God made men as free moral agents, you cant force some situations. and you cant force your girlfriend to be with you. to be frank with you the only problem i see here is your girlfriend if she loves you she would respect herself and behave normal. on the other hand she saw free meal and wanted to Eat. just dey normal dont fight the guy and tell ur girl to learn to respect herself. cos as for me i quickly loose interest in girls who dont carry value by respecting Themselves. my love deflates for such ladies like a balloon and they become worthless in my eyes. if she loves you she would get the message and change. lastly hope d weekend fight wasn't ur fault.

Is only fools that fight over girlfriend, guy if your girl is yours she yours

So instead of facing your hustle squarely, a woman matter is the only thing giving you headache?. I hope you know that no one can force your girlfriend to leave your. Women stay with u if her love is greater, and it's not even a matter of being rich or not. If what you're saying is true, count your loss. For I am sure there are things your woman is not telling. I have used this method of hers to send off a disloyal boyfriend in the past

burner44:

I called her on Friday morning that we will be going out together on Saturday for lunch and see a movie together but on friday afternoon she left school for home and didn't tell me not until saturday i was already on the road when i called and she said she wasn't in school but at home i got angry because she didn't tell me before she left and i canceled some other plans to be with her. It happened that she wasn't feeling well over time and the sickness hit her hard on friday. She was on drip and was receiving treatment all through the rest of friday and on Saturday as she regained herself on sunday she wanted to come and explain it all to me physically but asi daid earlier i forgot my phone at home

Kids everywhere...

"... he met up with my girlfriend, TOOK HER TO A NEARBY FASTFOOD and THEY ATE, AFTER which HE TOOK HER to his own house and WENT AHEAD INTRODUCING HER TO his FAMILY." Broda (in Igbo accent) please read the BOLDED. Is your girlfriend a baby? Is she slow in the head? What was she thinking all through the Journey from MET UP to FAMILY. Your girl is lying to you, she did not think it right to ask him to call you or text you. I suspect a rat. This is my theories - your gyal wanted you to know, that if you lose her, your boy will slide in and she will win last last, 2. She knows the guy likes her and wanted free food; 3. It is what it is, she getting ready to dump you... Either way, Broda, Biko, consider wisely, you would not want her to marry you finish, when fight dey, she go vex come go visit Broda go dey chop free food, shook, clean mouth come dey deceive you. The heart break and casualties would be much at that time

burner44:
This happened a week ago

My girlfriend doesn't know my place, we had a little quarrel on Friday night so she tried calling me on Sunday so she could pay me a visit at home. Unfortunately I was away from home and I also forgot my phone at home as well.

So she called a friend of mine who happened to be a neighbor and explained to him that I wasn't answering her calls and made him understand i was angry with her so she wants to come see me and apologize. So he described a meeting place so he could pick her up and bring her to my place but unknowingly this guy had another motive, he met up with my girlfriend, took her to a nearby fast food and they ate, after which he took her to his own house and went ahead introducing her to his family.

The thing is that this guy happened to be a person I called my friend, he went ahead making advances to my girlfriend, forgetting why she initially called for his help. She said she couldn't express her anger at him as she wasn't used to the area and would need his help to get back home too.

Even though I met her through him as they were neighbours while in school, he made it clear to me that he doesn't like her, even she said it in front of us that she doesn't like him before we started dating and all that but to my surprise he has actually made advances at her on 2 occasions and went as far as wanting to force a kiss on her and I'm quite fed up.

I don't know what course of action I should take next to put an end to this and I'm in need of your advice as I won't want to handle it wrongly.

Brother, go and make Money. Dangote can not complain that someone want his girlfriend or wife as no woman would like to be taken away from Dangote.

Have you forgotten women are never contented in life
Even if you buy a woman g wagon
She would still cheat.

Kids

Catch that nigga beat am well. Make that nonsense stop

burner44:

We've been together since May last year. C'mon some matters are kept private and if you are tbinking i do it at my friends place it's a No

So you have been dating a girl and she doesn't know your hux ,,,,

Do you knack her in a hotel
Or at her place
Or at her ,,,,just tell us , because na only runs girls know day care if you don't urcher them to your hux

Ojady:
"... he met up with my girlfriend, TOOK HER TO A NEARBY FASTFOOD and THEY ATE, AFTER which HE TOOK HER to his own house and WENT AHEAD INTRODUCING HER TO his FAMILY." Broda (in Igbo accent) please read the BOLDED. Is your girlfriend a baby? Is she slow in the head? What was she thinking all through the Journey from MET UP to FAMILY. Your girl is lying to you, she did not think it right to ask him to call you or text you. I suspect a rat. This is my theories - your gyal wanted you to know, that if you lose her, your boy will slide in and she will win last last, 2. She knows the guy likes her and wanted free food; 3. It is what it is, she getting ready to dump you... Either way, Broda, Biko, consider wisely, you would not want her to marry you finish, when fight dey, she go vex come go visit Broda go dey chop free food, shook, clean mouth come dey deceive you. The heart break and casualties would be much at that time

This is the exact problem when you date a university or campus girl ,they are metally not focus ,,,,dis op should go and make money and stop the she called me I didn't pick or I called her she didn't pick too,,,,,na woman they chase man ,but joblessness don make 9ja boys turn the table around


You get money na woman go day beg u ,even sleep for your landlady room because you locked her outside

Or rather your girlfriend trying to leave you for your friend.

Do your friend wetin dem do Oshiomole yesterday

QwarkdFerengi:
So op, after a clear ballsac shave and a warm bath, I'm back only to find my question not answered. So it's obvious you are avoiding it. So it's safe to say that you are taking your "girlfriend" to your friends house when your "girlfriend" have no idea where you live. That's wrong. From this, I might say you are in your early 20's. I guess you haven't daggered this "girlfriend" yet. Do it sharparly and focus on other important things. Don't fight over women issues because you go blame yourself Las Las. I know say you go like argue but don't. Na strong advice be that.

Exactly,I can smell that already after reading the first paragraph

burner44:

I called her on Friday morning that we will be going out together on Saturday for lunch and see a movie together but on friday afternoon she left school for home and didn't tell me not until saturday i was already on the road when i called and she said she wasn't in school but at home i got angry because she didn't tell me before she left and i canceled some other plans to be with her. It happened that she wasn't feeling well over time and the sickness hit her hard on friday. She was on drip and was receiving treatment all through the rest of friday and on Saturday as she regained herself on sunday she wanted to come and explain it all to me physically but asi daid earlier i forgot my phone at home

That's why it's good to listen first before getting angry and jumping into conclusions. While she was ill, you were getting angry.

She doesn't know your house and you guys meet at your friend's place. Why?

So upon all happening in this country, corona virus, Boko Haram killings and so on your problem is some one is snatching ur girlfriend. U must be so unserious Abeg shift.

QwarkdFerengi:

So where? Hotel maybe? Why can't you just say? You not telling where, which is not as private as letting this forum know that your friend is trying to snatch her from you, simply means you are the one who did the snatching in the first place or you are daggering her at your friends house. Just let us in on the whole story if you want a honest advice. So what's it gonna be? Waiting for that juicy response while I go shave my ballsac.

This guy dey mad gaan
I dey enjoy your sha

Emperorx:
So upon all happening in this country, corona virus, Boko Haram killings and so on your problem is some one is snatching ur girlfriend. U must be so unserious Abeg shift.

To early! Still on bed.

Don't know what is the truth

So, friends cannot trust each other any longer? Smh for some that called themselves friends... Back those days in FPNO, my roommate trusted me with his Gf.. Even one day that he travelled and the girl's roommate had a night booking with her guy, na our room the babe sleep.. Me and her!.. That was when my conscience still de 100% clean.. It's still 90+% now though..

I could remember sleeping on the floor so the babe go sleep on the bed

vincentjk:
One thing I'll never do is take advantage of my dude's gf just because he's away, only assholes do that

My guy is in school far away and his babe do pass in front if my house steady, I'm a very jovial and funny person so I try all I can to make her laugh so much but never asked her into my room for once. somethings ain't right at all

Bro hustle oooo,,so ur compound fit get fence and gate..lol..

if you don't caught them eating by yourself, don't believed what your girlfriend told you,women are full of surprise, you might get to surprise more when you hear from your friend what happen.

where did you go that you forgot your phone at home,that sound somehow to me,I hope not because you had misunderstanding with her,then you tried to find another Girl on the street.

She is not your girlfriend
It's just your turn

burner44:
This happened a week ago

My girlfriend doesn't know my place, we had a little quarrel on Friday night so she tried calling me on Sunday so she could pay me a visit at home. Unfortunately I was away from home and I also forgot my phone at home as well.

So she called a friend of mine who happened to be a neighbor and explained to him that I wasn't answering her calls and made him understand i was angry with her so she wants to come see me and apologize. So he described a meeting place so he could pick her up and bring her to my place but unknowingly this guy had another motive, he met up with my girlfriend, took her to a nearby fast food and they ate, after which he took her to his own house and went ahead introducing her to his family.

The thing is that this guy happened to be a person I called my friend, he went ahead making advances to my girlfriend, forgetting why she initially called for his help. She said she couldn't express her anger at him as she wasn't used to the area and would need his help to get back home too.

Even though I met her through him as they were neighbours while in school, he made it clear to me that he doesn't like her, even she said it in front of us that she doesn't like him before we started dating and all that but to my surprise he has actually made advances at her on 2 occasions and went as far as wanting to force a kiss on her and I'm quite fed up.

I don't know what course of action I should take next to put an end to this and I'm in need of your advice as I won't want to handle it wrongly.

don't go and fight your friend because of one girl that's not even your wife trust me, its not worth it

Weak man and introverted. I hate it when I see young men cry and lament about ladies or their girlfriend.

Go and face your hustle Biko. Don't call her your girlfriend. She is not. You are just interested in her the same way your friend is interested in her.

show me her yansh let me check and balance and tell u what to do

Abfinest007:
confront d guy in d present of ur girl let him deny it.u will know who is lying among d two of them.

Here is a man in my mind, wise comment.

He gave you and took her back after a lot of mismanagement from you.. You wanted to punish someone but God turned her situation around. Remember Joseph pls!

burner44:
This happened a week ago

My girlfriend doesn't know my place, we had a little quarrel on Friday night so she tried calling me on Sunday so she could pay me a visit at home. Unfortunately I was away from home and I also forgot my phone at home as well.

So she called a friend of mine who happened to be a neighbor and explained to him that I wasn't answering her calls and made him understand i was angry with her so she wants to come see me and apologize. So he described a meeting place so he could pick her up and bring her to my place but unknowingly this guy had another motive, he met up with my girlfriend, took her to a nearby fast food and they ate, after which he took her to his own house and went ahead introducing her to his family.

The thing is that this guy happened to be a person I called my friend, he went ahead making advances to my girlfriend, forgetting why she initially called for his help. She said she couldn't express her anger at him as she wasn't used to the area and would need his help to get back home too.

Even though I met her through him as they were neighbours while in school, he made it clear to me that he doesn't like her, even she said it in front of us that she doesn't like him before we started dating and all that but to my surprise he has actually made advances at her on 2 occasions and went as far as wanting to force a kiss on her and I'm quite fed up.

I don't know what course of action I should take next to put an end to this and I'm in need of your advice as I won't want to handle it wrongly.

This one no get problem o

Ivebeenbanned:

Very stupid and myopic comment.
I bet you wouldn't tell a girl to choose her friend over her boyfriend. And what has the got to do with ones strength and weakness? Toxic masculinity will be the end of you. Dumb fu..ck

I don't regard species of the weakest vessels....go ride a dicck.

burner44:

Thats what i have in mind initially, but I'm being open to other suggestions that may be more effective and efficient i basically dont care if our friendship goes down the drain cos it doesn't seem to be a good one

Learn to write your letter " I" in capital letter. Stop writing this "i"