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Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Poorboy: 12:57pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
smada13:na your mother silly, son of a useless prostitute. |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Merik56: 12:59pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
I will advice you don't involve an external person since is all your fault. Just keep calm and do your thing just as normal, she will definitely calm down soon. But never try such to a lady that truly loves you. One love |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by erumena(m): 1:00pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
ollyboy009: I concur to every bit of this advice. |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Listar(m): 1:03pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
Charles1888:See I'm a man and no sentiment attach but the truth is... Sorry, I wanted to say you are a fool but I just realize that we are all human with mistakes. Quote me if I'm wrong, you make caricature of people, you derive pleasure in teasing people, you make mockery of people, unorder for you to win cases, you go extra miles to talk about irrelevant things that are not in line with the immediate or cause of dispute at hand. All these characters you have used against your family n friends, have been drafted toward your wife . you may deny it because you may think they are all joke n fun but you don't know how hurt it feels to those people at the receiving end. Now, hear the truth, your wife is seriously depress and may take along time heal her because the seed you planted has already germinated and grown big but not yet producing seed. If you allow it to produce seed and get ripened then its over. Now, do these, don't apologize for a certain period. Within this period be yourself, behave as nothing happened before, and take her out on a regular basis on chopping, merry, visit of friends n family members, take her out on any good type of outing, in all these these outings, show her love like there is no tomorrow, the kind of love she had never received from you or anybody, don't be stingy with it, this love should shown both in public and in private but never, I mean never in your house. Any time you go home within this period, be yourself n don't pretend, don't show her love unless your body or atmosphere move you to do so. Don't force love in the house within this period. I would have ask you to pretend not to show love at all in the house but you might over do it, so in the house take things the way you see but outside house show her love extravagantly until she start reciprocating same love to you at home not out side home, then seize this opportunity to apologize to her and everything will fine. Please I stressed what you should do in the house n what you should do outside the house, do not mix them. Thank you, problems solved. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by JerryTemi(f): 1:07pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
I understand how you feel but you went too far with those words but did has be done. my own husband hurt me also with his words and action so I stopped talking to him,mind my business,speak to him when necessary,which I promised myself that he won't see anything good from me ever again. one day I went to work,I brought cloths I will wash once I come back from work,both my own undies,when I came back with our child to do my normal bathing and washing of the cloths uhmmm my hubby has done everything,God I was so happy,marveled and I blessed her and those my pains,anger left immediately because of this single act and other once he does now.why don't you they helping her out in doing some of the home chorus,why don't you wash her cloths,her undies,clean her shoes,bring her back because there is nothing like peace in your home. and pray to God to touch her for you is well nobody is perfect. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Fantazy(m): 1:12pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
usernamepass: Haha! take it easy na. He's human, he's not above mistake. remember, when one gets angry, it takes a lot to be mindful of utterance at the moment. He's accepted his fault and apologized many times according to him. Advice and stop condemning him pls |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Fantazy(m): 1:13pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
iPrevail: Thanks for saying my mind |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by jadyclem(m): 1:22pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
Charles1888: I'll suggest that you don't keep apologizing to her because you'll keep refreshing in her mind the hurtful words you said to her. Let your words and actions show her that you love her. And, don't profess love to her or act lovingly toward her because you want her to forgive you. You'll make her think that you don't mean it; that you're only acting that way because you want to clear your guilty conscience by getting her forgiveness. Love her because she's your wife and you truly do love her. Let me add this last thing, if both of you are Christians, try to pray together by holding hands and sometimes both of you can read a portion of the bible and discuss your various understanding of the passage you read. It'll create communication and build a stronger bond between you two. Also try as much as possible to always eat together whenever you're around. It's gonna help you both a lot. May God heal and restore your union. |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Fantazy(m): 1:23pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
It's good u re honest here. U have begged her severally, fine Now try this: Tell her u love her every morning before u go out. Pretend as if u re getting fed up as per her inability to forgive u Try to distant urself a bit also from her (Not too close to her again as before) Whenever she decides to stay alone don't rush to her and beg. Be on ur own also at least for that moment. In a maximum of 3 months if she still continue that way, my brother she is not the woman u re suppose to marry. |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by franchasng: 1:23pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
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Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by danot1030: 1:27pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
iPrevail: My brother things are not like that. Those ladies you see love unconditionally but when you kill them you have to be patient with them and persevere in bringing them back alive again. That statement he made killed the first woman he married and is only living with a stranger in the Shell of the previous wife, he needs to do everything to bring her back. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by missjo(f): 1:35pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
Modernist:Lol |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Modernist: 1:38pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
missjo:It's true, the lady's comments on here sometimes is appalling. |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by missjo(f): 1:43pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
Modernist:I noticed |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by donaldfafree(m): 1:43pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
My brother, u don F up big time. U need to do the unthinkable, unpredictable to bring her state of mind back to normal. Trust me, she really loves u and she is a very good woman to have kept herself this way after that ur foolish utterance. DO MORE and she will forgive u. A good woman is a good woman |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Nobody: 1:45pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
pocohantas:Fine woman with nice laps |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Themainn: 1:53pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
Don't give up bro.....keep loving her Check my signature guys I have a surprise for you |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by missjo(f): 1:55pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
flowx:My suggestion was on the same page you quoted me from |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by moorevic(m): 1:58pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
You really need to go wayyyyy out of your way to please her, Am SORRY just doesn't cut it. I think that incident needed to happen for the scale in your eyes to fall off in other for you to know how good your woman is. Act more than your words. Spoil her with fun. Its now your turn to love. I hope she ignites back the same love she once had for you. All the best and happy married life. |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Youngzedd(m): 1:58pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
olabrinks: You said it all. The woman loves her with all she got but the F*ck boy in him decided to ruin his family. He found a diamond but He's busy looking for bronze. This man deserve nationwide beating . He should show her so much love by his deeds, only his deeds can bring her back. Take madam on one week vacation, show her love and she will be back. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by izzou(m): 1:59pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
Rubbiish: I would have loved to reply you, but then you concluded that I must be delusional for cancelling it So let's leave it at that, sire |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Nobody: 2:03pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
usernamepass: looool.
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Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Decryptor(m): 2:06pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
BetWinners: You never said it any better! The poster is a "sissy" who does not want to man up! His wife has seen that he has placed her on a pedestal and is using it to her advantage! If I were him, I'd simply ignore her and act like she does not exist and she will be the one to start bringing up convos which I will still act indifferent to until she ends up begging me for attention! The worst you can do to a woman living under the same roof with you is not to hit her or even deny her sex or not eat what she has cooked...it is NOT GIVING HER ATTENTION! The poster should stop acting like his world revolves round her since she is not willing to forgive and let's see who flinches first. Nonsense and ingredients!! 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Respect55(m): 2:10pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
kimberlugee:So how were you able to arrive at ur conviction? |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Nobody: 2:15pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
Respect55:Because I read to understand but you read to argue. |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Nobody: 2:26pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
BetWinners:I swear I have heard my very own sisters told their husband that they were a wrong choice That man should stop apologising and start coming home late the woman will be back in less than a week 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by LovesonBlezz(m): 2:28pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:your profile pic. got me cracking 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by mrwonlasewonie: 2:30pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
Even if men marry Jesus Christ they'll complain and frustrate her 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Nobody: 2:40pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
theButterfly:I've heard my very own sisters said something exactly like that to their husbands, women say these things to men almost all the time the guy is making the whole thing worse by continuing to beg. If my girlfriend offends me really bad and continue begging and feeling desperate for me to calm down, I become more angry. Once that man starts ignoring her and keeping late nights all the previous begging will instantly enter her head and she will start trying to save her marriage and everything will be fine 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by mrwonlasewonie: 2:40pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
ollyboy009:smh men Sha and your funny ways of thinking.even if Jesus Christ was female and you married her you will still find something to complain about her If she's a virgin she's too stiff If she's not a virgin she's too loose If she knows how to cook,she doesn't know anything except food If she doesn't know how to cook she's too lazy If she has too many kids her body is like a pig If she doesn't have kids she has been promiscuous during her younger days If she's a chatty person she talks too much If she doesn't talk she's too quiet Abeggggiii una own too much. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Respect55(m): 2:44pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
kimberlugee:You see how you guys keep on making mistakes but never seem to learn from it. Psychologists and Philosophers are yet to arrive at any favourable ground in determining how human beings think and there u are blowing ur trumpet. Preposterous. This be the very last one I will reply u. #Peace |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Nobody: 2:51pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
BoboKush:True words. How does that help a marriage that is already falling apart? He is very immature. 1 Like |
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