lefulefu:
gbam! if u have watched this old hollywood movie scarface where al pacino and his best friend where both drug dealers he murdered his friend in anger when he caught him making out with his younger sister. no sane dude into rugged business with his friend would allow his sister getting close to his friend.such guys prefer their sisters dating a refined fella.

femi4:
The way guys view friendship is different from ladies. Guys can accommodate shortcomings, overlook your 75% weaknesses and stay with you because of your 25% strength

AntiBrutus:


And you just keep packimg nonsense that you can't trust with your sister or lives?

So much for friendship.

femi4:
Guys have better understanding of what friendship is all about. That's helping one another depite our differences

Stephani3e:
I noticed that most guys hate the idea of their friends dating their sisters. Some would even threaten their friend to stay away from their sisters.

Most guys even if their friend is the last male on Earth they would prefer their sisters to be a nun instead.

AntiBrutus:


How is that understanding without trust?
Please explain to me what you understand? That he is good enough for others, but not your sisters?

femi4:
A man and a man relationship need Understanding

A man and a woman relationship need trust.

If I have a friend that drinks heavily, it won't affect the friendship but will affect his relationship with a woman

AntiBrutus:


How is that understanding without trust?
Please explain to me what you understand? That he is good enough for others, but not your sisters?

kiddoiLL:
Had this friend of mine who's sister I fell in love with..
At first we weren't actually talking (The sis and I).
We started talking later on, she's a good lady really, spent late nights chatting and talking. We all stayed around each other.
Mehn I won't lie, I caught feelings first, I opened up to her. She was actually feeling me also, then we had to take a walk one night along with her kid sister.
She wanted to go get something with the sister, and asked me to walk with em.
Man I was being a gentleman, I was actually quiet all thru while walking, and we talked a few times, she dared me to approach another lady we saw that night. Lol, I laughed and told her I don't know how to, that I've never actually stopped any lady on the road to ask her out.(Till now, I've never done that, stopped a lady and start saying stuffs).
Omo, our walk back home that night, I was quiet all thru.
She went up to their place, I was at mine, we were chatting and she told me “You u couldn't even talk to me and express your feelings? why did you think I asked you to walk with me?”

Omoh my head spark oo...I told her sorry I couldn't do it.
She asked if she could come over, and get a hug? I told her Yes.
Man, she came down to the room I was in, I apologized once again for not telling her what she expected, we hugged, and then we kissed for a few minutes.
Then she went back up.
Said she was happy, twas all lovey dovey since then, we were both happy for the next 7 months but uncomfortable cause we both know we had to come out clean to the brother, my friend. I actually told her I was ready to talk to him. But then again the bro code kept phucking with my head, She was scared her brother would really turn against it and really give her a hard time at home.
Mind you, she's not a kid. She was scared and I wanted to talk to my friend but she asked me not to.

We had to end it mutually even though the feelings were there.
Maaaan! I really had nothing but good vibes with her, we never had a bad moment.
That whole bro code shít phucked my brain up!!
Man!!
We still talk tho about everything and would both love to get everything going back on..
But then F**K THIS EXACT BRO CODE!!!

Stephani3e:
I noticed that most guys hate the idea of their friends dating their sisters. Some would even threaten their friend to stay away from their sisters.

Most guys even if their friend is the last male on Earth they would prefer their sisters to be a nun instead.

Fountainofyouth:
That is because they don't want their sisters to be treated the way they treat other people's sisters, foolish beings, they want their own siblings to be spared of the many ills they do to others

Fountainofyouth:



Why are you stalking me?

kiddoiLL:
Bro, I don't want that secret dating, it's really messed up.
I really respect my guy and
I do know how it'll look if he ends up finding out himself that I've been secretly dating his sister that's why I decided I needed to tell him myself but she was scared regarding the way he'll react since we were already dating.
Bro I won't deny or pretend, this particular bro code really messed stuffs up and made me all cranky

gift2xl:
I don't fancy dating my friends sisters, that is something I have never done and I won't take it kindly cing my friend dating my sis on a serious note. I had a childhood friend, we graduated from the same school our union united our families. I do travel to his village and he comes to my own village as well. we were like brothers, my family might not know my whereabouts but he knows, likewise me. His sister is beautiful, she picked interest in me, Felos I was disgust. I told her I can't date u or marry u because ur my family. Any of my friends sisters, I stay off limit if u like fine like Mami water.

Emaprince:
Why is it hard hard for you to understand that A guy would rather let his friend marry his sister than just dating. You came in with a negative mind already ..maybe due to how bitter you've been towards men.

Relationships are mostly not till death do both apart, so no sane man would want his own friend to be the one to date his sister and eventually breaking up with her....he would rather she do it with another guy. Do you know how it will feel when guys discuss their bitter experience with their exes and your friend start talking about your sister?

Men and women are not same. My sisters friends always disturb them over me just on seeing my pic.....even my own sisters would want to know if I will be interested in having them. This will NEVER happen between guys. Men and women are not same!!!

Men are teritorial. Dont act like you dont know.

MrCEO69:

So u can't even ask now u assume he is in for the bro code stuff, guy ask him, even if jokingly or indirectly to see his rxn and stop assuming everyone is in with it. But I guess u are a bad guy and ur friend too knows it that is why u dnt want to try sef.

DonroxyII:
It never happen to me sha but I used to warn most of my friends that use to show interest in my sisters that it is either our friendship or my sister !!

For me, it is ego, Family respect and self preservation !!

... You know how men can be sometimes and how fast relationship can turn from sweet to sour.... Some dude can misbehave using disparaging words against Your "own" and because He is your friend, It can hurt in multiple ways and make you do something silly ..... If he ain't my friend I won't care .... Shiii happens!!

Whatever capacity you are as my friend, Immediately you started dating my sister, You and I are done with friendship ............ Done !!

If I meet you for road self I go bown you unless You are a confirmed well reserved and respected personality

With that, if anything nasty happens between you and my sister .... I won't be concerned ... (Would have warned her though) ..... If it is Physical then You self go get treated and everyone go dey alright.... Afterall , You ain't my friend anymore

kiddoiLL:
Bro, I don't want that secret dating, it's really messed up.
I really respect my guy and
I do know how it'll look if he ends up finding out himself that I've been secretly dating his sister that's why I decided I needed to tell him myself but she was scared regarding the way he'll react since we were already dating.
Bro I won't deny or pretend, this particular bro code really messed stuffs up and made me all cranky

Stephani3e:
I noticed that most guys hate the idea of their friends dating their sisters. Some would even threaten their friend to stay away from their sisters.

Most guys even if their friend is the last male on Earth they would prefer their sisters to be a nun instead.

kiddoiLL:
Lol...I'm not, if you read my other comments you'll understand the situation.
I'm not a bad guy, I know my friend would understand and be cool with it.
But I gotta male sure its long term and I have plans for the babe.
Besides, she asked me not to tell him, I was ready to tell him

Pharaoh4rin:

THE LAST DON is d title of d movie