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Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by ABCthings: 4:17pm On Jan 10, 2020
musicwriter:


For me, I prefer the shortcut to simply "confess it during the Sunday service to the Church" and then I do it again and again and again. Thank God the finished work of our Lord Jesus has given us a license to sin.
E-warriors. I know ya type. Your bravery ends online. cheesy
Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by jaybabs1(m): 4:29pm On Jan 10, 2020
A three day prayer and fasting about it will help. Fasting weakens the desire of the flesh.

Then you need to have a reprogramming of mindset.

Sexual feelings is usually strong and has alot to do with your mind-fixation.

Devote your mind and energy of something different and worthwhile.

That should help.

Read the entire book of Philippians in The Bible.

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Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by wiseone28: 5:25pm On Jan 10, 2020
millionboi2:
do u play game
what type of game?
Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by millionboi2: 5:29pm On Jan 10, 2020
wiseone28:
what type of game?
like all dis naija bet,crypto invest e.t.c
Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by wiseone28: 5:33pm On Jan 10, 2020
millionboi2:
like all dis naija bet,crypto invest e.t.c
hahaha i play bet you know naija hard
Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by millionboi2: 5:36pm On Jan 10, 2020
wiseone28:
hahaha i play bet you know naija hard
so how do u relax wen u lost a game
Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by wiseone28: 5:44pm On Jan 10, 2020
millionboi2:
so how do u relax wen u lost a game
You bet what you can afford to lose grin

don't chase your lost

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Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by millionboi2: 5:47pm On Jan 10, 2020
wiseone28:
You bet what you can afford to lose grin

don't chase your lost
thy r very painfull lost ....wen it hapns do u fall back on alcohol to get relive or ??
Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by wiseone28: 5:52pm On Jan 10, 2020
millionboi2:
thy r very painfull lost ....wen it hapns do u fall back on alcohol to get relive or ??
No i don't i will only place a curse on the club that red the ticket grin
Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by millionboi2: 5:56pm On Jan 10, 2020
wiseone28:
No i don't i will only place a curse on the club that red the ticket grin
Hahahahahaha

Which state are u?


U WhatsApp digit?
Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by wiseone28: 6:08pm On Jan 10, 2020
millionboi2:
Hahahahahaha
Which state are u?

U WhatsApp digit?
valhala. I don't have a phone for now..
Maybe till i buy it i will let u know
Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Legendguru: 6:08pm On Jan 10, 2020
HMmm
Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by ledamaster(m): 6:44pm On Jan 10, 2020
The sexual tie or connection you have with those women will never let you go free. You don't need advice or preaching to, all you need is deliverance to cut and destroy that tie you have esterblished in these women.
Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by millionboi2: 6:46pm On Jan 10, 2020
wiseone28:
valhala. I don't have a phone for now..

Maybe till i buy it i will let u know
no wahala oooo


Are u in Abuja?
Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Exodora: 7:15pm On Jan 10, 2020
[quote author=Roadtorecovery post=85650312]Good evening everyone.


I have struggled with sex addiction for the past 10 years with out permanent success especially with regards to visiting and sleeping with prostitutes and keeping my mind off sex.
Presently I cant seem to keep my mind of sex and focus on my life and career.

I have a good Job and a beautiful damsel whom i have promised marriage and I am afraid I might loose any if not both of this if I don't stop,think and act NOW.



Since is a habit I learnt over time, how do I unlearn this habit permanently.

Please has anyone been able to get over sex addiction successfully.


My recent relapse after 10 months of celibacy threw me off balance and presently I have lost touch with God, friends and family because of this demeaning lifestyle.


Today after 2 weeks of relapse and wallowing in self pity, I have decided to restart all over again with strong determination to take into consideration the lesson learnt from my last relapse as I plan to adopt a better approach to ensure I conquer this habit.

I have spoken with one of spiritual director who understands sex addiction above my expectations and he is very supportive.

I have also opened up to my younger Cousin brother who also understands what it feels to suffer addiction.

I also confessed to my lady about my relapse and strong determination to quit and she is helpful and supportive but with the condition that she may not cope if I should suffer another relapse.

My addiction and its resultant consequences have made close family and friends loose their respect and confidence in me.

Above all, i feel so separated by God who have done so much for me .

I want to pick my self up and fight because of

1.God
2.Myself
3. Family
4. My girl friend


At this point I need all the help I can get to snatch out my life out of satanic bait to ruin me forever


Any professional here can please save a frustrated brother. I have not give up.









This is the time I invite my neighbor here to read peoples advice cause he and his girlfriend doesn't allow me sleep in peace , the only thing in their already bleeped up head is sex, disturbing my peaceful sleep with their maoning every night and morning. As a result of this I end up sleeping and waking with this rubbish thoughts in my head.
Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Exodora: 7:17pm On Jan 10, 2020
[quote author=Roadtorecovery post=85650312]Good evening everyone.


I have struggled with sex addiction for the past 10 years with out permanent success especially with regards to visiting and sleeping with prostitutes and keeping my mind off sex.
Presently I cant seem to keep my mind of sex and focus on my life and career.

I have a good Job and a beautiful damsel whom i have promised marriage and I am afraid I might loose any if not both of this if I don't stop,think and act NOW.



Since is a habit I learnt over time, how do I unlearn this habit permanently.

Please has anyone been able to get over sex addiction successfully.


My recent relapse after 10 months of celibacy threw me off balance and presently I have lost touch with God, friends and family because of this demeaning lifestyle.


Today after 2 weeks of relapse and wallowing in self pity, I have decided to restart all over again with strong determination to take into consideration the lesson learnt from my last relapse as I plan to adopt a better approach to ensure I conquer this habit.

I have spoken with one of spiritual director who understands sex addiction above my expectations and he is very supportive.

I have also opened up to my younger Cousin brother who also understands what it feels to suffer addiction.

I also confessed to my lady about my relapse and strong determination to quit and she is helpful and supportive but with the condition that she may not cope if I should suffer another relapse.

My addiction and its resultant consequences have made close family and friends loose their respect and confidence in me.

Above all, i feel so separated by God who have done so much for me .

I want to pick my self up and fight because of

1.God
2.Myself
3. Family
4. My girl friend


At this point I need all the help I can get to snatch out my life out of satanic bait to ruin me forever


Any professional here can please save a frustrated brother. I have not give up.1quote.]









This is the time I invite my neighbor here to read peoples advice cause he and his girlfriend doesn't allow me sleep in peace , the only thing in their already bleeped up head is sex, disturbing my peaceful sleep with their maoning every night and morning. As a result of this I end up sleeping and waking with this rubbish thoughts in my head.
Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by wiseone28: 7:37pm On Jan 10, 2020
millionboi2:
no wahala oooo

Are u in Abuja?

south south
Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by greenguy: 10:34pm On Jan 10, 2020
What do you mean by addiction? Let's know where your problem lies?

Sleeping with prostitutes or having several sex partners doesn't mean you're a sex addict.

How old are you?
What is your threshold?
How long can you do without sex?
How were you disflowered?
Are you tending towards perversion?
What are the craziest things you've done for sex?
What humiliation has your love for sex brought you?

There are so many other questions I'd love to ask. Anyway, I believe you're seeing a problem where there's no problem; perhaps as a result of the expectations you've had of yourself. You may have gone low beneath the standard you never imagined... you just slipped bro, you just slipped, you'd get better once you stop beating yourself up.

I love sex. Everyman loves sex. Most men do nasty things for sex, if you have real friends you'd know.

I love sex too bro. I can't even go one month without it, otherwise toilet go hear am. I can't even try the 10 months like you did, I'll just malfunction. BUT I'M NOT AN ADDICT.

Fix yourself or your paranoia may make you lose everything, your girl, even you job.

You're a man.
Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Hormore9ja: 11:36pm On Jan 10, 2020
Read the Bible. Read it over and over again. Anytime you want to be distracted just pick up the Bible and read.
Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Nobody: 11:41pm On Jan 10, 2020
Pm let me send you a prayer against sexual perversion.
Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by showafrica(m): 2:30am On Jan 11, 2020
soberdrunk:
Any man that can stay "10 months" without sex isn't a "sex addict". I don't know why some people just like to create imaginary problems for themselves, you are healthy brah, all you have to do is channel that sexual energy to your lady and a few side chics(if you are a variety man) or stay loyal to only your lady and your palms, you will reach a certain age and slow down naturally. Stop looking for what isn't missing, every "normal" man wakes up with erection every single day...... angry

Best advise
Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by MurphyInc(m): 5:15am On Jan 11, 2020
Roadtorecovery:
Good evening everyone.


I have struggled with sex addiction for the past 10 years with out permanent success especially with regards to visiting and sleeping with prostitutes and keeping my mind off sex.
Presently I cant seem to keep my mind of sex and focus on my life and career.

I have a good Job and a beautiful damsel whom i have promised marriage and I am afraid I might loose any if not both of this if I don't stop,think and act NOW.



Since is a habit I learnt over time, how do I unlearn this habit permanently.

Please has anyone been able to get over sex addiction successfully.


My recent relapse after 10 months of celibacy threw me off balance and presently I have lost touch with God, friends and family because of this demeaning lifestyle.


Today after 2 weeks of relapse and wallowing in self pity, I have decided to restart all over again with strong determination to take into consideration the lesson learnt from my last relapse as I plan to adopt a better approach to ensure I conquer this habit.

I have spoken with one of spiritual director who understands sex addiction above my expectations and he is very supportive.

I have also opened up to my younger Cousin brother who also understands what it feels to suffer addiction.

I also confessed to my lady about my relapse and strong determination to quit and she is helpful and supportive but with the condition that she may not cope if I should suffer another relapse.

My addiction and its resultant consequences have made close family and friends loose their respect and confidence in me.

Above all, i feel so separated by God who have done so much for me .

I want to pick my self up and fight because of

1.God
2.Myself
3. Family
4. My girl friend


At this point I need all the help I can get to snatch out my life out of satanic bait to ruin me forever


Any professional here can please save a frustrated brother. I have not give up.










Believe me my brother, Sex addiction is demonic and satanic.it is one of Satan's tool to destroy ones life.I'm glad you looking for help cos if care is not taken you will end up loosing your life.please get close to God and get into prayer every night and day.you can also get a deliverance.

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Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by feisty1(f): 7:11am On Jan 11, 2020
All u need is..
1:Holyspirit
2:prayers..
3:Deliverance
My brother,the battle is not physical..because u are not restling with urself but a power that you cant control..only God has the power to silence that power..everything is traced down to ur foundation,make ur findings from ur parent if that is wat they battle with in ur family..and u might be suprise to hear that it happened to some people in ur family..Because I was tired of the problems in my family,It took me to God..my brother if u dont pray seriously and allow God to destroy ur foundation..it might repeat itself,wat u dont understand is that..our fore fathers ate with d devil,dey made covenants with him and devoted d family to him..I feel God is letting u c that u need to come closer to him ,so dat he will take every yoke and burden from ur life..ur fear shouldn't be loosing ur girlfriend but it should be loosing God..do u no dat d destinies of ur unborn children have connections with u..if u dont want them to be hunted by d devil,u need to devote urself to God..and every legal ground dat d devil is having will be destroyed..dont condemn urself,all u did in d past confess it to God..and please dont do it again..God himself didnt come for the righeous he came for us d sinners..please find a church that prays very well..my brother prayer is the key..I pray for u,that the lord will answer ur prayers and his name will be magnified in ur life..Amen

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Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Geesunny: 10:25am On Jan 11, 2020
You can't stop that addiction by self determination or counseling by any spiritual director. The only way out is to admit to God in continues prayer that you can't but he (God) can stop it for you. God loves you and will break the power of that addiction in no time. Locate a Bible believing church too for understanding.

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Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Kescott(m): 6:27pm On Jan 11, 2020
salt1:


The God Whom you seek to please will abundantly reward you for honouring your body which is His temple.
I hope you're planning to get married soonest
YES!! Not in any relationship at the moment but God willing before the end of this year or first half of next
Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Yeecar(m): 6:52am On Jan 14, 2020
soberdrunk:
Any man that can stay "10 months" without sex isn't a "sex addict". I don't know why some people just like to create imaginary problems for themselves, you are healthy brah, all you have to do is channel that sexual energy to your lady and a few side chics(if you are a variety man) or stay loyal to only your lady and your palms, you will reach a certain age and slow down naturally. Stop looking for what isn't missing, every "normal" man wakes up with erection every single day...... angry
I wonder oo
Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Lightangel65: 8:51pm On Jan 14, 2020
Roadtorecovery:
Good evening everyone.


I have struggled with sex addiction for the past 10 years with out permanent success especially with regards to visiting and sleeping with prostitutes and keeping my mind off sex.
Presently I cant seem to keep my mind of sex and focus on my life and career.

I have a good Job and a beautiful damsel whom i have promised marriage and I am afraid I might loose any if not both of this if I don't stop,think and act NOW.



Since is a habit I learnt over time, how do I unlearn this habit permanently.

Please has anyone been able to get over sex addiction successfully.


My recent relapse after 10 months of celibacy threw me off balance and presently I have lost touch with God, friends and family because of this demeaning lifestyle.


Today after 2 weeks of relapse and wallowing in self pity, I have decided to restart all over again with strong determination to take into consideration the lesson learnt from my last relapse as I plan to adopt a better approach to ensure I conquer this habit.

I have spoken with one of spiritual director who understands sex addiction above my expectations and he is very supportive.

I have also opened up to my younger Cousin brother who also understands what it feels to suffer addiction.

I also confessed to my lady about my relapse and strong determination to quit and she is helpful and supportive but with the condition that she may not cope if I should suffer another relapse.

My addiction and its resultant consequences have made close family and friends loose their respect and confidence in me.

Above all, i feel so separated by God who have done so much for me .

I want to pick my self up and fight because of

1.God
2.Myself
3. Family
4. My girl friend


At this point I need all the help I can get to snatch out my life out of satanic bait to ruin me forever


Any professional here can please save a frustrated brother. I have not give up.










I would have given you some misogyny tips but you are already far gone.
For quick breakout from your addiction, buy anti testereone drugs. they work fast, they would kill any sex urge you ever have and they are not that expensive. use this
Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by zeuss: 11:27pm On Mar 05
Roadtorecovery:
I am very serious with her and she is very open and ready to help. I just want to do the right thing before this ruins me permanently.

exhaust and empty your all upon her....spare nothing to give outside and make her do like u lust for in the easy virtue ladies

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