pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

firstly dear I am so sorry about your current condition but I can assure you that the legal system is solidly behind you.

revenge porn as it is called is a crime and yours is also a case of potential rape .


I am an investigative writer and I can sense alot of things going wrong from your explanation to be frank I think the supposed rapist and your boyfriend may actually be cohorts if I am not mistaken, a typical black mail doesn't work this way hence my suspicion your boyfriend might be the Brain behind this crap.

firstly a typical black mail would have the rapist be the one trying black mail and not your so called boyfriend.

secondly how on earth did he get his hand on those videos doesn't that hit you like how did he get it because am sure if your boyfriend has it then perhaps it's already online but from what I think it's not online yet meaning the video is still with the prime suspects( your boyfriend and the rapists)

thirdly I bet you your boyfriend is scared as hell to release that first of all he is a student like you meaning if an investigation is launched after the release he too would go in for it, secondly this is he just black mailing by scarring the crap out of you so you won't leave him clearly he knows you would scurry to him once he does this but he has no idea he has also exposed himself.

fourth dear be brave and pursue the legal means, you have to be strong he knows your weakness yes but you can show him your strength, we all get into all sort of crap and this is no different I don't care if this was rape or consensual on your part your boyfriend is dabbling into the illegality of this act, he believes you would never stand up for this because of course it's sex and such comes with some sensitivity but there is nothing to be ashamed of, it's not just your education that is threatened now but you so act fast get the school authorities involved take the first step.

it's important you take the first step, people won't listen to your story if that coward dares such which I can assure you he won't, in my head he is just bluffing and enjoying the moment, that accident of yours may have been paid for which is why I urge you to take the first step, don't let him treat you like some slave or prisoner, take control get your friends who you can trust and share with them, there is no shame in sex so please take the first step, like I said remember the law is on your side, be brave and stand strong.

If what you are saying is actually true, go to police station imediately to report him. Don't go to school security. School security will write a report about the whole incidence and that will indict you latter. Remember that degree certificate is awarded both in character and learning. Report him to police and they will invite him forthwith and he will be at your mercy when the charges for his actions are read before him. Don't involve cult boys ooooo. You will be surprised at the result you will get.

pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

this is a set up from the beginning ,might actually be a bet, we guys do that ... you know! Young and stupid! First ... the video is already leaked ,just make sure they know you not scared and they are going down with you on it any day the video surface online... and continue with your life like nothing happened.... and be happy... it could’ve been worst “gang raped”

But another thing ... the guy that took you to the party... trust me, you already made up your mind to Bleep him for the fun ... and blame it on the alcohol ... and that’s before the party got lit... and where were your so called cliq, could’ve noticed you were drunk and prevented that,women do that a lot unless they know you wanted to Bleep that nigga..... just saying !

I have read through some comments though, but I think my own advice is that you should give your life to Jesus Christ and pray your way out of this mess, because do you even know what can happen before daybreak? Anytime I come to that funaab; it pains me to see a very serene school environment with lackadaisical attitude.

Chat me on 08033644773, let's track him before it's too late.... you need to go legal

Madam tell him you've reported the matter the police, and you're going to involve a lawyer soon who will send him a letter soon.

Tell him you've also told you family members and he should also get ready.

WriterX:



well to your question it's definitely the one who is more drunk , a case of this happened in abroad about two ladies who accompanied their male neighbor to a party all three got drunk but the male was able to drive all three back and had sex of both 'em he was still charged with rape because he was the least drunk of all trio .

about consent ehmm well dear friend I don't think it's usually the woman remember men get raped too and even in the cases of homosexuals and bisexuals.

consent is not defined by either gender, it is what it is.

Thank you for your answer. The context is strictly heterosexual relationships though.

I think it is unfair to charge that guy with rape. If he was deemed unfit to drive, how then was he fit to give his consent, as he had also suffered impaired judgment? What if he had charged them with rape first, would the judgement go the same way?

We all handle intoxication differently. 3 bottles of beer may be too much for you and 5 straight bottles may be my warm up. The amount of drinks taken will be an unreliable factor, because some people are more susceptible than others.

Anyway, I’m glad you responded. Thanks again.

Op , call this number, hes a lawyer ready to help you free. 08155413254

Take a drastic action before he releases it. I'm sure he would release it b4 next year. Quickly inform ur parents and get d guy arrested. He can't deny it because d chat betweeen d two of u will b a solid proof dat he has d clip. And if u don't have d chat again, quickly initiate another chat with him.
Do quick, u don't have enough time. Mind u, if u allow him to release it online, i will download it and watch it.

pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

Reply my mail let me direct you on the cheapest and most effective way to go about it.

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pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

PM me pamelayomide

Helada:
Oshey... Someone will trend very soon....

Anyways... That's a nice story o...

I don't believe all dx "advice me stories on nairaland"....

They will write emotional stories and sit down to watch how comments are flying in......
Una try o

Let me tell you a secret lala writes 99% of them using fake accounts to create traffic and the CEO of this forum is in on it

Don't ask how I know just do your own findings

That's why you never ever see me advise on any post that starts with I just created this account to hide me identity

It's all lala's handwork

Cheers

pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...go to Twitter and Dm Segalink.

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

go over to Twitter and Dm Segalink.

saajus:
This is not the best time to trade blames but remember you don't have friends yet.

First of all, did you talk in the video? Did what you are saying sound like the sex was consensual? If yes, it means you have to stand on a note that, they also drug your drinks. There are some bad drugs that will make you do anything ask of you. Go to the school authority and report that you were raped at a party. Also, get the police to arrest the guy that raped you, the person who video the rape and your boyfriend.

Are your boyfriend and those guys in a cult group? if yes, you need to restrategize cos ur life may be in danger if you take any harsh moves.

My brother, I don't think this is a rape case. She had sex with the guy due to some good moments. She should be careful going ahead to report this as rape case. She could nail herself especially if she made some sweet sounds during the act.

[quote author=pamelaayomide post=84298374]Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys (929) 242-9276 chat me up]

Y'all must be very stupid to believe this stupid cooked up story from the op....
Does the girl in question sound to you like she is in a deep mess... honestly I don't know what is with this attention everyone is craving for On NL this days.....pls I have one question ooo.Does NL pay you for every thread you open and for how long it lasts..Because the rate at which fake stories, useless headlines are poppinging up this days make to wonder if there is financial benefit tied to this nonsense mass deluding act.....


Abeg op you story is as fake as your ass, go decieve some gullible kid.

DanXplore:


Your response suggests that you either hastly did not read through my post well or have very poor acumen for comprehension. The issue is not whether it was rape or otherwise. The point is that she is a victim of her lifestyle and carelessness. If the evidences showed that she was raped against her will, perhaps I might have summoned a team of my friends, who are lawyers that offer pro bonos on issues of this nature to aid her cause.

the above in bold is exactly why i am telling you that you are making no sense... a drunk woman is just like a defenseless child... and if you believe that such woman (or child) "deserves" to be raped (or taken advantage of), then you are no better than all the rapist/pedos out there.

whether this woman consented to the sex or not is irrelevant to what you are writing and wrongly assuming... it could have been the 1st time she drank and/or got drunk, and you would still look at such person and claim that she deserved what she got. the only reason she was in such position (that a man could rape/take advantage of her) is because she hangs around LOW LIFE BASTARD RAPISTS!

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pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

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Lala this is getting old bro

Come on this is 2019 going to 2020

Let traffic be organic

homirefacuny:


You are wise sir. God bless you!

And you too.

Thank you.

Op, your story doesn't add up one bit. You went to a party with your clique and ended up getting drunk, raped and a video made of the act by the guy that drove you there. Who was the guy to you before the act? How did he know your 'school boyfriend?' what were his reasons for doing what he did? Where were your friends before the act? This one is simply a cock and bull story.

(929) 242-9276 chat me up.

The same Funaab I finished from? He dare not... Message me.

Hmmmmm, why is it that you can't abstain from sex, is your fault o, there is nothing I can say for now, next time you will abstain by force, what you are enjoying now, you will still enjoy it when you get married and get tired, why the rush.

Pharaoh4rin:


Talk to a lawyer. They'll offer u a pro bono. U know what pro bono means,right?

Just tell us you watch law series. You could have just dropped the meaning there.

let him release it and let's watch how skillful you're


beside we will know if you're really drunk and unconscious during the sex or not until we watched to discovered through our hypothesis


you went to a club that's no knowledge of your bf because if he's aware, I don't want to believe he will allow you to go or better go with you but because you want to do something flirting you went and got your ass scattered for it


getting a lawyer will really mess things up, the dude might be smarter than you, those that gave him the video might even release it if the guy is arrested. the only thing you can do is to involved his family member (elderly like his mom, dad and aunt) to help you stop the blackmail


don't escalate what you can silent with diplomatic approach because he's hurt already and feel cheated, what you need to do is what I said above

GrabHisBalls:
Op, your story doesn't add up one bit. You went to a party with your clique and ended up getting drunk, raped and a video made of the act by the guy that drove you there. Who was the guy to you before the act? How did he know your 'school boyfriend?' what were his reasons for doing what he did? Where were your friends before the act? This one is simply a cock and bull story.

lolz, don't mind her, her parents sent her to school to study, she's busy flexing around.

The cult guy will demand sex, secretly film it and u end up in an endless loop of blackmail.. Think well

pamelaayomide:
To him,the tape is with him.
I may involve the school security or a dreaded cult guy.
Maybe if the former didn't work,the latter will.

pamelaayomide:
He is.
The guy that record the video is also a student.

It's very likely that your fiancee and d guy u had sex with are not the only people having that sex tape.

patobiora1979:
Walk into any police station and ask for human rights department.you don't have to pay any money...and if you can't still get help then send a mail to (patrickpeters654@gmail.com)you need to be careful next time who you go out with

As in,where were all the "clique" when she was being manhandled by a stranger

The point of going out with a group is so that you can all look out for each other. How does she know the guy didn't put something in her drink?

People can make useless friends sha...

O girl, You had a consensual sex with one of your Bf friend that very night. You were not drunk. You have been crushing on that guy for sometime. Just admit that. Your boyfriend has no reasons to threaten you. Cos, you are not legal married to him. You have to make official report to the police. If he dear release the video, the police will treat him like a common criminal. If you have any of his photograph, keep it tight. It will come handy.

pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.