truthsayer009:


LMAO, someone is definitely getting knacks & this isn't me getting paranoid.

midnighter:


Because she doesn't want to! Almost nobody in my family wears a ring.

It's not for everybody

Hangulsaram:

I said reason, we already know that she does n’t want to. Now the question is why does she not want to.

truthsayer009:


Benefits of a ring chases men away, at least the decent ones. There is a myth that if you are pressured enough you'll probably might consider it when chips are down. Please wear your ring.

midnighter:


So what about those guys who approach me with a shining golden band and tell me "baby don't mind this thing I'm wearing, it's just fashion"

Anybody who wants to be bad will be bad!

midnighter:


Wedding ring doesn't preclude knacks, that's a simplistic view

My family is just not interested in such stuff, even me I think I would find it difficult to wear it. It looks impractical

truthsayer009:


At least you saw the ring & you know it's not fashion. Just because a Man is saying something stupid to get into a lady's pant doesn't mean he his right.

I don't by the idea of drawing much attention to yourself when you know you can save yourself by wearing a ring at least.

Can we just call a spade a spade for once? Biko.

midnighter:


Exactly, he's not right, he's wrong..that's just the point. Did the band stop him from talking rubbish? No.

I understand the concept of driving guys away with the ring. Some single girls wear them to scare guys away

But it doesn't mean you will automatically succumb to advances. Wedding ring is just the first line of defence...we have so many strategies to help us get rid of guys lol

midnighter:


Exactly , he's not right, he's wrong..that's just the point. Did the band stop him from talking rubbish? No.

I understand the concept of driving guys away with the ring. Some single girls wear them to scare guys away

But it doesn't mean you will automatically succumb to advances. Wedding ring is just the first line of defence...we have so many strategies to help us get rid of guys lol

Ashawopapa001:
I once asked a beautiful lady of her number after flirting with her and she reciprocated, she declined saying she's married with kids. I then told her I don't mind since I didn't believe she's married. She started ranting and trying to insult me.....
That's when I schooled her, "you ain't wearing a wedding ring and expect to be treated with respect reserved for married women, go home wear your ring you feminist if not I will spank that ass ASAP

Amanda4life:


We can only take a horse to the river but wouldn't be able to force it to drink water

Ashawopapa001:
I once asked a beautiful lady of her number after flirting with her and she reciprocated, she declined saying she's married with kids. I then told her I don't mind since I didn't believe she's married. She started ranting and trying to insult me.....
That's when I schooled her, "you ain't wearing a wedding ring and expect to be treated with respect reserved for married women, go home wear your ring you feminist if not I will spank that ass ASAP

Canberra55:


My niggar. 55

maiahsaiah:


I love when men reply stupid men, that’s the only time they stop and listen. If it was a woman, they’ll look for how to shame her.

Kubernetes:

lol...I hear say them like prik too. So it's true ko?

KingWarri:

Some men are just not worthy to be called men. The way they speak is so appalling..

FineUsername:
Kindly understand the question before making an attempt to answer.

Thanks.

FineUsername:


If you noticed I didn't ask guys because they offer. It's left for the woman (she alone know her marital status) to accept or reject.

Besides I didn't state the bolded, is it a crime?

DissTroy:


...But a lot of you women who are engaged and married make subtle moves on men - single or married - on social media; especially when you realize during the first few exchanges you have that the said man has an easy way with words. You bait and edge him on, seeking to be the focus of his attention when he has time to be online. "There's no harm", you think, "And he hasn't been perverted or overt or even made any advances", you add. And when he delays with his replies (which give you butterflies inside), you ask him,"What are you up to this evening? You seem so busy." You deliberately court the attention of such guys and rarely ever mention your relationship status (not like he asks because he's not even interested in starting a relationship with you).

Months or weeks after, your psyche has been tweaked to look on him favourably - you are more likely to give out your number. The men who are willing know how to get your number and you are very likely to hook up.

Don't act like you are ice. I'm deliberately not stating specific examples. If you are engaged or married, outrightly tell men so and don't put yourself in the difficult position of being vulnerable to men who can malleate and shape words as they please. Not all of us have moral codes. Don't ruin your relationships.

midnighter:


Okay, what is the reason for wanting to?

Hangulsaram:

I want you to justify you answer ma. If you can’t please don’t bother replying me biko.

virago:



It is not only on her to accept or reject , let the men stop asking too , I mean , why would a man ask a married woman for her number

CoCoLav:
So you shouldn't network because you are married? Not every man wants to toast you or has sinister intentions. Walking around with the mentality that every man wants to toast you means you won't go far in life. Besides, not every man is heterosexual. Some people may actually want your number because they want to connect. When asked for my number, I give it out depending on where we meet..at a conference, school etc. If the calls become inappropriate, you have the option of blocking the number and moving on. Its childish for someone to ask for your number and your first response as a mature and professional woman is "sorry I'm married". Did he ask you to marry him?

Jewessgratitude:


Hahahaaa... I understand you perfectly well.

This is no advert but I'm not into any relationship for now and I dont seek guys attention here on Nairaland because most of them are underage. What I mean is I'm 38 years and I'm.not ashamed to disclose my age cos I dont have time for Nairaland guys.

I know how many have slide into my DM but I only hi them and thats all. Infact I asked one of them how old and he said 30 so you see? Underage and I immediately I told him I'm 38 and he was wowed and that's it.

So its not a question of jumping around men here for attention.
When God is ready, he'll settle me.

Depressed101:
one day you will make the one that would put you in trouble.. Relax that day is coming

maasoap:


That's what playboys want, women who like to make friends with every human whether married or not.

In my own, my wife is not allowed to make friends with men outside business and work related stuff. What will their friendship bring on the table, what will be the benefits of their friendship? What will be the reasons for being friends? Imagine 5 men putting pressure on her behind my back, for how long can she resist all of them? Seems like you don't know how men are wired!

Amossity:

and una for give una sef belle, empty ladies every