MrBrownJay1:


- how can you plan marriage soon when you have nobody in your life? are you gonna marry yourself or what?
- your desperation to settle down is unhealthy and will only lead to heartache
- your job/money problem has absolutely NOTHING to do with the fact that you have no woman in your life
- if you cant attract anyone in your present state then you will equally be unattractive to these same women when you make money...... they will just use your for your money while not giving a damn about you (as a person)
- there is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 29.... some lose it at 12 others later...stop comparing yourself with others. when the right time will come, then you will get jiggy
- if sex is such a big deal for you then go to some olosho joint and be done with it... these women wont be any different than the women you hope to attract in the future when you finally get a job/money.

Kestolove:
A jobless man should not be bleeping

Sukkyy2010:
Love is conditions to withold...so let understand and agree with the statement says "money bring bitches and bitches bring love"...no money no bitches plus no bitches no love money is the major priority and prerequisite to the major need and want in life so therefore forsake option and chase priority.

KingGBsky:


Like seriously you better change your profile to male bro...wtf

Starz825:


Bro...make I no lie for you... because as a guy it's always so devastating to not have money in ones pocket..imagine na... so the last money u received now was the double allawee fg paid us all that yr in December because I also passed out that same batch b stream 2 2017 Dec 14.

Now to main point....all u need now is not a girl... don't compound ur problems...u need to brace up.... infact you need God in your life... because only HIM gives divine direction, happiness and joy...HIS words will keep your hope alive..
I think u need to stand up to ur feet pray and work....if u are looking for a job pray about it and work towards getting it that's all....
To Pray and to work is the solution to every problem in life....
*There are some challenges in life that u don't even need to spend much time praying...u just need to work towards it and thank God later...

*There are some challenges...that u dont need to work much towards but just pray more

*While there are some u need both efforts... praying over it and working towards it...

Therefore...pray to God for a job and work towards getting it(submit your resume and keep telling pple you meet about jobs and also create good relationship with people...that's how I got my job.... because divine direction is also very important..
So after u get a job..and freshen up then u can begin to pray to God for a woman too... because only God gives a marriageable woman....so stay committed...and don't depend on jobs alone..things already changed in Nigeria...get a skill.

And for your age...don't panic..age nothing but a number...
Imagine naw - u are 29 and u give yourself five years to go in and get quality skills then u be 34 and another five years to start ur own biz then u be 39...as in what's bad been a CEO at 39..ask yourself..u are even lucky you are a man......
Stop acting like a baby...brace up and think plan and unleash...u were talking about sex too.. mtcheew...well I can relate anyway but I assure u will get tired of it..so bro your future very important than mere sex ...brace up.. these challenges are well scripted for your own good.. use it to your advantage and stop complaining....

And one more thing as you plan to work towards getting a job...do the following..

*Always Wake up early in the morning- dont slp like u own the world
* Pray to God- if u are a Muslim go to mosque just pour ur heart to your Creator
* Drink more water and do exercise - it helps your health and your thinking faculty..so you can be more effective for the day
*Find something doing.. Don't be idle ...get books online ..Sha be doing something.... something educative..

You be fine at the end of the day

Vado:
Baba download Inmessage and at least get laid.

YorubaKing:
Go brothel (Empire, Jolly friends etc..) go find ashana now... N500 - N1K would do the magic... Thank me later.

Ladylite:


Join gold1p on Instagram and be added to their Whatsapp group. They do match making and also connect people. You can thank me later.

dimexy247:
O deep but the truth is nobody actually gives a fucck about anyone, everyone is just trying to survive and live on, you're the only one that can help yourself, it's either you keep fighting and trying or you surrender and settle for less. That's it. Life fuccks us all and that's the ugly truth. Never give up or give up. It's your choice. Set ur priorities right.

kneehighbootz:
OP, please ignore everybody and do what you want to do. Get a girlfriend. Money really isn't everything.

Sometimes you just need someone to talk to and someone that cares about you. Maybe the idea you need to move forward is in this person. You'll never know until you try.

So go get a girlfriend and enjoy love and being loved.

PS: please don't trade up for a newer model after you've 'made' it o or else, it's a special thunder that will fire you!

I'm kidding. lol. I wish you well, OP

That's my "Dear"

Sukkyy2010:
Love is conditions to withold...so let understand and agree with the statement says "money bring bitches and bitches bring love"...no money no bitches plus no bitches no love money is the major priority and prerequisite to the major need and want in life so therefore forsake option and chase priority.

lefulefu2:
ita small island country called dominica on the carribean sea.about 30 minutes by ferry to the dominican republic and by 50 minutes by air to florida and 45 minutes by air to atigua.na sea and atlantic ocean just surround everybody here .

AuroraB:
Tell him to use a condom if he must do it ooooo. Eletan

iLegendd:


Why not you just volunteer to teach him? Stingy girl.

AuroraB:
You can volunteer to. You got a hole. Generous boy.

petitejolie:
Someone here pls be his destiny helper and put him through a job or business. It’s not easy in dis country. Especially as a man . Forget how people try to sugarcoat things , u need money to run a family. U need to have something doing .

SirLiquidGold:
I will go straight to the point. I'm 29years old and I have no girlfriend to call mine. Although when I was in school and during my NYSC some girls do give me attention but the moment we all did POP it was like the world changed for us all. I realized maybe I was too busy getting worried about the future than I should have had more time for women.

All along, my intention was to graduate, have a good job, then go into a serious relationship and get married but reality can be often disappointing.
It's rather unfortunate that no job is forthcoming since I finished service in December, 2017.

I'm very sure you would not believe it if tell you that I'm a virgin because I've never tasted sex all my live. Though i intend getting married at 30 and I've no job yet, I really feel like having a girl in my life now. I feel really lonely waking up alone everyday and hugging my pillow. It's as if nature is craving for what I ought to have had by now.

I need somebody that I can share my thought with, somebody I would be there for and also would be there for me. Guys I know you are wiser than I am, please advise me!!! Just yesterday night I came across a post on front page about "if money was delaying one from getting married and I am really worried