vowsng:
Met this beautiful angel sometime 2017 in school, we became friends but officially started dating last year December.

Things have not been Rosy cause I'm not the regular rich kid, although, she is understanding, mature and supportive.

I graduated last year, though have not been to service, with her support and that of friends, I got a 2.4 Camry I have been using for bolt.

She just graduated last week, and went home on Tuesday but before she left for home, I proposed we hang out to have some fun as her going home entails we would not see each other soonest, she accepted.

But on the other hand, my immediate elder sister had her wedding last month 23rd and as the first son, I know I became bankrupt, not forgetting that where I stay, (with a distant relative) I was given December to vamoose even though I know I'm of age to have a place of my own without being told.

So I thought about all this and decided I won't miss work that Monday, raising 200k working with bolt and my car is not too sound too, that means I have to work every single day, but on a second thought, it would be selfish of me so I skipped work on Monday and we were together that whole day.

She left for home on Tuesday, I was already out working, I saw a "stressed out" status on WhatsApp, I asked and she said she didn't leave in the morning that she was called to make urgent corrections by her supervisor.

On Wednesday we said the normal hello and good morning, most times I will be driving and a little stop or traffic I will have to reply her message or send a voice note.

But just today, no good morning or anything from the both of us, this evening, she sent in a message that she is tired, first thing that came to my mind was, "yes, i said it she would be bored at home" but I was still driving then, so I quickly replied, "I'm tired too" next thing is let's just end it and stop wasting each others time.

This is not the first time she is threatening me with breakup, she went on to call me heartless, i don't know, but I thought I found the right one, we always planned the future together, gisted about alot of things and the name we would give our kids, only for her to tell me she sees no future.

If this was a joke, then it was taken too far, I have accommodation issue, my younger brother is my responsibility for now, she knows everything about me, we weren't lacking in communication, now I believe a struggling guy shouldn't be in a relationship.

This is actually going to be a long journey to singleness. I was sad that I had to bruise some cars in traffic this evening, thanks for reading and sorry for the lengthy right up.

AwkaetitiBabe:
OK just read d screenshots. She for ask for space instead of breakup plus I saw some level of misunderstanding in d chats sef.

Anyways, she still likes you but kinda yielding to pressure.

pocohantas:
But why do guys do this?
Act all tough then go home to cry. No wonder they commit suicide pass. Hahahahahaha

See OP is in serious pains and taking advice from people that will logout to go cuddle their own babes.

By evening, we would all have forgotten about you and your thread. Then the real pains will set in. Shey you have enough Westlife on your playlist. Lmao.

No go call your babe

Riele:
I'm here wondering how it feels to be heartbroken .

Take heart sha atleast no distractions and time wasting ventures .

Riele:
I'm here wondering how it feels to be heartbroken .

Take heart sha atleast no distractions and time wasting ventures .

Lightangel65:
Poor dude, take heart women no matter how lovely they seem are like that even as devious as the devil the moment you run dry on cash, it's over, work on yourself and you would make it good luck bro.

Plus if a little wind can cause this, it is inevitable she would leave you in any bad situation. At this stage focus on making it women aren't worth your time

shakaZuIlu:
sometimes i wonder why we guys go into relationships
love a random girl and at the end of the day everything will be like it didn't happen.

I'll advice guys to desist from loving women
focus your love to your family and love money more
at the end of the day
get yourself a baby mama and get children
or better choose someone fine enough to bear children for you and give some ceremonial marriage
let her bear children for you that's all
no sentiments
no emotional attachment
women of nowadays are not worth wasting emotions on
shikina

TemmyT002:
Can't you mention her name so that an innocent guy will not go and date her o

Please if you have a terrible boyfriend or girlfriend, mention their names so that innocent people will no jam them too.

This foolishness must stop

stevups:
You might be right but because of our unborn children, one has to temper justice with mercy

vowsng:
Met this beautiful angel sometime 2017 in school, we became friends but officially started dating last year December.

Things have not been Rosy cause I'm not the regular rich kid, although, she is understanding, mature and supportive.

I graduated last year, though have not been to service, with her support and that of friends, I got a 2.4 Camry I have been using for bolt.

She just graduated last week, and went home on Tuesday but before she left for home, I proposed we hang out to have some fun as her going home entails we would not see each other soonest, she accepted.

But on the other hand, my immediate elder sister had her wedding last month 23rd and as the first son, I know I became bankrupt, not forgetting that where I stay, (with a distant relative) I was given December to vamoose even though I know I'm of age to have a place of my own without being told.

So I thought about all this and decided I won't miss work that Monday, raising 200k working with bolt and my car is not too sound too, that means I have to work every single day, but on a second thought, it would be selfish of me so I skipped work on Monday and we were together that whole day.

She left for home on Tuesday, I was already out working, I saw a "stressed out" status on WhatsApp, I asked and she said she didn't leave in the morning that she was called to make urgent corrections by her supervisor.

On Wednesday we said the normal hello and good morning, most times I will be driving and a little stop or traffic I will have to reply her message or send a voice note.

But just today, no good morning or anything from the both of us, this evening, she sent in a message that she is tired, first thing that came to my mind was, "yes, i said it she would be bored at home" but I was still driving then, so I quickly replied, "I'm tired too" next thing is let's just end it and stop wasting each others time.

This is not the first time she is threatening me with breakup, she went on to call me heartless, i don't know, but I thought I found the right one, we always planned the future together, gisted about alot of things and the name we would give our kids, only for her to tell me she sees no future.

If this was a joke, then it was taken too far, I have accommodation issue, my younger brother is my responsibility for now, she knows everything about me, we weren't lacking in communication, now I believe a struggling guy shouldn't be in a relationship.

This is actually going to be a long journey to singleness. I was sad that I had to bruise some cars in traffic this evening, thanks for reading and sorry for the lengthy right up.

Riele:
I'm here wondering how it feels to be heartbroken .

Take heart sha atleast no distractions and time wasting ventures .

mechanics:
lolz, the guy didn't know her intentions initially, because they way he even replied her make the lady to be angry the more.

mechanics:
She is not serious about the relationship, he should just forget her and move on.

cedricksly:
Sorry to say, but you are an idiot. You are also heartless and childish, She said what she said so you calm her down and reassure her all will be well soon, but you were quick to trivialize the breakup like it has been what you've been waiting for...
Except of cause you don't believe there is light at the end of your tunnel, that's why you didn't reassure her all will come good soon.

Mind you, I'm a guy, so don't tell me I'm sentimental