Chikaaaaaa:
My uncle is single and sleeping with me pls come marry him for my body to rest

fairfora:
I got married to my wife in her 30s. Stop giving yourself unnecessary headache. Be confident and focus on your career. It would surely happen someday . I have a female friend who is 37 years old. She is getting married in March. She did her traditional last month. Her husband-to-be is 40 years old and has never married before.

PrimadonnaO:
Everyone talking about societal pressure. That's not always the case.

For some of us, it's the timelines and standards we set for ourselves that do us in.

Lionqueen:
My 30th birthday is in few weeks time. Am scared because I don't have a boyfriend. It's beginning to give me sleepness night. But is marriage the ultimate? Please no body should insult me����

Lionqueen:
Single mum. 28 years, from imo state and reside in kaduna. I need a serious man (single dad or widower)for a lasting relationship. Send an email. Thanks.

Lionqueen:
That has always been the situation I find my self. Loving and never love in returned. But now I have found love in the arms of my daughter....

toplinetrtrend:



Lolz. No matter how rich you become, you will need other humans to complete you. Humans are created for companionship. Money isn't everything. You will not know this until you study the secret lives of the rich.

Tallesty1:
How can someone who did her traditional last month be getting married in March?

DoubleEngine007:
Hmmmm This one weak me small,but its all about different destinies anyways.. Its not actually how far,but how well.. Op your partner will come,but I hope you are not the one driving him away ?.. He mustn't be super rich o,because this mindset makes some girls single till 80.. So,please don't rush,just keep praying and he will come soon..

johnkey:
I repeat I don't need anyone to complete me please speak for yourself we aren't all wired the same way. Only thing I need from a woman is SEX and I can get that anywhere as long as I have money in my account, shikena!

johnkey:
I repeat I don't need anyone to complete me please speak for yourself we aren't all wired the same way. Only thing I need from a woman is SEX and I can get that anywhere as long as I have money in my account, shikena!

toplinetrtrend:


You are still young and inexperienced. Time will tell you that there is more to a good woman than sex. But for now, enjoy your reveries

crackkhaus:


Next time, lead with this:



Not saying it is the cause of your single status, but it provides context for those looking to advise you.

crackkhaus:


Next time, lead with this:



Not saying it is the cause of your single status, but it provides context for those looking to advise you.

crackkhaus:


Next time, lead with this:



Not saying it is the cause of your single status, but it provides context for those looking to advise you.

ValCon888:
You call yourself 'Lionqueen' yet you're scared like a pùssy. Shame on you. You don't deserve that moniker.

bdchange:

Good you pointed out this side of her story. If you want good and truthful advise anywhere, always say the whole facts. That is how you can get the reality you are looking for. No need to advise you when you weren't truthful in the first place.

Lionqueen:
do I blame you? no
Is it your fault? No

ValCon888:

I meant no offence by my comment.
You shouldn't be scared of turning 30. Your fear is liable to push you into a relationship that's not healthy for you. Men can smell a desperate woman and will look to take advantage of her.
Rather than fear, exude confidence and invest in yourself.
There's more to life than marriage and good things come to those who wait (patiently).

toplinetrtrend:


You are still young and inexperienced. Time will tell you that there is more to a good woman than sex. But for now, enjoy your reveries

johnkey:
Lol dude I'm a die hard Scorpio, you know nothing about me. inexperienced my foot!

toplinetrtrend:


No man with experience or foresight will make your kind of myopic, childish comment.

johnkey:
what the fvck are you talking about myopic and childish. Ever heard of choice? I can choose to be alone all my life it's my fvcking choice, you have your own choice. Doesn't make anyone of us childish or myopic. I repeat SEX is all I ever need from a woman. You can hold on to whatever you need from them.

toplinetrtrend:


That's because you are still young. You'll grow up one day and realise the errors of your ways. I hope it won't be too late for you, though.

CsRockefeller:
You people saying she should be happy, live her life to the fullest bla bla bla.

What if having a man in her life would just be that one thing to trigger her joy?

I once stayed with an uncle who was so bitter and angry, always quarrelling with me on little issues. The day his GF now wife came to visit him for the first time, he was so happy, I couldn't believe it, my uncle was so happy for a long time you would have thought he hit the lottery.

They are still married for about 6 years and I can still see that happiness in him.

You think at 30 it's easy to stay alone? Be alone, especially emotionally?

My dear, I only hope you find a man who truly deserves you. God cannot be wrong, if he says it's not good for a "man" to be alone then it's not good.

Lionqueen:
Thanks. I believe the same way you went through my previous post others too went through it too. My being a single mom has nothing to do with me not having a boyfriend (you pointed that out). I only said am scared of entering 30 without a boyfriend. Not hiding my status ���.

johnkey:
I'm done arguing since you don't get my point still. Bye

Gaggi:

She's a single mum? I sympathize with single mums, society is not kind to them. Some of them are actually really good people, sometimes they are unlucky to be with irresponsible men.
My close pal got his girlfriend pregnant, he wasn't ready for marriage that year but he just had to marry her because he was an honorable man and she was such a good girl. If he had bailed on her, such a good girl will today be stigmatized as a single mum.
Some single mums too were actually abandoned because of their bad character or because they chose to trap a man with pregnancy. Hopefully, the OP finds a partner soon since that is what she desires.

PrimadonnaO:
Everyone talking about societal pressure. That's not always the case.

For some of us, it's the timelines and standards we set for ourselves that do us in.

psalmsmiles:
Remember that guy who honestly loved you but you ditched him because he "wasn't" good enough for you 10 years ago?
This is karma paying back in full bi!tch

bdchange:

Good you pointed out this side of her story. If you want good and truthful advise anywhere, always say the whole facts. That is how you can get the reality you are looking for. No need to advise you when you weren't truthful in the first place.

DoubleEngine007:
Hmmmm This one weak me small,but its all about different destinies anyways.. Its not actually how far,but how well.. Op your partner will come,but I hope you are not the one driving him away ?.. He mustn't be super rich o,because this mindset makes some girls single till 80.. So,please don't rush,just keep praying and he will come soon..

CsRockefeller:
You people saying she should be happy, live her life to the fullest bla bla bla.

What if having a man in her life would just be that one thing to trigger her joy?

I once stayed with an uncle who was so bitter and angry, always quarrelling with me on little issues. The day his GF now wife came to visit him for the first time, he was so happy, I couldn't believe it, my uncle was so happy for a long time you would have thought he hit the lottery.

They are still married for about 6 years and I can still see that happiness in him.

You think at 30 it's easy to stay alone? Be alone, especially emotionally?

My dear, I only hope you find a man who truly deserves you. God cannot be wrong, if he says it's not good for a "man" to be alone then it's not good.