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Re: If A Man Must Have Car, House And Job Before Marriage, What Must A Woman Have? by emmaodet: 6:18pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
Ariza: I asked you the question and you told me to direct it to my wife? If you didn't typed what you wrote up there i won't have asked the question in the first place. That is by the way. Don't place the blame solely on the men please. A man does not need to push a woman before she knows what to do abi what is the need of been an adult then and educated when you can't think and take critical decisions? Do we need to shout and say that the average nigerian man is struggling before a wise nigerian lady knows she needs to buckle up? Something that is visible to the blind and audible to the deaf? It's well 1 Like |
Re: If A Man Must Have Car, House And Job Before Marriage, What Must A Woman Have? by Geminita1(f): 6:20pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
Grandlord:Those developed countries were built by men like you. Women just got rights to work not long ago. I love men because they can create a lot of things to make life easy for women and children. Its okay to be a man, you don't have to share your responsibilities with us. . 1 Like |
Re: If A Man Must Have Car, House And Job Before Marriage, What Must A Woman Have? by Coldie(m): 6:28pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
If I have all those things God knows I go jejely look for one white woman marry. As I dae hustle na on my own, why would I make it and some stranger that wasn't there for me when I was nothing jump out and say we want to marry. If we must marry and u are not a white woman, then u self on your own go be jagaban. |
Re: If A Man Must Have Car, House And Job Before Marriage, What Must A Woman Have? by Grandlord: 6:35pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
Geminita1:This woman sef. |
Re: If A Man Must Have Car, House And Job Before Marriage, What Must A Woman Have? by chigoizie7(m): 6:47pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
Ariza: Number 1. I can not say that I won’t marry a woman I have come to love simply because she doesn’t have a job. Still going by the traditional African believes of man being the head, thus, the responsibility of providing for the family lies on his shoulder. Before I walked up to a lady to indicate my interest in her as regards to marriage, I must have been prepared, emotionally, psychologically, financially and otherwise. I would also want a woman I want to marry to be prepared as well. But because of the economic situations of this nation, I can’t say I won’t marry her because she unemployed. You know the definition of unemployment. 2. As regards to my wife possessing of properties. It is a win win situation for me. I am a hustler, I am not hustling just to feed today, I am making plans for my tomorrow, and that is investments , which possession of properties is part of it. If my wife already has a property before I marry her, it is entirely her decision to do whatever she intends to do with it. If she is already married to me, it is also her decisions to decide on whose name it will be on. I have a cousin who works with a government agency, and the cooperative she belonged to acquired a large piece of land for all the members taking one plot each, of course her own share is going to be in her name not the husbands name. If my wife is in such situation, would I tell her not to get the land simply because she is a woman? My mom had some, my dad too, till now, I know those properties they bought individually is now meant for something they owned collectively and that is us their children. In igbo it says, isi mkpi na aba na akpa mkpi. |
Re: If A Man Must Have Car, House And Job Before Marriage, What Must A Woman Have? by gforce5: 6:51pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
This is why I say that Nairaland men are the most confused set of people on the face of the planet. You complain about pretty girls being dumb and having nothing to offer except sex now I'm seeing a quote rejecting the notion of having a highly educated woman as a wife. What do you lots want? You complain about poor girls being financial parasites while rich girls are arrogant and disrespectful. So I ask again...what do you lots want? Designerdollars: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: If A Man Must Have Car, House And Job Before Marriage, What Must A Woman Have? by Nobody: 6:59pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
Common sense. |
Re: If A Man Must Have Car, House And Job Before Marriage, What Must A Woman Have? by Lonelypacifist6: 7:11pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
See how ladies are hustling for guys on this thread Their shakara is coming to an end. |
Re: If A Man Must Have Car, House And Job Before Marriage, What Must A Woman Have? by Lonelypacifist6: 7:16pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
Ariza:I Fvcking hate this society limits bullshit, are all the ladies making it in Nigeria not In the same society as you are? It's become a stale excuse find another. 2 Likes |
Re: If A Man Must Have Car, House And Job Before Marriage, What Must A Woman Have? by Lonelypacifist6: 7:19pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
Grandlord:Lazy assed wenches looking for whom to fleece Are the ones who make statement like that I pity Who's gonna put her at home. 2 Likes |
Re: If A Man Must Have Car, House And Job Before Marriage, What Must A Woman Have? by Lonelypacifist6: 7:30pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
Ariza:The bolded is very WRONG my ex wife is successful by Nigerian standard and i see no problems or any need to match her Infact I still do all my traditional duties at home which means Footing ALL bills, Infact after divorce I still have her An uncompleted building as parting gift Y'all just wanna be lazy and don't want responsibilities and still wants Equal rights How's that gonna happen? 1 Like |
Re: If A Man Must Have Car, House And Job Before Marriage, What Must A Woman Have? by Lonelypacifist6: 7:31pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
Designerdollars:They just throw that word around like it's paper. |
Re: If A Man Must Have Car, House And Job Before Marriage, What Must A Woman Have? by Nobody: 7:57pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
isyourboy:She want to collect tithe Is she God?? Run away from that liability please.. To be forewarned, is to be......... 1 Like |
Re: If A Man Must Have Car, House And Job Before Marriage, What Must A Woman Have? by Nobody: 8:30pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
A lot of ladies doesn't have anything to offer except butt and boob. So if you hustle get money, find ladies wey get your desire butt and boob. You can't get any advantage in some Naija ladies more than those two things. |
Re: If A Man Must Have Car, House And Job Before Marriage, What Must A Woman Have? by Nobody: 8:31pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
Lonelypacifist6:Dude if you want to have this conversation, clamp down the accusations and offensive words. If women in your life are lazy bunch who leech on men good, but don't use them as a yardstick to judge others.You do not know me neither do I know you, show some respect or use the door. 1 Like |
Re: If A Man Must Have Car, House And Job Before Marriage, What Must A Woman Have? by Designerdollars: 8:36pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
Only financially handicapped men want all what you stated up there from a woman. I for one would never marry a lady who is career driven.I'm financially free(at least by world standards) and I want a woman to build a home with. Not some 'clever' feminist who will be busy building another man's business. gforce5: 1 Like |
Re: If A Man Must Have Car, House And Job Before Marriage, What Must A Woman Have? by Nobody: 8:48pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
emmaodet:Who best is to answer your agony filled argument ( your initial post) other than your wife Sir Emmadeot? In your rebuttal you questioned what a woman offers and lay emphasis on how unimportant marriage has become, now how do I convince you otherwise when you are in it already. Sir, I think I am justified to direct you to your better half who is the cause of your whole perception.Perhaps things aren't that way in reality but you chose to follow the Alpha male trend to spew gibberish. Now, this is why you men hardly learn. Too argumentative and egoistic! Don't worry your Lord/Knight will explain things better when time comes.Peace! 1 Like |
Re: If A Man Must Have Car, House And Job Before Marriage, What Must A Woman Have? by phemy36(m): 9:00pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
emmaodet: You get time oo brotherly. I don't reply foolish comments. I only read it to help me take decision on some issues. There comment helps me alot. Now you allow her to insult you at will. Next time read comments and pass and take decision on their foolish comments. She will soon understand when she get to that junction. Just ignore for now. Thunder will fire her if she reply to my comment because i did not quoted her 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: If A Man Must Have Car, House And Job Before Marriage, What Must A Woman Have? by emmaodet: 9:03pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
phemy36: My broda sometimes we need to reply them. I like having positive debates with people so that we can both learn from each other |
Re: If A Man Must Have Car, House And Job Before Marriage, What Must A Woman Have? by phemy36(m): 9:09pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
emmaodet: I understand you bro. Majority of them don't think rationally like that. Men think rationally while female thinks emotionally. So spot the different. She will rather insult you than to ask you salient and intelligent question and their type no dey take insult 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If A Man Must Have Car, House And Job Before Marriage, What Must A Woman Have? by Okoroawusa: 9:13pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
yenereal:Who virginity help? |
Re: If A Man Must Have Car, House And Job Before Marriage, What Must A Woman Have? by Lonelypacifist6: 9:30pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
Ariza:Sorry, I was agitated by your generalisation, and I wasn't accusing you. |
Re: If A Man Must Have Car, House And Job Before Marriage, What Must A Woman Have? by Lonelypacifist6: 9:35pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
phemy36:Spot on i just observed that in her Arguing with them is pointless nothing intelligent Ever comes out, When they know they can't win they turn to insult or blackmail ie You're a misogynist or Egoist. |
Re: If A Man Must Have Car, House And Job Before Marriage, What Must A Woman Have? by johncallidon(m): 10:03pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
CAPSLOCKED:Idea of failure? Blood of Zakaraya
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Re: If A Man Must Have Car, House And Job Before Marriage, What Must A Woman Have? by Nobody: 11:10pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
Lonelypacifist6:Apology accepted but I didn't generalized, I used some and most in those posts you quoted. Lol anyways I hope to have a smooth conversation with you someday. Good night. |
Re: If A Man Must Have Car, House And Job Before Marriage, What Must A Woman Have? by gforce5: 12:16am On Dec 02, 2019 |
Fine. You are not interested in a career driven woman but do not complain if all she does is spend your money, ask you to foot all her bills, cannot engage you in a conversation (after all, you don't want a "highly educated" woman), watches telemundo/zee world and does not contribute anything financially to the house. We don't want to hear that your wife is a lazy parasite who sits at home all day watching T.V. Don't complain that all she does is to take and take from you. Designerdollars: |
Re: If A Man Must Have Car, House And Job Before Marriage, What Must A Woman Have? by Nobody: 9:56am On Dec 02, 2019 |
gforce5: BRO, You know life is a pot of beans & imagine something happens to his source of income, all of a sudden he cannot even say "Baby, please can you borrow me 1M till month end?". He will be stuck with life, stranded with no where to run to. Did you see on Twitter & IG recently that women are now complaining that Men now go for Women in specific professions, Doctors, Lawyers, Nurses, It specialist & top bankers? Especially when it comes to relocation & writing IELTS, they claim Men are exploiting them & all sorts. Usually women have lived their lives not to put in any work & just to look beautiful, then guys will just go crazy. What benefit will a beautiful girl that twerks on IG or selling hair & shoes on IG give you? None. After you CUM like twice, that's all oh, your eyes will clear. Once I start talking to a lady & I ask, so what do you do for a living & she begins to stutter or saying, oh I don't like revealing info about me. That's definitely a red flag. You know she does nothing. Bye Felicia, end of conversation. |
Re: If A Man Must Have Car, House And Job Before Marriage, What Must A Woman Have? by IyaTola: 10:00am On Dec 02, 2019 |
Guys, Stop spending more money on that girl in an attempt to change her. She is always getting angry at inconsequential things and you keep trying to pacify her. She has deep issues and your money cannot solve them. You should consider letting her go before she ruins you. |
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