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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Lamanii22(f): 2:33pm On Jan 05
Slimdada:


Thank you dear no I haven't told her my feelings for her yet, don't want to rush things with her
I'm planning to tell her that on the 2 or 3 time we would go out to see a movie?
What do u think?


Not a bad idea...

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 2:59pm On Jan 05
stanliwise:

when I said tell her you have feelings, it could be over the chat and conversation, but you don't have to spell it out, it is called kino, there are some ways you do something that gives her the tip.
Don't take her to three date just to tell her you love her o grin my hand nor dey dere o..... it should be a relationship request, infact it is best on the second date. if you're aren't ready for relationships yet then let the normal chats continue o and don't date too much.

why not rushing things too quickly, don't let conversation get to the extent she see you as a gist partner or a person she just talk with. you have to be true from day one. No over compliments, just do if you really thinks she does something that can be complimented and buy gift only on occasion that worth it e.g birthdays and Valentine. Ask out her for a date. Pay her person to person visit on interval like once a month. And ensure she does same for you in return too o. even if it small. Except na one sided relationship.

You love her, let her and your actions ring in that direction, aside knowing yourself better and understanding each other, all form of conversation should be low until you two can confirm you want to take the decision of wanting each other.

In all this, have an open mind, talk and spend time with other female friends, it will show how much you think you love her. If she friendzone you, friendzone her also, Let any girl know you can be a reason but never an option. PLEAS NEVER BE AN OPTION.
God bless you
peace.
God bless you bro I really appreciate

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 3:00pm On Jan 05
Lamanii22:



Not a bad idea...
I appreciate your advice and time God bless you

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 3:01pm On Jan 05
Jewessgratitude:


Tone don change.

So why were you expressing fears like youve tried wooing her but shes not responding to your love?
Anyways my stand remains still. Dont force her to love you.
As for your question, there's nothing you can do to make a woman fall in love with you. Nothing! Dont let anyone fool you by telling you to do this or that.

Thank you ma I appreciate your advice and time
Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 3:03pm On Jan 05
hazard7:

How do I put this, mixed signals is part of a seduction ploy to get a woman confused and excited. It is also called push and pull. I can't explain it cause its long but I will post about it soon.

I appreciate boss
Waiting to get more clarification on what you mean by push and pull tactics lol wink
Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by BigJoe19: 3:08pm On Jan 05
It will come to a point in your life when you won't care about the love of a woman.

I guess you are still novice.

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Lamanii22(f): 3:37pm On Jan 05
Slimdada:

I appreciate your advice and time God bless you


You're very much welcome

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Newbielearner(m): 4:23pm On Jan 05
Slimdada:
I have been talking to this lady for a month now,call her everyday we flow well in our communication,when she misses my calls,she calls back so yesterday i
Asked her the network she preferred so I can send her airtime
But to my suprise she was like no you don't have to
I had to explain and convince her why I wanted to send her the card,when I eventually did she replied with a text
Thank you so much!

I love this lady so much that I would like to wife her in few year's coming as I tend to get married early as the first and only child from my late parents
But how do I make her fall in love with me

You met someone not more than a month ago and you're already thinking of marriage. What the heck? Is it that you don't know what marriage is? Or that you think the way to get what you probably want from her is through marriage?

You have chosen to love someone who you probably haven't gone for dates with a mutual expression...

For school, we study. For business, we study. For heaven, we study about Christ. For relationship, Oga go and study!
Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Kudducini(m): 12:14am On Jan 06
1 week wooing is enough to make a woman fall for you if she is truly into you.


I dissagree with this
Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 12:20am On Jan 06
Newbielearner:


You met someone not more than a month ago and you're already thinking of marriage. What the heck? Is it that you don't know what marriage is? Or that you think the way to get what you probably want from her is through marriage?

You have chosen to love someone who you probably haven't gone for dates with a mutual expression...

For school, we study. For business, we study. For heaven, we study about Christ. For relationship, Oga go and study!

What I want from her
What do you mean?
Did I ever mention of ever wanting something from her
So are you telling me that one can't feel or sense the right person he or she could be suitable with in marriage on a months interval
Must I know her for 10 year's before realizing she's the right one??

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Phenomenal16(f): 2:31am On Jan 06
Slimdada:


Thank you dear no I haven't told her my feelings for her yet, don't want to rush things with her
I'm planning to tell her that on the 2 or 3 time we would go out to see a movie?
What do u think?
...what do we think on nairaland......haba now op u must be a first class joker...nairalanders and salvage reply r like 5&6
Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by DNSPro: 5:23am On Jan 06
Slimdada:
I have been talking to this lady for a month now,call her everyday we flow well in our communication,when she misses my calls,she calls back so yesterday i
Asked her the network she preferred so I can send her airtime
But to my suprise she was like no you don't have to
I had to explain and convince her why I wanted to send her the card,when I eventually did she replied with a text
Thank you so much!

I love this lady so much that I would like to wife her in few year's coming as I tend to get married early as the first and only child from my late parents
But how do I make her fall in love with me

Don't start a relationship with a Nigerian girl by spending money it never ends well and I speak from experience. A Nigerian girl never rates you much if you do.

Sending her card when she didn't ask for it is giving her more power over you...

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by donproject(m): 6:57am On Jan 06
Slimdada:

Thank you
She just graduated and would be defending her project next week

Let me ask you, what is your attractive link? As in what is that thing that makes good women want to spend time with you.

Funny though, mine is being humorous, principled and moderately sarcastic. Ladies love men who are very bold, funny, and very sure of themselves. Being bold and be sure of oneself doesn't mean being rude and over-confident. You must balance your boldness with having humility and sense of humour.

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Newbielearner(m): 6:25pm On Jan 06
Slimdada:


What I want from her
What do you mean?
Did I ever mention of ever wanting something from her
So are you telling me that one can't feel or sense the right person he or she could be suitable with in marriage on a months interval
Must I know her for 10 year's before realizing she's the right one??

Bro, it's your life na. Do whatever pleases you. It's not my business.
Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 8:43pm On Jan 08
donproject:


Let me ask you, what is your attractive link? As in what is that thing that makes good women want to spend time with you.

Funny though, mine is being humorous, principled and moderately sarcastic. Ladies love men who are very bold, funny, and very sure of themselves. Being bold and be sure of oneself doesn't mean being rude and over-confident. You must balance your boldness with having humility and sense of humour.

YOU'RE A REAL GEE MY BRO

Thanks mi gee,mi highpreciate You see because of this your advice bro anytime you enter UMUAHIA, quote me here make I buy you some bottles and you know what as the president of real gees association I declare tomorrow PUBLIC HOLIDAY for all the real all around the world

As for your question

Hmm my brother
You need to see the way I make my colleagues laugh to stupor at work especially the female folks...����
Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 8:50pm On Jan 08
DNSPro:


Don't start a relationship with a Nigerian girl by spending money it never ends well and I speak from experience. A Nigerian girl never rates you much if you do.

Sending her card when she didn't ask for it is giving her more power over you...

No be lie
You get point
I hear u.thanks a milli
Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 8:59pm On Jan 08
Phenomenal16:
...what do we think on nairaland......haba now op u must be a first class joker...nairalanders and salvage reply r like 5&6

Firstly I'm not an op grin
Secondly its no lie what you said
One nairalander told me to push the girl so she would fall in love with me,imagine that?
If not that I already know that there must always be savage replies from every post on naira land I would have been mad,because I needed an advice and not jokes,so what I do when there are posts like this

I just randomly select the 30 percent best comments and ignore the 70 percent savagery
Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by donproject(m): 9:47pm On Jan 08
Slimdada:


YOU'RE A REAL GEE MY BRO

Thanks mi gee,mi highpreciate You see because of this your advice bro anytime you enter UMUAHIA, quote me here make I buy you some bottles and you know what as the president of real gees association I declare tomorrow PUBLIC HOLIDAY for all the real all around the world

As for your question

Hmm my brother
You need to see the way I make my colleagues laugh to stupor at work especially the female folks...����

angryI think you have it then
Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 9:51pm On Jan 08
donproject:


angryI think you have it then

Yes bro,just finished talking with her on the phone now before commenting here,she's coming back tomorrow and we already have a date on Sunday,so i would be taking her out on sunday and I'm gonna wear a brand new senator for the outing

I will still come here and give testimony when she's officially my babe.. cool

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by donproject(m): 9:55pm On Jan 08
Slimdada:


Yes bro,just finished talking with her on the phone now before commenting here,she's coming back tomorrow and we already have a date on Sunday,so i would be taking her out on sunday and I'm gonna wear a brand new senator for the outing

I will still come here and give testimony when she's officially my babe.. cool

Hmm...that's the way, looking nice with good outfit and nice smell

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 10:03pm On Jan 08
donproject:


Hmm...that's the way, looking nice with good outfit and nice smell

Yes Good perfume smiley
no be lie
Chai bros
You self don get PhD for womanology grin
Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by donproject(m): 10:19pm On Jan 08
Slimdada:


Yes Good perfume smiley
no be lie
Chai bros
You self don get PhD for womanology grin

Lols....I'm just who I'm, don't know about that o
Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Brunicekid(m): 10:32pm On Jan 08
gunners160:
why do u want to make r ur wife? because she did not accept the 100 naira credit or at most 500 credit u wanted sending to her or because you guys communicate well? my brother u need to ask yourself first want you want in a woman and secondly love is mutual I call it 50/50. If she does not fall in love with u, u too don't fall in love with her bye bye to yeye gf.The trick is not about getting
married but rather staying married...
Great contribution here!

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Timekeeper: 11:14pm On Jan 08
Slimdada:
I have been talking to this lady for a month now,call her everyday we flow well in our communication,when she misses my calls,she calls back so yesterday i
Asked her the network she preferred so I can send her airtime
But to my suprise she was like no you don't have to
I had to explain and convince her why I wanted to send her the card,when I eventually did she replied with a text
Thank you so much!

I love this lady so much that I would like to wife her in few year's coming as I tend to get married early as the first and only child from my late parents
But how do I make her fall in love with me


Chaiii God

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by BuddhaPalm(m): 12:35am On Jan 09
Knack am.
Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by oodua1stson: 10:03am On Jan 09
Slimdada:
I have been talking to this lady for a month now,call her everyday we flow well in our communication,when she misses my calls,she calls back so yesterday i
Asked her the network she preferred so I can send her airtime
But to my suprise she was like no you don't have to
I had to explain and convince her why I wanted to send her the card,when I eventually did she replied with a text
Thank you so much!

I love this lady so much that I would like to wife her in few year's coming as I tend to get married early as the first and only child from my late parents
But how do I make her fall in love with me
how to make a lady fall in love with you?



Lol

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by anonimi: 4:22am On Feb 05
Davash222:
Keep sending her recharge card every 2 days, she will definitely fall in love. No be Nigerian girl again

As im be president of the real gees? grin
Orishrishi oshisko dede.
Ode wey dey form smartasss.

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by anonimi: 4:28am On Feb 05
Slimdada:
I have been talking to this lady for a month now,call her everyday we flow well in our communication,when she misses my calls,she calls back so yesterday i
Asked her the network she preferred so I can send her airtime
But to my suprise she was like no you don't have to
I had to explain and convince her why I wanted to send her the card,when I eventually did she replied with a text
Thank you so much!

I love this lady so much that I would like to wife her in few year's coming as I tend to get married early as the first and only child from my late parents
But how do I make her fall in love with me

Fakeness is written all over your gee asss.
Forming upandan like sey something dey when there is nothing.
You better get a life.


Slimdada:
Me I no dey bang to please any fvvkin woman, once I don release if I too like the girl and she's neat I fit suck her pussy make she squirt then I'm off
I no fit kill my self well no dey ever full

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 7:37am On Feb 05
anonimi:


Fakeness is written all over your gee asss.
Forming upandan like sey something dey when there is nothing.
You better get a life.
Your father, is the fake ass and you the broke son of a fake ass father, 50-2 like you dey quote me for post wey I make long time
Na thunder go strike you if you ever mention me again idiot...show your current account balance, make I show mine let's see who is the broke ass


Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by anonimi: 8:27am On Feb 05
Slimdada:
our father, is the fake ass and you the broke son of a fake ass father, 50-2 like you dey quote me for post wey I make long time
Na thunder go strike you if you ever mention me again idiot...show your current account balance, make I show mine let's see who is the broke ass

You are so shallow with your account bragging as if all your life is measured in money.
So sorry for you.






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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by ruffkenny: 11:39am On Feb 05
Just be yourself,
Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 9:37pm On Feb 05
anonimi:


You are so shallow with your account bragging as if all your life is measured in money.
So sorry for you.

Hey bro,dont say that again,shit mehn
You called me fake as so I only tried putting you in order,because our father's said spare the rod and spoil the child,
There are still many thing you need to know about money and
you're obviously not a real gee mehn
Because real gees knows that money is the spice of life,without money you're obviously living for nothing because nobody will send you when you are broke life's good when you have dollars, can't live without dallarz,everyday I fight so hard to overcome poverty and brokenness, have you ever taught of chilling in Ibiza with some Hollywood models smoking some Arizona and having a glass of Hennessey??
If you Rich you die, you poor you Still die,won't you rather die Rich so your kids and generations would have something to bite and chew
,get rich or die trying bro money makes the world go round you better get it,

MAY WE NOT STAY BROKE FOR SO LONG BECAUSE BROKENNESS IS NOT OF THE LORDS





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