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Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Toks2008(m): 9:33pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
bukatyne: Off topic. 1 Like |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by PrimadonnaO(f): 9:36pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
A woman doesn’t deserve happiness, yeah? Her purpose in this life is to go into a loveless marriage, with a philandering man... and at the same time be ready to raise her children all by herself. How beautiful! 19 Likes |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Toks2008(m): 9:46pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
PrimadonnaO: Here we go again... if your kids cant give you the 100% happiness then you need to have a rethink. |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by liberalchick(f): 10:00pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
So what happens to an infertile wife? Toks2008: 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Toks2008(m): 10:03pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
liberalchick: There are options like getting an egg donor for her husband or she can adopt any orphan 1 Like |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by liberalchick(f): 10:06pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
These options are not available to all infertile couples and it is expensive. So what happens to the wife in a childless marriage? Toks2008: 18 Likes |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by ABCthings: 10:22pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
Toks2008: ...Well done. 1 Like
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Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by genq(m): 10:25pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
bukatyne: You've made a very silly comment without acknowledging the fact that a human being's development is made up of a combination of NATURE and NURTURE. Are you saying that most women today have become utterly useless, with very lose morals because their mothers taught them to be this way? I love how you conveniently ignored the influence of society, westernisation, social media etc... 6 Likes |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by kurupt1: 10:32pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
pocohantas:And if not for ur father that trained you,you won't be on nairaland posting rubbish 1 Like |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by pocohantas(f): 10:42pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
kurupt1: Yea, you are very correct. But that is because he wasn't on NL quoting people that are posting rubbish. Neither did he spend ample time discussing women. Unlike this useless generation of slaykings #spits 15 Likes |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by IAMBlesssed(f): 10:44pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
What an advice... To those that will heed this advise, remember you re on your own if you finally lands in a loveless marriage. When ur story reaches Nairaland front-page seeking for advice, you will only get sympathy and insults. . Ladies be careful, marriage is deeper than all these stories. In my opinion it's better to be single and be happy and productive with ur life than being with the wrong partner. Bad marriage is destructive, it drains you. People be wise.. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Toks2008(m): 10:47pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
liberalchick: Adoption is the cheapest option. There are orphans every where. 1 Like |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Toks2008(m): 10:49pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
IAMBlesssed: Chai! Is it that you are just troublesome or clueless or maybe unintelligent cos what you wrote is just a paraphrased version of what my thread is all about. I think some ladies only have brains for rancour. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by pocohantas(f): 10:52pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
Your priority as a woman in this one life you have is not to love a man or worry your head over a man loving you or being faithful to you and it is not a MUST to marry. Your number one duty is to bring forth and raise a GOD loving generation I no talk am? 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Toks2008(m): 10:54pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
pocohantas: Trouble maker...you tried so much to justify your erroneous conclusion that you had to crop out a phrase yet you still couldn't. So what is wrong with what you maliciously cropped out?
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Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by liberalchick(f): 10:55pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
You’re not answering my question. The adoption process is neither cheap nor straightforward. Some husbands refuse to raise an adopted child. We both know that in Nigeria, there are childless marriages. So I will ask again, what happens to the wife in a childless marriage? Toks2008: 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Toks2008(m): 10:57pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
liberalchick: See me see trouble o. If she is so poor that she can't afford the options mentioned abeg wettin make I do? Let her accept her fate biko and stop disturbing me. |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by IAMBlesssed(f): 11:02pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
Toks2008: Oga I read everything and I know what I'm saying. According to ur write up "marriage is all about having kids. Don't bother your head whether the man is good or bad in as much as he can take care of ur kids abi? Well I disagree.. 11 Likes |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by PrimadonnaO(f): 11:56pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
Toks2008: I won’t say what I’m inclined to say. But may the Lord give you wisdom. 5 Likes |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Nobody: 12:17am On Oct 26, 2019 |
pocohantas:Somebody should take this lady off market.. She is too experienced 1 Like |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Toks2008(m): 12:18am On Oct 26, 2019 |
PrimadonnaO: Must your life revolve around a man loving or staying faithful to you? Are there not better things to life than all these madness about a man loving or staying faithful to a lady? May GOD GIVE YOU FORESIGHT. |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Nobody: 12:19am On Oct 26, 2019 |
Menopause is catching up. I need a sperm donor. He has to be fair, tall and Ibo and more importantly, free from any disease. Apply within, no time to waste 1 Like |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Nobody: 12:25am On Oct 26, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe:You are still young... And please don't be tribal-biased on this... You will break many hearts |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Nobody: 12:33am On Oct 26, 2019 |
I swear op has some personal issues with happiness I wish you would respect yourself and go and find your age mate so you don't have to try so hard to brainwash lil girls into taking what their aunties left behind... 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Toks2008(m): 12:50am On Oct 26, 2019 |
Guest007: Please who exactly has issues with happiness if not people like you who tie their happiness to a man's fidelity or love towards them. The wise will catch the message whilst dreamers like you may learn the hard way. Many of us wouldn't have been born if our mothers tied their happiness to the actions of their husbands but indomie kids are so deluded exhibiting mumuisim in the name of lovey dovey. 1 Like |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Nobody: 1:33am On Oct 26, 2019 |
Toks2008: Hmm oga Toks well done oh. Today epistle na big wa! E no follow at all, this your Post na Sadist playbook. Women who would live their life in perpetual sadness LMAO. "Even if he is the philandering type you can simply switch him in your mind from a husband figure to a booty call" --- O boy, you go Wicked gaan oh. Ahn Ahn. Satan dey learn work for your side 11 Likes |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by CHoccolaTE: 2:13am On Oct 26, 2019 |
pocohantas: Lol you already know his way of requesting front page, very irritating thing. Lal@sticlala hope this makes sense? Lal@sticlala am I communicating? Evil human human being trying desperately hard to frustrate women's lives because his former wife left him. And the lal@sticlala gan does not waste time to carry his evil agenda to front page for all the sociopaths and sadists to cheer him on. 11 Likes |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by CHoccolaTE: 2:16am On Oct 26, 2019 |
The guy is now so bold, declaring that women don't need love or faithfulness from their husbands but must continue submitting to same husband and raise God loving children. I no come know which religion him dey follow that allows men to cheat and not show love to wives but wives must submit to them. 11 Likes |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Mstick: 2:47am On Oct 26, 2019 |
Nigerian version of Christianity cracks me up big time. The Bible said thou shall not commit adultery but in Nigeria it's interpreted as, women don't commit adultery but a man can. Same bible said men love your wives in Nigeria it's interpreted as, men it up to you even if you love her or not she must submit to you after all you paid bride price. To be honest, this is one of the most sickening write ups ever but in the mind of this docile man he feels he made sense. Why should I marry a man I don't love? Why should kids be brought up in a loveless marriage? Why should I give my body to a man I know sleeps with numerous women and risk my health and well-being? Why should I watch helplessly while a man pursues his happiness meanwhile I am dying of unhappiness just because YOU asked me to? They keep talking about "our mothers" like they did such a great job. The Nigerian society is just a reflection of the homes and family life in Nigeria. *wickedness *envy *hopelessness Men want to tell women how to act, how to think, how to live meanwhile you lot are the WORST when it comes to crime and evil. Where is the thread advising men to stop raping, killing, violence, stealing, cultism. You religious people have exonerated "men"From doing anything in their homes after all a "wise woman builds the home" still you want to be accorded maximum respect. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Toks2008(m): 3:17am On Oct 26, 2019 |
CHoccolaTE: You no do your FBI work well. Yes she left but that was not the end of the story...go back to where you got the info from to finish the story. Tantafo. |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Kingpablo17: 3:18am On Oct 26, 2019 |
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