Victoronah1:
I don't really know the right place to put this so I decided to do it here.
I am the first in my family,in my early 20s, I came from a rich family, well let me say 80% wealth rich over 100 if we are to do the maths. My dad is a politician and also a Reverend. I don't want to give away to much on this forum. My dad has about 57 properties alone in Enugu both shops and duplex. And in Port, Lagos and Abuja. I can't say more, I gave you this hint to see where I am heading to. Now I went to a very expensive primary school, paid over 250k per term also went to a very expensive private university paid close to 800k per year. When I was in uni my allowance was 100k per month excluding clubbing money and going out with girls. Infact my dad told me to ask him for money even if I want to take my girlfriend out and I should not have below 30k in my account at all in any day. This made me very lazy, and I don't even work cause he gave me 5 of his properties when I was in my final, I was very rich that I was wasting money like a fool, my pride became 10000million times more to the extent I even slapped my school registrar one day. Although I paid money oo and later graduated. Infact school was useless for me, I don't care what I graduated with, I felt I was okay and won't go poor, everyone kept telling me about how much pride I have. But it's now affecting me badly, my pride has made me loose opportunities even I had the chance to be my ward chairman but my pride bleeped me. My dad was very angry that he was setting me up to succeed him in politics and do better and I am using my pride to mess things up now I am so lazy, I live in my father duplex alone. 7 bedroom duplex just me alone. I don't even want to work, I do films on Vimeo to make money (the only work I can do) cause I said I can't even work in a private sector. My mum talked to me and told me I need to work for someone and answer yes sir or madam, come to work very early etc, that it will help me reduce my pride, but my pride still can't let me to do this. Please I need matured advice I want to work under someone in as much I know I may be richer than the person, there is something I want to change in my life which is that pride. Cause if I go into politics with this, my enemies may shoot me one day.

Please I need matured advice.

LOL you want us to help you by advising you...and you are still using style to brag. You don't sound like someone that genuinely want to quit haughtiness. The meek shall inherit the earth.

Victoronah1:
I don't really know the right place to put this so I decided to do it here.
I am the first in my family,in my early 20s, I came from a rich family, well let me say 80% wealth rich over 100 if we are to do the maths. My dad is a politician and also a Reverend. I don't want to give away to much on this forum. My dad has about 57 properties alone in Enugu both shops and duplex. And in Port, Lagos and Abuja. I can't say more, I gave you this hint to see where I am heading to. Now I went to a very expensive primary school, paid over 250k per term also went to a very expensive private university paid close to 800k per year. When I was in uni my allowance was 100k per month excluding clubbing money and going out with girls. Infact my dad told me to ask him for money even if I want to take my girlfriend out and I should not have below 30k in my account at all in any day. This made me very lazy, and I don't even work cause he gave me 5 of his properties when I was in my final, I was very rich that I was wasting money like a fool, my pride became 10000million times more to the extent I even slapped my school registrar one day. Although I paid money oo and later graduated. Infact school was useless for me, I don't care what I graduated with, I felt I was okay and won't go poor, everyone kept telling me about how much pride I have. But it's now affecting me badly, my pride has made me loose opportunities even I had the chance to be my ward chairman but my pride bleeped me. My dad was very angry that he was setting me up to succeed him in politics and do better and I am using my pride to mess things up now I am so lazy, I live in my father duplex alone. 7 bedroom duplex just me alone. I don't even want to work, I do films on Vimeo to make money (the only work I can do) cause I said I can't even work in a private sector. My mum talked to me and told me I need to work for someone and answer yes sir or madam, come to work very early etc, that it will help me reduce my pride, but my pride still can't let me to do this. Please I need matured advice I want to work under someone in as much I know I may be richer than the person, there is something I want to change in my life which is that pride. Cause if I go into politics with this, my enemies may shoot me one day.

Please I need matured advice.

Bro you need a very stubborn and personal assistance/ Adviser.... You can count on me on this, trust me this nonsense go stop

That's because ur parents restricted u from your young age till now so u fill u are above everybody which is bad.

Well... nothing is new really.
Get some good books, read them, and put the ideas they share to practice.
I suggest you get Richard Templar's Rules of Life and Rules of love, Dale's Carnegie How to make friends and influence people, and Keith Harrell's Attitude is everything to begin with.
You might not fancy religions; I know several religionists who are purely refined hypocrites.
No matter what you do, no matter what you want to become, you desire to be successful and maybe powerful. Pride may not give you either of this, and you're obviously empowering yourself through a bizzare channel which will easily make you an easy target for the army of enemies you have already made for yourself and those you make for yourself if you keep going. I am sure if you get, read, and practice Robert Green's 48 Laws of Power (at least few laws from it) it will go a long way.
I wish you good luck my man.
Don't mess with the wrong people.

Spoilt brat! Since you know you're proud what other sort of advice do you need?

It's only those who can't detect their problems that needs advice.

Victoronah1:
I don't really know the right place to put this so I decided to do it here.
I am the first in my family,in my early 20s, I came from a rich family, well let me say 80% wealth rich over 100 if we are to do the maths. My dad is a politician and also a Reverend. I don't want to give away to much on this forum. My dad has about 57 properties alone in Enugu both shops and duplex. And in Port, Lagos and Abuja. I can't say more, I gave you this hint to see where I am heading to. Now I went to a very expensive primary school, paid over 250k per term also went to a very expensive private university paid close to 800k per year. When I was in uni my allowance was 100k per month excluding clubbing money and going out with girls. Infact my dad told me to ask him for money even if I want to take my girlfriend out and I should not have below 30k in my account at all in any day. This made me very lazy, and I don't even work cause he gave me 5 of his properties when I was in my final, I was very rich that I was wasting money like a fool, my pride became 10000million times more to the extent I even slapped my school registrar one day. Although I paid money oo and later graduated. Infact school was useless for me, I don't care what I graduated with, I felt I was okay and won't go poor, everyone kept telling me about how much pride I have. But it's now affecting me badly, my pride has made me loose opportunities even I had the chance to be my ward chairman but my pride bleeped me. My dad was very angry that he was setting me up to succeed him in politics and do better and I am using my pride to mess things up now I am so lazy, I live in my father duplex alone. 7 bedroom duplex just me alone. I don't even want to work, I do films on Vimeo to make money (the only work I can do) cause I said I can't even work in a private sector. My mum talked to me and told me I need to work for someone and answer yes sir or madam, come to work very early etc, that it will help me reduce my pride, but my pride still can't let me to do this. Please I need matured advice I want to work under someone in as much I know I may be richer than the person, there is something I want to change in my life which is that pride. Cause if I go into politics with this, my enemies may shoot me one day.

Please I need matured advice.

to be honest, I don't know how to help you.


You need to find a cause that's bigger than you. Join the army, serve the needy, volunteer. Something.

Victoronah1:
I don't really know the right place to put this so I decided to do it here.
I am the first in my family,in my early 20s, I came from a rich family, well let me say 80% wealth rich over 100 if we are to do the maths. My dad is a politician and also a Reverend. I don't want to give away to much on this forum. My dad has about 57 properties alone in Enugu both shops and duplex. And in Port, Lagos and Abuja. I can't say more, I gave you this hint to see where I am heading to. Now I went to a very expensive primary school, paid over 250k per term also went to a very expensive private university paid close to 800k per year. When I was in uni my allowance was 100k per month excluding clubbing money and going out with girls. Infact my dad told me to ask him for money even if I want to take my girlfriend out and I should not have below 30k in my account at all in any day. This made me very lazy, and I don't even work cause he gave me 5 of his properties when I was in my final, I was very rich that I was wasting money like a fool, my pride became 10000million times more to the extent I even slapped my school registrar one day. Although I paid money oo and later graduated. Infact school was useless for me, I don't care what I graduated with, I felt I was okay and won't go poor, everyone kept telling me about how much pride I have. But it's now affecting me badly, my pride has made me loose opportunities even I had the chance to be my ward chairman but my pride bleeped me. My dad was very angry that he was setting me up to succeed him in politics and do better and I am using my pride to mess things up now I am so lazy, I live in my father duplex alone. 7 bedroom duplex just me alone. I don't even want to work, I do films on Vimeo to make money (the only work I can do) cause I said I can't even work in a private sector. My mum talked to me and told me I need to work for someone and answer yes sir or madam, come to work very early etc, that it will help me reduce my pride, but my pride still can't let me to do this. Please I need matured advice I want to work under someone in as much I know I may be richer than the person, there is something I want to change in my life which is that pride. Cause if I go into politics with this, my enemies may shoot me one day.

Please I need matured advice.

You're a good people,

I saw you explaining to one lady in another about the things you do to make money on Vimeo.... Interesting


Now to the pride ish... Its normal at your age.
It reduces as you grow older... This was because you started handling money at a very young age.

If you check our young celebrities like Davido, Wizkid etc, they all have it.
Its even now they're controlling it as they grow more matured.

Advice: try from time to time to visit hospitals (settle some of the patients bills) burials and prisons (buy them food).



Ps: baba, pls I'm interested in learning vimeo from you

Op try to bring yourself low, change your life style by doing good things you haven't done before.

Victoronah1:
I don't really know the right place to put this so I decided and I am using my pride to mess things up now I

Please I need matured advice.

This is my number and you will start working for me by tomorrow
Call this number
08135236715 by 8.30am tomorrow.
If you fail to call the number, I will deal with you.
You think everybody is your mate.

Swallow it.. ode!

stanvesco:



This is my number and you will start working for me by tomorrow
Call this number
08135236715 by 8.30am tomorrow.
If you fail to call the number, I will deal with you.
You think everybody is your mate.

look at this one. If I slap u eeh. You be the one to work for me. Just joking

Techcrunchng:
Spoilt brat! Since you know you're proud what other sort of advice do you need?

It's only those who can't detect their problems that needs advice.

you must be very hungry. Go and eat before quoting me

justnock:


LOL you want us to help you by advising you...and you are still using style to brag. You don't sound like someone that genuinely want to quit haughtiness. The meek shall inherit the earth.

sorry for that but it's in me

czarr:
Na better electric slap you need, wey go format your brain.

I volunteer my hand, just give me 1 duplex make I take manage my life.

or make I send my account number, just send 5k then I'll believe your story

if you give me a very good reason to send you 5k then I will send it for you

Victoronah1:
if you give me a very good reason to send you 5k then I will send it for you

I never chop since morning.... ain't joking.

is that enough reason? the possibility of death of hunger while I'm searching for work? or better still hook a brother up with something.

Nobody can change you. That is a fact. Because you don't even know what it means to lack basic necessities of life, how can you understand others plight. If you truly want to change, you need to take the bull by the horn. Task yourself to make that change.

Victoronah1:
I don't really know the right place to put this so I decided to do it here.
I am the first in my family,in my early 20s, I came from a rich family, well let me say 80% wealth rich over 100 if we are to do the maths. My dad is a politician and also a Reverend. I don't want to give away to much on this forum. My dad has about 57 properties alone in Enugu both shops and duplex. And in Port, Lagos and Abuja. I can't say more, I gave you this hint to see where I am heading to. Now I went to a very expensive primary school, paid over 250k per term also went to a very expensive private university paid close to 800k per year. When I was in uni my allowance was 100k per month excluding clubbing money and going out with girls. Infact my dad told me to ask him for money even if I want to take my girlfriend out and I should not have below 30k in my account at all in any day. This made me very lazy, and I don't even work cause he gave me 5 of his properties when I was in my final, I was very rich that I was wasting money like a fool, my pride became 10000million times more to the extent I even slapped my school registrar one day. Although I paid money oo and later graduated. Infact school was useless for me, I don't care what I graduated with, I felt I was okay and won't go poor, everyone kept telling me about how much pride I have. But it's now affecting me badly, my pride has made me loose opportunities even I had the chance to be my ward chairman but my pride bleeped me. My dad was very angry that he was setting me up to succeed him in politics and do better and I am using my pride to mess things up now I am so lazy, I live in my father duplex alone. 7 bedroom duplex just me alone. I don't even want to work, I do films on Vimeo to make money (the only work I can do) cause I said I can't even work in a private sector. My mum talked to me and told me I need to work for someone and answer yes sir or madam, come to work very early etc, that it will help me reduce my pride, but my pride still can't let me to do this. Please I need matured advice I want to work under someone in as much I know I may be richer than the person, there is something I want to change in my life which is that pride. Cause if I go into politics with this, my enemies may shoot me one day.

Please I need matured advice.

Very simple.
Visit a sick acquaintance in the hospital, spent a few nights.
Chances are, someone will die, and someone will be born.
Or attend a funeral.
You will get your epiphany moment.

A nigga once said: Op the internet never forget you know...

Were you not the same guy that told a story about how your virgin girlfriend was spending on you..


Even when you don't have money to take her out she still payed for you....

Hmmmm, well them say "everybody rich for internet"


hehe see the way people sef don believe the story. Na wa......

doublegoldcrown:

Very simple.
Visit a sick acquaintance in the hospital, spent a few nights.
Chances are, someone will die, and someone will be born.
Or attend a funeral.
You will get your epiphany moment.

thanks.

Victoronah1:
I don't really know the right place to put this so I decided to do it here.
I am the first in my family,in my early 20s, I came from a rich family, well let me say 80% wealth rich over 100 if we are to do the maths. My dad is a politician and also a Reverend. I don't want to give away to much on this forum. My dad has about 57 properties alone in Enugu both shops and duplex. And in Port, Lagos and Abuja. I can't say more, I gave you this hint to see where I am heading to. Now I went to a very expensive primary school, paid over 250k per term also went to a very expensive private university paid close to 800k per year. When I was in uni my allowance was 100k per month excluding clubbing money and going out with girls. Infact my dad told me to ask him for money even if I want to take my girlfriend out and I should not have below 30k in my account at all in any day. This made me very lazy, and I don't even work cause he gave me 5 of his properties when I was in my final, I was very rich that I was wasting money like a fool, my pride became 10000million times more to the extent I even slapped my school registrar one day. Although I paid money oo and later graduated. Infact school was useless for me, I don't care what I graduated with, I felt I was okay and won't go poor, everyone kept telling me about how much pride I have. But it's now affecting me badly, my pride has made me loose opportunities even I had the chance to be my ward chairman but my pride bleeped me. My dad was very angry that he was setting me up to succeed him in politics and do better and I am using my pride to mess things up now I am so lazy, I live in my father duplex alone. 7 bedroom duplex just me alone. I don't even want to work, I do films on Vimeo to make money (the only work I can do) cause I said I can't even work in a private sector. My mum talked to me and told me I need to work for someone and answer yes sir or madam, come to work very early etc, that it will help me reduce my pride, but my pride still can't let me to do this. Please I need matured advice I want to work under someone in as much I know I may be richer than the person, there is something I want to change in my life which is that pride. Cause if I go into politics with this, my enemies may shoot me one day.

Please I need matured advice.

You are the problem and you are the solution

Drop your pride, you must drop it by yourself

The money you are making from the assets given to you by your dad is as useless as the owner

Start thinking before you become some people permanent ATM

You must humble yourself to a fault

Lastly, relocate to another neighbourhood and rent an apartment and go and learn a trade, it will humble you to a better person

Those properties in your possession can be taken away from you by those that knows that you draw your strength from there

Talk to yourself and change your life style and mindset

Victoronah1:
I don't really know the right place to put this so I decided to do it here.
I am the first in my family,in my early 20s, I came from a rich family, well let me say 80% wealth rich over 100 if we are to do the maths. My dad is a politician and also a Reverend. I don't want to give away to much on this forum. My dad has about 57 properties alone in Enugu both shops and duplex. And in Port, Lagos and Abuja. I can't say more, I gave you this hint to see where I am heading to. Now I went to a very expensive primary school, paid over 250k per term also went to a very expensive private university paid close to 800k per year. When I was in uni my allowance was 100k per month excluding clubbing money and going out with girls. Infact my dad told me to ask him for money even if I want to take my girlfriend out and I should not have below 30k in my account at all in any day. This made me very lazy, and I don't even work cause he gave me 5 of his properties when I was in my final, I was very rich that I was wasting money like a fool, my pride became 10000million times more to the extent I even slapped my school registrar one day. Although I paid money oo and later graduated. Infact school was useless for me, I don't care what I graduated with, I felt I was okay and won't go poor, everyone kept telling me about how much pride I have. But it's now affecting me badly, my pride has made me loose opportunities even I had the chance to be my ward chairman but my pride bleeped me. My dad was very angry that he was setting me up to succeed him in politics and do better and I am using my pride to mess things up now I am so lazy, I live in my father duplex alone. 7 bedroom duplex just me alone. I don't even want to work, I do films on Vimeo to make money (the only work I can do) cause I said I can't even work in a private sector. My mum talked to me and told me I need to work for someone and answer yes sir or madam, come to work very early etc, that it will help me reduce my pride, but my pride still can't let me to do this. Please I need matured advice I want to work under someone in as much I know I may be richer than the person, there is something I want to change in my life which is that pride. Cause if I go into politics with this, my enemies may shoot me one day.

Please I need matured advice.

Simple!...
Give all your inheritance to charity and become poor when serious hunger strike you for three days no body go tell you to remove pride from your life

Victoronah1:
I don't really know the right place to put this so I decided to do it here.
I am the first in my family,in my early 20s, I came from a rich family, well let me say 80% wealth rich over 100 if we are to do the maths. My dad is a politician and also a Reverend. I don't want to give away to much on this forum. My dad has about 57 properties alone in Enugu both shops and duplex. And in Port, Lagos and Abuja. I can't say more, I gave you this hint to see where I am heading to. Now I went to a very expensive primary school, paid over 250k per term also went to a very expensive private university paid close to 800k per year. When I was in uni my allowance was 100k per month excluding clubbing money and going out with girls. Infact my dad told me to ask him for money even if I want to take my girlfriend out and I should not have below 30k in my account at all in any day. This made me very lazy, and I don't even work cause he gave me 5 of his properties when I was in my final, I was very rich that I was wasting money like a fool, my pride became 10000million times more to the extent I even slapped my school registrar one day. Although I paid money oo and later graduated. Infact school was useless for me, I don't care what I graduated with, I felt I was okay and won't go poor, everyone kept telling me about how much pride I have. But it's now affecting me badly, my pride has made me loose opportunities even I had the chance to be my ward chairman but my pride bleeped me. My dad was very angry that he was setting me up to succeed him in politics and do better and I am using my pride to mess things up now I am so lazy, I live in my father duplex alone. 7 bedroom duplex just me alone. I don't even want to work, I do films on Vimeo to make money (the only work I can do) cause I said I can't even work in a private sector. My mum talked to me and told me I need to work for someone and answer yes sir or madam, come to work very early etc, that it will help me reduce my pride, but my pride still can't let me to do this. Please I need matured advice I want to work under someone in as much I know I may be richer than the person, there is something I want to change in my life which is that pride. Cause if I go into politics with this, my enemies may shoot me one day.

Please I need matured advice.

your father is a politician and also a reverend! You are a son of a thief and if care is not taking, nothing good will come out of you.

Tayor23:
your father is a politician and also a reverend! You are a son of a thief and if care is not taking, nothing good will come out of you.

abusive word

kecee99:
Simple!...
Give all your inheritance to charity

lol. That can never happen

Sir, I'm a young boy business oriented and business minded.....I can work for you,grow your business, please sir I need job or loan to start something.....but sir, reduce your pride it will help you go places in life let's do business let me work for you....please contact me loricara1 @gmail .com

Victoronah1:
you must be very hungry. Go and eat before quoting me

lazy and proud fool, minus your father's ritual and ill gotten wealth let's see how you cope. Come let me put you on monthly allowance, You think you're the only son of wealthy father here? I laugh you spoilt brat.

Hmmm....father is a politician..... and a reverend? He's good... serving two masters... little wonder why you the son be jammed like this.
From what you wrote... I believe there is no single person that can tone down your pride... you have to be either isolated from your comfort zone/safety net... or institutionalized. On the first... I suggest you sign up as a volunteer with a humanitarian NGO such Doctors Without Borders. A big donation can help. Request to be sent to a remote area... more likely in another country. You will be humbled by force and see life differently. The latter choice... get into NYSC... a disciplined remote location... keep your connections in code. You would be ordered around... that your pride will not stand.

Victoronah1:
look at this one. If I slap u eeh. You be the one to work for me. Just joking

You have just 10mins
Then you will see what I would do to you on this forum.
You go no say khaki no be leather

Techcrunchng:
lazy and proud fool, minus your father's ritual and ill gotten wealth let's see how you cope. Come let me put you on monthly allowance, You think you're the only son of wealthy father here? I laugh you spoilt brat.

how much will you be paying me?

Originalsly:
Hmmm....father is a politician..... and a reverend? He's good... serving two masters... little wonder why you the son be jammed like this.
From what you wrote... I believe there is no single person that can tone down your pride... you have to be either isolated from your comfort zone/safety net... or institutionalized. On the first... I suggest you sign up as a volunteer with a humanitarian NGO such Doctors Without Borders. A big donation can help. Request to be sent to a remote area... more likely in another country. You will be humbled by force and see life differently. The latter choice... get into NYSC... a disciplined remote location... keep your connections in code. You would be ordered around... that your pride will not stand.

cool. I finished school last year. I'll probably start my NYSC this March with batch A. I'll try going to calabar

Victoronah1:
I don't really know the right place to put this so I decided to do it here.
I am the first in my family,in my early 20s, I came from a rich family, well let me say 80% wealth rich over 100 if we are to do the maths. My dad is a politician and also a Reverend. I don't want to give away to much on this forum. My dad has about 57 properties alone in Enugu both shops and duplex. And in Port, Lagos and Abuja. I can't say more, I gave you this hint to see where I am heading to. Now I went to a very expensive primary school, paid over 250k per term also went to a very expensive private university paid close to 800k per year. When I was in uni my allowance was 100k per month excluding clubbing money and going out with girls. Infact my dad told me to ask him for money even if I want to take my girlfriend out and I should not have below 30k in my account at all in any day. This made me very lazy, and I don't even work cause he gave me 5 of his properties when I was in my final, I was very rich that I was wasting money like a fool, my pride became 10000million times more to the extent I even slapped my school registrar one day. Although I paid money oo and later graduated. Infact school was useless for me, I don't care what I graduated with, I felt I was okay and won't go poor, everyone kept telling me about how much pride I have. But it's now affecting me badly, my pride has made me loose opportunities even I had the chance to be my ward chairman but my pride bleeped me. My dad was very angry that he was setting me up to succeed him in politics and do better and I am using my pride to mess things up now I am so lazy, I live in my father duplex alone. 7 bedroom duplex just me alone. I don't even want to work, I do films on Vimeo to make money (the only work I can do) cause I said I can't even work in a private sector. My mum talked to me and told me I need to work for someone and answer yes sir or madam, come to work very early etc, that it will help me reduce my pride, but my pride still can't let me to do this. Please I need matured advice I want to work under someone in as much I know I may be richer than the person, there is something I want to change in my life which is that pride. Cause if I go into politics with this, my enemies may shoot me one day.

Please I need matured advice.

Please what's the name of this Nollywood film?

The directing and screen play from your narrative is so poor I wanna know the lead actor or actress in the movie.

When you wake up every morning for 2 weeks, think of the poor and less privilege and put yourself in their shoes. Take a trip to the prisons steadily for one week and also visit any federal government hospital, especially the emergency ward for 1 week.

You won’t be left with any pride when you are done!