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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Honnyg(f): 4:56pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by whitebeard(m): 4:57pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
Ogbunigwe2018:that's now...what about the long term effect .?! 1 Like |
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by DexterousOne(m): 4:57pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
Stillthebest: That's interesting |
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Nobody: 4:57pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
I will agree to a study area but separate room with a bed is a no for me I look forward to those moments lying next to you no phones I can understand as a walk in closet but no bed ... 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by DexterousOne(m): 4:59pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
bukatyne: This can work. Women and load 4 Likes |
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Ishilove: 5:00pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
J111333:How much you get sef? You wey even bicycle tire you no get, which is why all ya life savings fit enter one small nylon bag. With a husband like you, side nigga dey sure make hunger no kee me for ya house 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Reference(m): 5:00pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
attacker321: Yes. There can be many reasons for this such as child care, illness, work life and several other reasons. The key here is the purpose/reason and prior discussion and agreement. Naturally the purpose should dictate the length of time this should occur but I cannot fathom that it would be open ended then temptations will arise. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by nextstep(m): 5:00pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
Our wise ancestors believe that there must be space in your togetherness. Man and wife are individuals, in addition to being a couple. Oyinbo that pioneered husband and wife sleeping in the same room, they are the pioneers of divorce (50% rate or so abi). Instead of allowing each partner room to breath in the times of tension, they force the situation until it results in "irreconcilable differences". 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Skybeach1: 5:01pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
This new yam generation sef. Stay in separate rooms , so that we have our privacy. Chat with our side chicks and enjoy social media groove. While our spouse is in the same building with us. We have bastardized the institution of marriage so much because of our selfish interest. Separate room is same as bachelorhood. One of the reasons for the 4000 divorce application in Abuja 14 Likes |
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Ishilove: 5:01pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
Ogbunigwe2018:Man wey sabi |
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by olaolulazio(m): 5:02pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
James289:I ran for u ooo |
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by SoulB6: 5:02pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
Separate rooms for me when I get married, Reason. 1). I am a researcher, I can wake up at anytime In the night to work and don't want any distraction. 2.) I am a prayer warrior, so I don't want to disturb anybody sleep. 3). I hate to see women things hang around me. 4) I can have a male close relative visitor, that I will like to sleep in the same room with and gist, you know men talks na 7 Likes |
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by ziondaughter247: 5:03pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
Kylekent59: You must not comment. You sound like an illiterate. 7 Likes |
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by AfroKnight: 5:04pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
Interesting thread. Intelligent wives would be taking notes and making adjustments instead of coming here to form feminists while frustrating their husbands at home. 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by SmartMugu: 5:04pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
Sometimes it's ok. You know how ladies tend to have too many clothes and that can easily fill up the closet. Some men only have a handful of clothes and having to dig through women clothes to find yours could make it necessary to have one person put all her belongings in another room hence making them have two separate rooms, but that should really not disturb their private time together. |
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by eleojo23: 5:08pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
We can sleep in the same room but one thing is certain: I must have a private room which will be my study/studio/library. That is not negotiable. I like studying and I can't read with even the slightest distraction. 4 Likes |
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by wunmi590(m): 5:08pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
To some people having separate rooms is good for them, and to some family it is not good, it depends on their thinking. Me would be getting married soon, and I just got a 3 bedroom flat, one room is my game and ball house, that's where I would be watching my ball and play my games. While we both have a room we would both be sleeping together, no separation biko, bae like sleeping beside me, she likes seeing me beside her every blessed time and i love it too. So no matter how many hours i used in my games and football room, once is time to sleep, I waka jeje to our joint room 22 Likes |
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Igetmyown247: 5:09pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
Whatever works. At the end of the day your happiness comes first. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Reference(m): 5:09pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
solasoulmusic: What if gou are married to an emergency room physician who can receive calls at any time. Within a week you will be pleading for your own room. In marraige it is best to approach issues of your partner with as much slack as possible, offering as much liberty as you can within the bounds of discipline and fidelity. Understanding is the key. Laws are usually precusors to problems when they are unreasonable, made without foresight and not settled in courtship. 3 Likes |
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Jman06(m): 5:10pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
No...I don't fancy such arrangement My lady will stay with me at all time, that's why we're a couple. If I need to be alone maybe for studies and brainstorming, I'll simply go to my library. 7 Likes |
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by We4all: 5:10pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
McMayor: You sound like the typical 'Nigerian man' who believes that raising children is the sole responsibility of a woman. If you don't like kids crying, then why did you give birth? 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Nobody: 5:13pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
Ishilove:You don forget say dem don ban keke for Lagos and that I have modified my keke to mini car. You go trek tire and na special tonda go faya you tomorrow if you ask me for a lift. Dey run your mouth you hear. 5 Likes |
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Nobody: 5:15pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
attacker321: Different strokes for different folks ; I so much wish to stay in a different room from my wife but same house. I am not married, but my future wife may not like that . I have read severally how ladies kick against it. Despite that i so much desire it, I will wait for that future wife to decide. I think this should be her decision and I will stand by whatever she says. Like I said, different strokes for different folks 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Reference(m): 5:15pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
Skybeach1: If you are a regular 9 to 5 couple without much going around your life then there is no reason to be apart at bedtime but like I said not every couple is like that and not every marraige is built like that. The key is understanding and prior agreement. Say it and settle it before doing it. And don't make it a habit. |
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Ishilove: 5:16pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
J111333:You don craze finish o 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by McMayor(m): 5:16pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
Yes I might not like them crying... but I love taking care of them and watching them grow and supporting them to become whatever they want to become. Next please. We4all: 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by banhammy: 5:18pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
NO. Husband and wife should stay and sleep in the same room. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Legendguru: 5:19pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
Yes |
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