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You Are To Blame: Ladies! by Marvelency(m): 5:32am On Dec 15, 2015
You started growing boobs at 13, in some girls puberty occur earlier than that, you are young, fresh, smart and badly or seriously wanted by every guy matured enough to know his dickey isn't only functioning for urinating alone, its hard at that age for you to start having stretch marks, a pimples consumed face, so every guy wants you then.. .

They watch you grow up, you gradually becoming a lady, babe, hotly wanted.. .basically turning into every man's dream.. .ass protruding backwards and you are now sweet 17.. .Oh my_my.. .its like the more you age the more beautiful you become.. .you are fresh you are smart you are shining, you are really beautiful.. .

Day after day night after night and the next morning you woke up its a happy birthday dear you are +1 to ya 24years already in ya basket of existence, you don't have a man who is serious with you in ya life, all you have in that basket are Exs a lot of them.. .Then suddenly it occurred to you that its like you've been sleeping and distracted when the train of ya life was moving during those teenage years.. .

How time flies, you wonder huh?! What were you doing when you had the maximum attention from the male folks?! What did you do to those thousands that asked you out?! How did you responds to his sincere request to marry you then?! You still wanted to enjoy life more, flirt, s*x, trips, shopping, parties was at the top of ya to-do list.. .now ya boobs are sagging and those ass are disappearing, ya face beginning to wrinkle, with stretch marks here and there.. .

I blame you if ya story is like the one I narrated, you can't tell me nobody approached you when you were growing up, and you can't say either that you didn't meet a decent man but you choose those that played with ya heart and you exchanged true love with money, you were catching fun when you should be making a life decision.. .

You should have made the right choice when you where that young, teenagers reading this very write up of mine now.. .should also learn from this too, make hay, while you still very beautiful, attractive, hot & dazzling, select the best from the best when they (Men) are still rushing towards ya direction coz the night comes when ya boobs begin to fall.. .when stretch marks begins to invade ya fair skin, when no man can work/walk with you.. .

The point is when you are still the centre of attraction, when they can still put up with you, pick one with the right qualities you desire and not for ya selfish interest or games and settle down. ..even if nemesis doesn't catch up with you, time will catch up with you and by that time it'll be wrong for you to do what's right or know who's right.. .

It'll be too late to cry as not everyone will want to marry an old woman.. .the traffic would have reduced! When its still at your disposal (Attention) make the best use of it.. .Make the right choice while you can still pick so you don't settle for just anybody.. .you were warned!

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Re: You Are To Blame: Ladies! by cruzita(f): 6:07am On Dec 15, 2015
dem don hear.but no be all women go marry because some young men don vow not to marry

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Re: You Are To Blame: Ladies! by excellencyabia1: 6:23am On Dec 15, 2015
If they will hear

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Re: You Are To Blame: Ladies! by kossyablaze(m): 6:27am On Dec 15, 2015
Inconclusive Women

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Re: You Are To Blame: Ladies! by AfroKnight: 6:29am On Dec 15, 2015
Bro, no girl is going to heed this advice. In this age, everybody tells you to mind your own business especially when you give important advice.

I remember some girls in school who wanted to hang out with as many bad boys as possible. We know where they are today. Let decent guys be patient. Even if your dream girl spurns you don't worry, eventually, you will meet the good woman you deserve.

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Re: You Are To Blame: Ladies! by Nobody: 6:36am On Dec 15, 2015
First of all, is it ur life grin

Secondly, how could u as a Man, possibly know more about the stages in a woman's life than a female would. No need to teach us; thanks tho grin

Thirdly, are u saying girls should marry young? And if so, what's ur definition of young. Cause under age 23/24, most gehs are still in school..... It would be difficult and kinda irresponsible to marry while in school. Just know that education is the biggest thing that keeps females from marrying "young" or whatever....

So during our teenage years... Most of us are still in school, okay. That's your answer tongue If we kept a serious boyfriend now, una would still complain. Lubbish. grin

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Re: You Are To Blame: Ladies! by Nobody: 6:44am On Dec 15, 2015
cruzita:
dem don hear.but no be all women go marry because some young men don vow not to marry
E.g me girls have broken ma heart like broken egss, I'll rather remain a bad boy nd have baby mamas lobatan,


Girls ain't worth the trouble.

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Re: You Are To Blame: Ladies! by Topman0001(m): 6:45am On Dec 15, 2015
cruzita:
dem don hear.but no be all women go marry because some young men don vow not to marry
Someone else's decision should not dictate how your life would be. If some men decide to be a catholic father doesn't mean you wouldn't get married, afterall some other ladies also decided to be a catholic sister. Brilliant update from O.P. Thanks for telling them.

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Re: You Are To Blame: Ladies! by clefstone(m): 8:13am On Dec 15, 2015
We have been hearing all this preaching for so long







Some things will never change
-tupac

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Re: You Are To Blame: Ladies! by Olalekanbanky1(m): 8:13am On Dec 15, 2015
Word
Re: You Are To Blame: Ladies! by Dottore: 8:13am On Dec 15, 2015
Ok
Re: You Are To Blame: Ladies! by braine(m): 8:14am On Dec 15, 2015
They give the excuse that theres no Mr. Right. Until they start becoming fat. Then they start taking church going seriously. LOL! I"ve seen many of them. cheesy

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Re: You Are To Blame: Ladies! by Segadem(m): 8:15am On Dec 15, 2015
I will tell them,they will hear.
Re: You Are To Blame: Ladies! by LesbianBoy(m): 8:15am On Dec 15, 2015
Sighs
Re: You Are To Blame: Ladies! by nikkyhoney(m): 8:15am On Dec 15, 2015
Just passing by
Re: You Are To Blame: Ladies! by tintingz(m): 8:15am On Dec 15, 2015
Na so Shalewa, Amaka, Amina go dey look down on good young guys. grin grin

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Re: You Are To Blame: Ladies! by Engineer123(m): 8:15am On Dec 15, 2015
May God guides them to the straight path. @OP, it is everybody wish to get suitor at early twenty but sometime stories do change along the path. It is either one of the partner is not faithful.
Sometimes the guys are to name for deceiving ladies. I knew of many guys that have deceived many ladies in name of marriage.

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Re: You Are To Blame: Ladies! by lilmax(m): 8:15am On Dec 15, 2015
@30 they start blaming men grincheesy

As if they were sleeping when the bad guys used 3,5 years out of their wasted lives

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Re: You Are To Blame: Ladies! by sod09(m): 8:15am On Dec 15, 2015
OK..


Guys u are to be blame, stop running after gals with ur sagging rooster dats gain attention on siting nude ..... grin grin grin
Re: You Are To Blame: Ladies! by Nobody: 8:16am On Dec 15, 2015
Noted
Re: You Are To Blame: Ladies! by jamex93(m): 8:17am On Dec 15, 2015
wise words for the wise ladies

i tink this is enof for dem, d rest is till 2016
that is if dem no change
Re: You Are To Blame: Ladies! by Wizdray: 8:18am On Dec 15, 2015
Actually read it all through. Nice one Op
Re: You Are To Blame: Ladies! by ultrazone(m): 8:18am On Dec 15, 2015
Nice one, op

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Re: You Are To Blame: Ladies! by Nobody: 8:18am On Dec 15, 2015
Kilonso!
Re: You Are To Blame: Ladies! by Smartsyn(m): 8:19am On Dec 15, 2015
Somewhere in Nigeria, a young girl is saying "iffa hear, preach to the choir" after reading this post...

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Re: You Are To Blame: Ladies! by Lincoln275(m): 8:19am On Dec 15, 2015
yes nah

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