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Re: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Nobody: 10:30am On Nov 10, 2019
Eyeness:
In doing all this, you just proved me right. Thanks.


Every one that says anytin contrary from ur truth is either proving u right or sayin bullshit..
I discredit the assertions u hold as truth with facts how about you discredit my fact with super facts ..if it exist.
you av overplayed that card, "everybody is proven u right" hide under sumtinelse
Re: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by isyourboy(m): 10:34am On Nov 10, 2019
Eyeness:
LADIES BEHOLD THE MALE EGO AT WORK

He is telling himself what he wants so badly to believe is true and trying so hard to convince us to believe him.

We see youcheesy

I'm following your comment in line with that guy. Can you counter his logical deductions with facts and not just emotion which you're using to flaw the truth?. He was making sense, but noticed you can't seem to offer any reasonable counter to his claim. Truly, women has no place in matters where logic is the only bargsinijt chip.

Before you say I'm trolling, be reminded that I'm not. This isn't a troll

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Re: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness: 10:35am On Nov 10, 2019
pryme:


I feel you are lost, you have been with the wrong crowd for too long.

You should also hold your self responsible for making poor choices.

On the flip side you could only be doing all this seeking relevance, that is lower than being childish to give conclusion on something you have never experienced.

Find a real man, but the sad part is a real man will never find your type attractive, so I expect you to be chasing your tail like this for a while with your illusions.
what made you draw this conclusion?
Re: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness: 10:36am On Nov 10, 2019
isyourboy:


I'm following your comment in line with that guy. Can you counter his logical deductions with facts and not just emotion which you're using to flaw the truth?. He was making sense, but noticed you can't seem to offer any reasonable counter to his claim. Truly, women has no place in matters where logic is the only bargsinijt chip.

Before you say I'm trolling, be reminded that I'm not. This isn't a troll
i already did.
Re: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness: 10:39am On Nov 10, 2019
reservd:
Eyeness, it's not child's play putting up something of the nature you just did, it requires high level of knowledge and understanding which you are not showing in your responses. I'm not trying to discourage you but I really need you to make me buy your idea. Your comments to reactions I wish were convincing. My opinion
what part of my idea don't you buy, let's start from there
Re: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Omar09(m): 10:42am On Nov 10, 2019
Eyeness:
what part of my idea don't you buy, let's start from there
Two plots of land in Lekki phase two... I don't buy it. Jk

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Re: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by pryme(m): 10:46am On Nov 10, 2019
Eyeness:
what made you draw this conclusion?

Cos you concluded.
Re: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by boiz2men(m): 10:56am On Nov 10, 2019
Eyeness:
Good attempt at projection and gas-lighting.

what reality are you talking about?

What exactly are women being rejected for? Asking a man out? ROMANCE LAND is a prime example of guys who cant take rejection well. i don't see women opening threads to bash guys for rejecting them, nor do i see women threatening to expose nudes.

Women have issues yes, which i will eventually trash out. but we do not project our issues or make others feel shitty because our egos are like China. We have issues and thrive inspite of them, we know when and how to seek help, which is more than i can say for some nigerian men. women develop esteem issues FROM relationships.

Ever wondered why we have more suicidal and homicidal men than women even though you claim women have more rejection issues?
MEN FEAR FAILURE, and rejection from women is perverted as failure.

A man moves on to the next one because he is not strong enough to look introspectively.


Are you serious?

Some men consider rejection from women failure shocked

Does the man have a dicck or does the woman stand to pee?

Enlighten me please
Re: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness: 10:58am On Nov 10, 2019
boiz2men:



Are you serious?

Some men consider rejection from women failure shocked

Does the man have a dicck or does the woman stand to pee?

Enlighten me please
How exactly does having a dick or standing to pee make you better?
Re: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness: 11:01am On Nov 10, 2019
isyourboy:


I'm following your comment in line with that guy. Can you counter his logical deductions with facts and not just emotion which you're using to flaw the truth?. He was making sense, but noticed you can't seem to offer any reasonable counter to his claim. Truly, women has no place in matters where logic is the only bargsinijt chip.

Before you say I'm trolling, be reminded that I'm not. This isn't a troll
i did counter it with facts. let me quote you there
Re: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by boiz2men(m): 11:03am On Nov 10, 2019
Eyeness:
How exactly does having a dick or standing to pee make you better?

Did you think that was a statement?

It carried a question mark. How didn't you see that?
Re: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness: 11:05am On Nov 10, 2019
ericsmith:



i don't knw hw u came abt these generalization ... buh talkin of "rejection" all humans don't like rejection. buh if u really want these to be a gender tin i can categorically tell you women fear rejection the most, the only reason why a gurl wil not work up to her crush is "fear of rejection",
Men are raised to make "attempts" in a man's lifetime he knws he will alway av to make attempts which makes him liable to "rejection" these intuition alone prepares him ...to handle it beta than any other gender will.
nobody likes rejection that is a norm buh bin abusive or violence after is immaturity.. if u av a problem wit mature guys let us know.


let me ask you a 2 questions.

What is a man's response when he is rejected by a woman because he is broke?

What is a woman's response when a man tells her that she is ugly and can't date her?
Re: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by boiz2men(m): 11:12am On Nov 10, 2019
Eyeness:
let me ask you a 2 questions.

What is a man's response when he is rejected by a woman because he is broke?

What is a woman's response when a man tells her that she is ugly and can't date her?

I want to answer on his behalf


The man will strive to become better and go for women who don't consider his financial status

The woman will lose her confidence and self esteem. She will become timid and slow in public. She will always shy away from the public. I pray she doesn't commit suicide or bleach her skin
Re: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness: 11:12am On Nov 10, 2019
boiz2men:


Did you think that was a statement?

It carried a question mark. How didn't you see that?


No a woman does not have a dick, but she has a clitoris, which is the female equivalent of a dick(check embryology). A woman does not stand to pee, but she can actually stand to pee, but it is not a convenient position.

Now answer the question i asked.

let me add to it, what does having a dick or standing to pee have to do with being percieved as a failure as a result of continuous rejection from women?
Re: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by boiz2men(m): 11:24am On Nov 10, 2019
Eyeness:


No a woman does not have a dick, but she has a clitoris, which is the female equivalent of a dick(check embryology). A woman does not stand to pee, but she can actually stand to pee, but it is not a convenient position.

Now answer the question i asked.

let me add to it, what does having a dick or standing to pee have to do with being percieved as a failure as a result of continuous rejection from women?


To consider something a failure, it has to be beyond the ordinary.

If you add 1 to 2, u should get 3. If you get 4.. You failed it.

It is normal for ladies to reject.. Considering a lady's rejection as a failure speaks a lot about the self esteem of the guy...

I particularly think any girl who rejects me is a loss to her...

The mentality goes beyond women.. If I apply for a job and I'm rejected. I consider it their loss...

What then is failure?


Despair.. When you get to that point where you believe external odds are better than you.

If I send you a pm and ask u out, best believe I will be unperturbed (even though I might be in love) if you reject my proposal. I cant and will never take a ladies rejection as failure..

Which was why I asked if the guy has a dickk

Whether u agree or not.. when push comes to shove, men are the prize...

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Re: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness: 11:26am On Nov 10, 2019
boiz2men:


I want to answer on his behalf


The man will strive to become better and go for women who don't consider his financial status

The woman will lose her confidence and self esteem. She will become timid and slow in public. She will always shy away from the public. I pray she doesn't commit suicide or bleach her skin
Good reply.

But the initial response will be to lash out at the woman who rejects him because she is broke, he will call her names because he feels he is entitled to have her and she MUST accept him as broke as he is. If men strive actually to become better,why is it that he always paints his ex in a bad light. "She was this and she was that". Not all men who strive to become better actually become better. Men are 4 times more likely to commit suicide than women

If a man rejects a woman because of her looks, initially she does feel dejected, she doesn't call the man names for calling her ugly. But she then tries to either supplement her ugliness with other things, character traits we commonly call ’inner beauty' or she tries to work on her looks in any way possible, lightening,hair,makeup,nails, weightloss, surgery, just to upgrade her looks. To back it up with real life evidence, a good number of today's female celebrities were not born with the looks they have today. That is how femininity works. When a woman talks about her exes, she talks about his actions, 'Hey did this or did that to me'
Re: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness: 11:34am On Nov 10, 2019
boiz2men:



To consider something a failure, it has to be beyond the ordinary.

If you add 1 to 2, u should get 3. If you get 4.. You failed it.

It is normal for ladies to reject.. Considering a lady's rejection as a failure speaks a lot about the self esteem of the guy...

I particularly think any girl who rejects me is a loss to her...

The mentality goes beyond women.. If I apply for a job and I'm rejected. I consider it their loss...

What then is failure?


Despair.. When you get to that point where you believe external odds are better than you.

If I send you a pm and ask u out, best believe I will be unperturbed (even though I might be in love) if you reject my proposal. I cant and will never take a ladies rejection as failure..

Which was why I asked if the guy has a dickk

Whether u agree or not.. when push comes to shove, men are the prize...



You should have said you were talking about yourself. People in general dont think the way you do.Remember we have a lot of people with low self esteem walking the earth.

please tell me why exactly men are the prize?
Re: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by boiz2men(m): 11:41am On Nov 10, 2019
Eyeness:
Good reply.

But the initial response will be to lash out at the woman who rejects him because she is broke, he will call her names because he feels he is entitled to have her and she MUST accept him as broke as he is. If men strive actually to become better,why is it that he always paints his ex in a bad light. "She was this and she was that". Not all men who strive to become better actually become better. Men are 4 times more likely to commit suicide than women

If a man rejects a woman because of her looks, initially she does feel dejected, she doesn't call the man names for calling her ugly. But she then tries to either supplement her ugliness with other things, character traits we commonly call ’inner beauty' or she tries to work on her looks in any way possible, lightening,hair,makeup,nails, weightloss, surgery, just to upgrade her looks. To back it up with real life evidence, a good number of today's female celebrities were not born with the looks they have today. That is how femininity works. When a woman talks about her exes, she talks about his actions, 'Hey did this or did that to me'

I love how you tried to make the woman a calm simple lady who takes things easily in good faith grin

Typical of women...

Only thick skinned women are like that and they are few. Unfortunately they eventually become feminists.

Women take their looks seriously. Telling a woman who loves you that she is ugly will kill her...

She will by proxy be at war with the new babe you will get (someone that is yet to come)

the very heartless ones will go the mile to make sure your new gf who is prettier become ugly... havent you heard of ladies pouring acids on ladies faces..


Women hate rejections and are incapable of taking it...

the worst a woman can say to me is NO...

I won't hate her for that.... Never. We just become friends. That's all..

I have liked some babes here but I have gotten a good number of rejections... They are still my friends... We talk and laugh as though I didn't ask them out.. No time to be waste productive time on a woman's rejection...

This is not even an alpha make thingy. it is basic survival instincts and common sense..

Have some value for yourself and women can never break your heart...

I see everyone as nothing but SKINS and BONES (male and female alike).. So why should someone who can rot to sand feel larger than life to me... undecided
Re: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Nobody: 11:47am On Nov 10, 2019
I can see that arguing with you will take me nowhere. I didn't insult anybody, but here you are calling women thick skinned. I never painted women as calm, as i said in other posts, they have issues too and i said i would trash them in due time. Calling some women thick skinned for giving their all to improve their appearance is uncalled for.

It is like calling men thick skinned for hustling to make money
boiz2men:


I love how you tried to make the woman a calm simple lady who takes things easily in good faith grin

Typical of women...

Only thick skinned women are like that and they are few. Unfortunately they eventually become feminists.

Women take their looks seriously. Telling a woman who loves you that she is ugly will kill her...

She will by proxy be at war with the new babe you will get (someone that is yet to come)

the very heartless ones will go the mile to make sure your new gf who is prettier become ugly... havent you heard of ladies pouring acids on ladies faces..


Women hate rejections and are incapable of taking it...

the worst a woman can say to me is NO...

I won't hate her for that.... Never. We just become friends. That's all..

I have liked some babes here but I have gotten a good number of rejections... They are still my friends... We talk and laugh as though I didn't ask them out.. No time to be waste productive time on a woman's rejection...

This is not even an alpha make thingy. it is basic survival instincts and common sense..

Have some value for yourself and women can never break your heart...

I see everyone as nothing but SKINS and BONES (male and female alike).. So why should someone who can rot to sand feel larger than life to me... undecided

i think i am taking your post personally because this behavior is called gaslighting
Re: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by boiz2men(m): 11:58am On Nov 10, 2019
Eyeness:
You should have said you were talking about yourself. People in general dont think the way you do.Remember we have a lot of people with low self esteem walking the earth.

please tell me why exactly men are the prize?

To A good number of ladies

After school, whats next?

Marriage (not even jobs)

Who do they marry?

Men.

Who would do anything to get a another human even to resort to use charms and jaruma cheesy

Women

Who is the "another human"

Men

Who is the more excited couple in a wedding?

The bride

Who is a bride?

A woman

Who marries who is available and not who they love?

A woman.

Who regularly checks the clock and gets disturbed when time ticks?

A woman

Except career focused women, most women become less of themselves when they marry.
When you have run the race and you get the gold (the prize) ... You rest.. That's what most women do after marriage.

The dream of a young girl in her world of fantasy to be marry a charming rich prince. A prince is a man.


the dream of a young boy in his world of fantasy is by be very successful.


you get
Re: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness: 11:59am On Nov 10, 2019
boiz2men:


I love how you tried to make the woman a calm simple lady who takes things easily in good faith grin

Typical of women...

Only thick skinned women are like that and they are few. Unfortunately they eventually become feminists.

Women take their looks seriously. Telling a woman who loves you that she is ugly will kill her...

She will by proxy be at war with the new babe you will get (someone that is yet to come)

the very heartless ones will go the mile to make sure your new gf who is prettier become ugly... havent you heard of ladies pouring acids on ladies faces..


Women hate rejections and are incapable of taking it...

the worst a woman can say to me is NO...

I won't hate her for that.... Never. We just become friends. That's all..

I have liked some babes here but I have gotten a good number of rejections... They are still my friends... We talk and laugh as though I didn't ask them out.. No time to be waste productive time on a woman's rejection...

This is not even an alpha make thingy. it is basic survival instincts and common sense..

Have some value for yourself and women can never break your heart...

I see everyone as nothing but SKINS and BONES (male and female alike).. So why should someone who can rot to sand feel larger than life to me... undecided

This does not happen often. Majority of men don't think like you.

but calling some women thick skinned was really unnecessary.

While i respect your opinion, i wont try to force them down your throat or belittle them.

It was nice chatting with you
Re: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness: 12:03pm On Nov 10, 2019
funmisticqueen:
I can see that arguing with you will take me nowhere. I didn't insult anybody, but here you are calling women thick skinned. I never painted women as calm, as i said in other posts, they have issues too and i said i would trash them in due time. Calling some women thick skinned for giving their all to improve their appearance is uncalled for.

It is like calling men thick skinned for hustling to make money i think i am taking your post personally because this behavior is called gaslighting
Don't take it personally.

MEN ARE BETTER AT ARGUING, doing so with them will put you at a disadvantage and they will beat you at their game. TRULY FEMININE WOMEN NEVER ARGUE BECAUSE ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS.

i have been watching your threads for a while and something i notice about you is that you let men bait you too easily and you always react by arguing. Stop giving them the attention
Re: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by boiz2men(m): 12:06pm On Nov 10, 2019
Eyeness:
This does not happen often. Majority of men don't think like you.

but calling some women thick skinned was really unnecessary.

While i respect your opinion, i wont try to force them down your throat or belittle them.

It was nice chatting with you

Actually thick skinned is a complement denoting a strong willed woman who isn't disturbed by other's opinions. Her ideals do not bend to favor your opinions.. If you call her ugly, she leaves you behind and move on...

While this is admirable, they eventually become feminists.. Which becomes unfortunate for guys like us who love thick skinned women....

Its an ambivalent feeling... We love women who are not pussies but hate when they become a captain too in this ship of relations
Re: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness: 12:07pm On Nov 10, 2019
boiz2men:


To A good number of ladies

After school, whats next?

Marriage (not even jobs)

Who do they marry?

Men.

Who would do anything to get a another human even to resort to use charms and jaruma cheesy

Women

Who is the "another human"

Men

Who is the more excited couple in a wedding?

The bride

Who is a bride?

A woman

Who marries who is available and not who they love?

A woman.

Who regularly checks the clock and gets disturbed when time ticks?

A woman

Except career focused women, most women become less of themselves when they marry.
When you have run the race and you get the gold (the prize) ... You rest.. That's what most women do after marriage.

The dream of a young girl in her world of fantasy to be marry a charming rich prince. A prince is a man.


the dream of a young boy in his world of fantasy is by be very successful.


you get
i think you mistake femininity for cowardice and low self esteem.

Besides you are yet to prove that men are the prize
Re: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by boiz2men(m): 12:12pm On Nov 10, 2019
funmisticqueen:
I can see that arguing with you will take me nowhere. I didn't insult anybody, but here you are calling women thick skinned. I never painted women as calm, as i said in other posts, they have issues too and i said i would trash them in due time. Calling some women thick skinned for giving their all to improve their appearance is uncalled for.

It is like calling men thick skinned for hustling to make money i think i am taking your post personally because this behavior is called gaslighting

Hello dear..

Does thick skinned have a different meaning?

For me, it means someone who is insensitive to others criticism. Someone who cares less about others opinion....

Calling a lady ugly and she not flinching is thick skinned.. She doesn't Care about your opinions of her look.

Kindly tell me why this hurt you please..

I'm confused
Re: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Nobody: 12:14pm On Nov 10, 2019
Eyeness:
let me ask you a 2 questions.

What is a man's response when he is rejected by a woman because he is broke?

What is a woman's response when a man tells her that she is ugly and can't date her?



correction: there is nothing like "man's response" reply varies ..sum wuld walk away, sum wuld say " ok", sum might insult buh that is common among low lifes, or thugs
if its eric i can absorb wit sum sense of humour ;naa broke we broke we no kill pesin

I don't expect you to ask me what a woman response wil be, i am not a woman ... you tell me what ur own response will be, afterall response vary
Re: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness: 12:14pm On Nov 10, 2019
boiz2men:


Actually thick skinned is a complement denoting a strong willed woman who isn't disturbed by other's opinions. Her ideals do not bend to favor your opinions.. If you call her ugly, she leaves you behind and move on...

While this is admirable, they eventually become feminists.. Which becomes unfortunate for guys like us who love thick skinned women....

Its an ambivalent feeling... We love women who are not pussies but hate when they become a captain too in this ship of relations

My intention is not to usurp a man's authority especially if you read the thread, but to make women realize their feminine potential. It is quite insightful talking with you
Re: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by boiz2men(m): 12:16pm On Nov 10, 2019
Eyeness:
i think you mistake femininity for cowardice and low self esteem.

Besides you are yet to prove that men are the prize

So you read that post you quoted and still didn't get why men are the prize?

What is your emotion when you are single?

Worried, indifferent, joyful

My emotion when I'm single is indifferent. No loss no gain. What's yours?
Re: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness: 12:16pm On Nov 10, 2019
boiz2men:


Hello dear..

Does thick skinned have a different meaning?

For me, it means someone who is insensitive to others criticism. Someone who cares less about others opinion....

Calling a lady ugly and she not flinching is thick skinned.. She doesn't Care about your opinions of her look.

Kindly tell me why this hurt you please..

I'm confused
Yes, it implies a different tone to some people.

i guess men are truly from mars and women are truly from venus
Re: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness: 12:20pm On Nov 10, 2019
boiz2men:


So you read that post you quoted and still didn't get why men are the prize?

What is your emotion when you are single?

Worried, indifferent, joyful

My emotion when I'm single is indifferent. No loss no gain. What's yours?
Indifferent also, i have learned to truly enjoy my company.
Re: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness: 12:23pm On Nov 10, 2019
ericsmith:




correction: there is nothing like "man's response" reply varies ..sum wuld walk away, sum wuld say " ok", sum might insult buh that is common among low lifes, or thugs
if its eric i can absorb wit sum sense of humour ;naa broke we broke we no kill pesin

I don't expect you to ask me what a woman response wil be, i am not a woman ... you tell me what ur own response will be, afterall response vary
i agree that responses vary, but they do tend to follow a general pattern.
Re: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by boiz2men(m): 12:24pm On Nov 10, 2019
Eyeness:
My intention is not to usurp a man's authority especially if you read the thread, but to make women realize their feminine potential. It is quite insightful talking with you


Feminism didn't start as that..

But guess what we have today... Women wanting equal opportunities but never equal responsibilities...

A typical feminist often forgets that there are gender roles in the family....

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