abbatoir:


Well..what I cherish most in Life is lonely and freedom! To God be the Glory no human in this planet ever deny me that privileged...like the op suggested I live in large house and financially comfortably. So I was able to achieve that as I don't share room with my wife...she takes permission to enter my Room to enjoy sex.we could sit together in liiving room for hours without a words...my marriage is over a decade


So they were available though scarce!

Chi59:

Babe no think am o. No be by age. If dem tell you say some of these foolish guys for nairaland are in their thirties, you go believe?

RonaldoVido:
In Nigeria 40 year old men are single because of poverty not choice.

Nah poverty still crash that marriage. 90% probability.

Hisduchess:


You like making mouth shaa.see bragging ooo

Hisduchess:


You like making mouth shaa.see bragging ooo

udemzyudex:
There is one thing I have noticed about many people who claim to be in a relationship that may eventually lead to marriage.


They don't know what they want or how to go about it,how can you be dating and all you do go out to have fun,go to the beach, eateries,have sex and the circle continues.

You hardly see them sit together, and discuss on how to improve themselves, talk about the future or even plan things together.

No respect.

How do you expect that kind of relationship to lead to marriage even if it does it won't work.

Affamefuna:

Thanks bro for putting the braggado in his place. Gush, I wonder how someone can sound so arrogant and proud as if they own the world. U see this life, never underestimate or look down on anyone cos life is full of surprises!

golddust6000:
Yeah, it’s good to be proud of yourself

RisenPhoenix:
When you wait too long before you marry, you get comfortable in the self-centred bachelor lifestyle. Any wife after that will be seen as an intruder in your home, eating your food and destroying your appliances. It won't last before you vex pack the 'guest' commot.

COMMENTSFIGHTER:
maybe the woman couldn't stand his over performance and had to flee for safety.

Hisduchess:


Jisie ike.pride comes before a fall.we have this Igbo adage that says "onye ma Ife na eji nwayoo eri Ife ya" find an Igbo person to explain this adage.that's the much I can tell you with your yeye pride, Mr educationist cum professor.

mrchineke:


Fucck all of you who agree with the above. I am 53 single and enjoying my life to the fullest. The biggest lie in the world is "you need a woman or the biggest bull shht "go and marry".

I am not going to die young or die frustrated after all my money and best years have been drained away by an entitled arse. African women that rarely contribute to the advancement of their men.

Get married was the reason our fore father never ventured out to explore the world, trade with far away lands, explore the oceans, build castles or great cities or develop any large scale technology. Their sole purpose was to marry and make children and die! What Nonsense and you want to continue?

olabrinks:
Then please make sure you marry within your age range. Precisely over 30, don’t start talking about fertility or old age blah blah. It’s very hard to find a young 20 something year old who has their shit together, esp in Nigeria. The problem with people is unrealistic expectations, this is why most of you will be on your death bed alone. You will meet that working class lady but she will not be physically appealing, or she will be too bossy and independent. Wait until you are 60, that is when you will find the one.

RisenPhoenix:
When you wait too long before you marry, you get comfortable in the self-centred bachelor lifestyle. Any wife after that will be seen as an intruder in your home, eating your food and destroying your appliances. It won't last before you vex pack the 'guest' commot.

RisenPhoenix:

Even 36 is pushing it. 25-28 is just about ok. Anything less and a man is not financially or emotionally ready. Anything more and a man is getting too full of the single life and gradually developing 'marriage-destroying' habits that will be more and more difficult to stop the older he grows.

24kmagic:


25-28, seriously?

Then that means women should start getting married at 18.

Men should start thinking of marriage at 32.
Anything below that is kinda too early.

sisisioge:




You are somewhat correct.. And this happens to bachellorettes too. If one gets too used to being ones own boss, cooking only when one feels like, sleeping alone on one's bed and generally keeping to oneself. It becomes a burden when a man comes in and scatter the pace .

jakandeola:
anty go and marry

aro1:
are you sure you are not the guy?

jakandeola:
anty go and marry

sisisioge:


Arindin banza...forcking stay off my mention! Idiiiat!

jakandeola:
u can say DAT on net but not to my face if I no go beat sence into ur brain. continue be in pains for stupid advice u hear wen I ask u out.

golddust6000:
thats not true. I am almost 40, I can beat my chest and say the money in my account is over 4million.
The reason why I will not marry anytime soon is because I am looking for working class lady, or self employed person. I am afraid to marry a jobless lady or a liability, these are the reason why I will not rush my marriage.

mrchineke:


Fucck all of you who agree with the above. I am 53 single and enjoying my life to the fullest. The biggest lie in the world is "you need a woman or the biggest bull shht "go and marry".

I am not going to die young or die frustrated after all my money and best years have been drained away by an entitled arse. African women that rarely contribute to the advancement of their men.

Get married was the reason our fore father never ventured out to explore the world, trade with far away lands, explore the oceans, build castles or great cities or develop any large scale technology. Their sole purpose was to marry and make children and die! What Nonsense and you want to continue?

RisenPhoenix:
When you wait too long before you marry, you get comfortable in the self-centred bachelor lifestyle. Any wife after that will be seen as an intruder in your home, eating your food and destroying your appliances. It won't last before you vex pack the 'guest' commot.

Jgoldie:
God knows I hate stingy men....if you are stingy while dating,you will definitely be stingy while married...


Oops what do I know

spencekat:
And you are proud to be an advanced bachelor?

When you wait too long before you marry, you get comfortable in the self-centred bachelor lifestyle. Any wife after that will be seen as an intruder in your home, eating your food and destroying your appliances. It won't last before you vex pack the 'guest' commot.

When you wait too long before you marry, you get comfortable in the self-centred bachelor lifestyle. Any wife after that will be seen as an intruder in your home, eating your food and destroying your appliances. It won't last before you vex pack the 'guest' commot.

When you wait too long before you marry, you get comfortable in the self-centred bachelor lifestyle. Any wife after that will be seen as an intruder in your home, eating your food and destroying your appliances. It won't last before you vex pack the 'guest' commot.

When you wait too long before you marry, you get comfortable in the self-centred bachelor lifestyle. Any wife after that will be seen as an intruder in your home, eating your food and destroying your appliances. It won't last before you vex pack the 'guest' commot.