in your world, watermelon is beneficial to a man and a woman's relationship?! Really?!

OK sista, continue pretending you don't speak English.
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by niaralandtopuser(m): 8:52pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
i never said i planned on bringing any stuff to any table. i also never asked what i will bring to a table.

i asked men why they ask women what women bring to the table. i also asked them what they expect as an answer to such a question.

is that not what I am trying to answer bit by bit? okay let me break it down.
why do they ask ? because after a long time of dating, they are not really sure if you actually add any value to their life.(there are other reasons but let me leave it here for now).

what do they expect as answer? you can't state the stuff you do that add value to his life but first make sure he own a table like me. some don't have any table. or you could say I know I have not done much but promise to do more to make sure you add value to his life.
another option which is always the most popular one is end the relationship and go back to the dreaded state called singleness

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 8:53pm On Sep 11
MrBrownJay1:


So in your world, watermelon is beneficial to a man and a woman's relationship?! Really?!

OK sista, continue pretending you don't speak English.
yes. watermelon is beneficial for both parties
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by princeking2(m): 8:55pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
wait! like the amazon CEO whose wife gave him the money making idea? we all know how that will end with their divorce. She is about to become a very rich woman.

That's her experience. What do you want for yourself?
Don't get too drown with people's experiences that you forget to create yours.
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 8:56pm On Sep 11
niaralandtopuser:

is that not what I am trying to answer bit by bit? okay let me break it down.
why do they ask ? because after a long time of dating, they are not really sure if you actually add any value to their life.(there are other reasons but let me leave it here for now).
[b]what do they expect as answer? you can't state the stuff you do that add value to his life but first make sure he own a table like me[b]
. some don't have any table. or you could say I know I have not done much but promise to do more to make sure you add value to his life.
another option which is always the most popular one is end the relationship and go back to the dreaded state called singleness

why ask a question that has you know has no answer in the first place?, as you said and i quote
'what do they expect as answer? you can't state the stuff you do that add value to his life but first make sure he own a table like me'
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by princeking2(m): 8:57pm On Sep 11
niaralandtopuser:

is that not what I am trying to answer bit by bit? okay let me break it down.
why do they ask ? because after a long time of dating, they are not really sure if you actually add any value to their life.(there are other reasons but let me leave it here for now).

what do they expect as answer? you can't state the stuff you do that add value to his life but first make sure he own a table like me. some don't have any table. or you could say I know I have not done much but promise to do more to make sure you add value to his life.
another option which is always the most popular one is end the relationship and go back to the dreaded state called singleness
I like the last part.
Plus and Minus men will win at last.
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:58pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
yes. watermelon is beneficial for both parties

... and here ladies and gentlemen, is the reason why so many men ask the said question, when seemingly intelligent women will pretend they have NO CLUE about anything of VALUE/BENEFIT to bring to a r/ship (apart from watermelon, of course)

I wish you a watermelon filled succesful r/ship.
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by cooluzi: 8:59pm On Sep 11
mariobalotelli09:
Even though alot of ladies deserve to be asked this question, a smart guy should be able to know the category of lady he is hanging out with by having an intelligent conversation. Guys when you see a pretty lady and ur about falling for her simply ask her this question. What is the role of a lady in a relationship? Whatever answer she gives you is what ur gonna see. If its vague, hmmmmmmm...... If it's prayer and advice tell her ur mama dey pray for u everyday �
Naso bro

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