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Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by 24kmagic: 10:08am On Sep 15, 2019 |
cococandy: It's called preference. If you got married in your thirties, it doesn't mean every man must be like your gentleman husband. I don't like old spinsters, period! The longer she stays unmarried, the more body counts she will have. Plus, I'm yet to see such woman who isn't bitter about men and relationships. Please, let's not derail this sensitive thread. Meaning, don't quote me. Have a nice day 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Biglittlelois(f): 10:11am On Sep 15, 2019 |
franchasng: Are you married? 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by edoboss1234: 10:13am On Sep 15, 2019 |
iPrevail: You misunderstood mother love for husband and wife totally wrong there is nothing my mum would tell me that will break me let someone tell you that same thing outside then your reaction will speak volume so think about that 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Nobody: 10:13am On Sep 15, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: Follow him and you will see him contradict himself in less than a week. I don't take franchas serious anymore. |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Rubbiish(m): 10:15am On Sep 15, 2019 |
Tela101:When i said mothers, i never meant all mothers But only from mothers u will find a woman that will love her son unconditionally |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Biglittlelois(f): 10:17am On Sep 15, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: Are you serious? Is he like those blabber mouth in romance? Thought he is probably among the few sane ones here, lol. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by amia: 10:18am On Sep 15, 2019 |
Charles1888:my brother so sorry u find urself in dis situation,all dat u have written still tells dat u both still do love each other dearly,things like dis happens sometimes in marriage cos I have been there for 12yrs now,forget all those dat say dat u don't appreciate ur wife,I think u do well appreciate her and she is a wonderful woman,very tolerant as well,u are doing d right thing by apologising and trying to make her happy again and don't get it wrong ur wife already knows dat u are truly sorry,my honest advice to u at dis point will be dat u suspend apologising further for now ,just be caring ,soft and calm to her now ,the reason is dat dey say too much of everything isn't good,allow ur wife d space to reflect on all d apologies u have made to he already ,wen she is done with it she wil still stretch her hands out to u.dats d power of love,remember love does hurt ok.just keep being a good man to her and she will bring u back into her heart ,for now stop looking too much into her face ,I do not mean u should do dat maliciously but just pretend like d episode of begging is over or else she will keep u begging for ever because sometimes she could be enjoying ur begging too,u could sometimes throw in a joke to her wen u are together for example "babe u don turn me to beggar o!" And don't expect her to laugh ,just try to play with her ones at a time and not always because if u do always then u are still begging .pls take note do not listen to those dat say u should bring somebody else into dis matter ,it will complicate it,I believe it's something that is left for both of u if u go about it like I have adviced.take care and god bless.dont forget to tell ur wife say I dey greet oooo 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Nobody: 10:20am On Sep 15, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: He isn't a Romance section blabber mouth, but he contradicts himself a lot. Today he is saying older girls are better, tomorrow you will see him saying the opposite. I don't know how he does it... |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by mekussa(m): 10:23am On Sep 15, 2019 |
Bro... U messed up BIG TIME...just keep on begging o.... 90% certain she has forgiven u but, knowing women, she just wants to put you through hell. Also, next time you get angry or feel like exchanging words with your wife, don't take the bait...walk away instead. Its easier to say nothing and apologize or settle for walking away and saying nothing than apologizing for what was said. It has NOT FAILED ME YET. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by joshkke(m): 10:24am On Sep 15, 2019 |
One bottle of anything you drink(non-alcoholic o lol) to this guy! This is Gbam! iPrevail: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by franchasng: 10:27am On Sep 15, 2019 |
Biglittlelois:in fact half married |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by edoboss1234: 10:27am On Sep 15, 2019 |
Love is dead bro women are very emotional and barely forgives you are wrong in every sense but just keep praying, don’t keep late night, don’t do anything wrong anymore that will make her feel rejected. Try to be matured in everything you do handle everything like a man, do not always press the panic bottom. God help you 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Nobody: 10:28am On Sep 15, 2019 |
if dis can cause a lot of pain in marriage, then i need to learn how to talk to ladies then, because I know myself I can say more than that to someone 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by olabrinks(f): 10:29am On Sep 15, 2019 |
Men and women are not the same Woman has vagina man has penis Women are more emotional men are more logical It is the way God created us. Nature cannot be challenged by anyone. Once you understand the dynamics of this, you will know how to live peacefully with your spouse. Women are more sensitive to words, public opinions, their looks and everything pertaining them. Stop comparing the two genders, it can’t work like that. gbagyiza: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Nobody: 10:30am On Sep 15, 2019 |
edoboss1234:if women hardly forgive why r they going into marriage then, marriage is meant for two forgiven forgivers 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by wtfCode: 10:31am On Sep 15, 2019 |
Just keep being the best of u. Don't push yourself too much. I suggest u read through her horoscope too. |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Odunolumide(m): 10:31am On Sep 15, 2019 |
usernamepass: You talk too much. I guess you not a real man |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Nobody: 10:35am On Sep 15, 2019 |
theButterfly:women can say more than these to their husbands |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by franchasng: 10:36am On Sep 15, 2019 |
mekussa:I really bless God for the way He created me oh cos I can hardly get angry to the extent of arguing with anybody, where is the time to even start the discussion that will lead to quarrel or argument with a lady, hehe My greatest response when I am angry is silence or I grab my phone and browse or play some soccer game Before I use to run away by driving out to somewhere, but mhen driving now is like a big task that I dread, so I am not running anywhere again should anybody annoy me and reason I am getting the latest PS4 soccer games soonest with a big screen, I can't come and kill myself in this life. I know its not by my power but God that created me that way cos ever since I have known myself I have never quarreled with any lady in real life or exchanged words, so it amazes me when I hear guys quarrel or argue with their ladies. The only thing that can make me moody or unhappy in marriage is child bearing issue which I know God won't let me experience cos I love kids to pieces and sometimes I feel like stealing some kids, God forgive me So long as I am healthy, strong and God is still helping my financial life grow as He has been doing, my brother I no get any issue with anybody for this life at all except stupid, corrupt Nigerian politicians 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by yawehoverall: 10:37am On Sep 15, 2019 |
BetWinners: Op, take this advice at your own perils. Follow your heart. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by franchasng: 10:40am On Sep 15, 2019 |
organism3:then write your will and also do your obituary poster in advance before u marry because our ladies of today can give u rat poison if u fuckup and nobody will know what killed you
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Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by cococandy(f): 10:44am On Sep 15, 2019 |
You’re the one typing rubbish on a thread where another man is asking for advice. As if your so called “preference” is helping him instead of derailing the thread. And you have the stupid effrontery to tell me not to derail. Stupid. What should we say is the cause of your own bitterness? Your old age? Because you’re definitely bitter as a pill. Spilling BS that no one cares about in the name of expressing your preference. Yet again, it’s the old spinsters who are bitter. I would ask if your own body count matters as well but like a true dumbfvck misogynistic asswyp, I know what your answer will be. May you never grow old sha. Since old people are not humans. 24kmagic: 12 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by smada13(m): 10:45am On Sep 15, 2019 |
iPrevail: With this you wrote, you are not the type to advise someone more or less a married person. What he said alone can end a marriage! That man is silly for saying such rubbish and should take whatever comes from that unguarded utterance! The wife tried staying with him still. An average woman will walk out of that marriage cuz its glaring she is not valued not needed. As a punishment, he should be saying appreciative and loving words every second and minute of the day to her and buy her gifts. He should make sure he buy her what she loves and values the most. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Nobody: 10:47am On Sep 15, 2019 |
Tell her you're a fool because its only fools that do what you did (her reaction shows that you struck a nerve - probably something she might had been thinking herself). Most men are fools with pride. Her woman ego has been affected. This is where you work on. Make her feel good. Show not tell. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by smada13(m): 10:48am On Sep 15, 2019 |
Poorboy: You're silly. |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Checked86: 10:48am On Sep 15, 2019 |
You made a serious mistake with that statement and it hurts to the bone. I advise you start with the subtle things like changing the name you used to install her contact number to something you know she would appreciate. You should know the kind of endearments that turn her on. In the evening, while she is preparing dinner and you are around, go there and stay, help with little things. Disturb, disturb and disturb. My woman always tells me that i am disturbing her whenever i come to the kitchen but it works for me. Na there she dey tell me every gist about her friends and throughout the night, she would always laugh to my small small jokes. You can also take her out and 'Re-woo' her again. Tell her that you have fuuuuucked the first chance and now want second chance even though it is too early to demand for second chance because the way you see yourself, you would be demanding for 99 chances in no distance time. Add that you would always value every chance given to you but she should know that you sucks and still she finds somewhere in your heart to love you. If she still keeps away from you, guy, take her to her father and or mother and confess. Or, arrange drama in your house with any of your siblings. I do it sometimes. When i was dating my woman, she caught me red-handed deleting love messages I exchanged with another girl. It was heated and the relationship was almost taking a nosedive. I had to arrange little drama with my little sister. I told her what happened and said she should come over. When she came, i told my girlfriend that my sister was around(They gossip a lot together and they respect each other). In the night, brought the issue and my lil sis acted as if i was telling her what happened for the first time. After I finished she started rebuking me. She acted like our mother. Even my girl was begging her to calm down. That was how excaped ooo. My woman still threatens to tell my sister anytime i offend her and i would apologize. She doesn't know it was pure staged drama. I wish you luck in your marriage. Nothing like happy home. Do anything possible to have a happy home. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Fitz22(f): 10:49am On Sep 15, 2019 |
Its funny how people jumb into what they truly dont understand. You dont love her at all, your intention was to date her not to marry her. When a guy keep making reference to a lady's age then something is wrong, there re guys who truly prefer older ladies but not you. There re also ladies who prefer younger guys and its ok. Individual preference, nothing is wrong with it. I dont have advice for you oo. You dont love her, thats all. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Biglittlelois(f): 10:53am On Sep 15, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: Maybe his brain wiring disconnects sometimes...... 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by patobiora1979: 11:06am On Sep 15, 2019 |
Charles1888:send me your email I will send you a plan booku will participate in the activity for 30days(love dare book) that will help you through this to get her back..but also get someone from your family or her side that she respects alot.you really over stepped your boundary but no one is perfect.May God help you |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Saintmary(f): 11:12am On Sep 15, 2019 |
Biingoo:Ntooor |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Saintmary(f): 11:14am On Sep 15, 2019 |
dairykidd:Interesting 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by SonsOfLiverpool(m): 11:14am On Sep 15, 2019 |
sholapot:Love? There was never love in the marriage according to the OP. There was a lot of deception and the OP said it out. This is the case of many marriages today looolz. The heart of man is full of secrets and whoever is not economical with the truth will end up useless. |
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