I have a girl friend that have been thinking will be my wife, i notice some changes in her character like some months now, but natural she's this nagging type and she's stubborn and blunt too, which i am okay with the behaviour because i dont think there is any perfect person on earth, she's in school while am in lagos, i do send upkeep to her every week and pay her school fees, so i am doing the best i can to make her leave fine in school, now recently she used to talk to me anyhow and also accuse me of so many thing, which i never did, but i use to keep calm since i know she's not around me so all those thing will be kind of normal to me, but i have never cheated on her, so when she come to pay me a visit, due to her recent behaviour i want to be sure if anything is going wrong so i decided to check her phone, luckily for me she did not put security on her phone so i see a guy she's chatting with, one is clearly a friend but they used to joke with the word love, shebi you say you love me kind of thing, but the other one, i have attach the whatsapp chat between those two, so i scan her whatsapp with my pc, i was thinking of facing her or to be patience till i see that she go to his house truly, i hate not been loyal, i am loyal to her all my life and she cannot be doing this to me....it making me go crazy, please Nairalander help me on what to do

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Bro what are you saying

As I see "xup" , I just weak.

By the way your gf is responding i dnt think there is anything between them.
Some guys are really so annoying,even when you not in relationship with them they will be calling you pet name like "love" "sweetheart" etc.
So i really do not think that is a big issue to worry about.

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When I started reading I thought all you is need is just a friend to cheer you up to move on, but when I saw

" I pay School fees..." I think you need to see a doctor.


Money you should have saved for yourself at least you can pride on something of your own but now you are losing both ways.

She is gone!
Money gone!!


Signed: Governor Pad


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Pettyprincess:
By the way your gf is responding i dnt think there is anything between them.
Some guys are really so annoying,even when you not in relationship with them they will be calling you pet name like "love" "sweetheart" etc.
So i really do not think that is a big issue to worry about.

afolabiay:
I have a girl friend that have been thinking will be my wife, i notice some changes in her character like some months now, but natural she's this nagging type and she's stubborn and blunt too, which i am okay with the behaviour because i dont think there is any perfect person on earth, she's in school while am in lagos, i do send upkeep to her every week and pay her school fees, so i am doing the best i can to make her leave fine in school, now recently she used to talk to me anyhow and also accuse me of so many thing, which i never did, but i use to keep calm since i know she's not around me so all those thing will be kind of normal to me, but i have never cheated on her, so when she come to pay me a visit, due to her recent behaviour i want to be sure if anything is going wrong so i decided to check her phone, luckily for me she did not put security on her phone so i see a guy she's chatting with, one is clearly a friend but they used to joke with the word love, shebi you say you love me kind of thing, but the other one, i have attach the whatsapp chat between those two, so i scan her whatsapp with my pc, i was thinking of facing her or to be patience till i see that she go to his house truly, i hate not been loyal, i am loyal to her all my life and she cannot be doing this to me....it making me go crazy, please Nairalander help me on what to do

And what are you waiting for

After seeing all these evidence, do still need someone to tell you what to do

Pettyprincess:
By the way your gf is responding i dnt think there is anything between them.
Some guys are really so annoying,even when you not in relationship with them they will be calling you pet name like "love" "sweetheart" etc.
So i really do not think that is a big issue to worry about.

Well I don't see any thing in that but the way she has been blunt with me, I expect the same with anyone...she did not even say she not coming

OrestesDante:




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When started reading I thought all you is need is just a friend to cheer you up to move on, but when I saw

" I pay School fees..." I think you need to see a doctor.


Money you should have save for yourself at least you can pride on something of your own but now you are losing both ways.

She is gone!
Money gone!!


Signed: Governor Pad


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Giving my girlfriend money or paying her school fees does not mean I lose...it is my money and I will spend it the way I like.

afolabiay:

Giving my girlfriend money or paying her school fees does not mean I lose...it is my money and I will spend it the way I like.

brother wey mumu

speechless

afolabiay:

Giving my girlfriend money or paying her school fees does not mean I lose...it is my money and I will spend it the way I like.

c'est fini
Just continue living Life and enjoy yourself.
You've got no worries oo jare..

hustleranthem:
brother wey mumu

so giving someone 78k na mumu for your side....person wey no be my girlfriend self I dey give am, ode

afolabiay:
so giving someone 78k na mumu for your side....person wey no be my girlfriend self I dey give am, ode

u b real father Christmas..ur mumu na real first class

afolabiay:
so giving someone 78k na mumu for your side....person wey no be my girlfriend self I dey give am, ode

Your mumu no be here oo. Father Christmas. Oya clap for yourself. School fees, on top girl wey no be your wife. Are you her father? Why are you the person footing her bills? Are you under a spell?

Oga, go and sit down. Continue. While the girl go continue dey do anyhow. Ode!

Op,from your write-up and the photos of d chat there is nothing wrong with your relationship.im also someones girlfriend and I chat with other guys like this all the time.it doesn't mean I'm cheating on my bf.
About your girlfriend's attitude,why not sit her down and talk to her,ask her if you've done anything wrong to her.it could be that she feels a bit insecure and is probably trying to cover up with her attitude.u seem like a coolheaded person and your gf seems hot headed.just sit her down and talk to her calmly.

As for the matter of you paying her school fees,I sincerely hope you're doing it with your heart and not just because u intend to marry her.there is nothing wrong with u paying her school fees as long as it doesn't put a dent in your account balance.

you never marry the banny, you dey pay her fees dey give her upkeep money..Make you no go commit suicide one day when you catch her dey blow another guy.. mumu raise to the power 10

Lol, I notice guys that complain about relationship issues here mostly date students, why? Don't you see working class ladies around you that won't stress you with nagging and irrelevant blabber ni? Dating students automatically means more expenses for you, childish behaviour, peer pressure and they are prone to want to experience campus life with their mates, so why stress yourselves with these types? Or the need to dominate, always be in charge with no questions asked is the aim? If yes, how is that working out for you all?

Jflex07:
you never marry the banny, you dey pay her fees dey give her upkeep money..Make you no go commit suicide one day when you catch her dey blow another guy.. mumu raise to the power 10

On top how much oga...na me put am for HND o so if am not capable I won't have try it

Biglittlelois:
Lol, I notice guys that complain about relationship issues here mostly date students, why? Don't you see working class ladies around you that won't stress you with nagging and irrelevant blabber ni? Dating students automatically means more expenses for you, childish behaviour, peer pressure and they are prone to want to experience campus life with their mates, so why stress yourselves with these types? Or the need to dominate, always be in charge with no questions asked is the aim? If yes, how is that working out for you all?

Stop dating children allow them grow them no dey hear..fresh face dey deceive dem

afolabiay:

On top how much oga...na me put am for HND o so if am not capable I won't have try it

Baba just use your head, do not let that girl outsmart you, she ought to be very loyal considering the fact that you have done so much for her, and if she's still not loyal after everything, then she has some one she's serious with and probably she's just sticking around because of personal gains.. Use your head man

Jflex07:
Baba just use your head, do not let that girl outsmart you, she ought to be very loyal considering the fact that you have done so much for her, and if she's still not loyal after everything, then she has some one she's serious with and probably she's just sticking around because of personal gains.. Use your head man

thanks bro

bigpicture001:


Stop dating children allow them grow them no dey hear..fresh face dey deceive dem

she's 26 yrs, I just try to upgrade her level...that's all

So long as she's still a student.. u aint the only one bro. Just play ur part until the time comes we go know who the real owner be

afolabiay:
she's 26 yrs, I just try to upgrade her level...that's all

Mugu

You need some serious beating n Manhandling...

Someone like you bought a brand new laptop for his supposedly girlfriend and the babe carry the laptop dash my guy wey dey dig am. My guy told her to tell the mugu (your twin brother) that she was robbed and your brother believed it totally.
I weep for some guys