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Re: Why Is The Paternal Family So Disliked? by genq(m): 7:30pm On Nov 24, 2019 |
midnighter: This proves my point. Keep insulting each other o - girl power! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is The Paternal Family So Disliked? by Fatherofdragons: 7:34pm On Nov 24, 2019 |
Oohhhhh wahala |
Re: Why Is The Paternal Family So Disliked? by Acidosis(m): 7:34pm On Nov 24, 2019 |
..That's because some women have perfected the act of turning the hearts of their children and husbands against the paternal family. This kind of thing is not permitted in my family. This usually is one of the first and ONLY instruction we tell our wives! Don't even dare! I'm close to my cousins and relatives on both sides. They're both important to me, and I love them equally. Some cousins from my maternal family lived with us for many years but it didn't influence me into loving them more than my paternal family. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is The Paternal Family So Disliked? by Preshy561(f): 7:42pm On Nov 24, 2019 |
Acidosis:It's always the women's fault. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is The Paternal Family So Disliked? by Acidosis(m): 7:45pm On Nov 24, 2019 |
Who else notice the trend of comments from women on this thread?? I pity men in this life If you're a man and you're reading this, ensure you recondition the mind of your woman o before marriage. Women have been conditioned by generational experiences to hate your family. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is The Paternal Family So Disliked? by Acidosis(m): 7:49pm On Nov 24, 2019 |
Preshy561: Yes, certainly. A lot women read meanings to every damn thing! |
Re: Why Is The Paternal Family So Disliked? by bukatyne(f): 8:38pm On Nov 24, 2019 |
pocohantas: True na. |
Re: Why Is The Paternal Family So Disliked? by bukatyne(f): 8:45pm On Nov 24, 2019 |
How did this thread degenerate to this? 1 Like |
Re: Why Is The Paternal Family So Disliked? by bukatyne(f): 8:48pm On Nov 24, 2019 |
Acidosis: Bar exceptions, nobody can turn anyone against everyone for long periods of time. Some people would see through the facade and enlighten others. Your moniker is a guy so your struggles is not necessarily your wife's struggles. Except you are saying all children are stupid, maternal and paternal families have equal chance to prove themselves. 9 Likes |
Re: Why Is The Paternal Family So Disliked? by bukatyne(f): 8:51pm On Nov 24, 2019 |
Acidosis: Of course, you are not at the receiving end. It is easy for a rich man to call a poor man lazy. 8 Likes |
Re: Why Is The Paternal Family So Disliked? by Nobody: 9:21pm On Nov 24, 2019 |
Lol... interesting stuff is that one person's paternal family is most times, another's maternal family. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is The Paternal Family So Disliked? by midnighter(f): 9:37pm On Nov 24, 2019 |
Jarrow: That's just what I was thinking. Its weird right |
Re: Why Is The Paternal Family So Disliked? by Acidosis(m): 9:40pm On Nov 24, 2019 |
bukatyne: No one has to prove anything to me sis. I see them all as families and as people I should naturally relate with. As kids, my parents ensured we travel home (both paternal and maternal) for Christmas and New Year, so it is only natural to meet and relate with cousins. It has nothing to do with what Mr A does or what B fails to do since I don't depend on them for survival, job, money or food. Did I also mention that no family is 100% perfect? I've personally witnessed family issues and disagreements on both sides, but none of these is my business. My parents' fights and struggles with their brothers and sisters are not mine to take on and pass to the next generation. Others may take on that task, but I don't |
Re: Why Is The Paternal Family So Disliked? by Acidosis(m): 9:41pm On Nov 24, 2019 |
Jarrow:Exactly |
Re: Why Is The Paternal Family So Disliked? by Amhappy(f): 10:03pm On Nov 24, 2019 |
I have a good paternal family but my maternal is better. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is The Paternal Family So Disliked? by nlPoster: 10:05pm On Nov 24, 2019 |
maternal and paternal families have equal chance to prove themselves There is nothing to prove nitori Olorun. Why do nairalanders just feel they are the center of the universe and everybody has to prove something to them? Not talking to you! |
Re: Why Is The Paternal Family So Disliked? by nlPoster: 10:17pm On Nov 24, 2019 |
Context Versus Extremes & The Nairaland Viewpoint, Some Threads As A Case Study https://www.nairaland.com/5546726/context-versus-extremes-nairaland-viewpoint#84320874 The OP ignores the issue of who is the primary caregiver and what are his or her (op) references for the claim. |
Re: Why Is The Paternal Family So Disliked? by crackhaus: 10:48pm On Nov 24, 2019 |
Jarrow:You know what, I think you might just be the most enlightened poster I've read from since the beginning of last week. Apart from me of course I like you, I like you very much...no homo! 3 Likes |
Re: Why Is The Paternal Family So Disliked? by crackhaus: 11:01pm On Nov 24, 2019 |
midnighter: 3 Likes |
Re: Why Is The Paternal Family So Disliked? by blank(f): 12:13am On Nov 25, 2019 |
Sometimes, the people that help the mum with her kids are usually from the maternal side. The kids will grow up with affection for the maternal side. To be Nwa di ana is sweet. You can do no wrong in your maternal side. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Is The Paternal Family So Disliked? by cococandy(f): 12:17am On Nov 25, 2019 |
Shows the cultural double standards though doesn’t it? Siblings will acts totally different to the husband of their sister but become a different kind of humans when it comes to their wife of their brother. The children do take note. Jarrow: 5 Likes |
Re: Why Is The Paternal Family So Disliked? by SirVintageCock: 5:40am On Nov 25, 2019 |
I prefer the side that gives me more goodies without grudges. They are both like APC and PDP. Nobody loves their adversaries wholeheartedly no matter what the Holy Books says. With maternal side there is less or no envy regarding property sharing or success but paternal side, we are the village people that can make or mar our very existence. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is The Paternal Family So Disliked? by Nobody: 7:39am On Nov 25, 2019 |
cococandy: Cultural double standards really! And all that BS creep in when couples let others into their homes and lives 1 Like |
Re: Why Is The Paternal Family So Disliked? by babyfaceafrica: 7:42am On Nov 25, 2019 |
bukatyne: Bar exceptions, nobody can turn anyone against everyone for long periods of time. I disagree,do you know the number of fathers that their wives have turn against their siblings...even step mums turn husband against children..these things happen 1 Like |
Re: Why Is The Paternal Family So Disliked? by babyfaceafrica: 7:45am On Nov 25, 2019 |
cococandy:If you won’t call out a bully, don’t tell the person they are bullying how to react. It’s unfair very true!!! 3 Likes |
Re: Why Is The Paternal Family So Disliked? by nlPoster: 7:47am On Nov 25, 2019 |
Everybody is now a victim. |
Re: Why Is The Paternal Family So Disliked? by Nobody: 7:47am On Nov 25, 2019 |
crackhaus: Lol at the bolded. Cheers to the compliment. I like you too for your humour. Be a good brother and in-law! Say no to familial and cultural bias 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is The Paternal Family So Disliked? by ImaIma1(f): 8:57am On Nov 25, 2019 |
sweetmelanin: Gang up against male monikers? In case you haven't noticed, it's usually the other way round with theses male monikers always insulting the women folk. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Is The Paternal Family So Disliked? by crackhaus: 9:17am On Nov 25, 2019 |
Jarrow:Of course. Also, everyone here who has had only negative things to say about the paternal side of their family should endeavour that they themselves are more than perfect in-laws to the wives & in the homes of their own brother(s)...otherwise they are inadvertently part of a paternal family which someone else is talking shít about right now. Circle of life 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is The Paternal Family So Disliked? by Mizwisdom(f): 9:17am On Nov 25, 2019 |
They are disliked because of their sense of entitlement attitude 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is The Paternal Family So Disliked? by tpiar: 9:21am On Nov 25, 2019 |
Nlers! Empirical statements are your trademark, as if your reality is the only one there is. It makes conversing with you extremely difficult and frustrating. |
Re: Why Is The Paternal Family So Disliked? by crackhaus: 9:23am On Nov 25, 2019 |
nlPoster: |
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