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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by BluntBoy(m): 6:53pm On Oct 26, 2019
AZeD1:

Hey can I have your phone number?
Hey, is it ok if I call sometime later?
Hey can I call/text you sometimes?

The girl spent more than 5 mins in his car, if he wanted to speak to her, he could/should have asked for her permission.
The guy literally stole her number and he expects her to be polite?

It is just a matter of speaking, not a legal thing. You don't need permission to call anyone. Moreover, except you work for a network service provider who have details far beyond just your phone number, there is very little of your details available to a Bolt driver. You can't steal numbers. There is nothing called "stealing numbers" under any jurisdictions.

And, it appears like you think it is more legitimate to chat up a customer who was still in your vehicle and who under company policy could not be said to be able to give consent?

What he did was safer than what you are suggesting he should have done. His relationship with her while she was still in his vehicle was quite different from when his dealings with her had ended.

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by AZeD1(m): 6:54pm On Oct 26, 2019
shineeye1:



The girl was even polite enough but the heady goat quickly betrayed his low life
You are right.
Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by abbey621(m): 6:54pm On Oct 26, 2019
m140:

You can't because of that, am very sure unless repeated.

I don't need to argue with you, come to the USA and stalk strangers, use their private information for your own personal benefit......Who knows you might be right grin grin grin grin
Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by BigBashiru: 6:55pm On Oct 26, 2019
Eke40seven:
It is now I understand how an average Nigerian is illiterate and uncivilized. A look at the front page comments just cements the notion.
How could you even date use one's privacy information from a line of work to establish personal lust and self gratification.
That's what you get when you threw developed country technology to people with an archaic and shithole mentality, as they don't understand the ethics and responsibility towards the use of the technology..

And a woman has the right to accept or reject your friendship or an extension of it, but does the average Nigerian know this?

Someone was once on a flight from Europe to Lagos when the Nigerians on the flight started asking the flight attendants for their phone numbers in a romantic way. Africans are cursed spiritually.

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by shogsman(m): 6:55pm On Oct 26, 2019
Nigerians girls are just naturally daft.but in this case the guy is the idiot.

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by m140(m): 6:56pm On Oct 26, 2019
abbey621:


I don't need to argue with you, come to the USA and stalk strangers, use their private information for your own personal benefit......Who knows you might be right grin grin grin grin
He ain't stealing or trying to kill, the motive decides wat they would do.

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by Wuzyurdaddy(m): 6:56pm On Oct 26, 2019
shineeye1:


So they will get the reorientation from you at hours after midnight heh?

Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by bonnyhope: 6:56pm On Oct 26, 2019
What's the reason for publishing this, the guy in question was not forcing himself on you. It is normal to express feeling after which it would be either yes or no. The girl just want to show herself

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by AZeD1(m): 6:58pm On Oct 26, 2019
BluntBoy:


It is just a matter of speaking, not a legal thing. You don't need permission to call anyone. Moreover, except you work for a network service provider who have details far beyond just your phone number, there is very little of your details available to a Bolt driver. You can't steal numbers. There is nothing called "stealing numbers" under any jurisdictions.

And, it appears like you think it is more legitimate to chat up a customer who was still in your vehicle and who under company policy could not be said to be able to give consent?

What he did was safer than what you are suggesting he should have done. His relationship with her while she was still in his vehicle was quite different from when his dealings with her had ended.

The lady shared her data with Bolt and not the driver and using the data without the consent of the company or the lady is stealing. Asking if he could contact her later is the right thing to do.

Also if you are going to cold call/text someone, your first message should state who you are and your reason for calling/texting.

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by TomMary(f): 7:00pm On Oct 26, 2019
All of you condemning the girl well done.. That is unprofessional and annoying .. He ought to have informed her while on the ride not taking out her contact.. Only God knows how many girls contacts he has tried out on a daily basis

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by maasoap(m): 7:00pm On Oct 26, 2019
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cruzydal:
What the guy did is wrong . Totally unprofessional . He could have asked the lady when he was driving her or better still tell her that hope she dosnt mind if he gives her a call later in the day perhaps to congratulate her or so .he took advantage of the fact that he already has her number

And the lady too acted childish

Nothing childish about her response. She wasn't interested and she made it clear. She did not even insult the guy, whereas little insults would have made it perfect

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by TomMary(f): 7:01pm On Oct 26, 2019
AZeD1:


The lady shared her data with Bolt and not the driver and using the data without the consent of the company or the lady is stealing. Asking if he could contact her later is the right thing to do.

Also if you are going to cold call/text someone, your first message should state who you are and your reason for calling/texting.
God bless you
Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by BluntBoy(m): 7:01pm On Oct 26, 2019
yeyeosoronga:


He was able to chat with her and flow with her during working hours, but couldn't ask her if he could contact her after work?
Its wrong of him to take her number from their work sheet. Very unprofessional and its same thing as stealing people data/information.

Did he take her number from a work sheet or because her number was not masked?

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by etrange: 7:02pm On Oct 26, 2019
safarigirl:
he wasn't harrassing her

People meet in all places and positions. Ge happened to meet her in his line of work, akin to a banker meeting his wife, who happens to be a customer, at his place of work, or a lawyer, meeting a potential wife in court.

He simply expressed interest and she could have handled it better, even worse, she brought a private discussion to public space to catch clout with Chibuzor's name and enter the Honorary list of Hard Babes that have turned down guys. She was incredibly childish on two counts, and as such, his supposed lack of professionalism should be forgiven, by virtue of her poor handling of this situation. Make she no go block road for another babe that could have met a guy through Uber, with her fake sense of importance

Dude, this has happened to me before and it as was annoying. A cashier at the bank texted me with such unsolicited romantic lines just cause she got my number from a deposit slip, such indolence. I felt threatened and I couldn't use the bank branch next time cause it was obvious there was no privacy there. It was a romantic text that day, it could be a threat the next day.

The driver violated her privacy. You don't go texting people on WhatsApp if they didn't give you their contact. If we condone this, how will people feel free to use their numbers on Uber? You even ask a fellow if you could reach him on WhatsApp not to talk of a lady. You don't go typing trash on WhatsApp cause she trusted you enough not to use her number for anything other than work. There's no excuse for his action. The lady was upset and he could have ended it promptly but no. Good he got served. Hopefully, he will respect the ethics of his profession next time.

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by etrange: 7:02pm On Oct 26, 2019
crazycrypto710:
Guy park well! How is that harassment, the girl is immature and stupid.

Lol... this one is empty

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by friendl: 7:02pm On Oct 26, 2019
E be like say you no know say 9ja women hate truth ,just tell some few lies ,trust me ,she will be texting you

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by Ategberoson(m): 7:04pm On Oct 26, 2019
because of pussy he might loose his job. what manner of guy is that, I will be disappointed if he had gf
Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by maasoap(m): 7:06pm On Oct 26, 2019
BluntBoy:
He just wanted friendship.

My God, some girls can be staggeringly stupid.

If you don't want to be friends with him, there are much more respectful way to say it.

Lol. That wasn't respectful enough for you? What exactly did she say that made her responses not respectful enough. I didn't see insults up there, no harsh words, no embarrassment, no cursing. The only "respect" she didn't show was that she didn't play along.

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by shineeye1: 7:08pm On Oct 26, 2019
friendl:
E be like say you no know say 9ja women hate truth ,just tell some few lies ,trust me ,she will be texting you

Truly this Nairaland is a land of the good, the bad, the ugly and the dumbheads..

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by abbey621(m): 7:08pm On Oct 26, 2019
m140:

He ain't stealing or trying to kill, the motive decides wat they would do.

The motive...lol. You a black mofo, you'll be used as a scapegoat. You know how many black mofos went to jail for a month, 6 months, a year, 5 years for simple misdemeanors? One elegbon was sentenced to 18 days in prison for stalking his ex-gf then running away from the cops when they tried to arrest him. One mofo was sentenced to 3 months in jai for failing to pay parking tickets and child support. Nigga you just dont know!
Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by wonlasewonimi: 7:09pm On Oct 26, 2019
The guy has no right to be sending unsolicited texts. It's unprofessional cos he got her number through work. The least he could do during the ride was to ask if she would be willing to keep in touch.

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by BluntBoy(m): 7:09pm On Oct 26, 2019
AZeD1:


The lady shared her data with Bolt and not the driver and using the data without the consent of the company or the lady is stealing. Asking if he could contact her later is the right thing to do.

Also if you are going to cold call/text someone, your first message should state who you are and your reason for calling/texting.

The lady shared her data with Bolt but also agreed that her data would be shared with drivers. Bolt allows numbers to be visible to drivers for 24 hours after trip to resolve possible issues that might arise. It never stated that drivers couldn't use it to get cozy grin

Perhaps, you have not been reading my post.

Can I contact you later while at work can only be related to work-based issues. It wouldn't make any sense to be talking about contacting a rider later while they are still in your vehicle. If you are familiar with Bolt or any taxi services, you will know that drivers sometimes contact riders later to resolve issues.

So, you should never create misunderstandings by asking a rider if you would contact them later.

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by shineeye1: 7:09pm On Oct 26, 2019
maasoap:


Lol. That wasn't respectful enough. What exactly did she say that made her responses not respectful enough. I didn't see insults up there, no harsh words, no embarrassment, no cursing. The only "respect" she didn't show was that she didn't play along.

Great mind!

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by Sirfemi: 7:12pm On Oct 26, 2019
etrange:
Why are you guys not condemning the Chibuzor idiot who took advantage of his kind of job to harass his client? Such lack of professionalism. There's nothing wrong in wooing a girl but this one is violation of privacy. Why didn't he tell her how he felt before they parted ways and ask if he could call or text her later?

Why do we guys see the these dirty things and support them in the name of guy support for guys? How do we expect the society to be better with this unbecoming attitude? Imagine if it was a lady that did this, we would all be shouting "olosho", "destiny killer", "LovePeddler", "useless" and other unprintable things. Now it's a guy, it's suddenly right. Some are still blaming the lady who's clearly the victim here. Imagine the FTC guy read the entire thing and all he could do was to find a way to insult the lady.

Y'all are just ridiculous.
now someone gets it

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by webngnews: 7:15pm On Oct 26, 2019
Hmmmm
Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by BluntBoy(m): 7:15pm On Oct 26, 2019
maasoap:


Lol. That wasn't respectful enough. What exactly did she say that made her responses not respectful enough. I didn't see insults up there, no harsh words, no embarrassment, no cursing. The only "respect" she didn't show was that she didn't play along.

Did you go to school at all shocked

Is politeness in acts to now be taken as "playing along".

Go and read the post again.

The man started rather childishly, but it can mean that he has never done this before. Using cliches made him appear immature in matters of wooing.

Immediately, he comes around to making his intentions known, she goes into the usual tirade: "Please, please...if you have been doing this to other girls...bla bla bla"

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by Neddstark: 7:16pm On Oct 26, 2019
cruzydal:
What the guy did is wrong . Totally unprofessional . He could have asked the lady when he was driving her or better still tell her that hope she dosnt mind if he gives her a call later in the day perhaps to congratulate her or so .he took advantage of the fact that he already has her number

And the lady too acted childish

The guy did no wrong. I know an uber driver who is presently married to someone he met in his hustle
Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by shineeye1: 7:18pm On Oct 26, 2019
BluntBoy:


Did you go to school at all shocked

Is politeness in acts to now be taken as "playing along".

Go and read the post again.

The man started rather childishly, but it can mean that he has never done this before. Using cliches made him appear immature in matters of wooing.

Immediately, he comes around to making his intentions known, she goes into the usual tirade: "Please, please...if you have been doing this to other girls...bla bla bla"


Sometimes, the worst illiterates are those who finished from some schools...

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by Nobody: 7:21pm On Oct 26, 2019
NyenwePHC:
angry

Am sure if the guy had cruised in an expensive ride like G-boys does she wouldn't even dare talk in such a condescending manner, she might even be thinking of how to outwit her bf just to spend the night with the nigga. Stupid bitcches everywhere.

150 +likes for this thrash!!!
Now I know there are many dumbhead dunderheads on Nairaland Forum.

The driver's act was so unprofessional. And it's highly unacceptable. Bolts organization must flush out slowpokes like this form her coy.

Useless people everywhere!

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by maasoap(m): 7:21pm On Oct 26, 2019
BluntBoy:


Did you go to school at all shocked

Is politeness in acts to now be taken as "playing along".

Go and read the post again.

The man started rather childishly, but it can mean that he has never done this before. Using cliches made him appear immature in matters of wooing.

Immediately, he comes around to making his intentions known, she goes into the usual tirade: "Please, please...if you have been doing this to other girls...bla bla bla"


Mr "Go School", didn't you notice that the ideot was being stubborn. He was just being annoyingly persistent. And again, texting someone you wanted to woe in the middle of the night! And when did saying "please please please ................. " become an insult? The girl was right, absolutely for making that statement because he wouldn't take no for an answer

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by kriss27(m): 7:23pm On Oct 26, 2019
[quote author=safarigirl post=83484887]he wasn't harrassing her

People meet in all places and positions. Ge happened to meet her in his line of work, akin to a banker meeting his wife, who happens to be a customer, at his place of work, or a lawyer, meeting a potential wife in court.

He simply expressed interest and she could have handled it better, even worse, she brought a private discussion to public space to catch clout with Chibuzor's name and enter the Honorary list of Hard Babes that have turned down guys. She was incredibly childish on two counts, and as such, his supposed lack of professionalism should be forgiven, by virtue of her poor handling of this situation. Make she no go block road for another babe that could have met a guy through Uber, with her fake sense of importance[/quote Sweet heart!]
Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by Minjim: 7:24pm On Oct 26, 2019
post=83484297:
This is just so UNPROFESSIONAL of the bolt driver .

Real guys never mix business with pleasure.

It is dangerous for business

Sending her a WhatsApp message 1.21am in the middle of the night?!
Absolute rubbish!

He will be the loser at the end of it all!

Did he approach her in the line of biz?



You see what you like, you talk. It's either a Yes or No.

If you go around thinking there must be specific places and moments you must meet love, love may never find you

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