Another one will bite the dust soon. Are some men foolish or just cursed??

YungMillionaire:


Simple question: If she is flirting with another man, should he continue to spend his hard earned money on her?

Does that msg look like a flirtatious one? You'll see how uninterested she sounds but trying to respectfully keep d convo. Pls you men should be careful! Like when you have a girlfriend, you don't chat with other girls even if it's for Lil attention...

We seriously have so many sadist here.

consultancy:
Another one will bite the dust soon. Are some men foolish or just cursed??

Lies. It won't work for you.

Pettyprincess:

Ode jatijati
Edit all you want it still doesn't change the fact that you a demented fool!!
Last reply though,

So oti eh gbo Yoruba.....were ni eh .....empty brain, in short na bread crumbs dey your brain.

placeofallure:


Exactly! Money! The importance many attach to money these days is why we have our society flooded with kidnappers, rogue politicians, rogue men of God, extortionists everywhere. Hardly can anyone do anything for anyone without ulterior motives. I pity our generation and the generation yet unborn. What's the big deal in helping your gf out if it's convenient? Men have helped me on several occasions and I have rendered financial help to men too even when we are not in a relationship. It's providence, it's being your brother's keeper.

Afolabiay, Nairaland of today is filled with immatured, unbridled youths. The way they reason is a story for another day.

Now to your post, the WhatsApp chats you attached is not to be ignored. She's not in a relationship with him yet, but something may spring forth from there if not nipped in the bud. The guy is pestering her obviously and she's giving him audience. She may not respond to his chats if she's not interested or she could block him outrightly. Another possibility, she might be trying to be polite. However, she may have a reason for that.
A cult guy tried vehemently to woo me in school. I didn't know at the beginning that he belonged to a cult. I just didn't like him so I was putting him off the normal arrogant way a lady does. But when I found out, I changed tactics. Whenever he comes around, (Yes, on his own, he found out my house) I just carry the Bible and say I want to share the word of God with him. I didn't do this for long before he naturally let me be.

Your girl could be in similar circumstances. However, to clear all doubts, sit her down and reason together. You could show her the chats. Let her be fortright with answers. I know she's NOT dating him yet. Moreso it's improper to infringe on people's privacy rights. You should remove your cloning device once you have sort this out. Assure her you have done this. If she's a cheat, she can't be careful always. You will eventually catch her. If you leave her based on speculations, the next girl could be worse.

Enoff said!

Nice one....respect

Op... All these girls advising you to ignore the chats. They are taking sides with her just because she's a girl like them and they will certainly do exactly what she's doing or even more.
I will advice you to look up Ubunja's posts and read it up. I did the same and today, I'm on top of the food chain!
You can also search for the "red pill movement" and have your eyes opened on truth.

afolabiay:

Giving my girlfriend money or paying her school fees does not mean I lose...it is my money and I will spend it the way I like.

Questions for you:

1. Have you given her any engagement ring?

2. Have you ever introduced yourself to her parents?

3. If yes!, then, as what?

Guy get it straight..

Any girl you've not paid her bride price is in circulation and suitors or boyfriends are free to make advances at her.

What ever expression of love you've shown her, materially and otherwise, is and remains a gift!

As far as law and custom is concerned, you have little or no claim on her.

So, do the needful and claim her, else, drink chill pill and you'll be fine.

YungMillionaire:


hey my sweet pie, when r u coming over to see me?

hehehe you wan start your own

Okoroawusa:

my crush... how are you?

lol ma gi? I dey kamkpe

If she was cheating, she would have passworded her phone, however, she has the tendecy to cheat if the opportunity arises otherwise she wouldn't be replying that guy.

This is more like an affair about to begin but the guy hasn't played his card well. He's till arranging the game.

She's no sent nudes and no bleeping yet. There's hope. Once she goes down with this gov always ultra or another person just confirm she's gone stamped and sealed.

Eleganza33:
lol ma gi? I dey kamkpe

my sweetheart..na so o!
hahahahaha!

Op nothing for now but very soon your babe will be madly fvcked by that fvck boy... Babes too like attention and they think they can handle it till they start cheating or falling inlove...

chidiebereuzoma:
Someone like you bought a brand new laptop for his supposedly girlfriend and the babe carry the laptop dash my guy wey dey dig am. My guy told her to tell the mugu (your twin brother) that she was robbed and your brother believed it totally.
I weep for some guys

chain ! Inside life........... I watch this in movies

chidiebereuzoma:
Someone like you bought a brand new laptop for his supposedly girlfriend and the babe carry the laptop dash my guy wey dey dig am. My guy told her to tell the mugu (your twin brother) that she was robbed and your brother believed it totally.
I weep for some guys

Loooool. Omg

AwkaetitiBabe:
Nairalanders though! You guys should advice the guy properly instead you saying he should stop putting her through school. Kai no wonder too many witchcraft in this country.


I sincerely do not see any romantic tie or connection in that conversation. For she talking to you anyhow, you need to step up as a man and stop swallowing bullshiit.

Are my eyes deceiving me.... From the chat, is the girl that is even dieing for the guy.... Baby lemme see your face and all of that.


Op use your head..... Don't take relationship advice from a woman. A sharper guy is fucking her already without spending a dime and you are here talking nonsense.


Go and read up Ubunja and Hardon thread.


Op, i know is your money but please stop spending on her. Bleep her and dumb her asap.

monerozi5590:




Are my eyes deceiving me.... From the chat, is the girl that is even dieing for the guy.... Baby lemme see your face and all of that.


Op use your head..... Don't take relationship advice from a woman. A sharper guy is fucking her already without spending a dime and you are here talking nonsense.


Go and read up Ubunja and Hardon thread.


Op, i know is your money but please stop spending on her. Bleep her and dumb her asap.

Haaaaaaaaaa! It's obvious d red pill u swallowed dey affect ur eyes o. The guy asked for picture from the girl and she gave an excuse, only for the guy to send his without the girl asking. Nawaooo

GeniusWannabe:
As I see "xup" , I just weak.

Funny memes

AwkaetitiBabe:
Does that msg look like a flirtatious one? You'll see how uninterested she sounds but trying to respectfully keep d convo. Pls you men should be careful! Like when you have a girlfriend, you don't chat with other girls even if it's for Lil attention...

We seriously have so many sadist here.

You are rare.
Ladies like you make me wish I had certain attractive qualities.

Akwaetiti must be feeling blessed RN!

OmowunmiButty:



c'est fini
Just continue living Life and enjoy yourself.
You've got no worries oo jare..

I think u are mad,since it's your money,why are u coming here to disturb us.Idiot.

afolabiay:

Giving my girlfriend money or paying her school fees does not mean I lose...it is my money and I will spend it the way I like.

You are a fool!

Bro, I don't think your girl is having anything or even thought process towards the guy.
From the response, there is no attention, this is just school mate trying to force his way on your girl, just look at where she responded with "who" to I love you. She is matured to my assessment and she even asked him why he wants to see her even after all the cajoling from the guy.

If she was the portrait you thinking, she wouldn't leave the chats. She is clean bro.

Try sensitize her on the dangers of allowing male visitors to her house or visiting male friends who is clearly not her boyfriend in which she could experience rape, drugs and fathom killing ultimately.

Cheers.

Bros, Na from clap, dance take dey start

No advice big pass the one wey you give yourself.

placeofallure:

Don't mind many sadists on this thread o. In fact I have a male colleague, he doesn't just say good morning or Hi! He hugs and plants a peck on the cheek. That's our good morning everyday. The thought of sex or anything like it is so far away from us both. I'm not the only one he does that to. That's his normal playful self.

Lol, he hugs and pecks you every day , you someone else's girlfriend, I hope you both continue when your married. I blame jobless guys using such words or ways for ladies when they can't stand it been used for theirs.

You are funny o.

The boy calling the guy "fine boy". You don't see anything wrong in that plus she didn't reject sending the guy pic, she said there's no light. So it not pic they are talking about but video call.

Last last the OP go get sense.
Me I no fit de pay person school fee de read this kind nonsense. Maybe, cos of the experience I gather sha.

saintsylve:
Bro, I don't think your girl is having anything or even thought process towards the guy.
From the response, there is no attention, this is just school mate trying to force his way on your girl, just look at where she responded with "who" to I love you. She is matured to my assessment and she even asked him why he wants to see her even after all the cajoling from the guy.

If she was the portrait you thinking, she wouldn't leave the chats. She is clean bro.

Try sensitize her on the dangers of allowing male visitors to her house or visiting male friends who is clearly not her boyfriend in which she could experience rape, drugs and fathom killing ultimately.

Cheers.

Konki:


Questions for you:

1. Have you given her any engagement ring?

2. Have you ever introduced yourself to her parents?

3. If yes!, then, as what?

Guy get it straight..

Any girl you've not paid her bride price is in circulation and suitors or boyfriends are free to make advances at her.

What ever expression of love you've shown her, materially and otherwise, is and remains a gift!

As far as law and custom is concerned, you have little or no claim on her.

So, do the needful and claim her, else, drink chill pill and you'll be fine.

Her parent know me and I ask for their permission before I help her with her HND, we plan for introduction early next year...my parent know her too...

afolabiay:



Giving my girlfriend money or paying her school fees does not mean I lose...it is my money and I will spend it the way I like.

Wow!... this is kinda rude and blunt! Bro... people like you shouldn't be seeking advice. Your life ....your money.... and you believe... your girlfriend..... do what you like.... what can we even tell you?...fix your cracked up phone screen?...oh nooo... we wouldn't.

Jombom:
You are funny o.

The boy calling the guy "fine boy". You don't see anything wrong in that plus she didn't reject sending the guy pic, she said there's no light. So it not pic they are talking about but video call.

Last last the OP go get sense.
Me I no fit de pay person school fee de read this kind nonsense. Maybe, cos of the experience I gather sha.

lol, calm down oga I just see this stuff yesterday, and I know when I get angry it does not end good though I don't get angry easily like that...na advice I need not all this things you guys are saying

saintsylve:
Bro, I don't think your girl is having anything or even thought process towards the guy.
From the response, there is no attention, this is just school mate trying to force his way on your girl, just look at where she responded with "who" to I love you. She is matured to my assessment and she even asked him why he wants to see her even after all the cajoling from the guy.

If she was the portrait you thinking, she wouldn't leave the chats. She is clean bro.

Try sensitize her on the dangers of allowing male visitors to her house or visiting male friends who is clearly not her boyfriend in which she could experience rape, drugs and fathom killing ultimately.

Cheers.

have been asking myself why she didn't put password or pattern on her phone.... really am confuse because I trust her. Thanks

hustleranthem:
u b real father Christmas..ur mumu na real first class

broken bottle

afolabiay:

Her parent know me and I ask for their permission before I help her with her HND, we plan for introduction early next year...my parent know her too...

With all due consideration and sence of responsibility, I submit that till next year when you do the introduction, she is still in circulation.

So.... Deal with that and be guided. Bitter, but that's the truth.

Reason: You are still a boy friend in serious relationship, other boyfriends will still be there cos till you persinalise her, your girlfriend is still their girlfriend and vise versa.

Face the bitter truth.