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Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by SEGLIZ: 4:06pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
[quote author=lilwetdick post=85343502]this is just nonsense this what i hate to read, the pity and emotional game, the story that everything can end just in a day. getting rich and going broke is a process, it just not start and end in a day but how can you be earning 30k and be in marriage. i cant allow a man earning 30k to marry my sister..simple as abc[/quojte] them beg or force read ham? your life your choice, your family your decision, your sisters life her choice her decision. if she band bele, punch the foetus come out. 1 Like |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Deltayankeeboi: 4:06pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
lilwetdick:NoBody cares about your sister or whoever she marries. 5 Likes |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by lozanni(m): 4:06pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
nakaman: You are quite right. I have a friend who was once working in a multinational upstream oil company; the friend confided in me that most of his colleagues, who earn six figure salaries, were always broke. Infact, one particular fellow's account always goes red within 24 hours of receiving his monthly salary. The reasons for the above debts are bank loans, heavy housing mortgages, exclusive schools for the children and other forms of loud living etc. 5 Likes |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by ekerintee: 4:07pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
It's not how much a man earn that matters but his zeal and determination.if you see a zealous man,thou he may not be earning much but one can see that the future is very bright for him.when I interview people and ask them some questions,I can predict to some degree of accuracy what the future may be like .money is deceitful but it's what you have upstairs that matters,marriage is not only about the man I have seen men who were nothing before marriage and then the luck and blessing of be married opened doors,even some children bring luck into marriage ,it's good to work hard ,hard work and focus matters more .even a foolish lazy man with no vision can lose an inheritance within days sometimes the African mentality means the man must carry all the load,how can the modern day woman be shouting equal right and does not want to share equal responsibiilty.in Europe,where there is equal right among both sex,responsibility are shared.the man pays the rent and the woman takes some other responsibilities.if a man earn 30k and the both have an agreement on how to survive with it,no problem. There is no problem with starting with 30k but the problem is remaining in 30k without vision or focus or improvement. . quote author=lilwetdick post=85343502]this is just nonsense this what i hate to read, the pity and emotional game, the story that everything can end just in a day. getting rich and going broke is a process, it just not start and end in a day but how can you be earning 30k and be in marriage. i cant allow a man earning 30k to marry my sister..simple as abc[/quote] 1 Like |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Nobody: 4:08pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Deltayankeeboi: so why are men coming to my father's house to ask her hand in marriage with all their cheap wine 5 Likes |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by kevotek1000(m): 4:08pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Mgbadike80: Well spoken... |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Instinged: 4:09pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
lilwetdick:i strtd with npower 30k i got married...if u see my weddin pics u wl think i spent 2M and we only use our church curton to mk good decoration outside and wt nice asho offi of 30k both...every man fr der got a drink and rice na only 60ppl i invite. my house rent is 80k well my ppl supported me weller plus i got som of d chairs and fan frm der houses. I had 40k left aftr weddin so i bought enough food fr lik 2mnths and we managed with fish. Church i select d one close to my house..so na treckin sure pass. i later got a teachin job of 35k, 30k npower den my wife strtd supplyin bankers shirt n trousers n shoes...base on say na lag she grow so she quick fix her sef wt d buz idea.. so total income was about 90k per month and thank God npower didnt stop payin me (na God go forgive me). All arrenge like 6mnths after weddin. Na wen u dey single u go dey shame hustle..but wen u marry..ur head go correct. 29 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by patrickmuf(m): 4:09pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Mgbadike80:Fact...Just 5 years ago, I know how much I earned. 5 years after, I know how far I have come. |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by DexterousOne(m): 4:09pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Thiwalade: You are doing a PhD? Awesome 2 Likes |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Nnemuka(f): 4:10pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Ajuju |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Gordonz07(m): 4:10pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
It depends the type and kind of lady. Where I stay, with 15k self you fit feed well monthly. If you have 30k, that means you can save like 10k monthly. Let guys put their heads down. There are better ladies who can accept a good and ambitious guy who doesn't earn up to 20k monthly. But it is hard to see them. 2 Likes |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by TOPCRUISE(m): 4:10pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Yes or no. Dem no fit answer. But they are quick to elaborate boring stories 4 Likes |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by zmpp(f): 4:10pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Ryan03: nonsense person, keep forming what you are not. the same you who earns less than 47,000 naira and impregnated a lady, and manages to send 15, 000 naira to your poor mother every month, is here forming rich 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by vickydankal(f): 4:11pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
lilwetdick: I agree 100% about many struggling families. There are also many whose salaries ranges to millions per month yet there are suffering. If we make money the sole determinant readiness of a man getting married, then we have as well lost the sole purpose of marriage. Those people who are suffering has so many questions to answer to themselves and to God. Like what brought them together How were they convinced to marry each other Why did they start child bearing after knowing they financial state Where do they live What's their income and expenditure What's their savings like Any side hustle etc 5 Likes |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by olabrinks(f): 4:11pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Late thirties to forties you are no longer in your prime. And if you don’t have substantial money or something very meaningful to offer at that point in your life, no young girl in their 20s will marry you. That’s why when some men talk about having all the time in the world I laugh. It’s better to settle down early with more options, because there’s no guarantee you will make it in life by the time you are 39. Mgbadike80: 11 Likes |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Mires: 4:13pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Mgbadike80: Come and rent my landlord self contain in ph for 270k 1 Like |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Nobody: 4:13pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
lilwetdick:Lol.... Funny enough I fit into this cart but honestly I can't get married even with the 100k. Anyway I think location matters too. 1 Like |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by safarigirl(f): 4:13pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
vickydankal: This is your personal experience and that is fine, but does not apply to many people There are many variants to consider in this thing; where do you live? What is the standard of living in that state? What era was this? If you got married with 10k/month salary under GEJ, your story will be different from under Buhari. 10k in Gombe, Ebonyi, Benue, Osun will take you farther than 10k take Abuja, Lagos, Port-Harcourt. Was there any other properties? Landed property for instance, is an advantage over someone without landed property living with that 10k. I know a lady who married a man with little, they lived in a face me I face you in Abuja, she was hustling hard but barely making it, eventually, the man died of meningitis 6 years into their marriage, the ventilation was poor in the house and it led to the meningitis. Thankfully, she has been doing well for herself and her son, but she has no husband now, no be say dem no warn her that time. To Each their own, there is no one formula for these things. I cannot say because my mother married my father in the 90's, when he was on 5k salary, then I can marry someone on 5k salary today and all will be well. Times are different and we cannot be selfish. 19 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Respect55(m): 4:13pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
How much is the girl earning herself 1 Like |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Hedonisco: 4:14pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
There's no formula to these things. What I know for sure is that you can plan and scheme all you want, but you can't outsmart life. Life would happen to you when and how it chooses. 4 Likes |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by lozanni(m): 4:14pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
lilwetdick: Just pray that your sister does not meet and fall in love with a man that earns 30k per month because some ladies, once they are in love they will not mind marrying such a man, despite whatever opposition their family members might have to such marriage. Our society also does not help matters in such issues as there are no form of social security available to help such poor people live a decent life. |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by frozen70(f): 4:14pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
It's time, we have to understand that, money is nit the most important thing in marriage but understanding and true love There are people earning 6digists as salaries yet their happiness is not I the marriage but with another person outside Marriage has so many things that makes it stands the taste of time A man without job, but loving, caring, understanding and very matured can live peacefully with a woman who her income carry the family till the man gets something doing But it comes with a price You can't be in that penny less condition and be fucking around, treating your wife as if she is as good as a maid Reporting her to your family and assassinating her character despite the load you left for her to carry Now tell me, if a man humbles himself, who will know how the family is being handled Thier are other people, earning higher yet frustrating their wives at home Then she in turn will make sure the house will be too hot to accommodate you What happens in such situations 39k or not, the major thing is one heart for the two of them 3 Likes |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by MrMcJay(m): 4:15pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Someone earning 1k a month can marry na. Provided both parties love each other and want to suffer together. Some marriages bring blessing, some bring suffering. Na una sabi. 7 Likes |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Brilliant7: 4:16pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
To me this life is a gradual process,30k earner can marry. Av read all the comment but wot I notice was that most people that comment are unemployed.. U can start ur family with 30k but try and look for another source of getting additional money apart form ur monthly salary... 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by MariaAngeles: 4:16pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Mgbadike80: How would you feel if after getting married, your sister comes constantly to you or your father to ask for foodstuffs and handouts always ? Even looking unkept and not well taken care or ...hmmm? 7 Likes |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Nobody: 4:17pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
vickydankal: no time to be asking god questions the reality is that money is very important in marriage. what can 30k do in a marriage when inflation rate is 11.32% there is house rent to pay transportation to pay furniture feeding these are some of the expenses to cater for, how will this man save for marriage with 30k. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by dangoteinlaw: 4:17pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
ChieduJoshua081:but why do sensible guys like u hide from nairaland. We will be looking for comments like yours instead the dumb fools are the ones always online. But I understand, u have to work but the lazy fools are online steadily spreading their ignorance. Hand go meet them soon. Shey my rich friend who just died 2weeks back left wife and kids with cars, na now him rich wife go Know say na God dey take care of children not salary. I hail bru 2 Likes |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by philip0906(m): 4:18pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Lol...It all boils down to lifestyle, exposure and environment. There are people who earn less and have families with it...for others it's not even enough for their dogs. Find the side of the divide you are and you'll be just fine. 1 Like |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by vickydankal(f): 4:18pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
safarigirl: I agree with you. There is no one way to this. To each their own fate. But I believe if you choose the right man or women it will solve so many things. Maybe my experience is making me to be one sided. 3 Likes |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Raven92: 4:18pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
U have to start from somewhere. |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Nobody: 4:19pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
lozanni: to be realistic, i pray too but i will give that man problem so that he can hustle well. 4 Likes |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Pwettyella(f): 4:19pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
lilwetdick:Seconded |
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