Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by Nobody: 3:37pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
MiVida: I recently met a girl in school, she's all I want in a woman, she's too beautiful well mannered BUT, she is making life in school hard for me! I've taken her to my parents already and hers are trying to get to know me which is cool.
But the rate at which this girl monitors me in school is embarrassing! I don't have any female friends cos of her. I had to call a good friend of mine (a girl) this afternoon in front of her to tell the girl to keep her space just because my girlfriend saw me give her a hug! I didn't initiate the hug, the girl called out my name and opened her arms and to avoid being rude, you can't decline a hug and that was why it happened.
My girlfriend insists I don't keep female friends, in fact, she prefers I stay alone in school. I'm getting tired, I getting fed up, she's always monitoring me everywhere and I have a reputation to maintain in school. Now I can't laugh over a girl's joke cos I have a girlfriend and it's not like I have time for her in school as that's the only time I have my little freedom, cos outside school she's always at my place and it's suffocating enough...now she brings this attitude to school... I'm tired and don't know what to do! lol I was gonna post, till i saw your profile, dude what's the with lipstick ? i'm more curious |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by Bishop(m): 3:37pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
MiVida: I recently met a girl in school, she's all I want in a woman, she's too beautiful well mannered BUT, she is making life in school hard for me! I've taken her to my parents already and hers are trying to get to know me which is cool.
But the rate at which this girl monitors me in school is embarrassing! I don't have any female friends cos of her. I had to call a good friend of mine (a girl) this afternoon in front of her to tell the girl to keep her space just because my girlfriend saw me give her a hug! I didn't initiate the hug, the girl called out my name and opened her arms and to avoid being rude, you can't decline a hug and that was why it happened.
My girlfriend insists I don't keep female friends, in fact, she prefers I stay alone in school. I'm getting tired, I getting fed up, she's always monitoring me everywhere and I have a reputation to maintain in school. Now I can't laugh over a girl's joke cos I have a girlfriend and it's not like I have time for her in school as that's the only time I have my little freedom, cos outside school she's always at my place and it's suffocating enough...now she brings this attitude to school... I'm tired and don't know what to do! Don't die young my son, this is what is called a toxic relationship, it will hinder your progress and shorten your life. Shallom |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by alizma: 3:37pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
MiVida: I recently met a girl in school, she's all I want in a woman, she's too beautiful well mannered BUT, she is making life in school hard for me! I've taken her to my parents already and hers are trying to get to know me which is cool.
But the rate at which this girl monitors me in school is embarrassing! I don't have any female friends cos of her. I had to call a good friend of mine (a girl) this afternoon in front of her to tell the girl to keep her space just because my girlfriend saw me give her a hug! I didn't initiate the hug, the girl called out my name and opened her arms and to avoid being rude, you can't decline a hug and that was why it happened.
My girlfriend insists I don't keep female friends, in fact, she prefers I stay alone in school. I'm getting tired, I getting fed up, she's always monitoring me everywhere and I have a reputation to maintain in school. Now I can't laugh over a girl's joke cos I have a girlfriend and it's not like I have time for her in school as that's the only time I have my little freedom, cos outside school she's always at my place and it's suffocating enough...now she brings this attitude to school... I'm tired and don't know what to do! Do you still remember that lady that was sentence to death by hanging because she stabbed her husband to death? This was the way it all started. Your woman has low self esteem and by abiding by her rules, you are gradually leading her to the slaughter where she will slay you or herself. |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by angelfallz(m): 3:38pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
nappy760: did your parents send you to school to find a wife?...just curious I don't think parents send their kids to school to find a spouse. However, you can actually find your spouse intentionally or not in school. 2 Likes |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by Offpoint: 3:38pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Biggie225: she loves and care about you so much . Op endure and move on with her. ,with time you will get used her antics. Never you lose that girl . I've had similar experience before and I regret my stupid actions.. This is one of the most idiotic thing I've ever heard in my entire life. 2 Likes |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by tomdon(m): 3:38pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Wetin de d girl body like that?? I'm curious. Abi na just stupidity |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by Nobody: 3:38pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
another young man without focus |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by fredoooooo: 3:39pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
So you no get your life to live na to dey live another person life .. Alaye you better be a man and stop all these nonsense. If she can't stay let her go abeg .. make she carry her load abeg before she kill you her herself .. life is too short for all these rubbish abeg |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by Perfecttouchade: 3:39pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Pele o |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by godkiller(m): 3:39pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Leezah: Choose. Your girlfriend has reason to feel the way she does and you know it.
Maybe.
2 out of 2 times I have ever been jealous of an ex boyfriend's friend (not with every ex boyfriend was this an issue) it was found out later that the female friend was indeed crushing on my boyfriend. Women unlike men tend to “read” people well, especially other women. When in love a woman's intuition especially tends to intensify. Then again so does her jealousy so this can be a tricky situation that requires some reflection and honesty with yourself and openness with your girlfriend.
Some of what made me feel jealous in these times was intuition, but some things I just simply understand by being a female myself and having many female friends. I knew certain subtle things females do when they like a guy and saw it. Even personally I crushed on guy friends before and some never suspected it. So it's definitely possible your girlfriend sees something you don't.
Anyways, aside from intuition and certain gestures i saw, I noticed that these 2 boyfriends would run to the female friend with all the problems we had as though she was his “refuge”. This is growing intimacy with your friend instead of your girlfriend and a BIG NO-NO. It would have been better that they went to an older and wiser man for counsel than to her.
Although you may go to your female friend for advice with other problems you should never ever come to her with relationship problems. Friends of the opposite shouldn't know all the intimate details of your relationship. As soon as you have a girlfriend this is the most immediate way in which your friendship to your friend should change. By you coming to her you are now showing her what sort of romantic partner you are and how “romantically compatible” you now are with her.
Women are weird. As soon as you deeply open up about these conditions of your heart, etc, we cant help but to at least wonder if we are romantically compatible especially since we come out the womb being relationship/love oriented. Unless you want your female friend trying to now question secretively if you and her are compatible its best you leave her in the dark about this “intimate” side of you or only expose this side of you when you are single. Also don't break up with your girlfriend and the next day run to your female about the issues. Especially in young love people break up then 2 months later are back together.
Overall allowing a female friend to see these aspects of you should be when you are single (via the title of being single and via emotionally being untied to anyone). Then and only then you should share your romantic/relationship characteristics with your opposite sexed friend and even then just know you are opening the strong possibility that this friend will now start qualifying and disqualifying you as a romantic partner.
If you want female advice then ask older women but maybe not your mom or those who would have too much bias and too easily take your side. Maybe Nairaland could be good however take every answer with a grain of salt including my own. Honestly relationships and determining what is acceptable and not acceptable is personal and takes personal reflection. You can't just take advice for everything.
I especially think in todays world with so many boys raised without fathers its not good to get all your relationship do's and don't from females. You shouldn't think like a female when dating a female. You should think like a man. For the most part men have to be more patient and giving in certain areas of relationships and women should be more patient in othe areas. Learning intimate relationships is not like learning to be politically correct or learning what's publicly proper. Although I do recommend reading relationship books from people who share your same vision of intimate relationships dating someone is the foundation in an intimate world you are creating and everyone is different in what they can accept or what they prefer. People's preferences in love ranges from the most traditional to the grotesque…
Meditate on what you want. Overall if this is a woman who fits every aspect of your vision of an intimate relationship than her opinion does matter. At the end of a day you and HER will be the main creators of a world between your walls and conforming to her in all aspects that's reasonably possible and vice versa is key in making a lasting relationship (keyword:reasonable).
Overall there are many questions you have to ask before you seek to end your friendship. In my own situation both of these boyfriends much later “confessed” that they deeply knew the female friend liked them since I first mentioned my jealousy but they thought it wasn't a big deal unless they fed into it. Personally I felt these were feeding into it (again men don't tend to know the world of female emotion as well). Can you honestly and I mean SINCERELY look at all the encounters with your female friend say that beyond a shadow of a doubt this friend has absolutely, and I mean absolutely has no crush on you? Honestly not even her having a boyfriend matters. Having a boyfriend doesn't stop one from having basic human desires towards another. In divorce courts we see this clearly, so of course in simply dating we can't deny this simple fact of life.
Anywho, despite my own experiences, at the end of the day I would not say it's the best solution to always cut off the female friend just because your girlfriend is jealous especially without considering these things I mentioned.
Many times we date just to date and practice a long term commitment.
Look at everything mentioned here, reflect, keep intimate problems away from opposite sexed friend, and determine your motivation in dating the woman you're with. Is she practice or is she the one? Is she seeing something you don't or is it jealous? Is it every female friend and interaction that makes her jealous or is it just this one friend? Is not conforming to her in this way worth risking a lifetime of not having her by your side? Many questions to ask before you take any action. You talk too much 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by RillJ(m): 3:39pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
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Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by spiSeyi: 3:39pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
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Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by Froshloaded: 3:40pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
spiSeyi: hit like back bro be my first like Done |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by manny4u(m): 3:40pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
The both of you still have enough time in your hands and have nothing to worry about(you probably still get pocket money from your parents) when you both graduate reality will set in and she would realize being jealous in a relationship is not a life goal. 1 Like |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by angelfallz(m): 3:40pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
MiVida: my love for her isn't that deep to get to such ridiculous extents you're portraying bro. MBA! Guy what are you saying? If you don't love her or want her enough then what are you doing with her? 1 Like |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by Iceberg3: 3:41pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
MiVida: I recently met a girl in school, she's all I want in a woman, she's too beautiful well mannered BUT, she is making life in school hard for me! I've taken her to my parents already and hers are trying to get to know me which is cool.
But the rate at which this girl monitors me in school is embarrassing! I don't have any female friends cos of her. I had to call a good friend of mine (a girl) this afternoon in front of her to tell the girl to keep her space just because my girlfriend saw me give her a hug! I didn't initiate the hug, the girl called out my name and opened her arms and to avoid being rude, you can't decline a hug and that was why it happened.
My girlfriend insists I don't keep female friends, in fact, she prefers I stay alone in school. I'm getting tired, I getting fed up, she's always monitoring me everywhere and I have a reputation to maintain in school. Now I can't laugh over a girl's joke cos I have a girlfriend and it's not like I have time for her in school as that's the only time I have my little freedom, cos outside school she's always at my place and it's suffocating enough...now she brings this attitude to school... I'm tired and don't know what to do! You better hold dear to what you have and quit complaining. She's only protecting her investment,do you think a lifetime commitment to someone is a joke? She's committed to you and you should be to her too. You life journey with each other have commenced already and you should be equally and more committed as man |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by agarawu23(m): 3:41pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
MiVida: I had to lie at a time in order for us not to see eachother for days and even at that time, she got data and couldn't stop texting me on WhatsApp or calling my line... I'm just tired! She went for lectures now, that's why I have room to type this sef don't be emotionally stupid. Dump her ass because ladies like that can show you hell when you get married to her. They will use jealousy to end your life and frustrate you till you go enter 3rd mainland bridge. Any girl that can't give you rest of mind, dump her fvcking ass. |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by wamide042(m): 3:41pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Leezah: Choose. Your girlfriend has reason to feel the way she does and you know it.
Maybe.
2 out of 2 times I have ever been jealous of an ex boyfriend's friend (not with every ex boyfriend was this an issue) it was found out later that the female friend was indeed crushing on my boyfriend. Women unlike men tend to “read” people well, especially other women. When in love a woman's intuition especially tends to intensify. Then again so does her jealousy so this can be a tricky situation that requires some reflection and honesty with yourself and openness with your girlfriend.
Some of what made me feel jealous in these times was intuition, but some things I just simply understand by being a female myself and having many female friends. I knew certain subtle things females do when they like a guy and saw it. Even personally I crushed on guy friends before and some never suspected it. So it's definitely possible your girlfriend sees something you don't.
Anyways, aside from intuition and certain gestures i saw, I noticed that these 2 boyfriends would run to the female friend with all the problems we had as though she was his “refuge”. This is growing intimacy with your friend instead of your girlfriend and a BIG NO-NO. It would have been better that they went to an older and wiser man for counsel than to her.
Although you may go to your female friend for advice with other problems you should never ever come to her with relationship problems. Friends of the opposite shouldn't know all the intimate details of your relationship. As soon as you have a girlfriend this is the most immediate way in which your friendship to your friend should change. By you coming to her you are now showing her what sort of romantic partner you are and how “romantically compatible” you now are with her.
Women are weird. As soon as you deeply open up about these conditions of your heart, etc, we cant help but to at least wonder if we are romantically compatible especially since we come out the womb being relationship/love oriented. Unless you want your female friend trying to now question secretively if you and her are compatible its best you leave her in the dark about this “intimate” side of you or only expose this side of you when you are single. Also don't break up with your girlfriend and the next day run to your female about the issues. Especially in young love people break up then 2 months later are back together.
Overall allowing a female friend to see these aspects of you should be when you are single (via the title of being single and via emotionally being untied to anyone). Then and only then you should share your romantic/relationship characteristics with your opposite sexed friend and even then just know you are opening the strong possibility that this friend will now start qualifying and disqualifying you as a romantic partner.
If you want female advice then ask older women but maybe not your mom or those who would have too much bias and too easily take your side. Maybe Nairaland could be good however take every answer with a grain of salt including my own. Honestly relationships and determining what is acceptable and not acceptable is personal and takes personal reflection. You can't just take advice for everything.
I especially think in todays world with so many boys raised without fathers its not good to get all your relationship do's and don't from females. You shouldn't think like a female when dating a female. You should think like a man. For the most part men have to be more patient and giving in certain areas of relationships and women should be more patient in othe areas. Learning intimate relationships is not like learning to be politically correct or learning what's publicly proper. Although I do recommend reading relationship books from people who share your same vision of intimate relationships dating someone is the foundation in an intimate world you are creating and everyone is different in what they can accept or what they prefer. People's preferences in love ranges from the most traditional to the grotesque…
Meditate on what you want. Overall if this is a woman who fits every aspect of your vision of an intimate relationship than her opinion does matter. At the end of a day you and HER will be the main creators of a world between your walls and conforming to her in all aspects that's reasonably possible and vice versa is key in making a lasting relationship (keyword:reasonable).
Overall there are many questions you have to ask before you seek to end your friendship. In my own situation both of these boyfriends much later “confessed” that they deeply knew the female friend liked them since I first mentioned my jealousy but they thought it wasn't a big deal unless they fed into it. Personally I felt these were feeding into it (again men don't tend to know the world of female emotion as well). Can you honestly and I mean SINCERELY look at all the encounters with your female friend say that beyond a shadow of a doubt this friend has absolutely, and I mean absolutely has no crush on you? Honestly not even her having a boyfriend matters. Having a boyfriend doesn't stop one from having basic human desires towards another. In divorce courts we see this clearly, so of course in simply dating we can't deny this simple fact of life.
Anywho, despite my own experiences, at the end of the day I would not say it's the best solution to always cut off the female friend just because your girlfriend is jealous especially without considering these things I mentioned.
Many times we date just to date and practice a long term commitment.
Look at everything mentioned here, reflect, keep intimate problems away from opposite sexed friend, and determine your motivation in dating the woman you're with. Is she practice or is she the one? Is she seeing something you don't or is it jealous? Is it every female friend and interaction that makes her jealous or is it just this one friend? Is not conforming to her in this way worth risking a lifetime of not having her by your side? Many questions to ask before you take any action. Wetin naaa....... you for kuku write textbook naa... Ontop another person matter.... 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by nonny1212: 3:41pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
MiVida: I recently met a girl in school, she's all I want in a woman, she's too beautiful well mannered BUT, she is making life in school hard for me! I've taken her to my parents already and hers are trying to get to know me which is cool.
But the rate at which this girl monitors me in school is embarrassing! I don't have any female friends cos of her. I had to call a good friend of mine (a girl) this afternoon in front of her to tell the girl to keep her space just because my girlfriend saw me give her a hug! I didn't initiate the hug, the girl called out my name and opened her arms and to avoid being rude, you can't decline a hug and that was why it happened.
My girlfriend insists I don't keep female friends, in fact, she prefers I stay alone in school. I'm getting tired, I getting fed up, she's always monitoring me everywhere and I have a reputation to maintain in school. Now I can't laugh over a girl's joke cos I have a girlfriend and it's not like I have time for her in school as that's the only time I have my little freedom, cos outside school she's always at my place and it's suffocating enough...now she brings this attitude to school... I'm tired and don't know what to do! Girls like that are scarce o.
Enjoy her while she last o
U may regret when u lose o |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by Offpoint: 3:42pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Leezah: Choose. Your girlfriend has reason to feel the way she does and you know it.
Maybe.
2 out of 2 times I have ever been jealous of an ex boyfriend's friend (not with every ex boyfriend was this an issue) it was found out later that the female friend was indeed crushing on my boyfriend. Women unlike men tend to “read” people well, especially other women. When in love a woman's intuition especially tends to intensify. Then again so does her jealousy so this can be a tricky situation that requires some reflection and honesty with yourself and openness with your girlfriend.
Some of what made me feel jealous in these times was intuition, but some things I just simply understand by being a female myself and having many female friends. I knew certain subtle things females do when they like a guy and saw it. Even personally I crushed on guy friends before and some never suspected it. So it's definitely possible your girlfriend sees something you don't.
Anyways, aside from intuition and certain gestures i saw, I noticed that these 2 boyfriends would run to the female friend with all the problems we had as though she was his “refuge”. This is growing intimacy with your friend instead of your girlfriend and a BIG NO-NO. It would have been better that they went to an older and wiser man for counsel than to her.
Although you may go to your female friend for advice with other problems you should never ever come to her with relationship problems. Friends of the opposite shouldn't know all the intimate details of your relationship. As soon as you have a girlfriend this is the most immediate way in which your friendship to your friend should change. By you coming to her you are now showing her what sort of romantic partner you are and how “romantically compatible” you now are with her.
Women are weird. As soon as you deeply open up about these conditions of your heart, etc, we cant help but to at least wonder if we are romantically compatible especially since we come out the womb being relationship/love oriented. Unless you want your female friend trying to now question secretively if you and her are compatible its best you leave her in the dark about this “intimate” side of you or only expose this side of you when you are single. Also don't break up with your girlfriend and the next day run to your female about the issues. Especially in young love people break up then 2 months later are back together.
Overall allowing a female friend to see these aspects of you should be when you are single (via the title of being single and via emotionally being untied to anyone). Then and only then you should share your romantic/relationship characteristics with your opposite sexed friend and even then just know you are opening the strong possibility that this friend will now start qualifying and disqualifying you as a romantic partner.
If you want female advice then ask older women but maybe not your mom or those who would have too much bias and too easily take your side. Maybe Nairaland could be good however take every answer with a grain of salt including my own. Honestly relationships and determining what is acceptable and not acceptable is personal and takes personal reflection. You can't just take advice for everything.
I especially think in todays world with so many boys raised without fathers its not good to get all your relationship do's and don't from females. You shouldn't think like a female when dating a female. You should think like a man. For the most part men have to be more patient and giving in certain areas of relationships and women should be more patient in othe areas. Learning intimate relationships is not like learning to be politically correct or learning what's publicly proper. Although I do recommend reading relationship books from people who share your same vision of intimate relationships dating someone is the foundation in an intimate world you are creating and everyone is different in what they can accept or what they prefer. People's preferences in love ranges from the most traditional to the grotesque…
Meditate on what you want. Overall if this is a woman who fits every aspect of your vision of an intimate relationship than her opinion does matter. At the end of a day you and HER will be the main creators of a world between your walls and conforming to her in all aspects that's reasonably possible and vice versa is key in making a lasting relationship (keyword:reasonable).
Overall there are many questions you have to ask before you seek to end your friendship. In my own situation both of these boyfriends much later “confessed” that they deeply knew the female friend liked them since I first mentioned my jealousy but they thought it wasn't a big deal unless they fed into it. Personally I felt these were feeding into it (again men don't tend to know the world of female emotion as well). Can you honestly and I mean SINCERELY look at all the encounters with your female friend say that beyond a shadow of a doubt this friend has absolutely, and I mean absolutely has no crush on you? Honestly not even her having a boyfriend matters. Having a boyfriend doesn't stop one from having basic human desires towards another. In divorce courts we see this clearly, so of course in simply dating we can't deny this simple fact of life.
Anywho, despite my own experiences, at the end of the day I would not say it's the best solution to always cut off the female friend just because your girlfriend is jealous especially without considering these things I mentioned.
Many times we date just to date and practice a long term commitment.
Look at everything mentioned here, reflect, keep intimate problems away from opposite sexed friend, and determine your motivation in dating the woman you're with. Is she practice or is she the one? Is she seeing something you don't or is it jealous? Is it every female friend and interaction that makes her jealous or is it just this one friend? Is not conforming to her in this way worth risking a lifetime of not having her by your side? Many questions to ask before you take any action. is the op your family member? see epistle... shoo person no fit follow you play o 5 Likes |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by highbee02: 3:42pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
nappy760: did your parents send you to school to find a wife?...just curious O boy! it's called 2nd major. The 1st major is your course of study |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by abdullkabar(m): 3:42pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
@Op, most times, the person that shows this kind of behaviour will most likely hurt you eventually. Its a red flag 7 Likes |
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Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by Sabicleaners: 3:43pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Do what is best for you. |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by Patedo123: 3:43pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
[quote author=MiVida post=87490413]I recently met a girl in school, she's all I want in a woman, she's too beautiful well mannered BUT, she is making life in school hard for me! I've taken her to my parents already and hers are trying to get to know me which is cool.
But the rate at which this girl monitors me in school is embarrassing! I don't have any female friends cos of her. I had to call a good friend of mine (a girl) this afternoon in front of her to tell the girl to |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by angelfallz(m): 3:44pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
agarawu23: don't be emotionally stupid. Dump her ass because ladies like that can show you hell when you get married to her.
They will use jealousy to end your life and frustrate you till you go enter 3rd mainland bridge.
Any girl that can't give you rest of mind, dump her fvcking ass. It's far more complicated than that. The guy has to know what he wants. |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by creepsyme(f): 3:44pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
You are in big trouble, the eyes that will go blind at night begins to bring out pus in the morning, that's a warning sign! |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by AmazingELixir: 3:45pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
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Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by Iceberg3: 3:45pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
MiVida: my love for her isn't that deep to get to such ridiculous extents you're portraying bro. MBA! I just saw this,mehn,I'm disappointed!!!!! I mean, damn, whadahell!!!! You sound like a perfect definition of the wrong guy for the perfect girl, sorry. Please ignore my initial post and please, kindly free that girl. |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by rapcy(m): 3:45pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Mr nice guy Switch from being nice to being sendless. She's choking you, try and get some space for your self. Thank me later |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by asahnwaKC: 3:45pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Nx we will hear..my girl friend stab me ....run away from over possessive ppl and relationships |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by poiZon: 3:45pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
MiVida: I recently met a girl in school, she's all I want in a woman, she's too beautiful well mannered BUT, she is making life in school hard for me! I've taken her to my parents already and hers are trying to get to know me which is cool.
But the rate at which this girl monitors me in school is embarrassing! I don't have any female friends cos of her. I had to call a good friend of mine (a girl) this afternoon in front of her to tell the girl to keep her space just because my girlfriend saw me give her a hug! I didn't initiate the hug, the girl called out my name and opened her arms and to avoid being rude, you can't decline a hug and that was why it happened.
My girlfriend insists I don't keep female friends, in fact, she prefers I stay alone in school. I'm getting tired, I getting fed up, she's always monitoring me everywhere and I have a reputation to maintain in school. Now I can't laugh over a girl's joke cos I have a girlfriend and it's not like I have time for her in school as that's the only time I have my little freedom, cos outside school she's always at my place and it's suffocating enough...now she brings this attitude to school... I'm tired and don't know what to do! Imagine what theybrought to fp |