muggle:

Is the above true? What could be the cause?

A friend of mine was telling me that he's tuned off sex with his wife after the delivery of their son.
Reason: He is a tities man  and he said the thot of him swallowing bosoms milk  during pre-intimacy
is a turn-off for him .

Doctors in the house, please respond!

buzugee:

tis very true bruv. its like this, for the woman ? either something hormonally changes in them so that they dont even like sex anymore, or the oochiecoochie has being widened so that she does not enjoy it anymore and will rather not be bothered by mechanical pounding with no results

for the man, well just seeing all the mucous and blood and all that gooey stuff come out of the oochie coochie puts off a lot of men after that. they just will rather move on to another woman or completely refrain from sex from the wife. plus the changes in the womans body too.

and on a more freaky side for those of you who are into freaky stuff. your woman has just being transformed into the 'mother of your kids' so you do not want to do all the nasty things you used to do with her again. for example you dont want her sucking your abuna with the same mouth she will use to kiss your kid

Mrs, Eve:

Da hell!  I will respond to you when I finish my work.  Cos da boss man looking at me!  But, I will be back!

kokoye:

^^^

Yes, the boy first

He's wishing it for your own sake too . . so you'll be relaxed and his family will get off your back.

Whether we accept it or not, a lot of old school Nigerians still want a male child . .at least one.

They know daughters take care of the parents more due to emotions, but they still want a male child regardless.


I'm just a messanger so dont crucify me for this post

kokoye:

^^^

Yes, the boy first

He's wishing it for your own sake too . . so you'll be relaxed and his family will get off your back.

Whether we accept it or not, a lot of old school Nigerians still want a male child . .at least one.

They know daughters take care of the parents more due to emotions, but they still want a male child regardless.


I'm just a messanger so dont crucify me for this post

Mrs, Eve:

He carries things on his head without holding them and I be like damn!

livedit:

Which brings me to a question I'd like to ask if you please. Is it true that African men gene is strong and just about every child will look exactly like the father? I told my fiancee Mike that he don't know who he/she will come out looking like. But he swears his gene is stronger. What do you all think?

Mrs, Eve:

Hey Sister! Yes girl, he was fighting that poor dog but that dog was BIG AND TALL THOUGH, it wasn't no little dog it was one of them Saint Bernard type dogs with tall legs. Girl, I flipped them sandals off and was gone! My husband caught up with the dog and they were wrestling a bit then the dog was like this Negro crazy and pretty much left us alone. I was trying not to laugh because my husband was pissed off and it was hard trying to keep tears from rolling down my face! Oooh, I wanted to laugh sooo bad!

Mrs, Eve:

Koyoke,
You is nassy, I know what head you was talking about!

kokoye:

B    I    G  head!

^^ Shame on you kokoye.  

kokoye link=topic=564083.msg7302565#msg7302565 date=1291905630:

Na . . not always.

But here is the question for you . . . do you want the son you are carrying to look like his daddy?

my son is a perfect combination of his parents . .you really cant tell.

Not at all! My fiancee is very handsome so I don't mind that he looks like him.  But I would like to see some resemblance of mom in him/her.    I know one thing for sure, our baby will probably be silly like his mom/dad because my fiancee and I always be cracking on each other and laughing all the time.  I once had a friend tell me years ago that when I have a child, my baby will come out laughing not like other normal babies when they come out crying.  

Mrs, Eve:

Hey Liveit!

My husband surprised me when he said he want a girl first and then a boy, but then said it doesn't matter who come first but he definitely wants a junior.

I don't care what my children will look like because they will be beautiful, LOOK AT THE MOMMA (striking a Vogue pose)

That's a switch, he wants a girl first?, Awesome!, But you go girl! I know that's right, strike that pose!, and don't forget to wink to!  






 

Mrs, Eve:

Liveit,

IF you can laugh with your husband and everything is not a battle, THAT LOVE, love does not hurt and laughing is good.

^^Exactly! I love to laugh as you can see. Life is serious enough. It's a time and place for everything. I love a man with a sense of humor and don't wear his heart on his sleeve. My past experiences has taught me alot about people and even myself. That is why I chose the screen name (lived-it) Because many threads I read on these boards, I've been through it.

As you can see I am a comedienne and people I MEAN PEOPLE literally asking me to perform for them and I even had agents begging to sign me on. However, some things right now are more important than being in hollywood. The money to me is not a big deal and it not important in my life. Nothing more important than my husband and our future children.

^^ That's an great talent to have being able to make people laugh. You are so funny to me. And actually a few other's on this board too! I just be rolling. I feel you girl because I feel the same way.


It will be a time where you will make a decision that MAY AFFECT you and your husband. Remember to put him with you at all times and you won't go wrong. Laughing is a good sign keep it up for marriage isn't always peaches and cream.

That's true too. That's why it's an absolute must to keep God first in your marriage. Occasionally, you will encounter trials and tribulations in marriage. But I believe in God that our love, respect and dedication we have for one another will sustain throughout those tests and triumphs.