E be like say correct women don enter this thread,

All the CAN NOT, WOULD NOT women More grease to your elbow

^^^ If to say na just you . . . wives go turn to be house helps!

Women as Househelps?

You dont know me,

While growing up, i was the eldest and a boy, None of my siblings ever washed my clothes, i did everything by myself or drycleaner.

I detest nothing more than a lazy woman. If the woman can go and work and bring in money, not leech on her husband and contribute proportionally to the running of the house, thats perfect. We can get househelp for all the house chores. Dont give me the I cant and I wont attitude, make a logical argument and we can reason.

While working in Nigeria, I had female colleagues who were married who close late and get home at 10pm atimes even work weekends and travel out of station regularly, i cant expect the husband of such to expect freshly cooked food and laundry done.

As long as you make a logical argument for it, We can reason together. Not you lazing around and expect the husband to be your lifetime meal ticket while you are watching Genevieve. How much do househelps cost.

The only place I need her to be up and doing is in bed.

If not washing their would-be husband's clothes would make them more powerful than Hillary Clinton and Michelle Obama, so be it. Last time I checked Michelle and Clinton did more than than for their men. Since these women are lawyers, did they all go to Harvard and Princeton? These women do not really understand what marriage is all about. Relationship in no brother/sister to marriage, but sort of a relative,

As long as she says so beforehand and not after the 'I do's THEN no wahala!! Afterall if I want her I must accept her fully!

ladunsky:

No worry by the time they clock 35, with no husband, Mentality go change Sharp Sharp

You got me laffin hard gal.

dayokanu:

As long as you make a logical argument for it, We can reason together. Not you lazing around and expect the husband to be your lifetime meal ticket while you are watching Genevieve.

Exactly my broda, can you imagine?

sleekch1c: i hate doing laundry, for me,it is an effort.
he shld do it himself cos am not his personal slave.
cook,clean,give him babies, haba! na slavery?

madam, u 4 change ur physiology na, make him dey make the babies, mtcheww!

marjo: When i got married, it wasn't with the mind that i wouldn't wash his clothes. I used to do the washing every weekend but if he needed to wear a shirt before wash day, he washed them himself. With time - children, work, all sorts of other pressure etc i have stopped. he washes and irons his clothes outside while our son washes his undergarments, hankies etc. Son is away at school and second son can't wash clean enough so i wash them now. we have no issues with this. he doesn't bother with my things and i don't bother with his although sometimes if i am washing for myself and kids he may hand over an odd shirt for me to wash if he needs to use it before the washman comes round. at the end of the day its all about what both of you are comfortable with. He hasn't complained about the system so i presume he's ok with it. Too many people like forming what they cant really perform in real life. i read a lot of posts on NL and am amazed at what people write sometimes - its amazing how being anonymous brings out the dark side in us. Summary; Dont mind those girls. if you surprise them one day and bobos house you will see them scrubbing the floor sef.

Well, I would scrub the floor, but would not wash his clothes
not even at all...and no forming at all

The women who wash clothes for men clearly love expressing their love by washing,and or are compelled to do so, by however means, by their men....so these adult ladies should not be judged for their decisions....
at the same same time, these ladies...and the "compellers" should not insult other adult ladies who choose not to, or could not wash their men's clothes...for whatever reason...this also is a choice

None of these makes anyone the perfect spouse

dayokanu: If the man is paralysed YES.

If not then the woman can choose to or not

like, like a thousand times

ladunsky: No worry by the time they clock 35, with no husband, Mentality go change Sharp Sharp

chei!
So you mean to tell me that in a few years, I would be begging to wash a guy's clothes?
I sincerely, totally, as the truth rules the world doubt that.....

If I were a super rich Hollywood star, I would be doing wear and throw away
But as I am just me, I would have to get my clothes washed, any which was, so telling me to start washing my man's clothes would be close to killing me, I kid you not

So even if I get to 40, desperate, I would never want, or opt to wash a guy's clothes in return for his companionship

Believe me, I am strong and honest like that

Actually, I would rather live single, happy with fewer dirty clothes to deal with....than be married and doing plenty laundry, and probably unhappy at that...
I lack focus like that
and I have reached 30!

Just buy a washing machine,and there will be no hassle.. I work everyday,come home tired even weekends too, except sundays..i had no choice than to get a washing machine with dryer.. so washing his clothes is not an issue...dump it in the washer and dryer, then few mins, they are clean..easy peasy ...no hassle, no quarrel about washing his clothes. ..everyone is happy.

cikadile:

chei!
So you mean to tell me that in a few years, I would be begging to wash a guy's clothes?
I sincerely, totally, as the truth rules the world doubt that.....

If I were a super rich Hollywood star, I would be doing wear and throw away
But as I am just me....I would have to get my clothes washed...any which way...so telling me to start washing my man's clothes would be close to killing me, I kid you not

So even if I get to 40, desperate, lonely, looking for a cat or dog kind of spinster, I would never want, or opt to wash a guy's clothes in return for his companionship

Believe me, I am strong and honest like that

Actually, I would rather live single, happy with fewer dirty clothes to deal with....than be married and doing plenty laundry, and probably unhappy at that...
I lack focus like that
and I have reached 30!

holywood star, dats the problem wit gals. They want 2 b lyk holywood gals n fail realise hw holywood relationship ends. Sweethrt, u can't eat ur cake n still v it.

vangorg: holywood star, dats the problem wit gals. They want 2 b lyk holywood gals n fail realise hw holywood relationship ends. Sweethrt, u can't eat ur cake n still v it.

Hello, you may want to read my post again....note well the line after the one you quoted......
And I am a woman, not a girl