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Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by CuntBobby: 9:26pm On Jan 09, 2020
What is your moniker on ashawo thread? You be senior member

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Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Blakjewelry(m): 9:26pm On Jan 09, 2020
I really don't a picture of what op is saying

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Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Oluwaseyi00(m): 9:27pm On Jan 09, 2020
You mentioned 'Addiction' I advise you seek for spiritual counseling and prayers.

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Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Nobody: 9:28pm On Jan 09, 2020
Go for deliverance and give your life to Jesus.
Totally surrender to the holy spirit and he'll work on you though sanctification and this addiction will be a thing of the past.

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Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by greggng: 9:30pm On Jan 09, 2020
Roadtorecovery:
Good evening everyone.


I have struggled with sex addiction for the past 10 years with out permanent success especially with regards to visiting and sleeping with prostitutes and keeping my mind off sex.
Presently I cant seem to keep my mind of sex and focus on my life and career.

I have a good Job and a beautiful damsel whom i have promised marriage and I am afraid I might loose any if not both of this if I don't stop,think and act NOW.



Since is a habit I learnt over time, how do I unlearn this habit permanently.

Please has anyone been able to get over sex addiction successfully.


My recent relapse after 10 months of celibacy threw me off balance and presently I have lost touch with God, friends and family because of this demeaning lifestyle.


Today after 2 weeks of relapse and wallowing in self pity, I have decided to restart all over again with strong determination to take into consideration the lesson learnt from my last relapse as I plan to adopt a better approach to ensure I conquer this habit.

I have spoken with one of spiritual director who understands sex addiction above my expectations and he is very supportive.

I have also opened up to my younger Cousin brother who also understands what it feels to suffer addiction.

I also confessed to my lady about my relapse and strong determination to quit and she is helpful and supportive but with the condition that she may not cope if I should suffer another relapse.

My addiction and its resultant consequences have made close family and friends loose their respect and confidence in me.

Above all, i feel so separated by God who have done so much for me .

I want to pick my self up and fight because of

1.God
2.Myself
3. Family
4. My girl friend


At this point I need all the help I can get to snatch out my life out of satanic bait to ruin me forever


Any professional here can please save a frustrated brother. I have not give up.











Go to mountain of fire for deliverance ....God will drive away that spirit tormenting you ...I pity the person that will inherit it from u....cos whenever a demon is chased away it enters a weaker vessel. ..

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Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Neddstark: 9:30pm On Jan 09, 2020
Oga go and marry. I hope your fiancee is a freaky sexy bae else that marriage will crash. Im being blunt. You have a high sex drive. Just know limits like you know when not to fûck skin to skin.
Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by raphy(m): 9:31pm On Jan 09, 2020
the best thing to.do get married to that.woman.so u can.have.the.sex.u want.till.ur pr ick says i don tire.

u dont need any advice again.just get.married ths all.
u will.hv morning.sex,afternoon.sex.and evening sex plus batrrom sex.too.u can even.get luky.having twins as children.

so do and marry
.
Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Afamed: 9:31pm On Jan 09, 2020
ZombieTERROR:
Sex addiction kwa..

Just move to Lagos
The stress and hold up alone will reset your brain... It's a promise
Keep quiet, not everyone in Lagos jumps from one danfo to another like suffer head like una

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Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Frankyboy1(m): 9:31pm On Jan 09, 2020
Ok
Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by ukaface(f): 9:31pm On Jan 09, 2020
Mr copies7 nawa to you on
Someone is looking for solution to his sex addiction, and you still posting porn. How are you helping him bayi?
Humans sef

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Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Kubernetes: 9:31pm On Jan 09, 2020
patani:


You av said it all my brother.. 10months without sex and you say ure addicted? Me, I can hardly do without sex for 2 weeks straight and I consider myself normal. The only thing is that i am married and my wife once said i am not a sex freak eventhough she knows ill start worying her if i dont av sex in 1 full week... My career ia going great.. I do many other things excellently well.. So why create problem where there is none

Wonderful
Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Man90(m): 9:32pm On Jan 09, 2020
It is well with you bro. Thank God you have identified your weakness. Try talking to a man of God, they will guide you better and while you are doing that try engaging yourself in some spiritual exercises. It is not easy but God will see you through.
Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Nobody: 9:33pm On Jan 09, 2020
Roadtorecovery:
Good evening everyone.


I have struggled with sex addiction for the past 10 years with out permanent success especially with regards to visiting and sleeping with prostitutes and keeping my mind off sex.
Presently I cant seem to keep my mind of sex and focus on my life and career.

I have a good Job and a beautiful damsel whom i have promised marriage and I am afraid I might loose any if not both of this if I don't stop,think and act NOW.



Since is a habit I learnt over time, how do I unlearn this habit permanently.

Please has anyone been able to get over sex addiction successfully.


My recent relapse after 10 months of celibacy threw me off balance and presently I have lost touch with God, friends and family because of this demeaning lifestyle.


Today after 2 weeks of relapse and wallowing in self pity, I have decided to restart all over again with strong determination to take into consideration the lesson learnt from my last relapse as I plan to adopt a better approach to ensure I conquer this habit.

I have spoken with one of spiritual director who understands sex addiction above my expectations and he is very supportive.

I have also opened up to my younger Cousin brother who also understands what it feels to suffer addiction.

I also confessed to my lady about my relapse and strong determination to quit and she is helpful and supportive but with the condition that she may not cope if I should suffer another relapse.

My addiction and its resultant consequences have made close family and friends loose their respect and confidence in me.

Above all, i feel so separated by God who have done so much for me .

I want to pick my self up and fight because of

1.God
2.Myself
3. Family
4. My girl friend


At this point I need all the help I can get to snatch out my life out of satanic bait to ruin me forever


Any professional here can please save a frustrated brother. I have not give up.










Only going to ashawo house is the problem I see here.


U are doing celibacy for 10 months, who is helping u Bleep ur damsel??

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Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by wiseone28: 9:34pm On Jan 09, 2020
And 14 Feb will take me 5years without entering the hole grin

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Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by OkCornel(m): 9:34pm On Jan 09, 2020
@roadtorecovery, don’t be downtrodden.

Look at the bigger picture, you’ll realise the improvements you’ve made, and the relapse is only a blot on a blank page

And as for addiction, you can’t conquer it if you focus on it. Channel your focus to something else. I’m sure you’ve got talents or a worthy cause you’re passionate about to help improve the lives of those around you.


Channel your focus and energy into such. That way, your addiction dies a gradual death and is replaced by something better and productive.


In summary, the replace bad habits with good ones.

You’ve done well to be celibate for 10 months, and I’m sure you’ll do better going forward.

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Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by ikwedim(m): 9:34pm On Jan 09, 2020
I can stop watching porn and maturation then you can. Just pick one hole and kept digging only am
Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Nobody: 9:34pm On Jan 09, 2020
I think you need therapy. Go for AA meetings. Sex addiction is simply like alcohol addiction.

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Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by mployer(m): 9:35pm On Jan 09, 2020
If you can stay 10 months without sex, you ain't addicted bro.
Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Nobody: 9:35pm On Jan 09, 2020
ikwedim:
I can stop watching porn and maturation then you can. Just pick one hole and kept digging only am
For an addict, one hole ain't enough
Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by baike: 9:35pm On Jan 09, 2020
Marry and your problem be will solvedgrin

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Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Nobody: 9:36pm On Jan 09, 2020
Do you drink alcohol?
If yes, reduce it because it triggers your sexual urge.

If you can't control yourself. Just marry and stop creating imaginary problems for yourself.

If you are not addicted to smoking, drinking alcohol, drugs and sex you don't know what God has done for you. Just replace your thoughts with good thoughts.


I don't get addicted to anything. And the best way
To get rid from it is... Don't judge yourself and consider it is a past life whenever the thoughts will come in.

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Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by foleskay(m): 9:36pm On Jan 09, 2020
You keep saying you're sex addict sex addict, you didn't say how often you have sex, number of girls you've had it with, hw much you spend on hvn sex. Be precise so we can know where to start from.

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Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Sanchezmillz: 9:36pm On Jan 09, 2020
Roadtorecovery:
Good evening everyone.


I have struggled with sex addiction for the past 10 years with out permanent success especially with regards to visiting and sleeping with prostitutes and keeping my mind off sex.
Presently I cant seem to keep my mind of sex and focus on my life and career.

I have a good Job and a beautiful damsel whom i have promised marriage and I am afraid I might loose any if not both of this if I don't stop,think and act NOW.



Since is a habit I learnt over time, how do I unlearn this habit permanently.

Please has anyone been able to get over sex addiction successfully.


My recent relapse after 10 months of celibacy threw me off balance and presently I have lost touch with God, friends and family because of this demeaning lifestyle.


Today after 2 weeks of relapse and wallowing in self pity, I have decided to restart all over again with strong determination to take into consideration the lesson learnt from my last relapse as I plan to adopt a better approach to ensure I conquer this habit.

I have spoken with one of spiritual director who understands sex addiction above my expectations and he is very supportive.

I have also opened up to my younger Cousin brother who also understands what it feels to suffer addiction.

I also confessed to my lady about my relapse and strong determination to quit and she is helpful and supportive but with the condition that she may not cope if I should suffer another relapse.

My addiction and its resultant consequences have made close family and friends loose their respect and confidence in me.

Above all, i feel so separated by God who have done so much for me .

I want to pick my self up and fight because of

1.God
2.Myself
3. Family
4. My girl friend


At this point I need all the help I can get to snatch out my life out of satanic bait to ruin me forever


Any professional here can please save a frustrated brother. I have not give up.


First thing you need to do is get busy..how busy are you at work?if you are in lagos,frm 5am to 8pm i can bet it you will be too busy at work and traffic to have sex.
Secondly get married quick,court wedding don do,dont waste too much money.reason is the amount you spend in doing agbere just once will make you change your mind on sex









Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by ogianyo(m): 9:37pm On Jan 09, 2020
Self control and building up your self esteem is all you need. I cant imagine myself in a brothel. Supposing someone I know come see me?.
I love sxx and would find it diff. to hold body for more than two weeks. But I consider myself very normal. I'm in my fifties and from my early twenties have had a vibrant sxx life but not from brothel. In fact if I know the girl to be a confirmed olosho, body fit no respond sef. It's the value you put on yourself.
You seem to know the solution. Add a massive dose of self control. Regular babe can help a bit but self control is the key.

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Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Jalinspy(m): 9:37pm On Jan 09, 2020
You are just thinking about sex because you have work doing. This was how i was misbehaving back then when i was in the oil industry in P.h but when it dawned on me that work don stop, nobody advised me to repent & focus on Christ. Now i can categorically tell you that am a happy being these days.

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Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Michaelkings: 9:37pm On Jan 09, 2020
See Bro,fast and pray to God for his mercy and Deliverance for your life,and you would see you won't struggle with your iniquity.

The Bible said with GOD all things are possible,just apply faith with the instruction above.

Jehovah is your strenght

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Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by yesloaded: 9:37pm On Jan 09, 2020
soberdrunk:
Any man that can stay "10 months" without sex isn't a "sex addict". I don't know why some people just like to create imaginary problems for themselves, you are healthy brah, all you have to do is channel that sexual energy to your lady and a few side chics(if you are a variety man) or stay loyal to only your lady and your palms, you will reach a certain age and slow down naturally. Stop looking for what isn't missing, every "normal" man wakes up with erection every single day...... angry

grin

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Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by lilybonny(f): 9:38pm On Jan 09, 2020
OP , go for counselling n get close to the CREATOR
Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by emkz: 9:38pm On Jan 09, 2020
This story, without variations, was posted on Nairaland some years back. I am surprised it is surfacing again.

If you are truly suffering from sexual addiction, I pray for your healing. If you are not but decided to recycle an old story to convince yourself that you are intelligent, well, words and wishes are powerful and I can only plead with you not to curse yourself.
Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by aylive02(m): 9:39pm On Jan 09, 2020
Wetin De Gea no go see for post? grin grin

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Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Nobody: 9:39pm On Jan 09, 2020
ZombieTERROR:
Sex addiction kwa..

Just move to Lagos
The stress and hold up alone will reset your brain... It's a promise

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