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Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by RichieBrown(m): 5:40pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Make I laugh first why you dey lament Nor be you go find babe you still knee down toast am o now she wan kill you.... What happened to always and forever biko |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by casspersteve: 5:50pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
MiVida: Bro!!! Run o. You are in a deep shit. I was in a case like this last year, from February to August. I went through hell, she was manipulative. the girl limited my movement, couldn't make calls, broken my phone so I wouldn't chat. But she would call her bf in my front for hours, it was as if I was hypnotized. I lost my reputation in the lodge. Everyone deserted my ass, some called my woman wrapper. After long vacation, I went back to school, taking all her property out of my room. Stopped talking to her and made sure she never comes into my room, she noticed my attitude and gave me space. After Xmas break, I came back became flirtatious with her one day and she thought I was back. The next day she came into the room, I snubbed her ass she left and never came back. Fast forward, before our first semester exam recently concluded, around 1am midnight she came knocking in my room I opened and she hugged me crying that she has missed me ad telling me I have become so cold to her. I let her sleep in my room that night, the next morning she left and I continued my way. well now, I'm something else now. I'm zero down when it comes to emotions. Bro given her run, him no tie your placenta to her. 2 Likes |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by Sweeetheart(m): 5:54pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Biggie225: I had one side chic too, my fiancee now was in other state then. I told this babe na just friend I want o, come and see wahala though she don't monitor me because I'm someone you can't even monitored even if your papa Na Buhari but she used hot love spoil me. this girl if I tell her to sell her father's properties and give it to me I swear she won't hesitate to do that I fought her just let her go but she refuse not until I use one of my lady friend to pursue her. my own fiance doesn't have that kind of time but I love a lady with that kind of feelings they make relationship worth it Op should just know how to manage her emotions, you both will be alright |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by bluefilm: 5:57pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Listen to me Mr. MiVida. She's going to kill you one day. Her jealousy will push her into it for sure. You better run now with your life. Tell her you are gay or something... and escape with your life now you still have the time. Before It becomes too late. I don talk my own be dat o. 1 Like |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by 2Odds101(f): 5:57pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
SEGLIZ:see wise man here...I only pity that o.p...I passed through same in school...thought I've seen a wife material... My whole family knew her,,in fact she did worst than what that babe is doing to him.she monitored my ass to the extent that I couldn't keep any female friends,the little ones I had then,their names were stored with daddy1,daddy2,daddy3,daddy4..omohh...na when she do me gbas-gbos my eyes clear.... |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by OnyeOmekantinu: 5:58pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
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Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by OnyeOmekantinu: 5:58pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
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Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by frozen70(f): 6:00pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
MiVida: Are you telling me that you don't know how to handle such girl tgat wants to choke your life If by a chance she gets pregnant, do you think she will let you go off it Be bold, sit her down and tell her that for sometime, you have been unpleasant with her attitude and you will appreciate if you guys can go on break In that break, don't always call her and if she calls, do not pick all the times Don't visit her and if she does, let it be brief and don't give her all the attention you always give her With time, she will correct herself and be a better girl If after the break she has not changed, it's either you accept her that way or you end the relationship at the earliest stage Some ladies are like that, a man needs freedom no matter what he wants to do with his freedom, the most important thing is for him to place his woman above other women he may have Monitoring a man's movement is nit necessary, they are like beds that must fly, pearch and still come back home 1 Like |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by Thryphosa(m): 6:12pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Fisher007: Good advice. I like this. 2 Likes |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by ishitinyourmouf: 6:18pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Ishitinyourlife:i can do that to your mother |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by UGBE634: 6:22pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Leezah:aunty ogun go kill you |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by SimplecityP(m): 6:24pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
One man food they say is another's poison |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by IMASTEX: 6:26pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
nappy760:Well, that is what the Indomie general would rather concentration on. Watch how his kind come after you. |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by Papadoh(m): 6:30pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
One of my guys once had a gf like this; pretty, jealous and possessive. She'd tell my guy not to interact with any other girl besides her, she must not see any girl's photo in his gallery and so on. And my guy being a fool in love yielded to all her demands. Unfortunately for my boy, it turned out that while he was steadily following the rules set by the girl, she was busy doing her own thing, and my boy was just a deputy bf. I no fit laff!
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Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by Blackpearlous(f): 6:39pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
cfree14:I didn't even read it, I was like kilode, are you the lady sef |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by hotdealz(m): 6:40pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
MiVida:Because you dey see her every day, you come dey think say your love is not that deep, abi? No woman can control a man that's not in love. This your complain here won't be a problem if your love is not deep. |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by angelfallz(m): 6:41pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
agarawu23: i asked him a question, which was, would he like it if she kept male friends? let us say he answers, yes. i would then suggest 1. he reduces the amount of time he spends with his female friends, 2. distance himself a bit from his female friends, 3. do not to be in a situation with a female that could put her trust in him in doubt. (My suggestion seems extreme, but bro, do you want to pretend that some of this so called female friends are not trying to seduce him. Do you know that naturally once a guy is taken his attractiveness to other females goes up? they start flirting with a guy who ordinarily they may not have flirted with) on the other hand if his answer is no, he would not like if she kept male friends. Then i would suggest he takes the lead dump and/or distance himself from his female friends. |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by Nobody: 6:43pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
if u finally got married to her just know dat ur six feet is sure |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by galaxy2020(m): 6:44pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
And how can you live without the opposite sex? Not ur girl. |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by X0012(m): 6:44pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
I wish I can give your post multiple likes because that is what it deserves Leezah: |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by mizlovette(f): 6:47pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
You don't need this, it's unhealthy. Being in a relationship doesn't mean you get to loose yourself or friends. Take a stand against it now 1 Like |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by Ytea(f): 6:56pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
angelfallz:You're a man, your oil won't ever run dry. 1 Like |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by mechanics(m): 7:02pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
To me that's not an issue, except you want to have a side chick. |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by koolaid87: 7:18pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
I'm sorry it sounds like she's obsessive The bad thing is that people like her sees their partner as their property. You need to make sure it's stopped or that behaviour will ruin you Niggah, when I say ruin you, I meant that So tread carefully. Give her the assurance and everything, if she can't change then it's time to move on. Don't be trapped with her appearance and sh1t cos that behaviour can see the end of you. Be patient though, but if she can't change, Niggah, time to jet |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by lollytk(f): 7:18pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Beware of any partner that tries to confine and control your life, they are always violent, manipulating , self centered , wicked and promiscuous. |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by Pharmtj: 7:19pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
cfree14:as in ehn, the comment/advice long pass river Nile |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by Berankis: 7:22pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Las Las she go still break up with you on a serious note. Women like this don't last long with a man. They make you feel like they can't survive without you but all na still nonsense, the next thing is a break-up (not a prophet of doom but just to keep you in check with reality). Make your studies your priority for now pls. Keep a girlfriend if you want to, keep females friends too but never at the cost of your career plans or pursuits. |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by Papadoh(m): 7:23pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Leezah:OMG wow I love how short and concise your book (i mean post) is. But next time please try to use more words, ok? OMFG |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by SEGLIZ: 7:25pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
2Odds101: brother the experience was and is still traumatic experience though married I keep regretting that relationship, all in the name securing wife. though I don't blame I blame myself for been foolish. my girlfriend abi na wife to be I go call ham, will hug male friends in my presence but I no fit relate with female friends on or off school. my girlfriend went visit a male classmate who is married, she returned narrating how was doting over her in the presence of his wife. you could see and feel the joy in not minding the trauma she and useless guy gave the pregnant lady. very self centered creature they are always want all to themselves. |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by Hed0nist: 7:47pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
5thAngel: This one touch me. I had to comment. My sister remember that you're also a human being like him. Don't surrender any significant portion of your person to another human being's whim. Even your parents. We are all fickle beings. Some are just more confident than others. You are being isolated and you have begun accepting it. Please don't. If he leaves you today who or what do you have as a support system? Please leave and create your identity apart from a relationship. God bless you (I hope you are a good person). Scratch the above paragraphs if he is very very rich compared to you. Or if you are very very poor compared to him. Then it's not a crime to not want to fucck up your source of income. |
Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by 2Odds101(f): 7:50pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
SEGLIZ:I balmed myself too ooh..Man don suffer for life.. The problem with mine is that...even after four years of the whole sh*t,,I still can't keep a girlfriend..I feel insecure around girls,,I don't trust anything in feminine form... That sh*t really messed up my whole life ,,I now see all girls as the same people.... Up till this moment love seem scammy to me... |
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