Whogoes:

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Hmmmmm was thinking the same thing too
So what should I do? End the relationship?

OluwasureGig:
naija boys dem carry "come my house" swear for Una? na this thing Tundeednut complain about the other day. at least take her out on a date first before inviting her to your house. everything no be Bleep nah. let's be a little romantic with our girls at least.

icebird25:



Ozuor...
Clap for yourself

beejay501:


See you way no be Ozuor .
Dears girls make una see paying client oo

icebird25:



Why are you calling girls ..why not introduce me to your sister...so that I can better the life of your sister and yours ... remember I'm a paying client ..

Ebhe

beejay501:


Bro I no get sister... But since you like buying phones for girls... I'd say you buy one for your mother, so she go fit throway that Rubber Banded Nokia touch light phone she day use...
Mumu

icebird25:

I wanted to type something ..but see this I have decided to keep my cool ...you are not worth it

beejay501:


Well You should have kept your cool before mentioning my family.
I'm sorry for mentioning your mother I really am.
And we shouldn't be arguing over this shit The Op will still do anything to get laid with that Gold digger girl..
Peace

Whogoes:
Good morning nairalanders
.
Let me just go straight to the point. I just parked into to a new location and I leave alone though still single and searching. And I am just 23 .There is this particular girl she always greets me at my bus stop when ever I am coming back from work at night.
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Letter we became friends, though I don't like making friends cos I am an introvert type . But she forced it . Like greeting and complimenting me always. 2months letter , we were already friends on Facebook. One day she messaged me on Facebook that I should do her a favour. I said what is it. She said I should buy her a phone.
.
I was like hmmmmmm . So I used that opportunity to ask her to be my girlfriend and she accepted. Now the problem began when I invited her to my house. She refused and gave an excuse.
.
There was a time I asked her if she really love me as she claims and she strongly sweared about that . That she loves me so much bla bla bla .
.
Now I am wondering if that is love or lust . Maybe she just want my money or what do you guys think. I don't want to buy her any phone . Ofcourse I can't do that unless she proves herself
.
Please I need your advice . Matured minds only

ubunja:
Once you buy her that phone you have played yourself.

Funkyswagzz:


Bro fashi that stuff.. most of our girls are just trouble.. even when u try to be nice and romantic they will take advantage and insult u too

Fisher007:


Sincerely don't buy her the phone. Her demands will increase overtime. Stop all this being romantic or trying to please a lady with financial request or gift.

If you do, then just accept your relationship with her is transactional, provisional and conditional. If she really likes you, you don't need to go through this phase.

She must earn anything you give her by anyway you deem it fit.

Seriously are you her father? Or brother or relative? You better wake up and don't let a leech that will suck you dry into your life. If it was that cheap or easy they would have bought her the phone.

If you have too much money, buy your mum a new phone or your siblings or surprise your business partner or associate or worker with a new phone. At least they deserve it.

I repeat buying her a phone when she hasn't earn it is like trying to invest in a place that will bring more responsibility. At the end of the day you will have invested in a business that can never generate income.

Simple.

Fisher007:


Sincerely don't buy her the phone. Her demands will increase overtime. Stop all this being romantic or trying to please a lady with financial request or gift.

If you do, then just accept your relationship with her is transactional, provisional and conditional. If she really likes you, you don't need to go through this phase.

She must earn anything you give her by anyway you deem it fit.

Seriously are you her father? Or brother or relative? You better wake up and don't let a leech that will suck you dry into your life. If it was that cheap or easy they would have bought her the phone.

If you have too much money, buy your mum a new phone or your siblings or surprise your business partner or associate or worker with a new phone. At least they deserve it.

I repeat buying her a phone when she hasn't earn it is like trying to invest in a place that will bring more responsibility. At the end of the day you will have invested in a business that can never generate income.

Simple.

Maryjane001:
Even if she proves her love for you, don't buy her a fine now.

Budline1:


And even scam you. Spend for them and that could be the last time you see them, coz they no ready to be yours.. Our naija girls can be really funny. Some of us don wise wella.. Nomore spending shishi for any girl...

Whogoes:
Good morning nairalanders
.
Let me just go straight to the point. I just parked into to a new location and I leave alone though still single and searching. And I am just 23 .There is this particular girl she always greets me at my bus stop when ever I am coming back from work at night.
.
Letter we became friends, though I don't like making friends cos I am an introvert type . But she forced it . Like greeting and complimenting me always. 2months letter , we were already friends on Facebook. One day she messaged me on Facebook that I should do her a favour. I said what is it. She said I should buy her a phone.
.
I was like hmmmmmm . So I used that opportunity to ask her to be my girlfriend and she accepted. Now the problem began when I invited her to my house. She refused and gave an excuse.
.
There was a time I asked her if she really love me as she claims and she strongly sweared about that . That she loves me so much bla bla bla .
.
Now I am wondering if that is love or lust . Maybe she just want my money or what do you guys think. I don't want to buy her any phone . Ofcourse I can't do that unless she proves herself
.
Please I need your advice . Matured minds only

Whogoes:
Good morning nairalanders
.
Let me just go straight to the point. I just parked into to a new location and I leave alone though still single and searching. And I am just 23 .There is this particular girl she always greets me at my bus stop when ever I am coming back from work at night.
.
Letter we became friends, though I don't like making friends cos I am an introvert type . But she forced it . Like greeting and complimenting me always. 2months letter , we were already friends on Facebook. One day she messaged me on Facebook that I should do her a favour. I said what is it. She said I should buy her a phone.
.
I was like hmmmmmm . So I used that opportunity to ask her to be my girlfriend and she accepted. Now the problem began when I invited her to my house. She refused and gave an excuse.
.
There was a time I asked her if she really love me as she claims and she strongly sweared about that . That she loves me so much bla bla bla .
.
Now I am wondering if that is love or lust . Maybe she just want my money or what do you guys think. I don't want to buy her any phone . Ofcourse I can't do that unless she proves herself
.
Please I need your advice . Matured minds only

Whogoes:
Good morning nairalanders
.
Let me just go straight to the point. I just parked into to a new location and I leave alone though still single and searching. And I am just 23 .There is this particular girl she always greets me at my bus stop when ever I am coming back from work at night.
.
Letter we became friends, though I don't like making friends cos I am an introvert type . But she forced it . Like greeting and complimenting me always. 2months letter , we were already friends on Facebook. One day she messaged me on Facebook that I should do her a favour. I said what is it. She said I should buy her a phone.
.
I was like hmmmmmm . So I used that opportunity to ask her to be my girlfriend and she accepted. Now the problem began when I invited her to my house. She refused and gave an excuse.
.
There was a time I asked her if she really love me as she claims and she strongly sweared about that . That she loves me so much bla bla bla .
.
Now I am wondering if that is love or lust . Maybe she just want my money or what do you guys think. I don't want to buy her any phone . Ofcourse I can't do that unless she proves herself
.
Please I need your advice . Matured minds only

Funkyswagzz:


Na so one girl beg me moni 4 hair.. out of pity I give her 5k b4 u know it she come dey act funi. I ask her wetin be d problem,, dis girl open her mouth tell me say I dey stingy,, omo so ppl no get chill !

Budline1:


Imagine that oo. Na so them be. Wetin I never see with girls for past before.. buy phone, give them money, buy different items.. Not knowing that the more I buy them those stuffs, the more I screw myself and become unwanted to them.

How to get them; Just always package yourself well, dress well and always pretend like you want to spend for them but never spend. Lie if you have to in order to upgrade yourself, act like your life too sweet and you go dey knack them steady like that. Na their code be that.

Na small gullible boys dey spend for girls wey he never knack.

OluwasureGig:
naija boys dem carry "come my house" swear for Una? na this thing Tundeednut complain about the other day. at least take her out on a date first before inviting her to your house. everything no be Bleep nah. let's be a little romantic with our girls at least.

icebird25:


If you decide to take the advice of that mugu up there..na you know ... everything isn't about fucking ..what if she really loves you and she's scared of dick...did you bother to use method to ask her whether she has had sex before ..or she was molested before .no you didn't bother to ask ..all you need na kpekus....

Funkyswagzz:


Bro no time dat shit anymore .its time to make some more money

Whogoes:
Good morning nairalanders
.
Let me just go straight to the point. I just parked into to a new location and I leave alone though still single and searching. And I am just 23 .There is this particular girl she always greets me at my bus stop when ever I am coming back from work at night.
.
Letter we became friends, though I don't like making friends cos I am an introvert type . But she forced it . Like greeting and complimenting me always. 2months letter , we were already friends on Facebook. One day she messaged me on Facebook that I should do her a favour. I said what is it. She said I should buy her a phone.
.
I was like hmmmmmm . So I used that opportunity to ask her to be my girlfriend and she accepted. Now the problem began when I invited her to my house. She refused and gave an excuse.
.
There was a time I asked her if she really love me as she claims and she strongly sweared about that . That she loves me so much bla bla bla .
.
Now I am wondering if that is love or lust . Maybe she just want my money or what do you guys think. I don't want to buy her any phone . Ofcourse I can't do that unless she proves herself
.
Please I need your advice . Matured minds only