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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Nobody: 6:43pm On Feb 23, 2020
Joystark:


Lol... which one is bed wetting wife again bayi

cheesy shocked cheesy
And he forgot a huge elephant- a snoring partner (usually husband)
But that was soo funny! Still laughing
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by jaxxy(m): 6:46pm On Feb 23, 2020
attacker321:
Is it okay for a husband and wife to stay in separate rooms in the same house?

Some married couples operate like this and I am wondering why.

Let's discuss.

Depends on what works for u and what u like as a couple bt it must be mutual and agreed by both parties. Separate rooms can be fun especially if both parties trust themselves and have a good understanding.

Also there can be valid reasons for separate bedrooms like snoring and other annoying sleeping habits. No big deal here.
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by IghravweIG(m): 6:50pm On Feb 23, 2020
SoulB6:
Separate rooms for me when I get married,
Reason.
1). I am a researcher, I can wake up at anytime In the night to work and don't want any distraction.

2.) I am a prayer warrior, so I don't want to disturb anybody sleep.

3). I hate to see women things hang around me.

4) I can have a male close relative visitor, that I will like to sleep in the same room with and gist, you know men talks na
Gbam.
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by attacker321: 6:55pm On Feb 23, 2020
bukatyne:
For me, Capital No.

When we are building our house by God's grace, our room would be massive.

Some couples share a room and have another room where the wives put their stuff.

Best comment so far.

Thank you. smiley
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by ProtectMyMoney: 7:00pm On Feb 23, 2020
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It is obvious Dangote does not sleep in the same room with his wife.

That is why he is able to think clearly and achieve many projects

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by AreaFada2: 7:00pm On Feb 23, 2020
Okeytus:
they should stay in the same room so communication can be enhanced.
But real men that are updated with the recent trends, sleep with one eye open when they share same room with their wives , don't ask me why?
A killer wife doesn't need to live in same room to carry out any nefarious plan. Are you not going to eat her food?

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Bahddo(m): 7:01pm On Feb 23, 2020
attacker321:
Is it okay for a husband and wife to stay in separate rooms in the same house?

Some married couples operate like this and I am wondering why.

Let's discuss.
what's there to discuss? Is there any law stating how and where married couples should sleep?

Live and let live.
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by AreaFada2: 7:02pm On Feb 23, 2020
ProtectMyMoney:
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It is obvious Dangote does not sleep in the same room with his wife.

That is why he is able to think clearly and achieve many projects
Bill Gates nko? What of Mark Zuckerberg?
Some women will even prefer own room sef. Enough space to gossip on phone.
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Nnaetochukwu(m): 7:02pm On Feb 23, 2020
Nooo

Women Sabi scatter room with clothes
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by extremelygolden: 7:08pm On Feb 23, 2020
attacker321:
Is it okay for a husband and wife to stay in separate rooms in the same house?

Some married couples operate like this and I am wondering why.

Let's discuss.

That's what I've told myself I'll not do when I get married - stay separately or apart from my husband. I won't do that.

Yes, I might have a separate room where I keep some of my belongings (as per se woman clothes, bags and shoes dey too plenty) but I am not going to make that room my personal bedroom.

How do we discuss late at night, resolve issues at night and cuddle ourselves to sleep at night, when we share separate bedrooms?

Children are the ones that need separate bedroom and not the couple themselves.

Thank you.

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by attacker321: 7:10pm On Feb 23, 2020
Toks2008:


I prefer this cos it allows for privacy and even makes sex more kinky.

Your choice. I disagree with you though
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by frozen70(f): 7:12pm On Feb 23, 2020
attacker321:
Is it okay for a husband and wife to stay in separate rooms in the same house?

Some married couples operate like this and I am wondering why.

Let's discuss.

Well to me, its good for couples to have separate rooms but during bed time, she moves over to hubby's room

But that works well where husband and wife leaves happily and enjoy their companies

Women are meant to have their own room because they have so many accessories with them and they can fill a whole room in a building with their personal effects and even inconvenience the man while in the same room

So if they have their own room it's OK but sleeping in hubby's room

Unless when they want to behave like the woman they are then they will sleep in their rooms
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by akpunda86: 7:15pm On Feb 23, 2020
attacker321:


You're bringing another dimension to the subject matter. This is not about how much a husband spends on his wife and her family.

The question is should they stay in separate rooms? Pros and cons.

Bros for our own we stay in separate rooms thou door open she is free to enter any time.I work mostly in the nite.We all stay same room but once i wanna work move to my room.kids still come cant pursue them.once they sleep off mum comes to take them to the room.
Once i wear boxers wife knows is kpako time once kids sleep off.meets me in my room.and besides if i dont sleep 7hrs a nite driving hard for me.im always on far journey.

To me is no big issue

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by ndcide(m): 7:20pm On Feb 23, 2020
You don't have a choice if you stay in one room or room and palor.

You will be oppressed if your partner grows 5 times fatter

To each his own
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by femmyapson(m): 7:23pm On Feb 23, 2020
Kylekent59:
After he paid huge for traditional marriage, paid bride price, still did white wedding.

He even pays for his wife bills, he also sends money to the wife's father and mother. He also pays for his wife's brother school fees and his wife's sister is currently in his house living with them.

His wife's sister is currently in year two and she comes stay with them every vacation. He even pays for her school fees, house rent and still gives her some cash in case of miscellaneous expenses.

He even opened a supermarket for the wife and still gives her #50k everyweek.


And someone comes here to ask if they should or shouldn't


we know you are "HE"...I understand why u re talking it personal
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by femmyapson(m): 7:25pm On Feb 23, 2020
Kylekent59:
After he paid huge for traditional marriage, paid bride price, still did white wedding.

He even pays for his wife bills, he also sends money to the wife's father and mother. He also pays for his wife's brother school fees and his wife's sister is currently in his house living with them.

His wife's sister is currently in year two and she comes stay with them every vacation. He even pays for her school fees, house rent and still gives her some cash in case of miscellaneous expenses.

He even opened a supermarket for the wife and still gives her #50k everyweek.


And someone comes here to ask if they should or shouldn't

Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by freethinker01: 7:26pm On Feb 23, 2020
Divay22:

Lol grin grin grin grin Coolers ko
You're right thou. My mum have has a big pot that's occupying space in our house. Not like she uses it often o grin grin It's so annoying.
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by OlujobaSamuel: 7:34pm On Feb 23, 2020
WinkWrld:
Most people saying Big no either live in room and parlour or just 2bedroom. When you can afford a bigger house, it is ideal a woman has and stays in her own room. Everyone at somepoint need to be alone either for personal reasons or spiritual reasons.
This shouldnt stop love for God fearing couples.
I have an uncle doing very well for himself with enough vacant accommodation in his house, yet, he sleeps in same room with wifey with all the wife personal effects in the room. Marriage is over 3decades, except practically unavoidable (medical line) he always try to come home to sleep even if it's very late, and wife always try to wait for him before going to bed

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Misscongenialit: 7:41pm On Feb 23, 2020
Men who have emotional connections with their wives will not welcome the idea of separate rooms. Even if the wife has a lot of luggage a separte room is created for the luggage and not the wife

All the men afraid of being stabbbed or wanting to do thinga in private have things up their sleeve.
If you want to do anything at night that extra room will come in handy for reading or cheating chats and conversations.

Real men dont put their wives far from them , rather other things are kept far to keep wify close

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Nobody: 7:45pm On Feb 23, 2020
decent enough, the idea of having a separate room directly connected and only accessible through the couples room is cool with me. All luggages, loads and baggage goes in there, though it will serve as as a wardrope too. Talk of the couples room it will be big enough to accomodate a mini living room and a two seat dining. Thats my plan
bukatyne:
For me, Capital No.

When we are building our house by God's grace, our room would be massive.

Some couples share a room and have another room where the wives put their stuff.
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Reference(m): 7:50pm On Feb 23, 2020
OlujobaSamuel:

I have an uncle doing very well for himself with enough vacant accommodation in his house, yet, he sleeps in same room with wifey with all the wife personal effects in the room. Marriage is over 3decades, except practically unavoidable (medical line) he always try to come home to sleep even if it's very late, and wife always try to wait for him before going to bed

That is understandable. As a couple advances in years, when they have achieved much in life and the hustle is ebbing away, the kids are grown and left home then there is nothing that should keep them apart. As a matter of fact aged couples should stay close to each other to hedge against sudden illness and medical emergencies that wil become frequent with age.

Cardiac events for example are more likely to happen in the odd hours of the night. A lot of 'died in his/her sleep' events are aviodable if the vulnerable are kept company. Unfortunately for a lot of older couples this is when age old grudges have hit their nadir and they drift apart.
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Nobody: 8:01pm On Feb 23, 2020
I'm tired
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Jeweltz(f): 8:06pm On Feb 23, 2020
No I can't. I'll need his dick 24/7
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by opribo(m): 8:08pm On Feb 23, 2020
I went to one man's house, they not only sleep in separate rooms he has used two big logs to barricade the door from his wife's bedroom into his own.
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Nobody: 8:20pm On Feb 23, 2020
attacker321:


You're bringing another dimension to the subject matter. This is not about how much a husband spends on his wife and her family.

The question is should they stay in separate rooms? Pros and cons.

Abi o, I tired for this kind commentators, is it not good im keep quiet and read what sensible people got to say.
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by maasoap(m): 8:20pm On Feb 23, 2020
peacettw:


Name just one please.

1: EXPERIENCE BETTER SLEEP QUALITY
2: FALL ASLEEP FASTER
3: MORE RESTORATIVE SLEEP
4: LOWERS YOUR BLOOD PRESSURE
5: IMPROVES YOUR IMMUNE SYSTEM
6: REDUCES ANXIETY
7: MAKES US HAPPIER
8: SLOWS DOWN AGING
9: IMPROVES RELATIONSHIPS
10: REDUCES INFLAMMATION

Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by judedwriter(m): 8:28pm On Feb 23, 2020
YourCoffin:
With the recent news on wives stabbing their husbands in their sleep, it is advisable couples stay in different rooms, if possible different buildings

Lol...
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by ogbuefi677(m): 8:28pm On Feb 23, 2020
James289:
It is good and at the same time it is not good, it depends on the relationship.
Nagging wife... Yes
Drunker husband..Yes
Bed wetting wife..Yes
Smoker husband..Yes
Cheating couple..Yes
They're just living together for the sake of their children not for love
But in relationship where there are love, respect, caring, cleanness, ...No.
Not always so.
My wife sleeps with my little boy in her own room cos I'm a light sleeper and insomniac.
Can't have d little man interrupting my sleep severally at night.
Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by vickydevoka(m): 8:39pm On Feb 23, 2020
J111333:
It depends on the wife.
With wives like Ishilove and Pocochantas, I won't even live in the same village with them.

They like money too much and I keep all my money in a nylon bag tied to my waist, don't wanna die in my sleep biko. grin
Funny dude. Laf wan kill me

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Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by peacettw: 8:46pm On Feb 23, 2020
maasoap:


1: EXPERIENCE BETTER SLEEP QUALITY
2: FALL ASLEEP FASTER
3: MORE RESTORATIVE SLEEP
4: LOWERS YOUR BLOOD PRESSURE
5: IMPROVES YOUR IMMUNE SYSTEM
6: REDUCES ANXIETY
7: MAKES US HAPPIER
8: SLOWS DOWN AGING
9: IMPROVES RELATIONSHIPS
10: REDUCES INFLAMMATION

No, I meant that you should name one author et al that have published a study in a reputable journal that supports your hypothesis that a couple must sleep in one room

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