freecocoa:

I'm not looking for a man but how to love another,learn how to read.

arhha, now she wants to learn to read & right

Gentlebabs:

INSTALLING LOVE

Gentle Babs: Yes, … how can I help you?

Freecocoa: Well, after much consideration, I've decided to install Love.
Can you guide me though the process?

Gentle Babs: Yes. I can help you. Are you ready to proceed?

Freecocoa: Well, I'm not very technical, but I think I'm ready. What do I do first?

Gentle Babs: The first step is to open your Heart. Have you located your Heart?

Freecocoa: Yes, but there are several other programs running now. Is it okay to install Love while they are running?

Gentle Babs: What programs are running ?

Freecocoa: Let's see, I have Past Hurt, Low Self-Esteem, Grudge and Resentment running right now.

Gentle Babs: No problem, Love will gradually erase Past Hurt from your current operating system. It may remain in your permanent memory but it
will no longer disrupt other programs. Love will eventually override Low Self-Esteem with a module of its own called High Self-Esteem.
However, you have to completely turn off Grudge and Resentment. Those programs prevent Love from being properly installed. Can
you turn those off ?
Freecocoa: I don't know how to turn them off. Can you tell me how?

Gentle Babs: With pleasure. Go to your start menu and invoke Forgiveness. Do this as many times as necessary until Grudge and Resentment have
been completely erased.

Freecocoa: Okay, done! Love has started installing itself. Is that normal?

Gentle Babs: Yes, but remember that you have only the base program.
You need to begin connecting to other Hearts in order to get the upgrades.

Freecocoa: Oops! I have an error message already. It says, "Error - Program not run on external components ." What should I do?

Gentle Babs: Don't worry. It means that the Love program is set up to run on Internal Hearts, but has not yet been run on your Heart. In
non-technical terms, it simply means you have to Love yourself before you can Love others.

Freecocoa: So, what should I do?

Gentle Babs: Pull down Self-Acceptance; then click on the following files: Forgive-Self; Realize Your Worth; and Acknowledge your Limitations.

Freecocoa: Okay, done.

Gentle Babs: Now, copy them to the "My Heart" directory. The system will overwrite any conflicting files and begin patching faulty programming.
Also, you need to delete Verbose Self-Criticism from all directories and empty your Recycle Bin to make sure it is completely gone and
never comes back.

Freecocoa: Got it. Hey! My heart is filling up with new files. Smile is playing on my monitor and Peace and Contentment are copying themselves
all over My Heart. Is this normal?

Gentle Babs: Sometimes. For others it takes awhile, but eventually everything gets it at the proper time. So Love is installed and running.
One more thing before we hang up. Love is Freeware. Be sure to give it and its various modules to everyone you meet. They will in
turn share it with others and return some cool modules back to you.

Number_One:

@freecocoa, pls with this state of mind DO NOT get married cos you're going to ruin your marriage.
My advice, go and see a shrink cos this is a psychological problem.
If you are serious about forgetting this dude (that doesn't love you), write down all the bad things he did to you (surely he wasn't perfect like me) and paste next to your mirror. Within a month if you're serious he'll be history.

Gentlebabs:

INSTALLING LOVE

Gentle Babs: Yes, … how can I help you?

Freecocoa: Well, after much consideration, I've decided to install Love.
Can you guide me though the process?

Gentle Babs: Yes. I can help you. Are you ready to proceed?

Freecocoa: Well, I'm not very technical, but I think I'm ready. What do I do first?

Gentle Babs: The first step is to open your Heart. Have you located your Heart?

Freecocoa: Yes, but there are several other programs running now. Is it okay to install Love while they are running?

Gentle Babs: What programs are running ?

Freecocoa: Let's see, I have Past Hurt, Low Self-Esteem, Grudge and Resentment running right now.

Gentle Babs: No problem, Love will gradually erase Past Hurt from your current operating system. It may remain in your permanent memory but it
will no longer disrupt other programs. Love will eventually override Low Self-Esteem with a module of its own called High Self-Esteem.
However, you have to completely turn off Grudge and Resentment. Those programs prevent Love from being properly installed. Can
you turn those off ?
Freecocoa: I don't know how to turn them off. Can you tell me how?

Gentle Babs: With pleasure. Go to your start menu and invoke Forgiveness. Do this as many times as necessary until Grudge and Resentment have
been completely erased.

Freecocoa: Okay, done! Love has started installing itself. Is that normal?

Gentle Babs: Yes, but remember that you have only the base program.
You need to begin connecting to other Hearts in order to get the upgrades.

Freecocoa: Oops! I have an error message already. It says, "Error - Program not run on external components ." What should I do?

Gentle Babs: Don't worry. It means that the Love program is set up to run on Internal Hearts, but has not yet been run on your Heart. In
non-technical terms, it simply means you have to Love yourself before you can Love others.

Freecocoa: So, what should I do?

Gentle Babs: Pull down Self-Acceptance; then click on the following files: Forgive-Self; Realize Your Worth; and Acknowledge your Limitations.

Freecocoa: Okay, done.

Gentle Babs: Now, copy them to the "My Heart" directory. The system will overwrite any conflicting files and begin patching faulty programming.
Also, you need to delete Verbose Self-Criticism from all directories and empty your Recycle Bin to make sure it is completely gone and
never comes back.

Freecocoa: Got it. Hey! My heart is filling up with new files. Smile is playing on my monitor and Peace and Contentment are copying themselves
all over My Heart. Is this normal?

Gentle Babs: Sometimes. For others it takes awhile, but eventually everything gets it at the proper time. So Love is installed and running.
One more thing before we hang up. Love is Freeware. Be sure to give it and its various modules to everyone you meet. They will in
turn share it with others and return some cool modules back to you.

freecocoa:

@T.Wise. His sister told me he's currently doing his masters and job hunting,that he still loves me but believes i've moved on,his pride/ego won't let him call me cos he still believes another guy was behind my asking for space.Truth is i still want to be with him if possible cos eventhough he is my 3rd bowfwend he's the only one i have PASSION with and the one i really LOVE.I started this thread cos i dnt wanna wait my whole life for him to realize i really love him and didn't leave him for another dude(if that will ever happen)i mean its been two years of thinking of him without being with him,i haven't kissed anyone after him talk more of sex just cos i can't get him outta my head.i want to be able to make passionate love again even if not with him for crying out loud.

freecocoa:

@T.Wise. His sister told me he's currently doing his masters and job hunting,that he still loves me but believes i've moved on,his pride/ego won't let him call me cos he still believes another guy was behind my asking for space.Truth is i still want to be with him if possible cos eventhough he is my 3rd bowfwend he's the only one i have PASSION with and the one i really LOVE.I started this thread cos i dnt wanna wait my whole life for him to realize i really love him and didn't leave him for another dude(if that will ever happen)i mean its been two years of thinking of him without being with him,i haven't kissed anyone after him talk more of sex just cos i can't get him outta my head.i want to be able to make passionate love again even if not with him for crying out loud.

Odunnu:

Chei! The bolded part made me feel pity for you. But seriously,why cant you throw away your pride,pick up your fone and get back in tune?

jay bee:

^^
Why this guy though? Do you think you can't do better or find better?
Is your self esteem on the low side or you just don't see yourself getting with any other guy.

freecocoa:

Bros believe me my self esteem is on the very high side(part of why i didn't call him for 2 years)its just that hard as i try, i've not been able to feel what i feel for him with any orther guy.

jay bee:

If your self esteem is high then surely you wouldn't be holding on to something that's not there.

2 years is too long to be holding on. You guys don't have any connection other than the sex that happened OVER 2 YEARS ago

freecocoa:

Its easier said than done and i know you know that THE HEART WANTS WHAT IT WANTS,its my self esteem that told me to let him think whatever he wants to at the initial stage of the split, that i can be with whoever i choose to be with but as time went by i realized that i can't lie to myself and that the HEART WANTS WHAT IT WANTS,if happened that he wasn't treating me right then that would've been a different case, i

jay bee:

I'm talking from experience hun. Absolutely no point wasting your time if you are the one that wants the relationship to start all over again. If you are worth the stress then surely he had be calling by now.
I'm sure you don't want him to start uttering this sort of sentence "Why did you have to make me get back together with you" in the future if by any chance you guys get back together and it doesn't work.

I once broke up with a so called love of my life girl and wasn't able to get over it until i sat myself down to re-evaluate what's important in my life.
Loved me for me and started seeing things differently.