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Re: I Confronted My Friend Because I'm Not Comfortable With Her Chatting My Boyfrnd by healthserve(m): 2:48pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
TheGoodJoe: I feel its best if she doesn't talk to me so it doesn't generate a spiral of bad energy but for her group friends to tell her friend to back down as it's becoming uncomfortable. She also needs to confront the friend again telling her that giving her his contact to speak with him was different from having the access to talk to him whenever that permission to speak with him once doesn't imply continous unchecked access She also needs to act timely but maturely 1 Like |
Re: I Confronted My Friend Because I'm Not Comfortable With Her Chatting My Boyfrnd by TheGoodJoe(m): 2:55pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
healthserve: It is a tough case and a lot of Relationships face this challenge. I am telling you, how to deal with it is dicey. A small mistake could break a lot of things. However, I feel getting a group of friends is making the circle in the know bigger, which is unhealthy. I even feel talking to her friend was going to far. She is in a relationship and they should treat each other with respect. She was to take it up with her boyfriend and he finds a way to end it. Or just ends it by ignoring her messages. Anytime her friend asks him, he states he was too busy. No need for him accepting she should tell her friend to stop. I see love as respect and sacrifice. Sacrificing for the happiness of the other. Now she has told her friend, I think the circle should stay small. Any other issue is with her boyfriend. I hope the OP kills the guilt of asking for what she needs in a relationship. A true and healthy relationship is one with a peace of mind. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Confronted My Friend Because I'm Not Comfortable With Her Chatting My Boyfrnd by Nearbyproperty(m): 3:26pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Happiness can never come from outside but radiates from inside,been jealous is a typical sign you love him more than he does. I will advice you to exercise some restraint because no pride price has been paid,the man is always the one holding the yam and also has the choice of who should have the biggest cut.those your warning is a typical sign of desperation and will make the guy feel over important.silent with intelligence gathering would have been a best option.my own reasoning thou. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Confronted My Friend Because I'm Not Comfortable With Her Chatting My Boyfrnd by Puregold3(f): 3:35pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
TheGoodJoe: I got.. thanks bro |
Re: I Confronted My Friend Because I'm Not Comfortable With Her Chatting My Boyfrnd by Puregold3(f): 3:39pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Nearbyproperty: Thanks.. |
Re: I Confronted My Friend Because I'm Not Comfortable With Her Chatting My Boyfrnd by Puregold3(f): 3:50pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
TheGoodJoe: Should I let him know that I confronted her... I hope he wouldn't get mad |
Re: I Confronted My Friend Because I'm Not Comfortable With Her Chatting My Boyfrnd by Goldenheart(m): 3:51pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Its just a matter of time before they start Shanking each other.... You seem like a nice person... 2 Likes |
Re: I Confronted My Friend Because I'm Not Comfortable With Her Chatting My Boyfrnd by TheGoodJoe(m): 4:08pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Puregold3: I have a philosophy. A personal one. What you do in secret is open. You should not hide things from him. She will tell him and it will be better if you did instead of her. If he is mad at you, no beef. He will get over it. Next time learn to talk to him when it concerns issues you are not comfortable with. At the end, if the relationship works out, you guys have to learn to have a middle point with your characters and insecurities. 1 Like |
Re: I Confronted My Friend Because I'm Not Comfortable With Her Chatting My Boyfrnd by TheGoodJoe(m): 4:12pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Puregold3: He would be angry. 1. It shows you do not trust him when he said it was nothing. 2. It shows you can take action without confiding in him first. You learn from it. At the end, he should know you are the type that likes emotional commitment. You can not feel sorry for who you are. 1 Like |
Re: I Confronted My Friend Because I'm Not Comfortable With Her Chatting My Boyfrnd by Nobody: 4:35pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
A good dick at hand is worth twelve in the streets....I under your pain my sister |
Re: I Confronted My Friend Because I'm Not Comfortable With Her Chatting My Boyfrnd by Liposure: 4:42pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Talk 2 your boyfriend.tell him u are not comfortable with the affair. may be he might understand. 2 Likes |
Re: I Confronted My Friend Because I'm Not Comfortable With Her Chatting My Boyfrnd by ITbomb(m): 4:45pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Either the dick is good or he's a damn rich niggaa Na dem dey confuse girls like this 2 Likes |
Re: I Confronted My Friend Because I'm Not Comfortable With Her Chatting My Boyfrnd by Nobody: 4:51pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
There's already a connection. Your guy wants to bleep her for the fun of it. He still likes you. Just increase your bed game and he will consider her less. I speak as a guy |
Re: I Confronted My Friend Because I'm Not Comfortable With Her Chatting My Boyfrnd by Puregold3(f): 4:55pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
TheGoodJoe: Of course, I do trust him even more than he has expected...He should believe I do I was only feeling uncomfortable... 1 Like |
Re: I Confronted My Friend Because I'm Not Comfortable With Her Chatting My Boyfrnd by isyourboy(m): 5:01pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Ekemeze: You just said what I'm about to type. Do I still need to comment? 1 Like |
Re: I Confronted My Friend Because I'm Not Comfortable With Her Chatting My Boyfrnd by Nobody: 6:07pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Please let's discuss relationships topics once in a week.. The Knowledge i've acquired here is too much.. 2 Likes |
Re: I Confronted My Friend Because I'm Not Comfortable With Her Chatting My Boyfrnd by healthserve(m): 6:11pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
eni4real: Hahahaha my belle o 3 Likes |
Re: I Confronted My Friend Because I'm Not Comfortable With Her Chatting My Boyfrnd by Nobody: 6:14pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
healthserve:Overdose dey worry me 2 Likes |
Re: I Confronted My Friend Because I'm Not Comfortable With Her Chatting My Boyfrnd by 400billionman: 7:54pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Puregold3: He has ZERO respect for you. Is that the kind of person you want to spend your life with ? Ghost him. Make a fool of him. When he comes asking, tell him to chose between you and your friend and respect his choice. 1 Like |
Re: I Confronted My Friend Because I'm Not Comfortable With Her Chatting My Boyfrnd by Nobody: 8:35pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Puregold3:You did good but also talk to your boyfriend before she does. So you don’t get painted as the bad person. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Confronted My Friend Because I'm Not Comfortable With Her Chatting My Boyfrnd by Nobody: 8:59pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
If you talk to your boyfriend and friend and they lack so much respect for you and continue that disrespective attitude, kick "love" out of your head quit your relationship with both of them. Puregold3: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Confronted My Friend Because I'm Not Comfortable With Her Chatting My Boyfrnd by Puregold3(f): 8:51am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Grayjoy: Thanks |
Re: I Confronted My Friend Because I'm Not Comfortable With Her Chatting My Boyfrnd by Puregold3(f): 8:53am On Jan 01, 2020 |
400billionman: Thanks |
Re: I Confronted My Friend Because I'm Not Comfortable With Her Chatting My Boyfrnd by Puregold3(f): 3:25pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
TheGoodJoe: I guessed you skipped the part were i told him before confronting her and he asked me to go ahead. Just so as to satisfy my self. |
Re: I Confronted My Friend Because I'm Not Comfortable With Her Chatting My Boyfrnd by Puregold3(f): 3:28pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
I really appreciate all your advice. I've actually learnt morr than i inquired. |
Re: I Confronted My Friend Because I'm Not Comfortable With Her Chatting My Boyfrnd by healthserve(m): 3:31pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Puregold3: We hope the issue has been permanently resolved. Note boyfriend or girlfriend tag cheapen the value, to take the right actions depends on placing the right value on yourselves. Hence afesona or pitential/future husband/wife won't imply better treatment from friends |
Re: I Confronted My Friend Because I'm Not Comfortable With Her Chatting My Boyfrnd by TheGoodJoe(m): 3:53pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Puregold3: So how did he go? Did you tell him that you confronted your friend? |
Re: I Confronted My Friend Because I'm Not Comfortable With Her Chatting My Boyfrnd by TheGoodJoe(m): 3:54pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Puregold3: Communicate your feelings more. Know what makes you happy and what doesn't. Communicate about it. This is most important. Take care. |
Re: I Confronted My Friend Because I'm Not Comfortable With Her Chatting My Boyfrnd by Charleys: 4:06pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Tell her you read her messages yesterday from your boyfriend's phone. Keep reminding her. |
Re: I Confronted My Friend Because I'm Not Comfortable With Her Chatting My Boyfrnd by Puregold3(f): 9:16pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
healthserve:It has been settled pal. We're good now.. |
Re: I Confronted My Friend Because I'm Not Comfortable With Her Chatting My Boyfrnd by Puregold3(f): 9:20pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
TheGoodJoe:Sure. He doesn't take it as anything. He's not even bothered. 1 Like |
Re: I Confronted My Friend Because I'm Not Comfortable With Her Chatting My Boyfrnd by Puregold3(f): 9:22pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Charleys:I sure did that already. She's stopped . |
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