1StopRudeness:


What exactly do u want from me??
u misinterpreted my comment..I clear you but still you are still asking if I’m depressed or disturbed..if u are bored look for someone else to engage cos I’m not catching ur drift

tagging your ludicrous comment as a sarcastic reply was plain awkward it's really that simple stop trying to act like it was nothing, would you actually read that and tell yourself it's just a harmful mindless joke which everyone should laugh about?
anyways good luck with your sarcastic remarks.

WriterX:


tagging your ludicrous comment as a sarcastic reply was plain awkward it's really that simple stop trying to act like it was nothing, would you actually read that and tell yourself it's just a harmful mindless joke which everyone should laugh about?
anyways good luck with your sarcastic remarks.

Seriously..... why would any girl be used for ritual because they cheated?? My statement isn’t even about the girl at all.... its for the idiot, low self esteem and naive OP asking us what to do with a girl that’s treating him like trash......”if u don’t know what to do go and use her for ritual naaa and come and thank me later””
“Thank me later” is suppose to be the sarcastic tag in the comment..,

.it’s a common statement on nairaland...if u don’t get it, that’s fine...but just leave me the hell alone and stop trying to desperately swing my comment as evil

drlance:
She kept lying about this guy who happened to be a medical doctor, I am unemployed but sell phone accessories and do mini importation on the side but doing my Masters.

It happened that one time she told me she was to travel to Asaba to meet her family members, on hearing this I was happy and looked forward to talking to them.

After spending the night at my place I put her in a bus to Asaba, she didn't pick my calls till the next day.

The next day she posted an outing pic of herself in an eatery I didn't see it as anything but it's the next one that broke me.

A guy took a picture of her with her phone while backing a glass door so I could take that he wore a blue shirt I called that day and when I asked playfully to talk to the family members she asked me "what kind of talk is that ?"

Not long from then I got tagged in a picture on her wall on Facebook, low and behold it was a selfie of her and the Medical doctor in blue shirt and the caption "I love you forever, my personal person" someone she said I shouldn't worry about but he is asking her out, that she knew months before meeting me. She was supposed to be away for 2 days and ended up coming back after a week.

On seeing this I called to demand for an explanation if they were related, she sighed cut the phone on me and didn't pick my calls ever again.

She left me for a Medical Doctor!!

One month later now she calls me out of the blue to ask for 2k to buy foodstuffs. Which I gave without saying a word.

Fast forward to today I got a job with the government and relocated to Abuja.

She called me later shedding crocodile tears and begging for me back.

People of Nairaland, what would you have me do? What will you do if you were in my shoes? It's not my fault she didn't see the bigger picture.

She isn't the first woman that has left me for a better person.

Search for Ubanja and read his threads

Lol.....

KingSatan:


You are not ashamed to share your stupidity to the world.

What the hell happened to Growing up Mr?

She called and you gave her 2k to buy foodstuffs. BROTHER YOU ARE MAD! AND I CURSE YOU

A "Nigerian" Woman treated you like used rags because she didn't see the big picture, now that you are made she is crying and you are asking us what to do in such situation?

If you don't open that your smelly mouth and tell her to G-E-T T-H-E F-U-C-K O-U-T, then i will terminate your manhood.

Hungry leeches looking for free meal tickets.

viceddy95:

That's what is gud for those girls ,who think dating guys who are not doing well financially at the moment is a crime "chop clean mouth and japa"

It hurts, especially when you are at the receiving end.

drlance:


Thanks G

I forgot to mention she has a 9 year old kid and claimed she was raped

Of course she will say she was raped. Do these type of women ever take responsibility for their actions?

Probably had problems with the father, today, she calls it rape.

Brace up for impact

Do not accept her back. She is not worthy of you. She is after your money. A roasted yam can never germinate. She will do more. Let her go back to her doctor lover

Guy bang her hard for the last time for toiling with your hearth and kick her out!

Forget her and move on with your life, if you go back to her na ur death!

Diplomat66:
You are a fool at 40ty,run for your life brother wey mumu

All this bashing for me ?

I took my decision long ago
Don't disown me guys
Na once in a lifetime mistake I make

XploreLife:
Drlance. She doesn't respect you, she respects money. I don't think you want to settle down with someone like that except you have no self esteem.

Bless you Bro

DeRay98:


That's not the issue here, take a case on the peculiarities of the case and not generalisation of issues.

I know.
I asked because it also happens to ladies.
For this issue, its clear that the lady doesn't deserve him.

drlance:
She kept lying about this guy who happened to be a medical doctor, I am unemployed but sell phone accessories and do mini importation on the side but doing my Masters.

It happened that one time she told me she was to travel to Asaba to meet her family members, on hearing this I was happy and looked forward to talking to them.

After spending the night at my place I put her in a bus to Asaba, she didn't pick my calls till the next day.

The next day she posted an outing pic of herself in an eatery I didn't see it as anything but it's the next one that broke me.

A guy took a picture of her with her phone while backing a glass door so I could take that he wore a blue shirt I called that day and when I asked playfully to talk to the family members she asked me "what kind of talk is that ?"

Not long from then I got tagged in a picture on her wall on Facebook, low and behold it was a selfie of her and the Medical doctor in blue shirt and the caption "I love you forever, my personal person" someone she said I shouldn't worry about but he is asking her out, that she knew months before meeting me. She was supposed to be away for 2 days and ended up coming back after a week.

On seeing this I called to demand for an explanation if they were related, she sighed cut the phone on me and didn't pick my calls ever again.

She left me for a Medical Doctor!!

One month later now she calls me out of the blue to ask for 2k to buy foodstuffs. Which I gave without saying a word.

Fast forward to today I got a job with the government and relocated to Abuja.

She called me later shedding crocodile tears and begging for me back.

People of Nairaland, what would you have me do? What will you do if you were in my shoes? It's not my fault she didn't see the bigger picture.

She isn't the first woman that has left me for a better person.

baba ...common sense will tell you she is materialistic.... baba run for ya life

Anonymous8083:
OP, receive sense. BTW, I'm single and searching

PM the WhaatsApp number on my Sig, I might have someone for you.

In the grand scheme of the chaos and creation of life, this thread and all of the views within it are irrelevant. Have a nice day ��

KingSatan:


You are not ashamed to share your stupidity to the world.

What the hell happened to Growing up Mr?

She called and you gave her 2k to buy foodstuffs. BROTHER YOU ARE MAD! AND I CURSE YOU

A "Nigerian" Woman treated you like used rags because she didn't see the big picture, now that you are made she is crying and you are asking us what to do in such situation?

If you don't open that your smelly mouth and tell her to G-E-T T-H-E F-U-C-K O-U-T, then i will terminate your manhood.

Hungry leeches looking for free meal tickets.

Loool... Man you dey para gaan oo