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|Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by wiseone28: 6:06am On Jan 10, 2020|
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|Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by soberdrunk(m): 6:07am On Jan 10, 2020|
No sir! You are the one missing the point, we all understand 'addiction" very well and even some of us that don't qualify as "sex addicts" can't stay that long without sex, this individual seems to be mistaking "unfaithfulness" for "sexual addiction"
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|Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Chuvin22(m): 6:10am On Jan 10, 2020|
You are not a sex addict,
Since you already have a girlfriend, spend more time with her, you guys should have lots of sex, together, more talk time, do things together, you will realize sex is overrated and you will barely think of sex.
|Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by pomide(m): 6:19am On Jan 10, 2020|
Impregnate your wife, then cut off your dick lol
|Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Hullabaloon: 6:26am On Jan 10, 2020|
Nna mhen, you are in your fifties, Old men dey this forum sha.
And I'm sure one teenager must have quoted you sometime in the past to insult you
|Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by prolifik83(m): 6:28am On Jan 10, 2020|
Roadtorecovery:My brother, na mfm sure pass for you.
|Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by usex(m): 6:38am On Jan 10, 2020|
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|Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by samteebiz3: 6:43am On Jan 10, 2020|
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|Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by SangoOlukosoOba(m): 6:58am On Jan 10, 2020|
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|Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by whirlwind7(m): 7:02am On Jan 10, 2020|
I want to sit with you and buy you your favorite drink.
Did you see how the attention seeker replied almost everyone who commented on the first page, but carefully avoided your input?
Guy's an asswipe looking for attention. Someone who went celibate for 10 months still thinks he's a sex addict
I can't be celibate for a month, yet I don't consider myself as too sexually active, much less an addict.
Leave the yeye pikin to keep moping.
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|Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by dexmond: 7:03am On Jan 10, 2020|
Hello Op. Jesus saves. Magdalene was a public prostitute, but when she encountered Jesus her life never remained the same. Go to Jesus, let him heal your mind.
|Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by proff010: 7:04am On Jan 10, 2020|
Am married for 11 years now dated for 9 years altogether 20 years and I have. Sex 3 times a week, even more at time and am enjoying myself. Will u call that addition no its just how my natural body is.
|Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Kay25(m): 7:10am On Jan 10, 2020|
[quote author=Roadtorecovery post=85660375]I will appreciate your opinion.
I am not happy with what I am doing to my self and others. I honestly want to be a changed man. I have goals and plans for the future.okay good you are broken from it In JESUS name believe it but there must be ultimate desire to and a work to be done.it's not a day's job which is while you think you are failing.Don't see yourself as failing when you step back from your commitment rather readjust and move on you will see you are getting better.One sexual desire is natural God given its no crime Bro but in life anything you can't subject will rule over you.take yourself out of those things that spikes it up.stop being alone socialise one of the strength to your issue is you being more to yourself making you think you can always satisfy yourself.Get counsel.But learn to observe your thoughts,body system and try to see the strength of the desire why it grows so much once you know it ,what spikes it I bet you you can gradually break loose from it.Don't be perfect in one day it takes time but I tell you you already on journey.allow pains to help you too don't take too much of pleasure in it you get there Bro.
|Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by ezenwajosh(m): 7:14am On Jan 10, 2020|
And I said your not affected by religion.... That's the only way you're this SOUND
|Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Roadtorecovery: 7:16am On Jan 10, 2020|
I am going to allow your negative energy to fuel my resolve to become a better person. It is easier to judge people in a faceless forum like this because you don't have an idea what they are going through.
I am seeking for help but that doesn't mean i will swallow every suggestion hook line and sinker. At the end, I will be alright.
|Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Evangkatsoulis: 7:18am On Jan 10, 2020|
Roadtorecovery:You have no issues at all, bro.
How sex addiction go make you lose your job?
|Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by patani(m): 7:32am On Jan 10, 2020|
Are u sayin there are things word of God can not do? Ure contradicting urself madam.. Meanwhile try n aurgue without insult n be civil
|Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Nobody: 7:35am On Jan 10, 2020|
@op channel that sexual energy to something more fulfilling.Like are you doing work you love to do or are you just working to earn a living?I would advise you to choose the former,that is the only thing that can contain your energy.
|Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by dengrimsef(m): 7:38am On Jan 10, 2020|
My brother... To be really sincere with you..this is a fight that would take a long time to end and there is a high probability it destroys your future marriage and also make you very unproductive in terms of thinking...
The solution is giving yourself to prayer,fasting in other to bring your flesh to subjection..Also give yourself more to the things of GOD... AND help yourself too...heaven help those who help themselves... Shun watching indecent things that would want to stimulate those thoughts through your phone, what you hear...because even if you like pray the whole of this year and keep seeing things that would stir up those thoughts.. My brother you would remain hooked forever...10 years addiction no be bean!!!.
|Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Kescott(m): 7:43am On Jan 10, 2020|
@Poster this is my one cent but I hope it helps. Your issue is more spiritual than it is physically because the spiritual controls the physical so first thing is to work on the spiritual aspect first.
Secondly, you have an unusual sex drive (Lidibo) and it is completely natural in most cases. I also suffer from a habit that I am not proud of but I am a work in progress.
If I were to be in your shoes, what would I do?
First I will go back to God. Talking to God is the simplest thing to do in life because He is always listening however hearing from God is the most difficult because of too many distractions as you already know I presume. Now talk to God as you would talk to your earthly father, let Him know your challenge but this time, don't try to help God to help you. Allow Him to help you through it completely. You need to stop helping God to help you. Finding things to distract you is only temporary. I had a friend that told me how he cured masturbation was first to avoid the triggers and then He prays and kabash every time a thought of it comes to him, and one day he realised he doesn't feel the urge anyone.
I also need to point out that in your journey to abstainence you will have relapse, you will fall but don't allow the devil trick you into believing that you are irredeemable. Don't remain down when you fall, rise up, ask God for forgiveness and each time, the lessons learnt, the triggers, and more importantly prayers can do a long way to solving the issue.
I just found answers to the habit I wrote about (Masturbation). I also need to mention that I started masturbating about six years ago and it is not frequent, sometime, I won't for months until I let my guards down and I have not slept with any woman for over 19 years because I made that commitment (Vow) to God until marriage.
Thank you for sharing your story and I appreciate the efforts to get right with God because that's the ultimate goal
|Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Sirmuel1(m): 7:49am On Jan 10, 2020|
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2) Pray, pray, pray and keep praying till eternity.
|Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by oyepaulkay(m): 7:54am On Jan 10, 2020|
Find another addiction to commit your mind to but this time around, a positive one.
You can only use one addiction to overcome another.
|Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by Nobody: 7:58am On Jan 10, 2020|
Were you disvirgined by a prostitute?
|Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by fatymore(f): 8:01am On Jan 10, 2020|
I know fasting and praying makes us abstain from things a lot...
So try it
|Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by chudez0147(m): 8:05am On Jan 10, 2020|
Baroba:What does that mean ? Is it a problem??
|Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by quentin06: 8:06am On Jan 10, 2020|
just cut of your prickk already, your damsel will understand.
|Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by salt1: 8:25am On Jan 10, 2020|
So good to see that in a society that's normalizing immorality, there are still people who want to do the right thing.
|Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by salt1: 8:27am On Jan 10, 2020|
The God Whom you seek to please will abundantly reward you for honouring your body which is His temple.
I hope you're planning to get married soonest
|Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by whirlwind7(m): 8:46am On Jan 10, 2020|
Negative energy? Me?
Says someone who put his dick in check for nearly a year, yet feels he's addicted to sex
Your problem isn't addiction; you're delusional.
If you think my comment will help build your resolve to be a better person, then I'm glad it helped.
As for sympathizing on your imaginary addiction, no dice from me.
In my late teens and early twenties, there are days I had sex twice daily. Nowadays, I can do thrice a week....and it has in no way interfered with my physical, emotional or spiritual wellbeing.
Perhaps you evolved from a lineage of low libidinous hombres, and having sex once in a month is considered an addiction among you
Which could be the reason you went 10 months without, and still believe yourself addicted to sex.
Take a back seat, man!
Let me add this: You don't fight such "addiction" by deciding to be celibate. Not saying you have an addiction, but for the purpose of this baseless thread, let's agree that you're an addict (at least that concession would make you happy )
An addict, apart from going for counseling, is not expected to become celibate. It is not like a substance addiction which is destructive. Sex is beneficial and even healthful for matured folks.
A sex addict is still expected to have a measured, planned sex life. Practicing abstinence isn't the logical route to counter it. No sire.
Anyhow, its good to fuel your imagination. A sex addict is what you are aspiring to become in 2020
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|Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by frozen70(f): 8:47am On Jan 10, 2020|
Be determined, go to God with prayers
You already know where your problem is
Get married and settle down quickly
By the time you have school fees, house rent, utility bills to pick up and feeding
Your dick will go flaccid
From there you will be too busy to go out to meet them
You are behaving this way because you don't have responsibilities that waits family men
If you like, three months after your wife puts to bed, impregnate her again and again
When those kids starts their wahala, your dick will be calm
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