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Re: My 34-Year-Old Abroad-Based Boyfriend Impregnated Me. Why I Want Abortion by Nobody: 2:12pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
Papanwamaikpe:Fvck off |
Re: My 34-Year-Old Abroad-Based Boyfriend Impregnated Me. Why I Want Abortion by mukhtar35385(m): 2:26pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
The mistake you made was that you should not allow d pregnancy to happen. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My 34-Year-Old Abroad-Based Boyfriend Impregnated Me. Why I Want Abortion by PinkDick(m): 2:30pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
Soulmender: Hmmmm, thanks for this piece � 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My 34-Year-Old Abroad-Based Boyfriend Impregnated Me. Why I Want Abortion by fowlyansh181(m): 2:43pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
Nigerians can mis inform someone , if she gives birth to that baby can she take care of it on her own, have you guys asked her how to survive? Please get an abortion if you can , it’s not illegal in the world anymore , don’t let some religious bigot cloud your mind with guilt , tell your boyfriend your plan to go ahead with an abortion and if he says nothing serious to make you contemplate not doing it , go ahead.. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My 34-Year-Old Abroad-Based Boyfriend Impregnated Me. Why I Want Abortion by Enemyofpeace: 2:45pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
sassysure:help the babe now |
Re: My 34-Year-Old Abroad-Based Boyfriend Impregnated Me. Why I Want Abortion by Ladycewhy(f): 2:58pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
WildChild00:I hope it works out well for her,my inner spirit really does wish hers turns out to be one of those rare ones that turn out well but from what she has said,the guy is not serious . It's just a pity Sha. 1 Like |
Re: My 34-Year-Old Abroad-Based Boyfriend Impregnated Me. Why I Want Abortion by cotzywitzy(m): 2:58pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
Please don tamper with that pregnancy. Even if he doesn’t take your calls again make sure you give birth to that baby. You never know what that baby would bring you. |
Re: My 34-Year-Old Abroad-Based Boyfriend Impregnated Me. Why I Want Abortion by IMASTEX: 3:02pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
Lamanii22:The lady obviously took in delebrately with the hope that it could fast track her desire forgetting it doesn't always work for all. Abroad based relationship is always 50 50 based on the reality over there. A close friend had similar experience with his girl of over 15 years. He had to sadly open up and let her go because he couldn't keep up due to several uncertainty and not wanting to keep her hanging for God knows when even when he truly loved her. I also know of a close female friend who got pregnant as her guy was about to leave the country. She patiently & faithfully waited ignoring other suitors even single guys who were ready to take her and her child. Forward to 11 years later, the guy was deported and he didn't border to visit the girl. Rather started dating someone else upon his arrival. And the girl in question finally ended up with another man who had a wife & kids. Like it is commonly said, most ladies don't always marry who they truly loved rather they marry who is ready. 2 Likes |
Re: My 34-Year-Old Abroad-Based Boyfriend Impregnated Me. Why I Want Abortion by Emmanuelhector(m): 3:28pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
ednut1:As if it will be her first abortion |
Re: My 34-Year-Old Abroad-Based Boyfriend Impregnated Me. Why I Want Abortion by Sammarshall(f): 3:33pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
Strongmercy123: Some men are really trash! But I believe God has a reason for everything that happens in our lives. I want to encourage you to have your child, in terms of your age, you’re not so young anymore. It takes 9months to nurture and carry a pregnancy, please don’t abort it because is a sin against God and your beautiful body. He’s a man and he doesn’t have anything to loose if the abortion goes south. My honest and sincere advice is this: 1. Keep your pregnancy 2. Please buy Shea butter (original one) and be applying it on the stretch mark prone areas of your body like stomach, breast, waist etc to avoid stretch mark (please avoid scratching your stomach) 3. Register for anti natal early and always take your routine medicines. 4. Please be conscious of what you eat, if possible for you, consume more of protein and fruits (make sure you watch the back of the fruits tho) 5. Forget about your boyfriend/baby daddy for now until you have given birth. ( I know this advice is strange but that’s a bitter truth because high blood pressure is a very common sickness for pregnant women and is very deadly.) 6. Prepare yourself not to breast feed your child (don’t be surprised, if you follow all the advice, you will be sure of having a very healthy baby and preserving your body like breast from sagging will make you happy later since you don’t have a husband yet. Lol! You will thank me later am sure) 7. Give your life to God, get closer to God like never before. He will make everything easy for you and give you rest. 8. Never stay alone, surround yourself with only people that makes you happy and smiling. Bonus advice: If you like reading, try to get a book called supernatural childbirth by Jackie Mize I hope you can pick something valuable from my contribution, I wish you all the best. God be with you. 1 Like |
Re: My 34-Year-Old Abroad-Based Boyfriend Impregnated Me. Why I Want Abortion by Villain7: 4:03pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
merahki:It's not. Yes, is better one doesn't seek for a child than killing one which has life ! Stigmatization is in everything we do in life. Pregnancy is even the least to me. Do you know what some persons who are physically challenged in one way or the other feel? How about those with down syndrome who still communicate but has changed their physical appearances, do we feel what they go through when they seek out for jobs or even try to associate or socialise with individuals in the society? If a girl thinks because she is pregnant, and afraid of not being a short one or whatever it's called, that lady needs a rethink and Good counselling cos that's the least stigmatized situation in the society. Telling someone to go for abortion is like assisting death/suicide (euthanasia) so why must I. Even Drs. enjoy their job if their patients have hope of being cured from their sickness, but if no hope, whatever the Dr does, it becomes hopeless case. |
Re: My 34-Year-Old Abroad-Based Boyfriend Impregnated Me. Why I Want Abortion by Legendguru: 4:13pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
Oh |
Re: My 34-Year-Old Abroad-Based Boyfriend Impregnated Me. Why I Want Abortion by Lamanii22(f): 4:19pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
IMASTEX: Hmmmm... Mehn... This life seem really long and at the same time short, one's youthful age would just pass in split seconds.... Your saying at the end's so true.. It happened to my neighbour too.. She's got two daughters, her husband went to the UK after they did their wedding.. He came home just once and that once was like after 10years... He travelled back shortly... He later sent a text saying that she should find somebody else, he specifically said she should find someone that can satisfy her sexually... Imagine.. I never desired abroad based relationship ever since.. It's either we go together or we should manage Naija like that... 1 Like |
Re: My 34-Year-Old Abroad-Based Boyfriend Impregnated Me. Why I Want Abortion by mykel25(m): 4:23pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
Strongmercy123: He probably used someone to get Pali and he need someone to legit give him a child that won’t be taken away from him ....you’re just a baby mama till further notice. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My 34-Year-Old Abroad-Based Boyfriend Impregnated Me. Why I Want Abortion by Nobody: 4:31pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
Villain7:life doesn't begin at conception |
Re: My 34-Year-Old Abroad-Based Boyfriend Impregnated Me. Why I Want Abortion by Nobody: 4:36pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
olabrinks:your sister is a doctor is not the same as you are a doctor. So please don't talk like to know everything. 2 Likes |
Re: My 34-Year-Old Abroad-Based Boyfriend Impregnated Me. Why I Want Abortion by olabrinks(f): 4:38pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2:i dont know everything, but what I do know is that abortion is not natural or safe so stop deceiving people. Thanks 1 Like |
Re: My 34-Year-Old Abroad-Based Boyfriend Impregnated Me. Why I Want Abortion by Nobody: 4:41pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
olabrinks:neither is appendectomy, or ceasarian section. But does that mean that doctors should not perform those too. Who told you that abortion is not safe. It is only unsafe in a useless country like nigeria. 1 Like |
Re: My 34-Year-Old Abroad-Based Boyfriend Impregnated Me. Why I Want Abortion by olabrinks(f): 4:45pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2:they are not safe hence why they are only done to save the child or mothers life. It’s a life or death situation. Abortion is not a life or death situation in most case and you are putting your reproductive organs at risk for what? To forcefully vacuum out a living child that is implanted in the womb securely is damaging to the uterus. Take it or leave it. 1 Like |
Re: My 34-Year-Old Abroad-Based Boyfriend Impregnated Me. Why I Want Abortion by saajus: 4:48pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
I won't support abortion. Give birth to your baby and enjoy the joy of motherhood. Right now, the guy's mind is divided cos he's not settled where he is abroad. |
Re: My 34-Year-Old Abroad-Based Boyfriend Impregnated Me. Why I Want Abortion by Nobody: 4:56pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
olabrinks:Appendectomy is not safe abi. C/S is not safe abi. Now you are contradicting yourself. Abortion is not a life or death situation. Lol!! Just stop already, perish the thought of arguing further before you dig yourself a pit you cannot come out of. |
Re: My 34-Year-Old Abroad-Based Boyfriend Impregnated Me. Why I Want Abortion by Nobody: 4:56pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
saajus:let her give birth to the baby and drop it at your house. 3 Likes |
Re: My 34-Year-Old Abroad-Based Boyfriend Impregnated Me. Why I Want Abortion by Nobody: 5:11pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
Strongmercy123: Please do not abort it....my sincere advice... |
Re: My 34-Year-Old Abroad-Based Boyfriend Impregnated Me. Why I Want Abortion by Villain7: 5:26pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2:My brother, life begins at Conception! |
Re: My 34-Year-Old Abroad-Based Boyfriend Impregnated Me. Why I Want Abortion by Nobody: 5:31pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
Villain7:if that is the case, then the fetus should be able to survive on its own, outside the woman. |
Re: My 34-Year-Old Abroad-Based Boyfriend Impregnated Me. Why I Want Abortion by Zuriel100(m): 5:47pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
give birth to the baby.. it won't be easy but better than abortion at the long run... |
Re: My 34-Year-Old Abroad-Based Boyfriend Impregnated Me. Why I Want Abortion by sapeleboi(m): 5:50pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
abroad nor easy my sista
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Re: My 34-Year-Old Abroad-Based Boyfriend Impregnated Me. Why I Want Abortion by Duru009(m): 5:57pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
I don't think that guy truly loves you. You love him more than he does.... Giving birth to that child outside wedlock might complicate your FUTURE.. Sit down and think, don't be carry away pls. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My 34-Year-Old Abroad-Based Boyfriend Impregnated Me. Why I Want Abortion by Flexherbal(m): 5:58pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
Zuriel100: Yes.... Later later things |
Re: My 34-Year-Old Abroad-Based Boyfriend Impregnated Me. Why I Want Abortion by olabrinks(f): 6:26pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2:Theres no medical safe surgery hence why it’s only done when necessary. There’s nothing necessary about an abortion if not for the selfish reasons of the mother. So why put your reproductive organs at risk for something that is not necessary? Continue lying to yourself. Hopefully you will not have to go through having an abortion if you have not done so already. Good luck. 1 Like |
Re: My 34-Year-Old Abroad-Based Boyfriend Impregnated Me. Why I Want Abortion by olabrinks(f): 6:30pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2:if you leave a fully developed baby on its own for longer that 24 -48 hours without care, the baby will die. So what is your point? Whether it’s from the point of conception to a two month old baby, it is a life. 1 Like |
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